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23 Bad TV Character Storylines

23 Bad TV Character Storylines

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We recently asked the members of the BuzzFeed Community to tell us what storyline completely ruined a TV character's growth. Here's what they said:
When Ginny became more like her mother on Ginny & Georgia.
"Ginny started off kind and a bit unsuspecting. She was always headstrong and had issues, but had a likable vulnerability. Then she became almost menacing. She started to treat Maxine (her supposed best friend) terribly, lied to her dad over and over, manipulated Simone, blackmailed Cynthia, hated Paul without knowing the whole story, and although Gil was an abuser, setting him up as a murderer was just diabolical because he really did love Austin. Poor Austin was just a ploy in her web of lies. Even Georgia realized that she was becoming different. Ginny was becoming Georgia."—vibrantshield91
When Miranda cheated on Steve in And Just Like That.
"On SATC, Miranda was the anti-romantic who fell in and out of love with Steve. Her being a lawyer and his being a bartender and later bar owner were worlds apart, yet in real life, love doesn't know anything but love. In the first movie, Steve confessed to cheating, which ruined Carrie and Big's initial wedding day. Continuing with AJLT, Miranda cheated on Steve with Che, Carrie's boss. Seeing Miranda as a person who disrespected her marriage with cheating and chasing Che made her look desperate and whiny, not to mention a hypocrite. Miranda is so cringe now, I can't stand her. The fun, sarcastic Miranda is gone and replaced by someone else. I wonder if, at some point, Miranda had a lobotomy."—Anonymous
When Eric cheated on Adam in Sex Education.
"He effed up their whole relationship, which will never fail to infuriate me."—famousphone424
When Fiona let Liam get into her drugs, which almost killed him on Shameless.
"I was done with her and the show after that."—creepster
When Michael turned out to be alive on Jane the Virgin, but had amnesia.
"It just absolutely ruined his character. I'm not over." —emwren
When Olivia Pope became head of B613 on Scandal.
"She was always a strong, independent woman who did what was right (well, most of the time). She spent three seasons trying to end B613, and in the last season, she became the head of B613 and became everything that she hated."—itsmeshahbano
When Quinn was obsessed with getting Beth back in Glee.
"Everything about it was so wrong. Also, PUCK HOOKING UP WITH RACHEL'S (AND BETH'S) MOM was horrible. That whole part of the season just ruined so many characters."—Anonymous
When Topanga turned down a scholarship to Yale so she could be with Cory in Boy Meets World.
—sf4581
When Haley got back together with Dylan on Modern Family.
"Haley going back to Dylan was definitely one of the worst because she had grown so much."—rbd89
When Spike attempted to rape Buffy on Buffy the Vampire Slayer.
"That was a very bad decision."—matdyjames
When Debbie tricked her boyfriend into getting her pregnant at 15 on Shameless.
"She was doing so well before that, then she just became trash."—A_Panda
When Rory dropped out of Yale on Gilmore Girls.
"She stole a boat, dropped out of Yale, lived with her grandmother, and ignored Lorelai for months because one guy told her she didn't have what it took to be a journalist. That's something you do when you're 15, not when you're 20."—s463b03bd4
When Jaime left Brienne for Cersei in Season 8 of Game of Thrones.
"When he said he did everything for Cersei, it didn't make sense because it was established in previous seasons that he did what he did for the people and saved millions of lives. It completely ruined his character arc and I pretend the last two seasons never happened."—districtrue
When Andy sailed away on the boat without Erin on The Office.
"I have no idea why they took his character in that direction. I can't believe how he treated Erin by leaving her to be on the boat and all the lying he did to Robert California to cover his own ass. The whole series he was portrayed as caring (if sometimes incompetent) to his coworkers and then he randomly did that. He did have an anger issue when his job was stolen, but it made sense because a total stranger stole his job! They just randomly turned him into this selfish person for no reason who only cared about himself."—irwhite1993
When Danny's regressed to a sexist jerk on The Mindy Project.
