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21 Former (And Current) Cheaters Exposed Their Reasons For Being Unfaithful, And I'm Truly Shocked At Some Of These
A while back, we asked the BuzzFeed Community to share the reasons they decided to cheat on their significant others. Here's what they said: 1."I've been a terrible partner for several people, and the ones I cheated on were all for the same reason — boredom, and it would be easy to get away with it. I never once got caught, but I'm divorced because I caught my ex cheating, whom I had never cheated on. So karma." —Anonymous 2."My high school boyfriend kind of spiraled after we graduated. I was going off to college, and he was staying in our hometown. We'd had a rocky relationship our senior year, too. I joined a sorority and started flirting around with some of the guys joining fraternities. I slept with one of the guys that I'd also met during freshman orientation, and my friends forced me to tell my boyfriend. I did it because I felt disconnected from my boyfriend and wanted to start over new in college. I definitely should have talked to my boyfriend and either broken up with him or worked things out rather than cheating." —Anonymous, Indianapolis 3."I didn't realize it then (early 20s), but I was acting out because of childhood trauma. I was repeating patterns, pushing people away before they could abandon me, etc. It was a really stressful time." —Anonymous, 39, Minneapolis, MN 4."Our marriage had a serious lack of intimacy for a couple of years. Not just sex, but no affection shared at all, which was hard since my love language is physical touch. I ended up meeting someone I had an immediate connection with, who filled in everything I was missing. I'm getting divorced now, but my ex and I are in a very good place and rallied around raising our child." —Anonymous, 34, Vermont 5."It was too easy. Too many women. But the one I feel guilty about was my long-term girlfriend in college. She is one of the nicest people I have ever met. So maybe I didn't deserve her anyway. Either way, I feel guilty. But she seems to have a good life, and her husband seems to be a decent man. We still run in the same circles." —Anonymous, 49, Washington, DC 6."I cheated on my boyfriend when I was 21 years old. He had cheated on me in the past. He constantly tried to make me feel worthless, and then I met someone who was just a genuinely nice person, and I realized I could actually be with someone who treats me better. We flirted for a few days, and then we kissed, and he spent the night. We did not have sex, but kissing is still cheating. I broke up with my ex a few days later and dated the guy I cheated with for seven years." —Anonymous, 31, NC 7."I was with her for nearly six years, but I knew I never really loved her. I was trying to do the right, normal thing by settling down. I'd been living overseas and partying, and everyone was pressuring me to come home and settle down. She was emotionally controlling and highly insecure. I was drained and felt so stuck. Every time I tried to end it, she would threaten to harm herself. So I just stayed. I started a new job and met a woman who completely blew me away. We were just friends for a while, and then one day we kissed in the elevator at work. I went home and immediately ended the relationship, and ended up marrying my colleague. We are still happily married today, five years later. I have deep shame that I cheated and that I wasn't strong enough to leave, but it definitely made me realise that there are sometimes reasons people do cheat." —Anonymous, 37, Australia 8."I got married when I was 21 to a very nice but clueless workaholic young man. After the honeymoon phase, he basically ignored me. I was in the best shape I had ever been in, teaching Jazzercise classes as a substitute while going to nursing school. He didn't even want to take vacations with me, just wanted to work all the time. We were able to buy a house, which was great, but I thought there should be more to a marriage. I ended up having an affair with my college speech teacher that lasted until he broke it off for an even younger student!" —Anonymous, 68, Bay Area 9."I had no good reason. That would imply that I had every right to do it. I didn't. What I did was break a social contract I had with my then-girlfriend, now wife, and it caused every disruption you can imagine. I've cried and been annoyed and worried because I am the one who did it, and I considered myself a moral, loyal guy, so I know what ANYone is capable of doing. If I had any guesses as to what was actually going through my brain, it would be this: 'I'm not good enough to keep my girlfriend. She knows me too well and knows I'm not as great as she says I am. I don't