Irchester woman forms singles group after cancer heartbreak
Ms Osborne said she lost her first husband to cancer and later her son, and has since separated from her second husband.She was also diagnosed with breast cancer, but thankfully it was caught early.Speaking about wanting to meet new people following those events, she said: "It's really hard, and all my friends are married and settled. "I wanted to go out with people like me, my age."As a result, she organised a small gathering at Rushden Windmill Club, which attracted more than 40 people. Encouraged by the turnout, she set up the social group in March, which has continued to grow."As soon as you walk in, the vibe is great," she said. "We're all the same age and we all feel comfortable. People that have come, now come all the time."
Attendees of the group said it had helped them feel more connected.Jan Warren, from Burton Latimer, said: "I realised I had no joy left in my life. "When I saw Debbie's ad [for a meet-up,] I thought, 'time to get out and find some people'."Trevor Pywell, from Barton Seagrave, said he had attended four events. "Debs' group is fantastic," he said. "I do miss having a partner. I gave up on dating apps and thought I was getting used to being on my own."Ms Osborne said she was now looking for a suitable venue in Northampton to accommodate the group's increasing numbers.
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