Corey Day spins in Turn 2 to end Stage 1 at Nashville
The Mets farm system continues to show plenty of promise at different levels. Top pitching prospect Jonah Tong struck out seven in six innings of work, allowing just one run as Double-A Binghamton won the opener of a doubleheader 2-1. Then in the nitecap, power hitting Ryan Clifford ripped a solo HR as the Rumble Ponies completed a sweep of the Chesapeake Baysox. The Mets second-round pick in the 2024 draft Jonathan Santucci, has found his groove in High-A Brooklyn after a rough start. Santucci had six punchouts in 5.1 innings as the Cyclones defeated Aberdeen 6-2.
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