Denise Richards slaps restraining order on Aaron Phypers amid explosive divorce drama

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21-07-2025

This week, actress and reality TV star Denise Richards made headlines not for a glamorous red carpet event, but for sharing unsettling allegations of domestic abuse against her estranged husband, Aaron Phypers.
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In Hollywood, celebrity breakups often come wrapped in public statements, polite words, and carefully curated social media posts. But sometimes, the real story is darker and heartbreakingly human.
This week, actor and reality TV star Denise Richards, 53, stepped into the spotlight not for a red carpet appearance, but to reveal shocking allegations of domestic abuse against her estranged husband, Aaron Phypers, 52.
According to court documents filed last Wednesday and reported by "People", Richards has been granted a temporary restraining order after accusing Phypers of a pattern of physical and verbal abuse.
The details, raw and unsettling, pull back the curtain on a relationship once painted as glamorous and supportive.
'Aaron would frequently violently choke me, violently squeeze my head with both hands, tightly squeeze my arms, violently slap me in my face and head, aggressively slam my head into the bathroom towel rack, threaten to kill me…' Richards alleges in her statement.
She claims the abuse has left her with at least three concussions and adds she was too afraid to speak out earlier, fearing for her life and Phypers's threats to harm himself.
Photographs included in the documents show Richards with a bruised, swollen eye, a painful glimpse into what she says was happening behind closed doors.
Phypers, however, has fiercely denied the allegations, telling TMZ: 'The claims are not true. She is creating a story to save her image… I have all the real evidence.'
A love story once shared with the world. For many fans, this breakup hits harder because Richards and Phypers didn't just share their love privately; they invited audiences in.
From their 2018 wedding featured on "The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills" to Phypers stepping behind the camera to shoot Richards's photos for her OnlyFans account, their bond was framed as playful, creative and deeply trusting.
'He shoots a lot of my photos, and I value his creative input,' Richards told "People" last year, praising his support as she launched her OnlyFans page.
Phypers described his approach as 'high-fashion Vogue… not crazy, but sexy.' Richards seemed genuinely grateful for his involvement.
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Realhousewives cast: Denise Richards, Erika Girardi, Dorit Kemsley, Kyle Richards, Lisa Rinna, Teddi Mellencamp-Arroyave and Lisa Vanderpump.
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When the picture-perfect life cracks
Their split became public weeks ago when Phypers filed for divorce, citing irreconcilable differences. The filing included requests for spousal support and, perhaps surprisingly, the return of his power tools.
According to "US Weekly", Phypers claimed he made no income in the past year, while Richards reportedly earns around $250,000 monthly. They share no biological children, but Phypers named Richards's youngest daughter, Eloise, 14, as his stepdaughter, a reminder of the blended family they once presented to the world.
While celebrity lives often feel distant from our own, experts say these revelations highlight truths many people quietly face. Saying that domestic abuse is often hidden behind the public image of a perfect relationship, especially when there's fame, money, or shared creative projects.
Victims may fear speaking out because of threats, love, or concern for the partner's mental health. Studies cited by the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV) show that, on average, victims may leave an abusive relationship seven times before leaving for good.
Financial power imbalances, public image, and emotional manipulation often complicate decisions to speak out.
Richards's claims about fearing Phypers's threats to kill himself if she exposed the abuse echo what domestic violence researchers call 'coercive control', a pattern of intimidation and manipulation meant to keep victims silent.
Studies cited by the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV) show that on average, victims may leave an abusive relationship seven times before leaving for good.
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When fame meets vulnerability
Stories like this do more than satisfy celebrity curiosity. They challenge us to see the difference between what's shared online and what happens in private.
Social media and reality TV often make relationships look effortless, but experts continue to warn that abuse can thrive when there's public pressure to look perfect.
While Richards and Phypers's divorce is playing out under the glare of the tabloids, it's a sobering reminder: even relationships that appear picture-perfect can hide painful truths.
For readers, it's a chance to reflect on what healthy love really looks like: trust, safety, respect and why fame doesn't shield anyone from domestic violence.