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10 Things a Travel Writer Will Never Pack in a Checked Bag on an International Trip, and What to Pack Instead
For starters, there's a decent chance that your bags won't make it to your destination when you do. Then, you have international airline regulations to abide by (in China, for example, a TSA agent once flagged my luggage after I packed a carbon dioxide cartridge in my checked bag for a cycling holiday—the good news is my bike never got a flat tire; the bad news was it took weeks to get my bag back). Finally, there are items that just aren't worth the space they take up, so whether your next international trip is to Australia or Argentina, see below for 10 common mistakes travelers make when it comes to packing a checked bag for a trip abroad, and more importantly, what you should bring instead.
I shudder to think that I used to pack my GoPro Hero in my checked luggage. I figured I wasn't going to use it during my flight, so why did I need it in my carry-on? Turns out, there are two very valid reasons why you should never pack your electronics in your checked bag, especially on international flights where more handlers will rifle through it: theft, being the first. And the second? Damage.
The best thing to do is invest in a personal item that's big enough to fit your electronics and features padded pockets for them. This Vancropak Carry-on Backpack, for example, is an Amazon's Choice pick with a built-in USB charging port and cable for my beloved Anker power bank, and it comes with packing cubes.
I love my old college sweats, and my fiancé loves his New York Yankees gear, but when we travel internationally, we make sure to pack outfits that are also nice enough to wear out to lunch at a white tablecloth restaurant. This is especially true in European countries where locals like to dress to impress, even if they're just taking their dogs out for a walk. It's also worth noting that the locals don't embrace the athleisure trend, so you might want to leave your leggings at home.
This Wiholl 2-piece Matching Set is great because it's super soft but also stylish thanks to the well-draped, wide-legged pants and flattering contoured cap-sleeve top. Dress it up with wedges and jewelry for a wine tasting, or pair it with hotel slippers for room service.
I've only ever had jewelry (a pair of beautiful handmade earrings I bought for my mom in Africa) stolen out of my checked luggage once. But once is enough to learn my lesson. Now, I always pack jewelry in my personal item after taking it out of its box, and stashing it in something that doesn't scream 'steal me.'
For example, check out this super secure Lion Latch Travel Jewelry Box Case that looks like a lip gloss container and attaches to your key ring. 'This was perfect for our vacation,' wrote one satisfied Amazon shopper. 'I could put my jewelry in this and keep it safe, and even with me, even my small diamond studs."
I recently got back from traveling around East Africa. Fortunately, I was traveling with Micato Safaris, which sent me a packing list before I left the U.S. that let me know that single-use plastic bags are illegal in Kenya. They're one of dozens of countries that have banned them, or are in the process of doing it.
Normally, I always pack a few plastic bags for snacks, toiletries, wet clothes, etc. But now, more than ever, it's a good idea to switch to reusable sacks such as these JHX Travel Laundry Bags with built-in organization that pack down in their pocket. And instead of Ziploc bags, consider these best-selling leakproof clear silicone bags that are so popular on Amazon that more than 4,000 were purchased in the last month alone.
Don't get me wrong, I love my Dyson Supersonic hair dryer. However, I'd rather go out in the cold with wet hair than plug it in abroad. Dyson specifically warns shoppers that all of their hair tools are 'precisely engineered' for use in the country where they're purchased (i.e., they're not dual-voltage, so there's a high chance something will go wrong, even if you attempt to use them with a converter).
Fortunately, for a fraction of the price, you can score a dual-voltage hair dryer designed for international travel. 'Small but mighty' is how one shopper described the Supcaliy Portable Ionic Hair Dryer, which they used on a European vacation that included a cruise and stays on land.
According to TSA, cordless curling irons are also a no-go in checked luggage. This is because they often contain a gas cartridge filled with butane. While I personally don't travel abroad with a curling iron—I just throw on this Sunday Afternoons Havana Hat—I've read great things about the Mini Travel Curling Iron from Furiden that checks all the travel-friendly boxes.
It's dual voltage, dual-purpose (use it to curl or straighten), compact enough that it takes up about as much space as an electric toothbrush, and it comes with a cute carrying pouch. 'I am astonished at the gorgeous curls this little curling iron gave me,' wrote a traveler who used it on a trip to the French Riviera.
