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How do I avoid nepotism perception when recommending a relative for a job? Ask HR

How do I avoid nepotism perception when recommending a relative for a job? Ask HR

USA Today08-07-2025
Johnny C. Taylor Jr. tackles your human resources questions as part of a series for USA TODAY. Taylor is president and CEO of the Society for Human Resource Management, the world's largest HR professional society and author of "Reset: A Leader's Guide to Work in an Age of Upheaval.'
Question: I want to recommend my nephew for an open position with my company. I think he'd be a great fit. We are encouraged to make referrals of people we know. What can I do to avoid his hiring might be perceived as nepotism or favoritism? – Milo
Answer: When considering recommending your nephew for an open position within your company, it's essential to navigate the process thoughtfully. Here are some steps to ensure a fair and transparent referral:
Do your homework: Start by reviewing your company's policies concerning the hiring of family members. Most organizations have specific guidelines in place to prevent conflicts of interest, which help clarify what is permissible.
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Focus on qualifications: Make your recommendation based on your nephew's skills, accomplishments, and how he aligns with the job requirements. Communicate his qualifications and potential contributions to the hiring team.
Maintain transparency: Be upfront about your relationship with your nephew from the beginning. Transparency will help build trust with your employer and colleagues, showing that you are not trying to hide the familial connection.
Provide insight, not influence: Use your understanding of your nephew to offer valuable insights into his capabilities and work ethic. However, let the hiring process proceed independently, without undue influence from you. Allow him to go through the same evaluation process as any other candidate.
Avoid conflicts of interest: Ensure that the position does not involve direct supervision or decision-making authority over your nephew. This reduces the risk of perceived bias and helps maintain a professional environment.
Set professional boundaries: If hired, establish clear boundaries to maintain a separation between personal and professional interactions. This includes not showing favoritism and maintaining professionalism at all times.
Address colleague concerns: Be mindful of your workplace dynamics. If any concerns about the recommendation arise among colleagues, address them directly and professionally, fostering an open dialogue to alleviate any tensions.
By taking these steps, your recommendation will effectively showcase your nephew's potential while upholding the integrity of the hiring process and fostering workplace harmony.
Ultimately, any candidate you refer, be it a friend, family member, or former colleague, will be based on your personal experience. When you see a potential fit for both parties, you can confidently make a quality referral in the best interest of your employer and your nephew.oth parties, you can confidently make a quality referral in the best interest of your workplace and your nephew.
The views and opinions expressed in this column are the author's and do not necessarily reflect those of USA TODAY.
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