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35 Last-Minute Father's Day Gift Ideas That'll Still Arrive On Time

35 Last-Minute Father's Day Gift Ideas That'll Still Arrive On Time

Forbes12-06-2025
Father's Day is just days away (Sunday, June 15), so if you're shopping last-minute, our gift editors curated the best Father's Day gift ideas that are thoughtful and unique—and will get to Dad by Sunday. To find meaningful presents for virtually every type of father figure, we considered a variety of interests and looked for fast shipping times. Our top gift ideas include a smokeless fire pit for the outdoorsman, supportive sneakers for the fitness buff and a helpful pocket-sized Bluetooth transmitter for the frequent flyer.
We rounded up the best Father's Day gifts that'll get to Dad on time, even if you're shopping last ... More minute.
Is your dad more a creature of comfort? We made sure to include cozy essentials too, from comfy, dad-themed socks to our sleep editors' absolute favorite pillow. Plus, we have a range of under-$50 gift ideas that are sure to delight (no-frills breakfast sandwich maker, anyone?). In need of more last-minute Father's Day gift ideas? These subscription boxes for dads can be purchased same-day and will continue to delight him for months.
Boarderie
If Dad loves nothing more than a savory spread of meat and cheese, this Father's Day-themed charcuterie board will be the way to his heart. Designed, packaged and delivered directly to his front door by Boarderie, the bundle comes packed with artisan cheeses, meats, dried fruits, nuts, chocolates, olives and more. You can choose between three sizes, starting at $139 for a two- to three-person board. Every order has free overnight delivery, or you can send it as an e-gift (Dad picks the delivery date), which is great if you're short on time.
Wayfair
Popular among Forbes Vetted editors and readers (and the best overall fire pit, based on our rigorous testing), the Solo Stove Bonfire Fire Pit is portable so Dad (and his friends and family) can sit around the fire anytime, anywhere. It's also smokeless for cleaner, more comfortable breathing.
Aura
If Dad loves to share photos in the family group chat, a digital frame like this one from Aura will be a home run. Simply log onto Wi-Fi to add pictures and videos of the kiddos from holidays, vacations and birthday parties and he'll be grinning from ear to ear when he unwraps it. Aura offers frames in different colors and styles, many of which are available for speedy two-day Prime shipping.
Amazon
If Dad's favorite pastime is identifying bird calls and songs, this smart bird feeder will delight him. In addition to being able to hold 1.5 pounds of bird food, it's equipped with a high-res camera with night vision and eight-level magnification. Further, its built-in AI algorithm can identify over 6,000 bird species. And not only is it weather-proof; it's solar-powered, too. The best part: Your dad will be able to bird-watch from his phone.
Brooks
This lightweight and responsive sneaker is bound to be a hit with any dad who loves to run, jog or power walk—or who simply spends a lot of time on his feet. It's designed with a nitrogen-injected midsole for adaptive support and a mesh upper with subtle suede overlays to help ensure both breathability and structure. Choose from 16 colorways, ranging from black and white to bright blue or orange, to suit his style.
Oura Ring
If Dad is serious about improving his wellness, give him a smart ring that's sleek, modern and helps improve his health. The Ōura Ring is a health, sleep and activity tracker that's packed with sensors to keep him meaningfully informed. Founded on Nordic wellness principles of balance, it collects data on more than 20 biometrics—like heart rate, blood oxygen and activity—and sends insights to an app to help you create a custom sleep schedule, track stress levels and more.
hermes
Any gift labeled Hermès is going to be a hit on Father's Day; and for the dad who's been thinking about switching up his regular scent, this is a great option. The brand's first major men's fragrance to be released in 15 years, it trades the usual woody notes of a cologne for something a bit lighter. The result is a fresh scent with botanical notes of clary sage, narcissus and rosewood. He'll like it, and just as importantly, so will Mom.
