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Women Are Sharing The Things They Romanticized As Young Girls That Turned Out To Be VERY Different Once They Hit Adulthood
Recently, a now-deleted user posted on the popular Ask Women Reddit page to pose the question, "What's something you romanticized as a girl, but the reality hit different as a woman?" The answers got pretty real, and I figured you'd appreciate them. So, here are some of the best: 1."Male validation. Men thinking you're hot. It's not the meaning of life, it's a worthless burden." —u/dough_eating_squid "Exactly. I can't understand how I could romanticize it? Now I feel like I can't even tolerate their validation. It feels shallow and arbitrary and very random. Some men even fake their validation of women in order to seduce and manipulate women. Also, I realized that men validating my 'hotness' doesn't mean they necessarily like me as a person/human." —u/cherryvanilla "Once you realize that men wanting to fuck you doesn't afford you any real power or safety, and in fact it really just means they demand your attention whether you are interested or not, it's very freeing." —u/dough_eating_squid 2."Marriage." —u/Emotional-Many1077 3."Little short me couldn't wait to be an adult and wear heels all the time. I'm good with foam slip-on sneakers, thank you!" —u/papamajada 4."Doing my hair. Yikes, what a chore. Also, paying rent and wearing bras. Oof." —u/20191995 5."After watching the loving and healthy relationship between my mum and dad and how in love with each other they were, I knew I wanted that someday. Then I grew up and realized my dad was one in a million." "And I very much take after him in so many ways, and I wanted that for myself. But watching the current dating scene for my era, everyone wants something unobtainable. The standards are impossibly high. And communication like how my parents had is dead." —u/Gingerpsycho94 6."Everything, the entirety of romantic relationships, motherhood, work, finances. Absolutely nothing is as I thought and hoped it would be." —u/HeartBeetz 7."The myth that when a guy bullies you or treats you like crap, it's because he likes you." —u/Important-Drive-1823 8."As a girl with sexual trauma and just being raised in a conservative state, I thought it was empowering and freeing to have sex whenever, wherever, with whoever; but now that I've experienced it with a man who held a mutual love with me, I wouldn't have it any other way." —u/etherealdaisey 9."Men." NBC —u/Left_Count_658 10."I didn't overly romanticize it, but all of my life growing up, my parents said that the main objective of my life was to go to school to get an education so I could get a man with a good education who would take care of me and our children. My only value was to get a house, husband, car, 2.5 kids, and a dog, and if you didn't work to do those things and put a career, dreams, or education first, you were failing." Ron Watts / Getty Images, Tuul & Bruno Morandi / Getty Images "By the time I grew up and did all of those things, I realized those were things I never wanted to do; they were things that the society and community in which I lived wanted me to do. I wanted to be an archaeologist and go on digs and be out sweating in the Egyptian Heat looking for sarcophagi; I wanted to be on the Galapagos Islands helping to list all the new species of animals they didn't know were there before; but by the time I figured it all out, I had done all those other things. I think I still have time to do some of those, but it's just not the same as doing them when you're young in mind, body, and spirit." —u/TrickyNotice4678 11."Dating older men at a young age." —u/pocketlocket222 "As a teen and even in my early 20s, I thought being with someone much older would be fantastic because of all the experience and patience they must have, lmao. Thank goodness I never got to be in a relationship like that. Now that I'm on the other side of the age gap, the thought of being with someone much younger gives me the icks." —u/jturtle1701 12."BOOBS. OMG, I wanted them so bad and now I curse mine. They're constantly growing and shrinking, bras suck, back pain is unreal, and posture is ruined." —u/bobnotahacker 13."Weddings. I don't want to be watched as I walk down the aisle; I struggle enough not tripping when people are not watching me. I love the dresses and the idea, it's very just not for me." ABC / Via —u/LavishnessSad2226 14."I really envisioned an annual girls' trip starting from my 20s to when we start dying off. I managed one trip, which was great, but we could never do it again and I just gave up. Now in my late 40s, I just want to travel with my significant other or solo." —u/LeighofMar 15."Being a housewife. I know a lot of women are still happy housewives, but my ex-husband destroyed me and made it so hard to get back on my feet. It's not something I would want again." —u/Crowfyre 16."Being hyper-independent." "Didn't have a choice but to be independent at a young age because of parental neglect. Thought it was all, 'hell yeah, I'll show them, I can do anything anyone else can do, it's just me, but that's okay.' Yeah, so I can't ask for help ever without spiraling with guilt and worrying I'm a selfish burden." —u/JellyTwoForms 17."Crushes on celebrities or 'boyfriends' in the school environment. Looking back, our identities are somewhat sexualized and tied to men from such a young age." "Parents often joke with their adult friends that 'she has a boyfriend' or 'she has a crush on Nick Carter.' Looking back, I did NOT actually have a crush on Nick Carter; older kids asked me which Backstreet Boy was my fave, and took control of the narrative from there and made me believe I did. I was 6, people. Men's bodies, looks, and personalities were foreign to me for many, many years still. Kids don't need boyfriends, girlfriends, or this pretend pressure of having a love interest. Let kids be kids." —u/Empty-Caterpillar810 18."Becoming a mom! Love my kids but wow, do they lie to you about how romantic it is to have a kid with a husband!" —u/pnijj82 19."Being an adult." —u/LoosePhilosopher1107 finally, "The three Ms: men, marriage, and motherhood. I grew up really desperate and excited for all of those things, but as I've gotten older, I find myself really disillusioned and uninterested in them. I'm queer, I don't care for marriage in the same way, and feel like child-bearing might not be for me or even a viable thing to do now with the world being what it is." Docinets Vasil / Getty Images, Halfpoint Images / Getty Images —u/Hopeful-Strategy8637 What do you think of these? Agree or disagree? Let me know in the comments below; and if you have any past romanticizations of your own to share, feel free to do so and add to the conversation! If you have something to say but prefer to remain anonymous, you can check out this anonymous form. Who knows — your comment could be included in a future BuzzFeed article!