deserve more than the drama this will eventually cause. I'd rather someone interact with me who has no idea how messed up I really am than face the person who actually loves me.'" —Anonymous, 44, Indianapolis 10."I met someone WAY better and have been married to her for 20 years this July." —Anonymous, 47 Kingston, Ontario 11."We've been together several years now — and he's been angry for most of them. Any time I try to communicate with him turns into a battle. We have had sex maybe 12 times in the last three years, and he mocks me whenever I told him that I wanted to have more sex, never mind what happens when I bring up how I'd like to spice things up. So, after a particularly stressful few months (a huge career move for me, selling and buying a house), one of my immediate family members almost died. I was crying to my partner about how scared I was, and he completely blew me off. Then something in me snapped. I wanted to feel desired and wanted; I didn't want to beg for attention. I wanted to just not fight with someone. So, I sexted an old flame." "I should have left, hell, I should have let him leave me during my pregnancy like he threatened many, many times. But I didn't, and my partner found the messages. We're still together, and he decided to stay once he saw my commitment to 'never again.' I'm in therapy twice a month. He's still always angry. We still aren't having sex. I'm so miserable and lonely that I want to leave, but I don't want to lose my daughter 50% of the time." —Anonymous, 42, Canada 12."A close bond with my coworker turned into my best sexual experience of my life. We both know each other like no one else, and I've never wanted anyone as much as I want him. His genuine connection is unlike anyone else." —Anonymous, 36 13."I cheated on my ex. We were long-distance, but it wasn't the distance that caused me to cheat; it was the fact that I knew I could get away with it. A have-my-cake-and-eat-it-too scenario. This was 10 years ago. I have since formed a friendship with the ex and told her what I did and apologized. She accepted and appreciated it. I have been with my current partner for nine years. I would never dream of cheating again." —Anonymous, 31, UK 14."I was young and stupid. I didn't know what a healthy relationship was and didn't understand that if I wanted things to be fixed, I needed to communicate those wants and needs. I thought he could read my mind and just KNOW that I wasn't feeling loved, important, or attractive to him. I started getting attention from the guys I worked with. The acceptance, validation, and attention were like a drug for me. He was such a stick in the mud, he didn't question anything, which made me feel like he didn't care." "We were in our mid-20s. In my mind, as a couple that was living together and talking marriage, there should be no logical reason he didn't want to smash at every opportunity. I would literally be wearing just panties and a tank top, standing over or right in front of him, saying, 'Play with me!' And he'd be more into his video games or whatever he was working on. I called off our engagement because I realized if I was willing to cheat on him with multiple guys, I was NOT ready to get married." —Anonymous, 38, Texas 15."I had been with my spouse for 15 years, and we shared five kids. They had undergone a gender transition two years prior, and our marriage was on the rocks. We fought all the time. First, I was looking for a way to repair and recover our marriage, but my spouse said that there was no point in getting therapy. I then asked for a separation, but my spouse said that we couldn't afford to live apart. I interviewed for jobs out of town, thinking that we could afford to live apart if I made more money, but that didn't pan out. I felt trapped." "I began to fall for someone I worked with. I resisted the feelings for months until I couldn't stop thinking about him. One day, I confessed my feelings, and an affair began. I told my spouse right away, and we separated shortly thereafter. Years later, I am now happily married to my affair partner, and my former spouse has happily remarried, too. I deeply regret allowing myself to get that far and cheat. I really hurt my spouse and kids, and I damaged my own character and reputation." —Anonymous 16."I got a UTI every time I had sex with my husband. I was always freshly showered and clean as a precaution, and had him do the same, but it still happened. I would be the one who needed to take a full course of antibiotics and suffer the side effects from that. Meanwhile, he was scratching his privates in his sleep. I think he had something akin to jock itch, which he refused to see a doctor for or try any OTC treatment. After years of this, I was averse to having sex with