Lettuce Grow
Dads with green thumbs or those who like cooking with fresh, flavorful produce will love the fact that they can grow non-GMO veggies in the comfort of their own yard or patio. This hydroponic garden is self-fertilizing and self-watering and comes with starter seedlings (you can choose from over 100 varieties), a pH test kit, water pump, timer and plant nutrients.
sterling pacific
Priced at over $2,000, this is a true luxury gift—but as someone who's had the pleasure of using it co-author Fran Sales can confidently say it's well worth the price (she was gifted a sample from the brand). This carry-on stands out: Features like the full aluminum body (of the kind used in aviation), reinforced corners, stainless steel rivets, Italian full-grain leather details and the ring-spun twill lining will stand out to the dad who appreciates durability and meticulous design. Don't worry, it's practical, too, with two TSA-approved double-spring-loaded combo locks, as well as a high-quality leather care kit.
Amazon
If your sandwich aficionado dad isn't the family chef, this Hamilton Beach breakfast sandwich maker will be his new best friend. All he has to do is put his favorite bread in the bottom and top layers, followed by an egg and additional toppings to create a mouthwatering meal. It's ready in just five minutes with minimal cleanup needed.
Amazon
Your Dad's not a regular dad; he's a super dad. And with this gift set from Happy Socks, he can prove it at all times. The three cotton-blend pairs are comfy, colorful and will make him smile every time he slips them on. The set is also blissfully available with two-day Prime shipping.
Amazon
From the mind of Neil Patrick Harris, Box One is the perfect gift for the father figure that loves nothing more than a good game night. Full of trivia, puzzles, secret codes and more, the brain-teasing board game is designed to play by yourself—or if Dad prefers, the whole family can get in on the fun.
Amazon
The JBL Clip 5 waterproof Bluetooth speaker lets Dad play his tunes anywhere and everywhere from the beach to the trail to the garage where he's tinkering with his latest project. It has 12 hours of battery life for all-day listening and a clip that makes it easy to attach to a bag or stroller.
Amazon
Whether he's fully up to date on Real Housewives drama or just catches the occasional episode of Watch What Happens Live, any dad who enjoys a night of Bravo (perhaps more than he cares to admit) will tear through Andy Cohen's book about how fatherhood has changed his life. As its title—The Daddy Diaries: The Year I Grew Up—implies, it's witty, candid and heartwarming.
Amazon
If Dad's signature cap is getting a little worse for wear, replace it with one that's trendy and built to last. This 100% cotton canvas style from Carhartt is available in over 60 colors, so there's sure to be one that suits him perfectly. Even better, it has a built-in band that's fast-drying and will wick away summer sweat.
Uncommon Goods
Your dad's not a regular dad; he's a cool dad. And that's why this unique Uncommon Goods mug is the perfect Father's Day gift. The Brooklyn-made color-changing mug will display 'Cool Dad' when the cup is holding a cold beverage and 'Hot Dad' when it contains some steaming hot coffee or tea. He'll get a kick out of it, either way.
Amazon
Whether he's the go-to handyman around the house or he always has a DIY project or two up his sleeve, Dad probably wouldn't say no to an extra hand. Klein Tools' adjustable magnetic wristband will be just what he needs: It conveniently wraps around the wrist and uses rare-earth magnets strong enough to hold a wide variety of tools. And while the band is durable, it's breathable, too, thanks to the mesh interior.
Cratejoy
Sometimes it's the simple things that mean the most, and there's nothing more delightful to a dad than a box full of jerky. Each month, he'll get different brands and flavors so he's always trying something new. It's available in one, three, six and twelve-month subscriptions, but no matter which you choose chances are he'll wish it lasted forever.
Goldbelly
If you're shopping for a foodie who looks forward to cooking new cuisines, you'll hit the gifting jackpot with Goldbelly's Chef Of The Month subscription. Dad will get a monthly curated chef kit of the most sought-after delicacies curated by pros like Michael Symon, David Chang and José Andrés. From the savory to the sweet, it'll be a fun monthly surprise—and maybe he'll even save you a bite.
tinned fish club
This isn't any old snack subscription box. Having tried Tinned Fisch Club's offerings myself, I was impressed by how thoughtfully the artisanal tins were curated and complemented by gourmet snacks and condiments. Not only that, there was fascinating information included on each product's origins and the makers behind them, as well as recipe ideas if Dad is a little more adventurous in the kitchen. Sample featured artisans include La Barca, Tenorio, ICC Saury and (my favorite) ICC Sanma.
