The 'real reason' behind Bonnie Blue's sex stunts and 'trauma that drives her'

Daily Mirror

6 days ago

A psychologist has revealed what could be driving Bonnie Blue's extreme challenges that have sparked widespread outrage and concern for her welfare, as the star reveals the gruelling aftermath of her 'events'
Bonnie Blue's extreme sex challenges may stem from "deep-seated emotional suppression," an expert has warned.
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The adult star has become one of the most controversial figures on the internet after carving out her "niche" of sleeping with "barely legal" teens. She has sex with members of the public - including students - and films it to make a profit.
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Her severe stunts, including sleeping with 1,057 men in a day and planning to lock herself in a glass box for while "choked and gagged" for men to come and do "whatever" they would like to her, have sparked widespread outrage and fears for her physical and emotional safety.
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And a new Channel 4 documentary, titled "1,000 Men and Me: The Bonnie Blue Story" delves into the true toll of such work, following the star behind the scenes for six months as she runs her multi million pound operation.
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In the show, which features explicit sexual scenes, something which Channel 4 say they are "proud of," Bonnie reveals the gruelling aftermath of her 'events'. In one scene, following an eight hour session with 100 men, she says it was the "hardest [one] to date".
"I definitely underestimated it, because I've done 1,000 [sleeping with 1,057 men in 12 hours] I was like, OK, well, this is gonna be a walk in the park. Anything I do now is surely never going to be as hard as that… [But] it was a lot." Her live-in videographer and close friend, Josh, then says: "She basically just got beat up for a few hours."
Bonnie then admits: "Yeah, it was intense". A photo of the star is then shown during the event where her eyes are bright red. "I liked being pushed. That's what I want to do with sex," she says.
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In another part of the film, Bonnie insists that her work doesn't impact her mentally. She reflects: "I'm just not emotional. I can very much control my emotions. If I don't want to be upset, I won't be upset. But no, I don't think I'm gonna need therapy, or I've got PTSD, or that there's any trauma. There's no hidden reason of why I do what I do."
She also adds: "I do it because I love it. No matter how much s***, hate, backlash I get, if anything, it just encourages me to continue doing it."
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But why has she chosen to take such a difficult route? In response to her comments, John Eastmen, a psychologist at Private Investigators UK, warns there could be way more bubbling beneath the surface than Bonnie will admit.
"Extreme sexual behaviour, especially in a public and performative context, can often be less about physical gratification and more about control, identity, and unresolved psychological dynamics," he said.
"While Bonnie insists there's no trauma driving her choices, it's not uncommon for individuals to reject or disassociate from the idea of trauma – particularly when their coping mechanism becomes intertwined with their public persona or livelihood.
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"Statements like 'I don't need therapy, there's no hidden reason' can actually be indicators of deep-seated emotional suppression. This idea of being 'in control' of one's emotions to the point of denying vulnerability altogether can be a psychological defence known as emotional detachment – often developed after early experiences where emotions were unsafe, invalidated, or ignored."
In the film, Bonnie prides herself on her speciality of sleeping with "barely legal" teenagers. She claims in the new documentary that it "gives her purpose" - and even jokingly calls herself a "community worker" for sleeping with "normal people".
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Explaining her 'USP', she says in the show: "I found my purpose in porn. I found the niche I want to focus on. And it's not just because I'm obsessed with 18 year olds, like it was such a bigger picture in terms of teaching them how to have sex, like watching their face light up as they, you know, lost their virginity. I was like, Wow. I really love that."
Of Bonnie's disturbing 'niche', Sophie Rhone, a PR specialist from CupidPr, tells The Mirror: "There's a phenomenon known as behavioural escalation, where the need to keep pushing boundaries stems from a diminishing psychological return.
"What was once shocking now feels standard, so the behaviour becomes more extreme – not just for audience reaction, but to maintain a personal sense of meaning or relevance."
Bonnie brushes off her critics and those concerned for her welfare in the show, as she says: "I think people think I'm going to regret this or she must be unhappy. No, I feel sorry for you, the ones who are sat there giving me hate, I'm sorry you're so basic."