him, though I still had a high sex drive. He was not interested in exploring alternate ways to bring each other pleasure, so I found a person who could satisfy my needs. Lack of intimacy, whether physical or emotional, is a relationship killer. " —Anonymous, 60, USA 17."Loneliness. My husband was an alcoholic and would choose alcohol over me. I met someone at work who treated me well, and one thing led to another. The validation and companionship were what I was missing." —Anonymous, 37, California 18."Honestly, IDK. A coworker and I got close. I wasn't that unhappy with my partner, but I was feeling depressed at the time and lost a lot of weight. I was going through the motions of work and home life, but felt dead inside. Until my coworker asked if I was depressed out of the blue. I didn't think so at that time. I was eating normally. My coworker and I spent more time together. Turned into a full-on affair, and the sex still is like no other. I'm now back to my normal weight and better mental state. " —Anonymous, 34 19."We were together for a total of five years. A year into our relationship, he cheated when I was out of town. I found out the day after I got back, I 'forgave' him the same day. But really, I resented him for isolating me from everyone, so I had no one to turn to when this happened, and he had made me think that he was the best I could ever get. The following year, I moved back to my hometown for the summer, and there I realized how desired I was by other men, and it was intoxicating. I never had gotten that type of attention from my then-boyfriend. And with the resentment building up for a year, I started going out on the weekends looking for that attention." "I ran into some guys I went to high school with, and one of their friends was really flirty with me. At that point, I knew I should have broken up with my boyfriend, but I didn't. I would continue to flirt with this guy every time I saw him at the bars until one night he asked me to go home with him, and I said yes. On the way there, the excitement turned into guilt, and I realized I was stooping down to my boyfriend's level. I told the guy I had to go home, I couldn't do this. Before the summer ended, I tried to break up with my boyfriend, but he manipulated me into staying with him. I stayed loyal until the end but I wish I would have stuck to my guns and left him that summer. I was so miserable. That was 10 years ago, and now I'm happily married to the love of my life. I would never even think of doing anything like that to him." —Anonymous 20."He was my first everything (kiss, boyfriend, sex, love), and he was a sweetheart, but we started dating freshman year of college before I knew who I was. We had nothing in common, and I tried to break up with him three times junior year, but he BEGGED me not to, so I stayed. That summer, I went to work at a summer camp and met someone who made me feel all of the things my boyfriend never did. I ended up sleeping with him and called my boyfriend to break up first thing the next morning. I felt instant relief, but the guilt has eaten away at me ever since. The guy I cheated with ended up cheating on me constantly for two years, and he gave me chlamydia, so I believe I got my karma, but damn, I still feel bad." —Anonymous, 35, US "I often think about why I cheated, and I'm not sure there is one answer. In short, I would say I was unhappy but didn't realize it. An ex came back in my life who I had deep-rooted rejection issues from, and when they expressed interest, it was easy to fall back into being wanted by them. After so much rejection from them in the past, I finally, for a moment, felt wanted. My partner and I at the time hadn't been intimate in a long time and lacked the ability to communicate were healthy relationships. My cheating broke all the trust my partner had in me, and when they found out about it, we never recovered. I do think our breakup was for the bes,t but forgiving myself for the hurt I had caused him is still something I struggle with years later." —Anonymous, 34; Seattle, WA Responses have been edited for length/clarity. Have you ever cheated on a partner? Tell us your motives for why you did it, and how it all turned out. Or, if you prefer to stay anonymous, you can submit a response using this form here. Solve the daily Crossword
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Storm Floris to cause travel disruption as wind warnings upgraded