Atlas Coffee Club
Give Dad the gift of a caffeine pick-me-up with an Atlas Coffee subscription, a top pick in our best coffee subscriptions story. Available in whole bean, ground, Keurig pods or Nespresso pods, you'll be able to customize the recurring shipment to his preferences. Each delivery also comes with postcards that include tasting notes and history about each country's unique coffee growing methods.
Cratejoy
The Rad Dad Box is the perfect way to celebrate and support new dads on their fatherhood journey. Each themed bundle contains six to seven items designed to encourage bonding and playtime between father and baby, all sourced from small businesses. He'll get a book or toy for his tot, delicious snacks and items for some much-needed dad self-care.
The Original Craft Beer Club
Take the brewery tour to your dad's doorstep with Original Craft Beer Club's gift subscription of 12 microbrews every month (you can choose from a three-, six- or 12-month subscription). Each shipment features a curation of bestsellers and/or showcase brews from two American small-batch breweries. What's more, each can is freshly brewed to order and is accompanied by a newsletter detailing each beer's background and your personalized note.
Amazon
If Dad is still using that lumpy, old pillow every night, treat him to a much needed upgrade. The Coop Home Goods Adjustable Pillow was named our best pillow overall after a year of testing, thanks to its plush shredded memory foam that perfectly cradles your neck and head. It's also entirely adjustable, meaning Dad can add or take out fill in order to get the exact level of firmness needed for his favorite nap position.
On
Named our best overall walking shoe for men, the On Cloud 5 sneaker is crafted with science-backed CloudTec foam, a forgiving material with a cushioned feel that has been described as 'running on clouds.' It features a removable cushioned arch insole, plus a Speedboard running the length of the sneaker that promotes stability when walking to help Dad reach his daily step goal.
Amazon
Courant's wireless chargers offer a stylish way to stay powered up. The Mag:3 is a multi-device charger that's bound in either leather or linen. It also has a drop tray for stashing trinkets, which means he can juice up his tech and empty his pockets all in one place.
Fair Harbor
Fair Harbor's popular swim shorts offer various inseam lengths, a drawcord waist and dozens of colors and prints. The suit also has two side pockets that drain easily, a hidden zipper back pocket, four-way stretch and a mesh-free knit liner that's supportive but breathable. Even better, it's made using recycled water bottles.
Leatherman
For the handy, outdoorsy dad, what better gift is there than a Leatherman gadget, one of the most trusted names in multi-tools? We recommend Signal, which our gear experts Steven John and Cam Vigliotta crowned the best multi-tool for camping 'thanks to its rugged tools that include a large blade, a tough saw and a hammer, its ferrocerium rod (which can create showers of hot sparks) and its loud safety whistle that can be heard for miles in the right condition,' they say.
WANDRD Gear
Whether he's a frequent traveler, has a photography hobby or spends a lot of his days commuting, dads can always use a sturdy (and thoughtfully designed) backpack. Wandrd's Prvke backpack comes in three sizes, is built with weather-resistant materials and—what makes it one of the best dad gifts—is jam-packed with thoughtful features. For starters, it has a breathable back and comfortable contoured straps, a luggage pass-through strap, a hidden passport pocket and an easy-access clamshell-opening design. Its interior storage is also impressive, with plenty of pockets and compartments to organize Dad's essentials.
Bespoke Post
Whether Dad likes to watch baseball games or blockbusters, the CouchConsole Drink & Snack Tray will make sure he has everything at his fingertips. The console includes a self-balancing cupholder, snack container, phone stand, charging plug, remote tray, storage area and padded armrest all in one handy and compact unit.
