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Yahoo
04-07-2025
- Entertainment
- Yahoo
8 best dating app profile prompts for singles over 40 that aren't about age — and biggest mistakes to avoid
Writing a dating profile in your 40s (and beyond) is a little different than writing one in your 20s and 30s. For starters, regardless of if you're on Raya, Facebook Dating, Hinge, Bumble or something else, you've lived, loved, maybe divorced, maybe raised kids — and you don't want to waste time. But that doesn't mean your dating app prompts need to focus on age. In fact, dating coach Andrea McGinty, founder of says ditching the age talk, and instead leaning into your full life, is how you stand out. 'People over 40 like prompts that somehow show their value thus far to society, what they are looking for in a second act, and typically a big emphasis is placed on prompts illustrating what they do in their free time,' she says. That's not to say you should hide your age, says McGinty who encourages honesty. 'Be proud of your age and how good you look for your age.' But that doesn't mean turning every prompt into a reflection on retirement, what decade you're in or your past relationships. 'No need to go into a rant on a prompt about trust and how your wife cheated on you after 25 years of marriage — it's too much information and too negative," McGinty advises. Instead, trust that your age comes through in context. The real goal? Show who you are now and what excites you, and not just what you've lived through. Below, McGinty outlines the best dating app prompts for over-40 singles in Canada. According to McGinty, the best prompts for people 40+ reflect these themes: What you care about (volunteering, passions, values) Your second act — where you're going, not just where you've been How you spend your free time Bucket list dreams ('Yes, we start saying 'bucket list' at 40, not 60!" says McGinty.) Trips you've loved, especially intentional ones, says McGinty, like safaris with your teenagers or wellness retreats with your friends 'By 50, people aren't looking to go back to grad school,' she says. 'They're asking, 'How do I spend my time now that I have the freedom?' Prompts should reflect that evolution.' They're asking, 'How do I spend my time now that I have the freedom?' Prompts should reflect that McGinty, dating coach McGinty says the best prompts are the ones that show your personality, creativity and openness without sounding like a resumé or a therapy session. Here are a few standouts she recommends: 'The last thing I wrote in my phone notes was…' 'A shower thought I recently had…' 'My favourite places to travel are…' 'I'll buy the drinks if you tell me the two best pizza places in town.': McGinty loves this one because it 'encourages engagement' and gets people to message back. 'A little known fact about me is…': This is a real answer and people think they are getting the inside scoop on you,' she says. 'My friends ask me for advice about…': McGinty says this is a good window into what a person is an 'expert' on or what friends depend on them for — and can add to profile credibility. 'A typical Sunday for me looks like…': A fun glimpse into your downtime. 'What I'd like to change about the world…': 'This one shows that you think of something other than just yourself,' she says. And if a site's prompts feel too stiff for you, she suggests you don't have to answer them literally. 'Think like a politician — toss something fun in and show off your unique self.' According to McGinty, the most common (and avoidable) mistakes she sees from 40+ daters: Being too formal or long-winded: 'No one reads a novella.' Making lists: "10 traits I want in a partner' is overkill,' she says. 'Stick to two to three qualities max.' Writing nothing at all: 'This shows you're not serious," McGinty warns. Sounding too serious: 'Saying that you're 'looking for marriage' upfront is truthful but can hurt your response rate," she cautions. Instead you might want to say you're looking for a long-term relationship and save the marriage talk for an actual date. Using generic words: A reminder that describing yourself or a potential partner as 'fun, nice, or with sense of humour' says nothing. Bragging or sounding out of touch – While it's great to showcase your strengths and accomplishments, bragging is 'not a good look," says McGinty. Trying too hard to sound smart: 'It reads like you used a thesaurus or AI," she says. Being negative or desperate: Especially phrases like 'I can't believe I'm doing this. I always thought online dating was for losers." No date on your profile: McGinty recommends putting something like 'Updated June 2025' at the top of your profile. 'This way it feels current and not like you wrote it five years ago.' Before you hit 'publish' on your dating profile, McGinty suggests testing out your prompts by sending them out to three of your closest friends. 'Ask for five adjectives that describe you and use their words in your profile," she says. She also recommends getting feedback on your profile. 'Ask someone to read your profile and ask: 'Would you date me based on this?'' And be prepared to adjust according to their response. Above all, McGinty says the best dating prompts for over-40 singles are the ones that sound like you. 'Show that you've lived, and you're still curious, engaged and open. Keep your profile short, sweet and never a hint of negativity or desperation," she says. "Show that you're already enjoying your life, and you'd love to share it.'
Yahoo
28-01-2025
- Lifestyle
- Yahoo
50+, Divorced and Done with Cupid's Nonsense? Here's How to Crush Valentine's Day Anyway
PALM BEACH, Fla., Jan. 28, 2025 /PRNewswire/ -- Valentine's Day is a joyful occasion, but for millions of Americans 50+, it highlights feelings of isolation, especially those navigating life after divorce. Divorce rates among this demographic have doubled since the 1990s, and research shows divorced individuals 50+ are 55% more likely to feel lonely than married counterparts. Andrea McGinty, founder of It's Just Lunch, and author of the newly released book, 2nd Acts: Winning Strategies to Dating Over 50, offers a refreshing perspective: "Valentine's Day can be tough for the 50+ who feel invisible after a major life change. But it doesn't have to be. This stage is an opportunity to redefine love, self-discovery, build community, and embrace a second act in life." Loneliness Among Divorced Individuals Over 50 Statistics reveal a concerning trend: 55% More Likely to Feel Lonely: Divorced individuals 50+ experience significantly higher rates of loneliness than married peers. Living Alone: Nearly 30% of divorced or separated individuals 50+ live alone, contributing to feelings of isolation. Health Impacts: Chronic loneliness is linked to depression and physical health issues like cardiovascular disease. Valentine's Day amplifies these emotions. According to AARP, 82% of U.S. adults prefer to spend Valentine's Day with someone rather than alone, yet 75% of unmarried adults 50+ are not in a romantic relationship, making the holiday a particularly difficult time. Andrea's Guide to Thriving This Valentine's Day McGinty shares practical strategies for turning Valentine's Day into a celebration of self-love: Indulge in Retail Therapy: Visit the cosmetics counter at Nordstrom and treat yourself to something new. Guys, maybe it's time for a new fragrance? Repair a rift: Reach out to a loved one and mend any lingering issues. Remember that silly argument you had with your brother? Tell him you love him! Do something your ex hated: Order that Indian food she always complained about! Take the Love Language Quiz: It's free, fun plus it'll help you understand some of the profiles you see online! Be Proactive: Write a personal business plan for how you're going to change your love life. Hint: there's one in her new book. About 2nd Acts: Winning Strategies to Dating Over 50 Andrea McGinty's book is a hands-on, tech-savvy roadmap for finding love later in life. Packed with actionable worksheets, QR-coded video coaching, and practical advice, 2nd Acts empowers readers to navigate today's dating landscape with confidence. Unlike costly matchmaking services, this $35 guide provides affordable solutions to help readers rediscover connection. McGinty, often called the "Godmother of Matchmaking," has facilitated over 33,000 dates and 10,000+ marriages. Her expertise makes her a trusted voice for second-act daters seeking meaningful relationships. Like an NFL coaching tree, more than 40% of today's top 25 matchmakers trace their roots back to Andrea's pioneering techniques. Her influence has shaped the industry, creating a legacy in matchmaking. Visit to learn more. Media ContactKat Fleischman389402@ View original content to download multimedia: SOURCE Andrea McGinty of Sign in to access your portfolio
