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NZ Herald
2 days ago
- General
- NZ Herald
Advice: Should I see a sex therapist? I don't know how to satisfy my wife
This is such an interesting question, and must be the bread and butter of psychosexual therapists. As you say, you're in a rut. It's not a drought (you can both have sex if you desire to, even if it's unsatisfying) but it's gone off the boil and you're blaming yourself for the fact that when you make love, she knows what's coming next – and it's not her. I'm sure many couples will relate to your letter on a deep level. Let's face it: in a relationship that lasts more than a few months, or even years, sex can stop being the glue that sticks you together. As the decades pass, it can stop being the solvent that sunders you apart, too. To your great credit (you don't say how long you've been together), you have acknowledged the problem and want to tackle it. Or you want your partner to, it's not clear. Whatever, you want to get your sex life done, as if it's Brexit, or smashing the gangs. It may be more complicated than that. Or, indeed, more simple. It could be that you're just not that into each other. As I've said before, there is nothing so capricious as Cupid. We can have fantastic sex with people we despise and terrible sex with people we adore. Chemistry, innit. This is where, I suppose, stimulants and sex toys can play a role to bridge the animal attraction gap. I've deployed the experts to answer, and useful websites are at the end. Sophie Laybourne, a relationship therapist, says: 'An unsatisfying sexual experience is the best predictor of future unsatisfying ones, unless you take stock – because fearing that things will go wrong generally becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy in this particular department.' She suggests that old favourite – self-focus exercises: cuddling, soapy showers, stroking. 'They might then move on to graded sensate focus exercises, where penetrative sex is initially taken off the table and the hectic pursuit of orgasm replaced by no-pressure touching and stroking of different parts of the body,' she says. Sexual desire in the female is not 'uni-directional', and can be turned off by small things. Dirty sheets, even a bad haircut, can send a woman toppling backwards down the old 'Ladder of Desire'. To make sure you're on the same rung, you need to communicate. It's not always a simple case of, 'Go and brush your teeth, darling'; it's to do with accelerators and brakes too, she says. Accelerators can be a quiet dinner together where you ask her questions, laugh at her jokes, and listen. A brake is expecting her to be up for it when your mother-in-law is staying, children apt to break in at any moment and the dog barking. You know. Laybourne explains: 'Most women, as [American sex educator Emily] Nagoski points out, experience what's known as 'responsive desire', which means that they are not like three-day eventers waiting for the off but more likely to experience desire in response to something like, say, a fun night out with a man who asks them lots of questions about themselves and displays a side-splitting sense of humour.' It was the turn of the married therapists David and Ruth Kern next. 'The role of a sex therapist is to understand and work through various areas of a couple's life, to pinpoint where the block is and then help the couple work through this – often with the use of exercises, although this is not effective without the deeper psychological work first,' they say. 'Before any real work can start, it's important to rule out any underlying medical/biological problems that may affect sexual connections. If there are no underlying issues, then there is a need to look at and understand the psychological aspect to this problem' – stress, anxiety, depression, low self-esteem and, of course, loss of attraction. They dig deeper, too. This blockage could track back to your childhood, which is father to your adult attitudes to sex and relationships. 'A lot of psychological blockages to sexual connection can be due to loss of control: during orgasm, the body and mind have to completely let go to achieve climax. Losing control can be scary and feel vulnerable, thus 'not letting go'. It's understanding the deeper reasons for this that may include negative reinforcement of sex and relationships as a child; sexual abuse in any form; over-smothering from mother as a child; your personal space not being respected, which can lead to intimacy issues later on; or being raised in a family system where you felt unheard, unseen and not given choices.' Ah, the traditional, old-fashioned childhood, then, could be to blame for your shared experience of repression now, and the tendency of many to lie back and think of England for as long as it takes. The Kerns go on: 'With Jim and his partner, it will be good to work through the above points to see if some of their issues lie in those areas. This is about both of them and how they relate to each other sexually; unless there is a medical issue, both partners have a role in why their relationship is where it is. One thing that we do advise is to take sex off the table completely for a month or so. This takes the pressure off and gives some breathing room to talk and discuss what the underlying issues may be for them both.' Back to me. You say you love each other dearly. Have you ever talked about this issue, or is it too painful to acknowledge that you don't click in bed? My instinct is that it is something you can't change – love and sex not always being on the same page – but if you do love each other and want to stay together, that may be more important in the long run than the earth moving every time for you both. Oh yes, websites: to find a therapist working in your area, visit the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists' site: If face-to-face is not important, try for a psychosexual therapist to work with online. Thank you for your letter, Jim – you sound nice and, most importantly, kind.