If I had a dollar for every time I packed a pair of heels that seldom saw the light of day, I'd have a closet full of Louboutins. Besides not being comfortable enough to walk more than four city blocks in, they're not practical, especially in countries with cobblestone streets. Since 2023, I've sported a metallic gold pair of Birkenstocks in at least 20 countries. I've worn them with everything from a $350 Alicia Bell maxi dress in Santorini to a pair of cutoff denim shorts and a T-shirt at the Paris Olympics last summer. They're versatile, and I love that I've logged hundreds of miles in them without getting a single blister.
I know denim is 'in,' but it doesn't need to be in your checked bag if you're traveling internationally; it's just too big and heavy to warrant packing if you're tight on space, especially if you're traveling in the summer or visiting a hot and humid destination. The savviest, and most stylish, globe-trotters I know all pack bottoms like these Duyan Cotton-Linen Palazzo Pants.
They have the trendy wide-leg look and front hand pockets, but they're super lightweight and breathable. They also feature a drawstring waist, so you can leave the bulky belt at home. If you're worried about wrinkles—linen does have that downside—throw in a bottle of this TSA-approved secret wrinkle remover spray that has more than 5,900 five-star ratings on Amazon.
In 2016, I went on a 32-day international cruise, and I've taken even longer trips abroad. Still, it's never made sense to pack full-size shampoos, conditioners, lotions, and sunscreens—most of which come in 12-ounce bottles or tubes.
If you think you'll need more than the standard TSA-approved 3 ounces (which is what most travel toiletry sets include), stock up on a few of these 6.8-ounce refillable toiletry bottles. They have a 4.6-star average on Amazon, where more than 2,000 were purchased in the last month, and many shoppers who checked them in their luggage for trips longer than one week describe them as 'super easy to fill, they stay tightly closed, and easy to squeeze.'
In April, I was personally delivering tampons with plastic applicators to a friend living in South Africa, where they're hard to find. In fact, it can be hard to find comfortable tampons in dozens of countries, so if I'm traveling during that time of the month, I usually dedicate a substantial amount of space in my checked luggage to feminine hygiene supplies that I'm familiar with.
But now I'm going to give this collapsible and ultra-compact Saalt Soft Menstrual Cup a shot. It's made of medical-grade silicone, so it's safe to use, easy to clean, and can last up to 10 years—hence, why it's been called a 'real life game changer' by international travelers. Other shoppers prefer packing the Knix Light Period Underwear or Hanes' Boxer Brief Period Underwear (which comes in a value two-pack set).
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- Travel + Leisure
Amazon Prime Day Kicked Off Early With These 72 Incredible Travel Essentials Deals—Up to 70% Off
Amazon Prime Day kicks off July 8 and continues through July 11, marking a significant change in the retailer's normally two-day-long sale event, which will now offer four full days of savings. But for those who can't wait until Tuesday, we spotted tons of impressive early Prime deals, with up to 76 percent off travel accessories, gear, clothing, and so much more. This is a great time to stock up on travel essentials, and if you're not a Prime member, you might want to consider getting set up with a subscription. Prime membership benefits include exclusive deals, plus free delivery and much more. Bonus: You can even sign up for a 30-day free trial just in time for the big festivities! Traveler-loved: Hanke 24 Inch Checked Luggage, $165 (originally $196) Hanke 24 Inch Checked Luggage, $165 (originally $196) T+L favorite: Samsonite Freeform Hardside Expandable Carry-on 21-Inch, $136 (originally $180) Samsonite Freeform Hardside Expandable Carry-on 21-Inch, $136 (originally $180) Etronik Weekender Bag, $17 (originally $30) 76 percent off: Lexsion Felt Purse Bag Organizer Insert, $10 (originally $33) Lexsion Felt Purse Bag Organizer Insert, $10 (originally $33) PrettyGarden Women's 2-piece Shorts Set, $40 (originally $51) Arch-supporting: Skechers Women's Low-top Sneakers, $60 (originally $87) Skechers Women's Low-top Sneakers, $60 (originally $87) Rare deal: The Sak Iris Smartphone Crossbody