I'm a hairdresser – there's a phrase new clients say that's a total red flag… it crosses the line and annoys us

The Sun

10 hours ago

NO MATTER how long you've known your hairdresser, getting a big chop can always be a but nerve-wracking.
But if you are going to a new hairstylist, there's one phrase you might want to avoid if you want to stay on their good side.
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This is according to one hairdresser, to took to TikTok to explain how that all important client-hairdresser relationship can go awry.
The pro, who goes by @mobilestylisthubclub online, dished the dirt on social media.
So, what's the phrase you should avoid?
Well, apparently if you tell your new styler 'my old hairdresser used to do my hair like this' before explaining, it might not go down so well.
The hairdresser went on to share some tips for other professionals if they ever find themselves in the sticky situation.
Rather than telling clients to 'go back to them then', the pro suggested a few alternatives.
She said: "[You could] say, 'Rather than showing me how your old hairdresser used to do your hair, can you show me some images of what you're hoping to achieve and I'll see if they' will work with your hair type/texture?'"
Not only that, but the pro urged other hairstylists to say something alone the lines of: 'I appreciate you may be nervous about having your hair done by another hairdresser, but you are in safe hands'.
"Reassure them and help to calm their nerves," she said.
Of course, clients might still not be completely on board, and if they keep bringing up how their old stylist would do their hair it might be no use.
In the case, the pro said you might not be a great match for the client.
"Do your best to offer the best possible outcome, and politely explain that you may not be a good fit for each other," she said.
After sharing the advice, other stylists chimed in to share how they deal with similar situations.
One said: "I normally ask what they liked about how they did it or I'll explain why I do it differently."
A second chimed in: "I don't see this comment as a problem, if they liked it that way I would try to do it the way she wanted."
"I don't see this as an issue," another agreed.
Hairstyles that are kind to your locks
Loose Braids: Opt for loose, soft braids rather than tight ones to minimise tension on the scalp and reduce breakage.
Low Ponytail: A low ponytail is less stressful on your hair compared to high, tight ponytails. Use a fabric-covered hair tie to avoid snagging.
Messy Bun: A relaxed, messy bun can be both stylish and kind to your hair. Avoid pulling your hair too tightly and use gentle hair ties.
Soft Waves: Embrace your natural texture or use heatless methods to create soft waves, reducing the need for damaging heat styling tools.
Half-Up, Half-Down: This style keeps some hair pulled back while leaving the rest down, reducing the strain on your scalp.
Headbands and Scarves: Using headbands or scarves can keep hair out of your face without causing damage, and they can be quite fashionable.
Loose Plaits for Sleeping: Before bed, loosely plait your hair to prevent tangles and breakage overnight.