Pink Villa
2 days ago
- Entertainment
- Pink Villa
Veer Pahariya comments on rumored girlfriend Tara Sutaria's PICS with AP Dhillon, calls actress 'my heart'
Tara Sutaria has been making headlines ever since her rumored relationship with Veer Pahariya came to the limelight. The lovebirds have not officially confirmed their dating, but their recent social media PDA tells a different story. It appears that they have subtly made their romance official with their comments on the actress's latest picture, and it is going viral for all the right reasons. Tara Sutaria's post on Instagram Taking to her Instagram handle, Tara Sutaria shared stunning pictures with AP Dhillon. Their chemistry in these sizzling pictures sure had everyone's attention. But what caught our eyeballs was Veer Pahariya's comment on these snaps. The Sky Force actor wrote 'My' with a star and a red heart emoji. Replying to this, the SOTY 2 actress wrote, 'Mine' with a red heart and an evil eye emoji. Now, if this is not a hint enough, then what is? The soft play in the comments section became the highlight of the post, and it's screaming love from every corner. In the pictures, we can see Sutaria sizzling in a golden backless short dress with side slits. The actress sports a short, wavy hairstyle and complements her look with long, dangling earrings. She wrapped the singer in her arms and held him with both her hands. Dhillon wore a crisp white shirt paired with black pants, and he held the actress by her waist. She captioned the picture as, 'Tu hi ae chann. Meri raat ae tu.' Tara Sutaria and AP Dhillon's collaboration Tara Sutaria and AP Dhillon had recently collaborated for a music video, Thodi Si Daaru. It was an instant hit amongst the fans, and the female vocals of Shreya Ghoshal touched hearts. Veer Pahariya-Tara Sutaria's dating rumors It was in May that ETimes first reported on their relationship. These two walked the ramp together for the first time at a fashion week in March. It is believed that Cupid struck them during that time. Earlier, Pahariya was rumored to be dating Manushi Chhillar, but the actress denied these claims. Fans can now only wait for an official confirmation from the two. However, it appears that love is in the air.
Time of India
5 days ago
- Business
- Time of India
Cupid shares zoom 10% in 3 days following strategic partnership to enter Middle East market
Cupid Ltd , one of India's leading manufacturers of health and personal care products, saw its shares rally by 10% over the past three days, reaching a new all-time high of Rs 147 on BSE today. This surge in stock price follows the company's announcement of a strategic investment in GII Healthcare Investment Ltd , a healthcare-focused investment vehicle managed by Gulf Islamic Investments (GII), on July 15. Explore courses from Top Institutes in Select a Course Category MCA Digital Marketing Product Management Management Data Analytics Healthcare MBA PGDM Data Science Project Management Artificial Intelligence Operations Management Design Thinking healthcare Technology Finance Leadership Degree others CXO Public Policy Others Cybersecurity Data Science Skills you'll gain: Programming Proficiency Data Handling & Analysis Cybersecurity Awareness & Skills Artificial Intelligence & Machine Learning Duration: 24 Months Vellore Institute of Technology VIT Master of Computer Applications Starts on Aug 14, 2024 Get Details by Taboola by Taboola Sponsored Links Sponsored Links Promoted Links Promoted Links You May Like No annual fees for life UnionBank Credit Card Apply Now Undo In the announcement, Cupid revealed its investment in GII Healthcare, which holds a significant minority equity stake in a prominent healthcare provider based in Saudi Arabia. GII, a leading investment firm with assets exceeding US$ 3.5 billion, operates across Saudi Arabia, the UAE, Europe, the USA, and India. This investment marks Cupid's first strategic foray into the Middle East, as the company diversifies into global markets with high growth potential. The company's CEO, in a statement, emphasized that the move reflects Cupid's long-term vision to drive new growth opportunities in international markets, with a focus on the healthcare and FMCG sectors. Live Events 'We are proud to invest in the healthcare-focused investment vehicle of GII in this landmark partnership. This investment represents a secure, dollar-denominated asset and lays the foundation for Cupid's entry into the Gulf region. Our personal care products align strongly with the patient demographic in the GCC, creating future synergies and huge distribution opportunities,' said Aditya Kumar Halwasiya, Chairman and Managing Director of Cupid. The company's strategic investment in GII Healthcare highlights its commitment to expanding its portfolio and accelerating growth in emerging markets. Cupid has been recognized for its innovative health and personal care products, including wellness and hygiene items, diagnostic kits, fragrances, hair oils, and other FMCG offerings. Also read: Motherson Sumi, Samvardhana Motherson International shares rise up to 4% on bonus share issue record date ( Disclaimer : Recommendations, suggestions, views and opinions given by the experts are their own. These do not represent the views of The Economic Times)
Business Upturn
5 days ago
- Business
- Business Upturn
Cupid shares surge 10% today on heavy volumes, double this year, nearly 20% up in a week — Know more