Purse, $53 (originally $99) The Sak Iris Smartphone Crossbody Purse, $53 (originally $99) Veken 8 Set Packing Cubes, $20 (originally $30) Dreamegg Portable White Noise Machine, $19 (originally $25) Toomett Women's Hiking Pants, $37 (originally $49) Ahead, shop the 75 best travel deals we spotted ahead of Amazon Prime Day, including spacious carry-on bags, comfortable walking shoes, and much more, starting at $10. As a food and travel writer, I travel a ton for work. But summer is the time for vacations, getaways with girlfriends, and family road trips—and it's a great excuse to stock up on some snazzy new luggage, especially on sale for Prime Day. If you want to upgrade to a full new set of luggage, the American Tourister Stratum 2.0 Expandable Hardside Luggage with Spinner Wheels is a sturdy three-piece set on sale for under $250. Or if you want just one great carry-on, the Samsonite Freeform Hardside Expandable Carry-on is under $140 right now. American Tourister Stratum 2.0 Expandable Hardside Luggage, 3-piece Set, $245 (originally $347) Samsonite Freeform Hardside Expandable Carry-on, 21-Inch, $136 (originally $180) Samsonite Omni 2 Carry-on Hardside Luggage, $113 (originally $119) Hanke 28 Inch Luggage With Cup Holder and Charger, $240 (originally $270) Coolife Expandable 3-piece Luggage Set, $160 (originally $190) Amazon Basics 26" Hardside Medium Checked Luggage, $68 (originally $73) Wrangler Astral Hardside Luggage, 20-inch Carry-on, $58 (originally $66) Travelers Club Cosmo Hardside Spinner Luggage, Carry-on 20-inch, $39 (originally $51) Hanke 24 Inch Checked Luggage, $157 (originally $196) Ukein 3-piece Luggage Set, $85 (originally $100) Nazhura 3-piece Luggage Set, $100 (originally $160) This beautiful hardside Wrangler luggage is a great deal and comes in a lovely shade of lilac, but it's also packed with features any traveler would appreciate, such as the built-in cup holder, phone holder, and USB port. It's like having a personal assistant and carry-on in one while you stroll through the airport. A full set of luggage for $100 is a steal, and this set, at 38 percent off is a great deal; it comes with large and medium checked bags and a carry-on, perfect for wherever your travels may take you! Packing for summer travels is as good as it gets, as we trade in heavy sweaters and coats for breezy, lightweight clothes that are much easier to pack. The Ouges Women's Halter Neck Floral Summer Casual Sundress is on sale for $27—a great excuse to stock up on fun color options when planning a winery tour or beachside dinner this summer. Other top picks include stylish matching sets, flowy pants, and more. Evaless Women's Summer Dress, $20 (originally $25) PrettyGarden Women's 2-piece Shorts Set, $40 (originally $51) Ouges Women's Halter Neck Sundress, $27 (originally $37) Anrabess Women's Wide-leg High-waisted Palazzo Pants, $28 (originally $36) Baleaf Women's Capri Pants, $36 (originally $40) Timeson Women's Short Sleeve Chiffon Blouse, $20 (originally $26) Baleaf Women's Sun Protection Jacket, $30 (originally $40) Balennz Athletic Shorts for Men, 5-pack, $25 (originally $44) Luvamia Wide Leg Jeans for Women, $39 (originally $47) Men's Cotton Linen Short Sleeve Shirt, $24 (originally $30) YesNo Women's Summer Boho Casual Jumpsuit, $30 (originally $40) Pretty Garden 2-piece Button-down V-neck Vest Waistcoat and Shorts, $33 (originally $49) lionstill Women's Casual T-shirt Dress, $14 (originally $20) Toomett Women's Hiking Pants, $37 (originally $49) Anrabess Women's Summer Short Sleeve A-line Midi Dress, $25 (originally $33) Organizing various wardrobe pieces into outfits when planning a trip is sometimes difficult to streamline, but when pieces start out coordinated in a set, it's a much easier process. This super cute striped shorts set is stylish and cool, for a sophisticated look even on a hot day—and at $40 for a whole outfit, it's a steal. These comfortable athletic shorts are a good choice for a run or a workout while traveling. They are quick dry and have pockets, so there'll be no issues with stashing your ID, phone, or a room key, and they'll pack like a dream. At just $25, this five-pack works out to just $5 per pair. Comfortable walking shoes are essential for travel. From running around airports trying to make connections to busy itineraries of exploring and sightseeing, it'll be a much better experience if our feet aren't battered and blistered by the end of