Amazon
If Dad loves to travel, spare him the airline-provided headphones with AirFly's wireless headphone adapter. Now, he can watch all of his favorite movies, shows or games with the comfort of his own (likely noise-canceling) headphones.
history by mail
My dad is a history buff, so I couldn't pass up the chance to gift him this unique gift collection of historical cartoons. It is, by far, the most unique gift I've ever given him. Designed by a historian and artist, this 50-card set includes incendiary and funny cartoons from the colonial times to the civil rights era. Not only are the illustrations drawn on high-quality card stock, but they're also presented in a sturdy bamboo keepsake box.
Amazon
If he loves grilling in the backyard as much as he does hitting the green, the Poligo Golf Club Grilling Set is a thoughtful last-minute father's day gift that combines two of his favorite pastimes. The seven-piece stainless steel barbecue set includes tongs, a spatula, a fork and a basting brush—each with a handle designed to resemble a golf grip—plus a pair of golf ball salt and pepper shakers and a storage bag. Naturally, it's a hole-in-one gift.
Mark & Graham
If Dad is a frequent traveler he probably already has his favorite suitcase, custom luggage tags and plenty of packing cubes, but you can still level up his flying game with this zippered tie case from Mark & Graham that fits up to three ties, cufflinks, collar stays and handkerchiefs. Personalize it with his monogram for an additional $12.
Uncommon Goods
'One of my dad's favorite gifts I've ever gotten him is this custom viewfinder,' says Forbes Vetted updates writer Claire Epting. 'It's delightfully nostalgic, and the personalization process was straightforward and fun.' The Create Your Own Reel Viewer comes with a unique code to redeem your customized photo reel online. Epting advises ordering it in advance to ensure the viewfinder and the photo reel arrive in time for Father's Day.
When Is Father's Day This Year?
Father's Day always falls on the third Sunday in June. This year, it's June 15.
What Do Dads Love For Father's Day?
When it comes to celebrating Father's Day, it truly is the thought that counts. In addition to having some quality time to do what he enjoys—relaxing with a beer, playing a round of golf or spending time with family (likely his top choice)—dads love to feel appreciated. In terms of gift-giving, presents that cater to his interests are a sweet way to show how much you care. This can mean a splurge-worthy surprise, like a quality outdoor fire pit, or something thoughtful, like an Atlas Coffee Club subscription or digital photo frame.
What Can I Do For Father's Day On A Budget?
You don't have to spent a small fortune to spoil Dad on Father's Day. Spending quality time with family is one of the best ways to celebrate the day, whether it's a brunch gathering, an adventure outdoors or a few rounds of a favorite game. Presents don't have to cost a lot, either; this list includes several under-$50 gifts, from a nifty breakfast sandwich maker to a portable (and waterproof) Bluetooth speaker.
Need more shopping inspiration? We have several gift guides to help you find the right present for every dad in your life.
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It might begin with a few missed date nights or canceled plans and slowly turn into a pattern. You may start to feel sidelined or like an afterthought, which can be damaging to the relationship's foundation. Discussing these changes with him can help understand where his priorities lie. This conversation might bring clarity and potentially realign your mutual goals. 7. His Behavior Is Secretive Secrecy can be a significant red flag in any relationship. If you notice he's become more secretive about his phone, emails, or whereabouts, this behavior might be cause for concern. Dr. Tammy Nelson, a relationship therapist, states that transparency is key to trust in a relationship. A sudden shift towards secrecy can be a sign that he's hiding something or feels guilty about certain behaviors. While it doesn't always mean the worst, it's worth addressing openly. This secretive behavior can manifest in small ways that might initially seem insignificant. Perhaps he's spending more time on his phone, quickly turning the screen away when you enter the room. Or maybe he's hesitant to share details about his day. These changes might not seem like much individually, but together, they could indicate a larger issue at play. Addressing this behavior calmly and directly can help you both understand what's driving it. 8. There's Been An Uptick In Arguments Every couple argues, but if the frequency and intensity of your arguments have increased, it might signify underlying issues. You might notice that small disagreements quickly escalate into bigger fights. This uptick in conflict can be a way of expressing dissatisfaction or frustration that isn't being addressed directly. It can create a tense atmosphere where you're both walking on eggshells. If arguments feel more like battlegrounds than discussions, it might be time to evaluate what's really going on. Sometimes these arguments aren't just about the issue at hand but are symptomatic of deeper resentment or unhappiness. Are you arguing about things that never used to bother you before? This increase in conflict can be exhausting and emotionally draining. It's important to recognize if these arguments are productive or just ways to vent deeper frustrations. Finding the root cause might help in reducing the frequency and intensity of these disputes. 