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I survived two strokes in my twenties says Rutherglen woman

I survived two strokes in my twenties says Rutherglen woman

Yahoo23-03-2025
A Rutherglen woman is celebrating 20 years since she survived two strokes by hosting a a comedy show at the Glasgow International Comedy Festival.
Colette Boyd, who suffered the strokes in her late twenties, is marking the milestone by performing at The Griffin on March 25.
The 48-year-old's show is titled A F.A.S.T 20 Years and is described as "a celebration of life, laughter, and momentous events".
She took up stand-up comedy in 2023 and is now using humour to celebrate the milestone.
Her show aims to raise funds for Chest Heart and Stroke Scotland.
Colette shared how her self-deprecating humour helped her deal with the challenges of being a young stroke survivor and improved her mental health.
She said: "I had my first stroke when I was 28 and then I had my second stroke when I was 29.
"I'd read at the time that most stroke survivors don't live past 20 years after their stroke.
"I assume that's because people that have strokes are older when they have them.
"I always thought I'd have a party when I got to 20 years.
"When I started doing stand-up comedy I was telling my friend, who also does stand-up, that I'd have a party.
"He suggested I put on a gig during the International Comedy Festival instead and I thought it was a great idea."
Colette will be performing alongside comedians Jimi Longmuir, Tattoo Dave, and Patrick Rolink.
She added: "When I decided to do the show I knew I couldn't fill an hour myself so I put a call out asking if anyone wanted to get involved.
"Patrick has had a stroke more recently and has been involved with CHSS.
"The other comedians have had family members affected by heart disease so it worked out well to host it for CHSS given it's a Scottish charity."
Tickets for the show can be purchased from the Glasgow Comedy Festival's website.
For support and information on chest, heart, stroke conditions or Long Covid, contact Chest Heart & Stroke Scotland's Advice Line.
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A 1864 photograph of Victoria and John Brown. Brown worked as a ghillie at Balmoral, the Queen's estate in Scotland, and was rumored to have had an affair with Victoria. The long-standing rumors about Mrs. Brown Limited Time: Bonus Issue Offer Subscribe now and gift up to 4 bonus issues—starting at $34/year. The rumors started shortly after Victoria was widowed. Avoiding the British public and frustrated with her ministers, she retreated to solitude at the picturesque Balmoral, an estate she'd built with Albert in 1852. Brown had worked at Balmoral for years as a ghillie, an attendant on hunting trips but, by 1864, Victoria had promoted him, giving him the official title of Queen's Highland Servant—'to remain constantly in attendance upon the Queen,' according to the memorandum Victoria issued to Brown. In the years that followed, Brown was constantly at Victoria's side, accumulating enormous sway within her household. 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