the day. Shop comfy sandals on sale, like the Cushionaire Cork Footbed Sandals that are on sale for $35, or the Ubfen Hiking Sandals that are $40. You'll also find popular sneaker brands like Brooks and Skechers included in the discounts, with up to 48 percent off styles. Cushionaire Women's Luna Cork Footbed Sandal, $35 (originally $50) Brooks Women's Ghost 16 Neutral Running Shoe, $100 (originally $140) Nortiv 8 Mens Womens Quick Dry Water Shoes, $27 (originally $36) Adidas Women's Grand Court 2.0 Tennis Shoe, $55 (originally $70) KuaiLu Women's Arch Support Flip Flops, $14 (originally $20) Skechers Women's Low-top Sneakers, $60 (originally $87) Allbirds Men's Tree Pipers Casual Sneakers, $52 (originally $102) Clarks Women's Laurieann Kay Flat Sandal, $57 (originally $85) Under Armour Men's Charged Surge 4 Sneaker, $44 (originally $65) Eurosoft by Sofft Women's Gianetta Flat Sandal, $50 (original $70) Clarks Women's Mira Bay Sandal, $47 (originally $75) Alicegana Women's Sandals, $27 (originally $44) Ubfen Women's Hiking Sandals, $40 (originally $50) These hands-free slip-in Skechers sneakers are a dream for dealing with removal at TSA checkpoints and are lightweight with excellent cushioning for running around during our travels. On sale for $60, these are a must-have for your next trip. A good pair of hiking sandals may just become a packing staple for the greatest versatility, and these offer breathability and support while not looking too functional that they stop being cute. Not all travel calls for luggage, and sometimes we just need a good duffel or weekender bag. For those occasions, the Herschel Novel Duffle is an amazing find and is currently at $83, a rare 25 percent off. Or, check out this Bagsmart Tote that will become your new favorite spacious personal item—and is only $20. These duffels and weekenders can be used for flying, road trips, and more—and they start at just $16. Etronik Weekender Bag, $17 (originally $30) Osprey Farpoint 40L Men's Travel Backpack, $133 (originally $185) Herschel Novel Duffle, $83 (originally $110) Bagsmart Tote Bag for Women, $20 (originally $26) The Sak Iris Smartphone Crossbody Purse, $53 (originally $99) Travelon Anti-theft Signature 3 Compartment Crossbody Bag, $60 (originally $75) Topbag Travel Duffle Bag, $16 (originally $19) Matein Carry-on Backpack, $30 (originally $32) Pander Belt Bag, $13 (originally $18) Vera Bradley Women's Featherweight Original Duffel, $50 (originally $80) Samsonite Virtuosa Weekender Duffel, $68 (originally $100) Lovevook Travel Carry-on Backpack, Large 40L, $38 (originally $47) This Matein backpack is expandable and water resistant, so it's ready for the pool, camping, or a hiking adventure—and thanks to its adjustable shoulder straps and air-mesh ventilated back panel, it will be surprisingly lightweight and easy to wear. A crossbody like this Sak crossbody purse is easier to keep an eye on in a crowded tourist area than a larger purse—and it's an amazing 40 percent off now. It can convert to a wristlet when you need it and offers peace of mind, which we know, especially when traveling, is priceless. Sleep doesn't come easily to me at home, so when traveling, it gets even harder. The unfamiliar surroundings, background sounds, and hotel room lights don't help, and the bed feels different, which always takes getting used to. I rely on handy travel accessories, like a good portable white noise machine, to get some shut-eye in my hotel room, and a comfy neck pillow and eye mask to rest on flights. These and other helpful travel accessories are on sale ahead of Prime Day, including portable chargers, packing cubes, and more. Veken 8 Set Packing Cubes, $20 (originally $30) MZoo Sleep Eye Mask, $20 (originally $29) Lexsion Felt Purse Bag Organizer Insert, $8 (originally $33) Hibag Vacuum Storage Bags, $20 (originally $30) Anker USB-C Wall Charger, $30 (originally $40) Bagail Compression Packing Cubes, $19 (originally $28) Dreamegg Portable White Noise Machine, $19 (originally $25) Lewis N. Clark TSA Approved Bike Lock, $13 (originally $16) Epicka Universal Travel Adapter, $23 (originally $25) Napfun Neck Pillow for Traveling, $16 (originally $22) Jemluse Wireless CarPlay Adapter, $50 (originally $80) One of my good friends and her husband just embarked on a carry-on-only two-week trip to Portugal. Their packing secret? They used vacuum storage bags. These save so much space and meant she was able to pack