9. He Has No Interest In Shared Activities You might find he no longer takes pleasure in activities you both used to enjoy. Whether it's a shared hobby, a TV show, or even a simple walk, his lack of interest could be telling. It might feel like pulling teeth to get him to participate, and when he does, his enthusiasm seems forced. This change can be disheartening and make you question the connection you once had. Shared activities often strengthen bonds, and their absence can create emotional distance. It's not always about the activity itself but what it represents. Engaging in things together usually signifies a desire to connect and share experiences. If he's opting out more often than not, it might indicate he's pulling away emotionally. Consider discussing why these activities have lost their allure for him. Understanding his perspective might help reignite shared interests or find new ones to explore together. 10. He Has A Dismissive Attitude A dismissive attitude can manifest in the way he responds to your thoughts, feelings, or concerns. If he's quick to brush off what you say or dismiss your feelings as unimportant, it can be incredibly hurtful. This behavior might indicate that he no longer values your perspective or is unwilling to engage with your emotional needs. Feeling unheard or trivialized can be damaging to your self-esteem and the health of the relationship. Sometimes this dismissiveness isn't just about what you say but how you feel. If he tells you that you're overreacting or being too sensitive, it might reflect a lack of empathy. This attitude can create a significant emotional gap between you both. It's important to address this behavior and discuss how it makes you feel. Acknowledging your emotions and experiences is crucial for a supportive partnership. 11. He's Criticizing You More An uptick in criticism can be a sign that he's becoming dissatisfied with the relationship. If you find him pointing out your flaws or criticizing things he once overlooked, it might be a red flag. This behavior can be a way to express unhappiness without addressing the root cause. Often, increased criticism can erode self-esteem and create tension within the relationship. It's essential to consider whether this criticism is constructive or purely negative. Sometimes these critiques aren't just about you but reflect his own internal struggles or dissatisfaction. Are there underlying issues he's not addressing, using criticism as an outlet instead? This behavior can create a hostile environment where you feel like you can't do anything right. Addressing this pattern directly can help uncover the real issues behind the criticism. Understanding his viewpoint and discussing how it impacts you both can lead to healthier communication. 12. He Feels Like Your Roommate The dynamic of your relationship might have shifted to feeling more like roommates than partners. This change can happen gradually, making it hard to notice until it's deeply ingrained. You might find that you're coexisting rather than truly living together, sharing a space but not a connection. This feeling can be isolating and suggest that the relationship is losing its intimacy and closeness. It might be a sign that he's emotionally checked out. Living like roommates often means you're sharing responsibilities but not sharing lives. The emotional and intimate aspects of your relationship might feel like they're on the back burner. This shift can be difficult to navigate and might require a conscious effort to revive the connection. It's important to address these feelings before they become the norm. Open communication about what you both want from the relationship can help bridge the emotional gap. Have A Gut Feeling Sometimes, your intuition might be the strongest indicator that something's off. If you have a persistent gut feeling that he's pulling away, it's worth exploring. While feelings aren't always based on hard facts, they can be a valuable guide. Your instincts might pick up on subtle changes that your conscious mind hasn't yet registered. Trusting your gut doesn't mean jumping to conclusions but rather tuning into what your emotions are telling you. It's essential to differentiate between gut feelings and insecurities, though. Consider whether your intuition is based on observable changes or if it's rooted in personal fears. Sometimes, an open conversation about these feelings can provide clarity and reassurance. It's important to approach the topic with empathy and a willingness to understand his perspective. Addressing your concerns can lead to a deeper connection and a better understanding of each other's needs. Solve the daily Crossword

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