By Aditya Bhagchandani Published on July 18, 2025, 10:12 IST Shares of Cupid Ltd soared as much as 10% during Thursday's session to ₹146.04, extending its sharp rally this year. The stock, which is already up over 100% in 2025 so far, has gained nearly 20% in just the past week, supported by heavy volumes and strong investor sentiment. At around 10:10 AM, the stock was trading at ₹146, up 9.26% from its previous close of ₹133.66 on the NSE. The stock also touched a new 52-week high of ₹147 in early trade. What's driving the rally? Recently, Cupid Limited announced its first strategic investment in the Middle East healthcare sector, marking a milestone in its global expansion plans. The company invested in GII Healthcare Investment Limited, managed by Gulf Islamic Investments (GII), which oversees over $3.5 billion in assets and has a presence across Saudi Arabia, UAE, Europe, USA, and India. This healthcare investment vehicle holds a significant minority stake in a leading Saudi Arabian healthcare provider. Through this move, Cupid aims to tap into high-growth healthcare and wellness markets globally, aligning with its strategy of promoting preventive healthcare and expanding internationally. Cupid manufactures a wide range of health and personal care products, including hygiene items, diagnostic kits, fragrances, and other FMCG products. Management reiterated that this investment aligns with its long-term business strategy while remaining committed to shareholders' interests and responsible growth. Stock performance Today: +9.26% at ₹146.04 1 Week: ~+20% 6 Months: ~+103% Year-to-date (2025): more than doubled Investors appear upbeat on the company's prospects in new markets and its focus on healthcare, which has been reflected in the strong price action over recent months. Ahmedabad Plane Crash Aditya Bhagchandani serves as the Senior Editor and Writer at Business Upturn, where he leads coverage across the Business, Finance, Corporate, and Stock Market segments. With a keen eye for detail and a commitment to journalistic integrity, he not only contributes insightful articles but also oversees editorial direction for the reporting team.
Time of India
7 days ago
- Entertainment
- Time of India
The secret first date that changed everything: How Travis Kelce and Taylor Swift fell in love away from the spotlight
Travis Kelce & Taylor Swift's secret first date that changed everything (Image via TheImageDirect) Two years ago, Travis Kelce was just another NFL star shooting his shot with a pop icon. Now, he and Taylor Swift are celebrating two years of dating—a relationship that almost never began. Back in July 2023, Kelce attended Swift's Eras Tour stop in Kansas City, hoping to hand-deliver a friendship bracelet with his number on it. But when he failed to meet her backstage, he shared the disappointment publicly on his New Heights podcast. How Travis Kelce's podcast blunder caught Taylor Swift's attention Travis Kelce's viral podcast confession and a missed backstage moment at Taylor Swift's concert sparked a secret romance that quietly blossomed into a two-year love story few saw coming. Anyone know how to get a bracelet to Taylor Swift? … asking for a friend 😅 'I was a little butthurt I didn't get to hand her one of the bracelets I made for her,' Kelce confessed, noting Swift doesn't meet fans before or after shows. But that vulnerability may have been the key. As Swift later revealed in her TIME interview, 'It all started when Travis very adorably put me on blast on his podcast, which I thought was metal as hell.' Taylor Swift was freshly single—and paying attention Swift had just ended her brief relationship with Matty Healy and was navigating the aftermath of her breakup with longtime partner Joe Alwyn . On July 7, she posted to Instagram, 'Happy belated Independence Day from your local neighborhood independent girlies,' subtly signaling she was open to something new. by Taboola by Taboola Sponsored Links Sponsored Links Promoted Links Promoted Links You May Like Madonna's Daughter Steals the Spotlight with Her Gorgeous Red Carpet Look CleverClassic Undo The next day, Kelce showed up to her show. What he didn't know was that someone in Swift's circle was playing Cupid. 'There were definitely people she knew that knew who I was… I had somebody playing Cupid,' Kelce revealed later in a WSJ Magazine profile. One of those early helpers? Her cousins, who snapped pictures near his locker at Arrowhead Stadium. A secret New York date sparked a private start to their love story Weeks later, while Swift was in between tour stops, the two finally met in New York City. 'When I met her in New York, we had already kind of been talking,' Kelce recalled. Their low-key dinner helped the couple avoid public pressure and grow closer without outside noise. 'By the time I went to that first game [in September], we were a couple,' Swift shared, dismissing speculation that their Arrowhead Stadium outing was their first date. 'We would never be psychotic enough to hard launch a first date.' Also Read: Will Travis Kelce and Taylor Swift attend Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco's wedding or dodge the spotlight? Now, with two years behind them, it's clear Kelce's bold move paid off. 'You miss 100 percent of [the shots] you don't take, baby,' he said on New Heights. Turns out, one bracelet and one viral moment turned into a love story for the ages. Catch Rani Rampal's inspiring story on Game On, Episode 4. Watch Here!
