Mercy House brings Easter joy to families in Newark
The event, part of the Archdiocese of Newark's annual Easter Giveaway, aimed to brighten the holiday for families facing financial hardships.
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Sandra Nana, a mother of four, was among the recipients. 'I come here today for clothes, like, food and diapers for my twins, babies,' she said. For Nana, who regularly visits Mercy House for essential items, the Easter baskets were a welcome surprise. 'Every Tuesday we come here for dresses and clothes, everything. They surprise us for free, so we say thank you.'
The giveaway brought excitement not only to parents but also to the volunteers who worked tirelessly to ensure every family left with something special. Cheryl Riley, director of Mercy House, explained the importance of the initiative. 'We want to make sure that the needs of this community are filled so kids don't feel left out,' she said.
Nana's children — ages 7, 3, and 3-month-old twins — were at school during the event. She shared her anticipation for their reaction on Easter morning. 'They're going to be very happy when they see the baskets.'
For more information on The Mercy House and upcoming events, click here.
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