Fiona Phillips' husband would rather she had cancer than 'awful' Alzheimer's
Fiona Phillips' husband says he wishes the TV presenter had been diagnosed with cancer instead of Alzheimer's disease - because she'd at least might have had chance at a cure.
Martin Frizell, who married the journalist and broadcaster in 1998, said there is a lack of support and care packages for those with Alzheimer's. He himself has become Fiona's primary carer as, following her diagnosis in her early 60s in 2023, the disease has taken its toll on the journalist's mind.
The mum of two told today how she became unaware she was forgetting things, or how she kept repeating herself. Martin, who quit his role as editor of This Morning last year, stating he expected his "family priorities to [soon] change", recognises he "has to stay well for Fiona" because, should he fall ill, "the whole house of cards would collapse".
However, he says, had Fiona contracted a cancer, a treatment plan would have been available and there may be hope. In an extract adapted from Fiona's upcoming book, Remember When: My Life With Alzheimer's, Martin writes: "Being brutally honest, I wish Fiona had contracted cancer instead. It's a shocking thing to say, but at least then she might have had a chance of a cure, and certainly would have had a treatment pathway and an array of support and care packages.
"But that's not there for Alzheimer's. Just like there are no funny or inspiring TikTok videos or fashion shoots with smiling, healthy, in-remission survivors."
The former This Morning boss continued: "After someone is diagnosed with Alzheimer's, they are pretty much left to their own devices. There is nothing more that can be done and you are left to cope alone."
It is an opinion reflected by Fiona, who has two sons with Martin. She writes, in the same passage: "I gently push the door open, but then, in that very moment, I sense the person I love has disappeared again. They're gone. The memory has gone. And I'm all alone. And that's how it is for me now, living with Alzheimer's."
Both of Fiona's parents had Alzheimer's but tests have shown the broadcaster, who was on GMTV for 15 years, does not carry the gene so neither of her sons would.
It is small comfort for Martin, who adds in the candid extract released today: "As time has passed, I have come to understand that if I were to fall ill or worse, the whole house of cards would collapse. I have had to stay well for Fiona.
"Sorting the bank accounts, utility direct debits, hospital appointments, clothes, washing, parking permits, shopping, cooking, tidying the house – in fact, all the stuff I took for granted because Fiona dealt with it (as well as her own career) – became my responsibilities, along with a seven-day-a-week job. It was knackering. There were times I felt drained, physically and emotionally. On top of the stress, the boys and I are enduring a kind of living grief – a slow goodbye to the woman we love."
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