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‘Chamber of horrors' being exhumed at Ireland mass baby grave

‘Chamber of horrors' being exhumed at Ireland mass baby grave

Washington Post5 days ago
TUAM, Ireland — Only one stone wall remains of the old mother and baby home in this town, but it has cast a shadow over all of Ireland.
A mass grave that could hold up to nearly 800 infants and young children — some of it in a defunct septic tank — is being excavated on the grounds of the former home run by the Bon Secours Sisters, an order of nuns.
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