Upcoming ramp closure for Town of Cicero
According to the NYSDOT, the I-81 northbound off-ramp to Exit 29N (State Route 481 North/Oswego) in the Town of Cicero.
Work will take place from 9 p.m. Monday, June 2, through 4 a.m. Tuesday, June 3.
The closure is to facilitate paving as part of the I-81 Viaduct Project.
Construction activities are weather-dependent and subject to change based on conditions.
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