Nick Cave shares poignant reflection a decade on from son's death
Arthur was just 15 when he died on 15 July 2015 after falling from a cliff in Brighton.
Responding to a fan question on his Red Hand Files website, Cave, 67, discussed how grief evolves, becoming 'less a personal affront' and 'more a poetic quality of being'.
He explained that he learned he is 'part of a common human story' and that sorrow can grow 'richer, deeper, and more textured'.
Cave also reflected on how Arthur's death impacted his views on religion, seeing God as a 'form of perception' woven into all experiences.
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- The Guardian
Redemption tales and late-night karaoke: the Lionesses have done it again
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Daily Mail
6 minutes ago
- Daily Mail
The 1% Club wipes out a whopping 25 players with this seemingly simple question - but can YOU get it right?
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The Sun
6 minutes ago
- The Sun
The Chase branded a ‘fix' by fuming fans as Jenny Ryan stops £142k going to charity – would you know the final answer?
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