"He was always super supportive of Mindy and proud of her work as a doctor but then as soon as they had the baby, he started gaslighting her, tried to trick her into getting pregnant again and generally shaming her for wanting to keep her job!"—sunshine193
Everything Sabrina Spellman did in Seasons 3 and 4 of Chilling Adventures of Sabrina.
"She used to be a smart, ambitious, independent and likeable character in the beginning. She even defied her father, the devil, by refusing to rule Hell with him. In Season 3, she became OBSESSED with ruling Hell and made the most selfish decisions, like creating a cheap clone of herself to rule Hell, no matter who she hurt in the process."—a402635290
When Anya started doing coke on Degrassi: The Next Generation.
"I quit watching Degrassi (after YEARS) immediately after the shot of Anya doing coke at a club. Anya? ANYA? Student Council Anya? Cheerleader Anya? Anya who had a HUGE falling out with Holly J. because Holly J. was always forcing her into bad situations and getting them in trouble? LARPer Anya?? Nope, NOPE, do not buy it."—chelseajack
When Toby leaked classified information on The West Wing.
"He leaked classified information on a military space program so the US would be forced to send help to some stranded astronauts. It was so out of character for him and it was heavily implied that he was covering for someone else like CJ. Not only did it completely blow up his storyline by forcing him out of the White House, but he turned into a total ass afterward."—annpricot
When Guzman became a classist jerk again on Season 4 of Elite.
"The show had him go from a dumb jerk to a better man to make his growth part of his journey. Alas, they erased said growth by making him a dumb jerk again to make the Guzman, Ari, and Samu love triangle work."—superkay
When Schmidt cheated on Cece and Elizabeth by dating them both at the same time.
"I couldn't get past it."—kthomas8836
When Cordelia slept with Angel's son Connor on Angel.
"From Buffy the Vampire Slayer to Angel we watched her go from a spoiled teenage girl to a wonderful strong, caring young woman, only for her to turn evil and sleep with Angel's son. She got 'pregnant' by Connor, went into a coma and died. It was an unforgivable character assassination. Cordelia deserved better!"—itsspeltpauline
And finally, wjem Alex Karev left Jo and Meredith to get back together with Izzie on Grey's Anatomy.
"Alex Karev's departure from Grey's Anatomy was utter, utter rubbish. Look, I understand that the actor wanted to leave to pursue other projects, fair enough. However, they didn't have to ruin his character in the process, but my god, did they ruin all of that wonderful character development and growth and then some."—ravenbard"Why create one of the best character developments in TV HISTORY only to have him backtrack and exit the show how he did."—Anonymous"It ruined 16 seasons of character development."—Anonymous
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I suggested that we go for a walk around our neighborhood, and when we got to a park, I stopped us in front of one of our favorite trees and stood facing him, holding hands, and looking into his eyes for what felt like forever. My heart was beating so loudly, and he could feel it. And then I chickened out, and we started walking again." "Once we were a little ways out of the park, I turned around and led him back to the tree and tried again. When I finally got the courage to ask, he said, 'Oh my god, oh my god. Yes!' We walked back home, opened some champagne, drank it outside on the sidewalk, and talked about our future together. We didn't announce our engagement until a year later, when he proposed back to me with a ring. We waited because he wanted his family to get to know me better so they would be more supportive and excited about our engagement." —kekienitz 5."Moved to Las Vegas in May 2006 and met my future husband in October 2006. 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The first night we're there, we were all in the casino having drinks and playing cards. The groom got up to 'get a drink' and never came back to the group. After hours of searching for him, we finally found him sitting on the bathroom floor of his hotel room crying his eyes out. He lost over $10,000 in just a few hours playing blackjack. We were there for three more days, and he pretty much didn't even leave his hotel room and was terrified to go home and tell his fiancé he gambled away most of their savings." —u/mox44ah 3."The bride, her maid of honor, and three bridesmaids all went for a four-day girls' trip to Vegas. One of the three bridesmaids let