AFL star Zach Tuohy on his silent struggles as a young father and life after footy
He did two trials for the club before taking the plunge, leaving his family behind in Portlaoise and moving to Australia to become a professional footballer, first for Carlton and then for the Cats in Geelong.
By the time Zach retired from the AFL in 2024, he had accumulated an astonishing 288 games, a premiership title, a loving Aussie wife and two beautiful sons.
But Zach's great Irish-Australian adventure wasn't always a dream run.
He struggled as a young, first-time dad, and didn't know who to turn to.
On the way home from training, Zach would feel compelled to pull over on the side of the road and cry, alone in his car before coming home to his young family, pretending everything was ok.
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The Irish Experiment is co-authored by Catherine Murphy and published by Simon and Schuster.
Keep up to date with Zach's post-footy exploits on his Instagram page.
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