My husband and I have separate bedrooms but he doesn't snore – people don't believe how messy he is, but here's proof
Faith Baer, 29, from the US, recently went viral on social media after she revealed the reason behind her having a separate bedroom to her spouse.
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The mum-of-two left viewers stunned when she showed inside her husband's bedroom and there was so much mess and rubbish the floor was barely visible.
From dirty laundry, empty bottles and packets, overflowing boxes of junk and even used tissues - the bedroom was enough to make anyone want a room of their own.
In the clip, which has amassed over 3.1 million views, Faith then showed off her bedroom, and it couldn't be more different.
A freshly made bed with clean linen, organised shelves and not a single item disregarded on the floor made it clear the couple couldn't be more different.
But viewers of the clip thought Faith shouldn't put up with the mess, even in a separate room.
"Yeah, me and my husband would have separate houses, and separate lives because he would not be my husband," one person commented on the TikTok.
A second agreed: "Are you married to a teenage boy or perhaps some previously undocumented species of orangutan? Leave."
"You haven't got a husband you've got a squatter, praying for a speedy divorce or at least therapy," another chimed in.
Faith, who tied the knot with her husband at just age 16, went on to update her followers and revealed she gave her partner a two week deadline to clean his bedroom, or else divorce.
Now, two weeks on from that update, the mum revealed she is finally calling it quits after he failed to clean just his bedroom.
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To the soundtrack of the song ManChild by Sabrina Carpenter, Faith inspected the bedroom to find little had changed.
"Did he even try? Doesn't look much different," she wrote over the video.
The mum then threw her wedding ring onto his stained mattress before walking out the door.
As for her husband, Faith revealed he didn't take it too poorly, and even thanked her.
In a shared text message, he said: "Thank you for giving me the push I needed to get back into therapy. I feel supported and like I will build the positive tools necessary to succeed and have a positive trajectory thanks to you."
Meanwhile, TikTok users praised Faith for sticking to her word and putting her foot down.
One said: "Enjoy your single era, Queen! You deserve every happiness and true peace."
"I don't think you'll have divorce regrets, you'll be too busy living your best life," another wrote.
Someone else agreed: "I divorced nearly 15 years ago, it was weird but I THRIVED. You will too."
"Good for you. You were already doing everything anyway, he was acting like a third child. And he'll tell people the divorce came out of nowhere. Men never learn," another slammed.
Signs your relationship is heading for a divorce
Persistent Communication Breakdowns
Constant misunderstandings, arguments, or a complete lack of meaningful conversation can signal deep-seated issues.
Emotional Distance
Feeling like roommates rather than partners, with a noticeable lack of intimacy or emotional connection.
Frequent Criticism and Contempt
Regularly criticising each other and showing contempt, such as sarcasm, eye-rolling, or mocking, can erode the relationship's foundation.
Unresolved Conflicts
Recurrent arguments about the same issues without any resolution can indicate deeper incompatibilities.
Loss of Trust
Trust is crucial in any relationship. If it's been broken and cannot be rebuilt, it may be a sign that the relationship is in trouble.
Different Life Goals
Significant differences in future aspirations, such as career goals, lifestyle choices, or family planning, can create insurmountable divides.
Avoidance
Preferring to spend time apart rather than together, whether through work, hobbies, or social activities, can indicate a desire to escape the relationship.
Lack of Support
Feeling unsupported, whether emotionally, financially, or practically, can lead to feelings of isolation and resentment.
Financial Disagreements
Constantly arguing about money, spending habits, or financial priorities can strain the relationship.
Infidelity
Whether physical or emotional, infidelity can be a major breach of trust and a sign of deeper issues in the relationship.
Changes in Affection
A noticeable decrease in affection, physical touch, or romantic gestures can indicate a loss of connection.
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