Storm Floris could cause severe travel disruption on Monday as weather warnings for wind have been upgraded. Amber warnings have been issued for much of Scotland, lasting from 10am to 10pm. A yellow warning for wind had already been issued for northern parts of the UK from 6am on Monday to 6am on Tuesday. Stormy weather can severely impact the railway, with journey delays and cancellations, National Rail warned. 'It is likely that speed restrictions will be in place and your journey may take longer,' it said. Strong winds can bring down trees that block tracks and damage power lines. The weather could also disrupt road, air and ferry services, and close bridges, it is feared. Many inland parts of the warning area will see westerly gusts of 40-50mph and exposed coasts and high ground could see them reach 70mph, the Met Office said. There is a chance that winds could even reach 85mph on Scottish coastlines and hills. Scottish ferry operator CalMac has issued a series of cancellation warnings ahead of the storm. 'Disruption to sailings is expected across our network on Monday August 4 due to forecasted strong winds across parts of Scotland's west coast,' it posted on X. Elsewhere, motorists have been urged to slow down in poor weather and avoid exposed Highland and coastal routes. Rod Dennis, of the RAC breakdown service, said: 'This unseasonable bout of stormy weather will mean drivers in the north and west of the UK need to take extra care at the start of next week. 'It's the height of the holiday season, so those towing trailers and caravans, as well as those with roof and tent boxes, must ensure their loads are properly secured.' Met Office chief meteorologist Matthew Lehnert said: 'Across the warning area, many inland areas are likely to see gusts of 40-50mph, with 60-70mph more likely at higher elevations and around exposed coasts in Scotland. 'There is a small chance that some locations here could even record gusts of 85mph.' The strongest winds will most likely affect Scotland on Monday afternoon and night but 'there remains some uncertainty in the depth and track of Floris', a spokesperson added. 'Winds will first ease in the west during later Monday but remaining very strong overnight until early Tuesday in the east. 'Heavy rain may also contribute to the disruption in places.' The warning zone covers Scotland, parts of Northern Ireland, north Wales and the north of England. Storm Floris is the sixth named storm of the 2024-25 naming season, which runs from early September to late August, and January's Storm Eowyn was the most recent.
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Brian Daboll, Giants' coaching staff disrespected in ESPN ranking
It's no secret that the 2025 NFL season is something of a 'make or break' year for New York Giants head coach Brian Daboll. Once a rising star as the offensive coordinator for Josh Allen and the Buffalo Bills, the Giants hired Daboll as head coach and saw some success right away. He guided New York to a 9-7 record, a return to the playoffs, and got quarterback Daniel Jones to look the best he ever has. Since then, it's been all downhill for Daboll and the Giants, winning just nine total games across two seasons while Daniel Jones is now the likely backup quarterback in Indianapolis. As the NFL is a 'what have you done for me lately' league, it should come as no surprise that Daboll and his coaching staff fared poorly in a recent ranking of NFL coaching staffs. Ben Solak, an analyst for ESPN, ranked each team's coaching staff heading into the 2025 NFL season and placed the New York Giants in dead last, a drop of 8 spots from last year. Regarding Daboll and offensive coordinator Mike Kafka, Solak writes, 'It's not much to hang a hat on, but if and when we see Jaxson Dart this season at quarterback, I expect the team to have some smart, easy ways to get him into a rhythm and involved in the running game. I can at least see the visions in New York, even if the plane often struggles to get off the ground.' Defensive coordinator Shane Bowen earned a slightly rosier assessment, at least. 'I have a warmer appreciation for Bowen, who is always willing to get creative with alignment and coverages to solve personnel problems on the back end. The 2024 Giants' defense was definitely poor, but they have overhauled the secondary and added to the pass rush this offseason, so I'm happy reserving a stronger judgment for Year 2.' As aforementioned, it should surprise no one that the Giants' coaching staff is ranked among the league's worst. What is rather surprising was seeing them rank at dead last, behind even some first-time head coaches with inexperienced staffs, like the Jacksonville Jaguars. To be fair, the Jaguars only ranked one spot higher than New York, but even that feels like a major disservice to Daboll's potential. At least Daboll has a playoff appearance to his name. Hopefully, the arm of Russell Wilson, who is the unquestioned starting QB in 2025, will guide New York to a strong 2025 season and we'll see a more positive evaluation in next year's rankings.
