Man tends Shepton Mallet care home garden to bring 'joy' to wife
"Pat tends to sleep a lot now, so when she nods off, I go out and do a bit in the garden," he added."I grow most things from seed and bring the plants along to St Cecilia's to make sure people have got a nice display."
The couple married in 1966. They have two sons, six grandchildren, and four great-grandchildren, who all live locally.As well as looking after the garden at St Cecilia's, Mr Dalgarno also tends a garden at his home in Street and has an allotment.Tracy Woolfrey, the manager at St Cecilia's, said: "The work Pete does in the garden brings such joy – not just to Pat, but to everyone here."He puts so much care and passion into it, and it really transforms the space for everyone. Whether he's planting, pruning or just pottering, his love of gardening shines through."
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