a lot more cute dresses than she may have otherwise, and at $20 for 10 bags, I think she'll be stocking up on even more. Long flights, especially overnight ones when you're trying to get some sleep, can be really hard on the body, and rest feels nearly impossible. But a good neck pillow can make all the difference; at just $16, this memory foam pillow is supportive and will prevent the dreaded head bob while snoozing in your seat. It's important to be prepared to stay safe on rugged terrains and in unfamiliar surroundings, and that involves bringing the right outdoor gear to stay safe in the sun and protected in wet weather. There are deals on hiking and camping gear this Prime Day, including items like the Hiearcool Waterproof Phone Pouch to protect your phone and the Welly First Aid Kit to address any small cuts from the trail. There are also gadgets to keep you comfortable outdoors, like the FrSara Neck Fan, which is only $27 (originally $34) and a smart investment. I don't have an air conditioner and I even have one I use in my own apartment, but it's such an asset when exploring the outdoors on those hot and humid summer days. FrSara Neck Fan, $27 (originally $34) Welly First Aid Kit, $14 (originally $15) Yuzonc Camping Sleeping Pad, $30 (originally $50) Jackery Explorer 1000 v2 Portable Power Station, $449 (originally $799) Coleman Sundome Camping Tent, $90 (originally $118) Rodcirant 20x25 Binoculars, $27 (originally $40) Newraturner Portable Clothesline With 12 Clothespins, $10 (originally $18) Hiearcool Waterproof Phone Pouch, 2-pack, $12 (originally $14) Anker Soundcore 2 Portable Bluetooth Speaker with Stereo Sound, $30 (originally $40) Nuovoware Water Bottle Carrier Bag, $13 (originally $20) Running out of power—or having no access to power—is scary enough at home, but it's a nightmare on the road. At $449 (originally $799), this portable power station is a must for campers, as it can power anything from air conditioners to fridges, but it can also keep your phone and other devices charged, which can literally save your life in dangerous situations. If you're camping, you're probably going to want to hang your wet clothes at some point. This is also true if you are at the beach or the pool and don't want to pack wet swimwear. This portable clothesline is a bargain at $10 (originally $18) and just what you need to come home without wet, mildewy-smelling luggage. Love a great deal? Sign up for our T+L Recommends newsletter and we'll send you our favorite travel products each week.
Yahoo
38 minutes ago
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Macquarie Upgrades MakeMyTrip After Share Buyback Cuts Trip.com Stake
MakeMyTrip Limited (NASDAQ:MMYT) ranks among the best cyclical stocks to buy now. On June 24, Macquarie upgraded the shares of MakeMyTrip Limited (NASDAQ:MMYT) from Neutral to Outperform, citing enhanced risk-reward dynamics in the wake of a recent share-price fall. The upgrade followed MakeMyTrip's announcement of a $3.1 billion capital increase to lower stake. With a conversion price of $121.50, the capital consists of $1.43 billion in zero-coupon convertible notes due in 2030 and a primary share issuance of 18.4 million shares at $90 each. By repurchasing the majority of Class B shares, the company will reduce its ownership from 45.3% to roughly 17% and reduce its representation on the board from five to two seats. Macquarie analysts predict that the repurchase will result in a 12% decrease in MakeMyTrip's basic share count, which will be compensated for by newly issued shares. Online travel company MakeMyTrip Limited (NASDAQ:MMYT) offers a range of services and products, such as booking airline and bus tickets, vacation packages, hotel reservations, foreign exchange, and visa processing. While we acknowledge the potential of MMYT as an investment, we believe certain AI stocks offer greater upside potential and carry less downside risk. If you're looking for an extremely undervalued AI stock that also stands to benefit significantly from Trump-era tariffs and the onshoring trend, see our free report on the best short-term AI stock. Read More: and Disclosure: None. Error in retrieving data Sign in to access your portfolio Error in retrieving data Error in retrieving data Error in retrieving data Error in retrieving data
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With wedding season in full swing, how much are guests expected to spend?