it slip that the bride, the maid of honor, and one of the bridesmaids all had sex with guys they met there. The wedding was called off, and the maid of honor's marriage ended." —u/dogguy444 4."It was a bachelorette party a week before the wedding. A couple of other friends and I said it was a bad idea. We knew the bride and knew nothing good could come from a Vegas trip. But she really wanted it. Red flag right there. Sure enough, a video was sent to her fiancé of her making out with some random couple at the club we were at. And apparently that's not all that happened. She said that the couple recorded their threesome." "It sucks, too, because her fiancé was a really sweet guy. She wasn't even drunk either. Not that it would make it better, honestly. But she made all these decisions sober. She told us to fuck off when we tried to get her away from the couple." —u/Living_Bath4500 5."As a bartender and server in Savannah, Georgia, I saw a soon-to-be-groom flip off his fiancée and proceed to make out with the maid of honor at my table, while I was standing there. I didn't know what to do, so I stood there awkwardly as fighting ensued." —tedf4f45654b2 6."My ex insisted on a bachelorette in Vegas before our wedding. I get a panicked call from her sister in the middle of the night that they lost her (my ex) because she drank too much and became belligerent. She went off with two of her bridesmaids, who also were not answering their phones, and the short version is that those two friends hooked up with random strangers from Vegas that night. My ex claimed she had nothing to do with it, which I believed at the time, but came to realize I was fooling myself. Well, those two friends were both in long-term committed relationships that ended when their Vegas antics were revealed." "The rest of the bridal party wouldn't speak to my ex for years after this fiasco because of the fallout. My ex somehow held me responsible for the outcome because I rallied the troops — her sisters and the remaining non-drunk or non-cheating bridal party members — to find them, and called all the nearby hotels and venues I thought they might be at. When I finally found them, they were in the wrong hotel having a stand-off with security, which I successfully de-escalated from 3,000 miles away." —u/ET4117 7."One of my closest friends at the time slept with a stranger from the club when we were out partying two nights before her wedding. It was shocking and upsetting, and since she was my friend, I tried not to be judgmental. But damn, who does that?" —lizk41ced1621 8."This was at a friend's bachelorette! It was a small group of about five girls, including the bride. It was in a city about three hours from where we all live. She invited a male 'friend' to a club we were going to because 'he lived nearby and she hadn't seen him in a while.' At the club, they were in a corner all night, and definitely looked like more than friends. It was incredibly awkward for the rest of us, and he tagged along the rest of the night while she was wearing a white bachelorette dress and her engagement ring." "The next morning, she confessed that she'd always had a crush on this 'friend,' and wasn't sexually attracted to her fiancé. The rest of the trip, she kept asking us what she should do, since she didn't physically cheat on her fiancé. Despite almost all of us telling her to break up with her fiancé, she decided it would be too much to break off a wedding since everything was already paid for. I couldn't stand by her as a friend after witnessing that. I went to her wedding, and now don't talk to her, but to my knowledge, she is still married to the original fiancé she wasn't attracted to." —ilovemymonstera 9."We went to Vegas for a friend's bachelorette party. All the girls I went with cheated on their partners they were with at the time. Bridesmaid #1 was pissed I wasn't partaking in these activities with them. When they came back, the boyfriend of Bridesmaid #1 found out she was still texting/dating the guy she had cheated on him with, and he freaked out. Bridesmaid #1 didn't want to be the only one whose relationship fell apart, so she threw Bride and Bridesmaid #2 under the bus and told everyone that they had cheated as well. The entire friend group imploded, and none of us talk to each other anymore. Bridesmaid #1 married the guy she cheated with, Bride married her partner (he never found out), and Bridesmaid #2 broke up with her boyfriend (he never found out, either). I hate Vegas." —u/mala72 10."My friend's fiancé went to a bachelor party. After he came back, she deleted all of his pictures on Instagram and broke up with