Forum: Toilet cleaner aunty took the hard knocks of life in her stride
The toilet cleaner at my office died suddenly three weeks ago. She was in her 70s. I didn't notice her death until a colleague mentioned it to me in passing.
Aunty was a very warm and friendly person. She was always the first to reach the office. She would greet me with a warm smile every morning.
Aunty was childless, and looked after her husband, who has dementia. She was stoic in facing her hardship and never grumbled about her fate. She took leave only to take her husband for medical appointments.
Aunty represented the pioneer generation of Singaporeans who worked hard and never sought an easy way out.
Life must have been hard for her at her age. Her perseverance and determination in dealing with her life is something that is admirable.
Foo Sing Kheng
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This was a time when intense competition between political actors was ongoing over what constituted progress and modernity for Singapore – and how they should achieve it. Colonial discourse at the time often construed Asia as dirty, messy and smelly. In contrast, colonial spaces were seen as clean, proper and organised. Mass rallies and concerts, such as this one from 1958, to raise awareness have always been part of Singapore's approach to campaigns about public morality. PHOTO: ST FILE 'Singapore was striving to be this idealised form of Asian identity, that we should attempt to look like this kind of Western modernity,' Dr Tay says, arguing that public awareness campaigns served as one way to articulate the narrative of progress and modernity to the public. This was also about class aspiration, she adds. Cleanliness in Britain was historically a luxury of the upper classes, while working-class and rural areas remained squalid. 'All of these things become associated and built into ideas of civilisation,' she says. 'And, yes, a lot of this is about persuading people that this is true.' Campaigns were not without criticism Despite their many successes, these campaigns' paternalism had detractors. In 1948, residents complained about finding their letters from the post office stamped indiscriminately in purple ink that read: 'DO NOT SPIT. Spitting spreads disease.' 'The particular letter received in a Straits Times household which prompted this note contained an invitation to dinner,' wrote one irate reader at the time. 'But in any case this does not appear to be a sound form of propaganda.' Dr Brunero says the intense scale to Singapore's early campaigns was like a 'very blunt instrument'. Such criticism from an increasingly educated populace likely meant the need for new strategies over time. These days, there is a greater awareness that there are better ways to reach people, and how to thoughtfully craft campaigns, she adds. There is also the matter of how public morality has evolved. Family planning advocate and municipal lady health officer Mary Tan argued in 1949 that many families in Singapore were infecting their babies with diseases such as syphilis, as well as 'hereditary diseases like insanity, haemophelia [sic] and idiocy'. 'It is generally recognised,' said Dr Tan then, 'that we are now breeding dysgenically, which means that those whose qualities are such that they should be increasing the population very considerably are not doing so, whereas those less gifted are more prolific.' Invoking such eugenicist belief had not fallen out of favour and would later colour some of the newly independent Republic's family planning policies. 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From anti-tuberculosis awareness to anti-Sars, and from water security to water conservation with the Public Utilities Board's Water Wally, early campaigns show that many of Singapore's long-held anxieties have deeper roots than people might think. Many of these campaigns pioneered tactics still in use today. In Dr Tay's view, what has remained constant through the years is an enduring receptiveness to public awareness campaigns. 'We've actually inherited a very colonial framework of communication with the population, and it hasn't actually changed that much,' she observes. 'The subject of these campaigns has changed, but essentially, the way that we approach these things is pretty much the same.'