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Stay-at-Home Mom Refuses to Homeschool Her Husband's Kids Due to 'Bumpy' Relationship
A married woman shared that she told her husband she doesn't want to homeschool his kids They have two teenagers, a 10-year-old girl and a 1-year-old boy Her husband recently told her that he wants her to homeschool his three children from a previous marriageA woman is putting her foot down. The married woman shared on Reddit's 'Am I the A------' forum that she told her husband she doesn't want to homeschool his kids, despite his wishes. She explained that they have four kids: two teenagers, a 10-year-old girl and a 1-year-old boy. The three oldest children are from her husband's previous marriage. Her husband recently told her that he wants her to homeschool the three older siblings, even though his 10-year-old "is a handful." The poster said that she has a "mostly good relationship" with the preteen but their first few years were "bumpy." She wrote that the 10-year-old "still has problems following rules and instructions, so I can imagine teaching her anything would put a serious wedge between us." The woman added that his teenage son "doesn't listen to me at all, he's very disobedient." As for the kids' current school situation, she wrote that they attend a "very nice private school," while she is a stay-at-home mother who helps with her husband's business. "I think I would lose my mind If I had to add homeschooling to my plate. Am I wrong for telling him I need that break each day away from the kids?" the concerned mother said. In an update to the post, she explained that her husband wants her to homeschool the children "to avoid bad influence." "I am 100% not qualified to teach, nor do I have the patience," the mom wrote, adding that she once struggled to help his daughter with her math homework. "I can imagine teaching her would be a nightmare for both of us." The woman shared that her husband gives her an "allowance each month," in addition to paying their bills and giving her access to his bank card and account. She added that her husband is "great," but she is upset that he does not value her perspective on the homeschool conversation. "I don't want to be selfish, I would do anything for my kids and my family, but that also means putting my foot down on something that I know could be detrimental to them even if he doesn't see it," the poster said. The comments section was quick to side with the mother. "I agree that homeschooling would be too much on your plate, especially since there isn't a clear reason why homeschooling is superior in this case," one person wrote. Another suggested that the husband can homeschool his kids after his work day if he's adamant. "You won't be available during the day, so he'll also need to organize a sitter for them from 9-3," one wrote. is now available in the Apple App Store! Download it now for the most binge-worthy celeb content, exclusive video clips, astrology updates and more! A third told the poster that it's "unfair for him to place the responsibility of homeschooling his kids on your already full plate." "It also doesn't make sense given the challenges you had with his kids from the beginning. I guarantee if he did your job for a week, he would never dare to ask you to take on more," they added. Read the original article on People
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Extra: The Untold Story of the U.S. Border Patrol
Over the past several weeks, FOX News Contributor, retired Marines Staff Sergeant Joey Jones has featured first responders as part of the FOX News Rundown's 'Great Americans' series. Earlier this week, Jones spoke with Vincent Vargas Vargas, after serving in Iraq and Afghanistan as an Army Ranger, returned home and joined the Border Patrol, working along the U.S.-Mexico border, eventually becoming part of BORSTAR, the Border Patrol Search, Trauma, and Rescue unit. As part of that group, he focused on saving lives through search-and-rescue missions, medical interventions, and crisis response, regardless of the circumstances that led individuals at risk to cross the border. Vargas is now retired, and when he is not acting, he is a journalist, podcast host, and advocate for veterans. Joey and Vincent discussed his time in the military, the challenges of being a border patrol agent, and the work he's doing now. We often must cut interviews short during the week, but we thought you might like to hear the full interview. Today on Fox News Rundown Extra, we will share the entire conversation between retired Marine Staff Sergeant Joey Jones and Army Veteran and retired Border Patrol agent Vincent Vargas. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit
