Suspect arrested in series of groping attacks across San Diego
Police have not released the suspect's identity at this time, but FOX 5/KUSI spoke with three victims who shared their stories in hopes of bringing the suspect to justice.
Security camera footage shows a man jogging down an alley off Emerald Street in Pacific Beach last Thursday afternoon.
Katie, who wants her identity concealed, said she was walking to the post office when the suspect groped her then ran off.
'I was terrified. It was fight or flight mode. I just wanted to get out alive. Very scared, ' she said.
Rebecca, a second victim, who also wants to remain anonymous, described a similar run-in while out for a walk near Garfield Elementary in North Park last Wednesday.
'He got about like six feet in front of me. I realized that his shorts were pulled up to expose full genitalia and he had a smirk on his face, and I stood there shocked and stunned and at that point he slapped and grabbed my behind and very aggressively, ' she said.
Rebecca said the man, who was wearing shorts, a t-shirt, and AirPods, left the scene.
Rebecca created an Instagram account and posted details of what happened and a description of the man to alert others. It soon became clear she wasn't alone.
'At that time, it was like two other women that came up to me and connected me with a PB incident that had pictures and surveillance, and I remember my heart dropping seeing the images and it was him,' she said.
In all, Rebecca said six women have come forward.
Another woman, Gretchen, who also prefers not to be shown, said the same person exposed himself before assaulting her during a walk on July 9 also in North Park.
'As he was passing me, he reached out and grabbed my butt pretty hard and then just kept running,' she said.
Police confirm the suspect seen in surveillance footage was taken into custody for the same type of related crime and faces at least one felony charge. However, more charges could be coming.
In the meantime, victims coping with what happened aren't staying silent.
'I want him to have consequences for his actions and just help keep everyone safe,' Gretchen said.
San Diego police said the investigation is ongoing and are urging anyone who has had a similar experience in the past few months to contact their area commands or call 619-531-2000 and file a police report.
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Possessing a superhuman-like will to overcome adversity is celebrated by society with terms such as 'Black Girl Magic' and 'Strong Black Woman,' said Keisha Bentley-Edwards, an associate professor of medicine at Duke University. But such unrealistic expectations not only strip Black women of their innocence from an early age, but also contribute to higher pregnancy-related death rates and other bad health outcomes, she said. "A lot of times people expect Black women to take care of it," Bentley-Edwards said in an interview. Instead of romanticizing the struggle, she said, there should be 'tangible support like housing or employment' and other resources. But experts say safety nets are at risk, particularly after the Trump administration in April terminated roughly $811 million in public safety grants for L.A. and other major cities. As a result, federal funds for victim services programs, which offer counseling and other resources, have been slashed. Lewis never thought she'd be in a position to need such help. 'The funny thing is, we're from Compton born and raised, but we were not a statistic until my son was murdered," she said. "My kids had a two-parent household. We both had jobs. We weren't doing welfare: I worked every day.' Months of waiting on an arrest in Darjean's death led Carter, his aunt, into a "dark place." She ended up taking a spiritual retreat into the mountains of Nigeria. She was still working through the feelings of anger and guilt when she learned her brother, Ware, had been fatally stabbed on July 5. She described the days and weeks that followed as a teary blur. Coming from a family of nurses taught her how to push aside her own grief and forge on, but she was left wondering how much more she could endure. Ware, who went by Duke, was his family's unofficial historian, setting out to map out their sprawling Portuguese and Creole roots and scouring the internet for long-lost relatives. He used to brag all the time about his daughter, who had graduated from nursing school and moved back to the L.A. area to work at a pediatric intensive care unit on the Westside. He used to joke that for all of his shortcomings as a father, he had at least gotten one thing right. In recent months, though, Ware's life had started to spiral. His diabetes had gotten worse, and a back injury left him unable to continue in his job as a long-haul truck driver. Relatives worried he was hiding a drug addiction from them. He had adopted a bull mastiff puppy named Nala. She used to follow him everywhere, usually trotting a few steps behind without a leash. Even when he was having trouble making ends meet, he always "spoiled her," his family said. For a few months, he lived out of a van one of his sisters bought for him. He then landed at a shelter, a hangar-style structure on the edge of Griffith Park. He and Nala were kicked out after a short time, but he still frequented the area, and it's where L.A. County authorities said the fight that ended in his killing began. Prosecutors said in a memo that surveillance video showed Ware and his dog chasing another man into a parking lot across the street from the shelter. The two men, the D.A.'s memo said, had been involved in an ongoing dispute, possibly over a woman. According to the memo, the man said he'd been carrying a knife because of a previous altercation in which Ware ordered his dog to attack. On the day of the stabbing, the man said, Ware had shown up with Nala at the shelter, looking for a confrontation. After the fight, responding officers found Ware suffering from a deep wound to his chest, Nala with several lacerations and the suspect hiding in a nearby porta-potty. His clothes had been torn off, and he was bleeding profusely from several severe dog bites, the memo said. Prosecutors said witnesses corroborated the man's story that Ware had been the aggressor, in addition to the video footage. Ware's family says that account contradicts what they heard from other residents, who claimed Ware was the one defending himself after the other man attacked him with a vodka bottle. In the meantime, they are working to secure Nala's release from the pound, where she has been nursing her injuries. On July 8, Carter organized a candlelight vigil for her brother outside the shelter where the killing happened. That morning, she said, she cried in the shower before steeling herself so she could run out to a Dollar Tree store to pick up some balloons. When she got to the vigil, Lewis made her way around, greeting the swarm of relatives holding homemade signs and chanting Ware's name. After a final prayer, the group released balloons, most of which floated upward with the evening's lazy breeze. Some, though, got caught in the branches of a large tree nearby. A smile finally crossed Carter's face as she pointed up to them. She took it as a sign from Ware, as though he was saying a last goodbye before he departed to heaven. "He's trying to hang on," she said. Sign up for Essential California for news, features and recommendations from the L.A. Times and beyond in your inbox six days a week. This story originally appeared in Los Angeles Times.
