
'I slept with 1000 women, and now i want to...': Man's shocking confession goes viral, has a message for OnlyFans actress Bonnie Blue about...
A man from London is making headlines after he revealed that he had physical relationships with over 1,000 women. Now, he's speaking out about his regrets and is warning others not to make the same mistake. According to a report by the Daily Star , Benny James, a 31-year-old man from Croydon in South London, said that for more than ten years, he was with a different woman almost every week. At the time, he thought it was exciting. But now, he admits it only brought him loneliness and sadness.
Benny said, 'Doing this doesn't lead you anywhere good. It only pulls you down. Later, it becomes hard to live a normal and happy life. You end up feeling alone and depressed.' Benny warns pornographic film actress Bonnie Blue
Benny claims to have been with more than 1,000 women. Because of his experience, he has also warned model Bonnie Blue, who slept with 1,000 men to set a record. Benny believes she's made a huge mistake and may also regret it in the future.
Bonnie recently slept with over 1,000 men in a day, and then got banned from OnlyFans after her 'petting zoo' challenge was deemed as 'too extreme' for the site.
Benny says he sees a reflection of his younger self in Bonnie Blue. He has requested her to stop living that kind of life before it pushes her to a very low point, just like it did to him. He wants her to change paths before it's too late. Why Benny James now regrets his past?
Benny James says that no amount of fame or money can fill the emptiness that comes from living a wild and meaningless life. Benny, who works as a content creator, spent over 10 years meeting countless strangers every week. He would connect with women through DMs on Twitter and Instagram, and go out to clubs four times a week to meet different girls. Was loneliness the reason behind this lifestyle?
Benny admits that at the time, he thought it was just about 'having fun' and 'enjoying life.' But now, when he looks back, he realizes that his carefree lifestyle was actually a way to escape the uncomfortable feeling of being lonely. He was secretly struggling with anxiety and depression. There were days when he couldn't even leave his house. To deal with his low self-esteem, he turned to alcohol and drugs.
Today, Benny has settled down with a partner and has also quit drinking. During the COVID-19 lockdown, he spent a lot of time alone, and that helped him think about his choices. That's when he decided to leave his past behind and start a new and better life. How this lifestyle hurts mental and physical health
Benny once dated EastEnders actress Danniella Westbrook. He admitted that, back then, he was probably the 'male version' of Bonnie Blue. He said, 'I'd tell her to think about her future. What will this lifestyle do to her mind and body 10 years from now? All it brings is loneliness and depression.'
Benny shared that his friends and family used to see him as a fun-loving guy who enjoyed partying and meeting new people. But deep inside, all of it was slowly harming him until he completely broke down. He believes Bonnie is walking down the same path and warns that this kind of life only leads to more negativity. And once you finally want peace and a normal life, it becomes very hard to find it again. Why returning to a normal life becomes hard
Benny explained that when you meet new people every day and live that fast-paced life for years, it becomes your routine. After doing that for so long, trying to settle down and live a quiet, happy life with a family becomes very difficult. It leaves you feeling empty and alone even when you're surrounded by people.

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