This Woman Walked Out Of Dinner After Her Boyfriend's Friend Called Her "The Current One." Now, Her Boyfriend Is Demanding That She Apologize For Acting "Like A Child"
Here's the full story from user jarineek_3: "So my boyfriend (31, male) invited me to dinner with his old college group. One of his female friends (30, female), who I've never met before, came late, looked me up and down, then said, 'Ohhh so you're the current one. Cute.'"
"I was stunned. No one laughed, no one corrected her. My boyfriend just kind of chuckled awkwardly and changed the subject. I sat there in silence for another 20 minutes before excusing myself and leaving. I took an Uber home."
He called me later and said I embarrassed him by 'making it a thing' and that I should've just 'been chill' because 'she didn't mean anything by it.' He wants me to apologize to her for walking out 'like a child.' Am I the asshole for not tolerating that kind of blatant disrespect?"
Plenty of people thought the woman's response to being disrespected was warranted.
"Not the asshole. The people who should be embarrassed are the friend who made the remark, and your boyfriend for not shutting her down," user Worried_Suit4820 wrote.
While, others felt that the woman should actually thank her boyfriend's friend for showing her a "red flag."
"Not the asshole. If he felt like you were the one. He would have corrected her. You should send her flowers for showing you the red flag, guy," user Classic-Delivery3875 wrote.
Opposingly, this person felt that the woman was not the asshole, but walking out of dinner was the "wrong move."
"So, I am probably going to be in the vanishing minority here but I do think it was the wrong move to walk out, although I agree with others you're not the asshole for it. I just think a better move would have been to ignore her and try and enjoy meeting his other friends who (as you say) didn't laugh at her 'joke' so were probably all thinking she was the asshole too.
I also have sympathy for your boyfriend just changing the subject rather than confronting her. What was he supposed to do, launch into a passionate speech in front of everyone about how you're his forever person? However, he's definitely the asshole for suggesting you should apologize to his outrageously rude friend," user And_a_piece_of_toast wrote.
While this person felt the woman's reaction 100% made her the asshole, and she should just "roll with the punches."
"You're the asshole. It's an awkward comment, but it was likely said in jest. Calling an Uber and leaving without telling anyone is a crappy thing to do. Honestly, sitting in silence is just childish, as you're demanding attention from your boyfriend the way a child demands attention from its mommy.
Sometimes, you roll with the punches a little bit when you're breaking the ice with people you barely know. Heck, you could turn it into a joke and everyone there would likely enjoy your contribution. Instead, you're the petulant child that their friend is dating and the next time they see you, it'll be awkward as heck.
If it bothers you that much, stand up for yourself, right then and there. Don't pout and then leave. You're the asshole, for sure," user Weird_Ad-198 wrote.
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