him. He had videos on his phone with a $1,500 sex worker. She asked why he even recorded it, and he said because it cost $1,500. Bruh." —u/Prestigious_View_401 11."A relationship that had been sidelined by infidelity (on his part) ended up back together. As good decisions go, they decided to push past the insecurities by getting married. He planned his own bachelor party, and we were just along for the ride. Her one rule: no naked girls. The second stop of the evening (after the all-you-can-eat buffet) was, of course, a gentleman's club. We all chipped in and got him a private dance or two, hoping to soon be on our way. Instead, he went off with two girls and was gone for almost an hour, racking up hundreds of dollars in charges." "We went to collect him and move on, and he said, 'You guys got this covered, right?!' No, bud. We'd already spent what we brought. Bouncers appeared from nowhere and 'politely' prevented us from leaving until he settled up. I had to help him drunkenly activate the PIN on his card to visit the ATM. Guess who was monitoring his spending activity? He flew home to an empty apartment." —u/JohnGalt314 12."At one bachelorette party I went to years ago, it was the bride-to-be's goal by the end of the night to have as many men hit on her/buy her drinks/etc, as possible. It turned out that every single guy was really sweet and mature and self-respecting, and realized, 'Hey, this girl is dressed in all-white with a bachelorette sash. I'll just congratulate her and not hit on her like a scumbag.' And all the people who bought her drinks/shots were other women or the bartenders! Well, my friend didn't like this, and as the night progressed, she got more and more forward and pushy. She was essentially begging men to hit on her, which only in turn made them scurry away. Not really a life-or-death secret, but I guarantee if she knew her husband-to-be acted the same way at his bachelor party, she'd be furious, and if her husband ever found out, he would be pretty sad." —cheesebones 13."A friend of mine was engaged to a narcissist, and everyone warned her not to marry him, but it was one of those 'marriage will fix our problems' situations. The night of the bachelorette, we all got very wasted, obviously, and she drunkenly confessed to me that she'd had an emotional affair with two different men on Instagram. Both men lived in different parts of the country, and she had no intention of meeting either of them, but she spoke to them almost daily. She said she needed the emotional validation from these two men because she did not get any from her fiancé. When I tried to discuss this with her the next day, when sober, she shrugged it off as not a big deal. She got married the week after, and they're still married, but to my knowledge, she hasn't ended her emotional affairs either." —Anonymous, 26, South Africa 14."The bachelor and bachelorette parties were the night before the wedding; two separate locations. The groom disappeared from his. He was found in the morning, passed out in some bushes. His friends were so drunk, they didn't notice he fell over when they went to an ATM. " —Anonymous, 55, Los Angeles 15."OK, I confess, it happened to me and 19 of my best friends at my bachelor party in a packed strip club when there came a swarm of women busting past the security guards, screaming names that were very well-known to me. Suddenly, my right ear was in a vice grip by the wife of a good friend who was also yelling for her to let go of his left ear. All the ladies were grabbing their boyfriends or husbands by their hair or an ear, and then they pulled all 19 of us out of the strip club." "I went back to that bar two days later to pay off any tab left behind. The manager said the dancers paid for it because, in their words, it was the funniest thing they had ever experienced in a strip club. 49 years later, in my only marriage, I bet that was some funny stuff to watch." —magicalcentipede207 finally, "I was the designated driver on a bar crawl bachelorette. The group got separated, and it took a while to locate the very drunk bride. We found her necking on the hood of a cop car with a handsome stranger. The wedding went on as planned, but the handsome 'stranger' picked up the newlywed bride at the airport after her honeymoon. Long story short, she reunited with hubby and they're still together 35 years later. " —Anonymous, 38, TX Do you have any wild bachelor or bachelorette party stories? Let us know about them in the comments below! Some submissions have been edited for length and/or clarity. Solve the daily Crossword

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