Wedding season is in full swing and if invites are stacking up, celebrating friends and family can turn into a budgeting problem fast. On top of planning her own September wedding, Bekah Skopil and her fiancé are attending three others this year alone. While not everyone can afford a $50 million wedding that makes international news, it's well known that even more typical weddings can be expensive for everyone involved. Engaged couples are spending $33,000 on average for their wedding. The cost of joining the bridal party is rising, and being a guest can be pricey as well. If it's your first time getting invited to multiple weddings in one year, here's what you can expect to spend: Between travel, accommodations, gifts, and attire, guests spent $610 on average to attend a wedding in 2024, according to a study by The Knot, a wedding resources website. Of course, the amount guests spend depends on whether they need to travel. On average, guests spend $270 for a local wedding, $840 when they drive to an out-of-town wedding, and $1,680 when flights are required to reach the venue. The average wedding gift ran guests $150 in 2024, $10 less than in previous years. The cost varied depending on the guest's relationship with the couple. The survey found close friends, family, and wedding party members spent around $160, while casual friends spent $140, and plus-ones spent $120 on gifts. 'We are always trying to debunk that pay for your plate myth,' said Lauren Kay, executive editor of The Knot. 'It goes up or down based on your closeness with the couple, not based on how much their wedding costs.' Those on tight budgets can still be good guests, with a few cost-saving tips. Kay says it's OK to re-wear dresses or suits, but you may want to consider switching accessories. Renting attire can also be a budget-friendly option for some guests, she said. When it comes to gifts, Kay said if the happy couple has a registry, shop it. If guests can't afford what's listed, she suggests going in together on a gift with others attending the wedding or giving the couple an experiential gift, like membership at a local museum. When picking a place to stay, she also recommends sharing accommodations with friends also attending the wedding. Keep in mind that it's not mandatory to stay at the hotel the couple suggests if there are lower-cost options nearby. As a 2025 bride and experienced wedding guest, Skopil said she wants her guests to relax and enjoy the event without feeling pressured to finance dressing in a certain color scheme or participating in a days-long extravaganza. 'I don't want it to be so precious that my guests are feeling overwhelmed,' Skopil said. 'For me, it's really such a beautiful thing just because it's every person you love in the same room.' Whether it's a destination wedding, your fourth one this summer, or simply out of your budget, sometimes it's OK to say 'no' to an invite. Skopil did it last year. When her co-worker and friend invited her to an overseas wedding in Shanghai, she knew it wasn't within her budget. When she told her friend, the bride said there was no pressure for her to go, but she wanted to invite Skopli so she felt welcomed and included. 'If your relationship has longevity and is built on communication, it shouldn't be a major issue if you're unable to attend for budgetary reasons,' Skopli said. Kay recommends being honest about why you can't attend if the person is a close friend. If it's someone you don't feel comfortable talking about finances with, a clear and gracious 'thanks but no thanks' works. She added that sending a card, a small gift, or taking the couple out to dinner are other ways to celebrate without spending more than you can afford to attend the wedding. Agreeing to join the bride's wedding party is a different level of financial commitment. The Knot estimates that bridesmaids can easily spend hundreds, if not thousands, of dollars between bridal shower and wedding gifts, attending a bachelorette party, buying a dress, and paying for hair and makeup the day of the event. A 2021 Lending Tree survey found one third of bridal party members went into debt for someone else's wedding. Some 68% used a credit card to cover costs, with 37% charging more than $1,000. 'Think about the ways in which you're going to be gifting or celebrating the couple throughout the wedding process,' Kay said. 'Let's say we're going to spend $150 or $175. Think about how you might stretch that over the course of a few different gifts.' When it comes time for the big day, she said bridesmaids shouldn't feel pressured to give the couple a big gift. A heartfelt note and the couple's favorite bottle of wine is just fine. Reach Rachel Barber at rbarber@ and follow her on X @rachelbarber_ This article originally appeared on USA TODAY: Its wedding season. How much are guests expected to spend?