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08-07-2025
Srebrenica women bury loved ones but remain haunted by memories of 1995 massacre
SREBRENICA, Bosnia-Herzegovina -- Three decades after their fathers, brothers, husbands and sons were killed in the bloodiest episode of the Bosnian war, women who survived the Srebrenica massacre find some solace in having been able to unearth their loved ones from far-away mass graves and bury them individually at the town's memorial cemetery. The women say that living near the graves reminds them not only of the tragedy but of their love and perseverance in seeking justice for the men they lost. 'I found peace here, in the proximity of my loved ones," said Fadila Efendic, 74, who returned to her family home in 2002, seven years after being driven away from Srebrenica and witnessing her husband and son being taken away to be killed. The Srebrenica killings were the crescendo of Bosnia's 1992-95 war, which came after the breakup of Yugoslavia unleashed nationalist passions and territorial ambitions that set Bosnian Serbs against the country's two other main ethnic populations — Croats and Bosniaks. On July 11, 1995, Serbs overran Srebrenica, at the time a U.N.-protected safe area. They separated at least 8,000 Bosniak men and boys from their wives, mothers and sisters and slaughtered them. Those who tried to escape were chased through the woods and over the mountains around town. Bosniak women and children were packed onto buses and expelled. The executioners tried to erase the evidence of their crime, plowing the bodies into hastily dug mass graves and scattering them among other burial sites. As soon as the war was over, Efendic and other women like her vowed to find their loved ones, bring them back and give them a proper burial. 'At home, often, especially at dusk, I imagine that they are still around, that they went out to go to work and that they will come back,' Efendic said, adding: 'That idea, that they will return, that I am near them, is what keeps me going.' To date, almost 90% of those reported missing since the Srebrenica massacre have been accounted for through their remains exhumed from hundreds of mass graves scattered around the eastern town. Body parts are still being found in death pits around Srebrenica and identified through painstaking DNA analysis. So far, the remains of more than 6,700 people – including Efendic's husband and son - have been found in several different mass graves and reburied at the memorial cemetery inaugurated in Srebrenica in 2003 at the relentless insistence of the women. 'We wrote history in white marble headstones and that is our success,' said Kada Hotic, who lost her husband, son and 56 other male relatives in the massacre. 'Despite the fact that our hearts shiver when we speak about our sons, our husbands, our brothers, our people, our town, we refused to let (what happened to) them be forgotten.' The Srebrenica carnage has been declared a genocide by two U.N. courts. Dozens of Srebrenica women testified before the U.N. war crimes tribunal for the former Yugoslavia, helping put behind bars close to 50 Bosnian Serb wartime officials, collectively sentenced to over 700 years in prison. After decades of fighting to keep the truth about Srebrenica alive, the women now spend their days looking at scarce mementos of their former lives, imagining the world that could have been. Sehida Abdurahmanovic, who lost dozens of male relatives in the massacre, including her husband and her brother, often stares at a few family photos, two handwritten notes from her spouse and some personal documents she managed to take with her in 1995. 'I put these on the table to refresh my memories, to bring back to life what I used to have,' she said. 'Since 1995, we have been struggling with what we survived and we can never, not even for a single day, be truly relaxed.' Suhra Malic, 90, who lost two sons and 30 other male relatives, is also haunted by the memories. 'It is not a small feat to give birth to children, to raise them, see them get married and build them a house of their own and then, just as they move out and start a life of independence, you lose them, they are gone and there is nothing you can do about it,' Malic said. Summers in Srebrenica are difficult, especially as July 11, the anniversary of the day the killing began in 1995, approaches. In her own words, Mejra Djogaz 'used to be a happy mother' to three sons, and now, 'I look around myself and I am all alone, I have no one.' 'Not a single night or day goes by that I do not wake up at two or three after midnight and start thinking about how they died,' she said. Aisa Omerovic agrees. Her husband, two sons and 42 other male relatives were killed in the massacre. Alone at home, she said she often hears the footsteps of her children and imagines them walking into the room. 'I wait for the door to open; I know that it won't open, but still, I wait.'
Hamilton Spectator
08-07-2025
- Hamilton Spectator
Srebrenica women bury loved ones but remain haunted by memories of 1995 massacre
SREBRENICA, Bosnia-Herzegovina (AP) — Three decades after their fathers, brothers, husbands and sons were killed in the bloodiest episode of the Bosnian war, women who survived the Srebrenica massacre find some solace in having been able to unearth their loved ones from far-away mass graves and bury them individually at the town's memorial cemetery. The women say that living near the graves reminds them not only of the tragedy but of their love and perseverance in seeking justice for the men they lost. 'I found peace here, in the proximity of my loved ones,' said Fadila Efendic, 74, who returned to her family home in 2002, seven years after being driven away from Srebrenica and witnessing her husband and son being taken away to be killed. The Srebrenica killings were the crescendo of Bosnia's 1992-95 war, which came after the breakup of Yugoslavia unleashed nationalist passions and territorial ambitions that set Bosnian Serbs against the country's two other main ethnic populations — Croats and Bosniaks. On July 11, 1995, Serbs overran Srebrenica, at the time a U.N.-protected safe area. They separated at least 8,000 Bosniak men and boys from their wives, mothers and sisters and slaughtered them. Those who tried to escape were chased through the woods and over the mountains around town. Bosniak women and children were packed onto buses and expelled. The executioners tried to erase the evidence of their crime, plowing the bodies into hastily dug mass graves and scattering them among other burial sites. Mothers have sought the remains of loved ones for years As soon as the war was over, Efendic and other women like her vowed to find their loved ones, bring them back and give them a proper burial. 'At home, often, especially at dusk, I imagine that they are still around, that they went out to go to work and that they will come back,' Efendic said, adding: 'That idea, that they will return, that I am near them, is what keeps me going.' To date, almost 90% of those reported missing since the Srebrenica massacre have been accounted for through their remains exhumed from hundreds of mass graves scattered around the eastern town. Body parts are still being found in death pits around Srebrenica and identified through painstaking DNA analysis. So far, the remains of more than 6,700 people – including Efendic's husband and son - have been found in several different mass graves and reburied at the memorial cemetery inaugurated in Srebrenica in 2003 at the relentless insistence of the women. 'We wrote history in white marble headstones and that is our success,' said Kada Hotic, who lost her husband, son and 56 other male relatives in the massacre. 'Despite the fact that our hearts shiver when we speak about our sons, our husbands, our brothers, our people, our town, we refused to let (what happened to) them be forgotten.' The Srebrenica carnage has been declared a genocide by two U.N. courts. Dozens of Srebrenica women testified before the U.N. war crimes tribunal for the former Yugoslavia, helping put behind bars close to 50 Bosnian Serb wartime officials, collectively sentenced to over 700 years in prison. The loss that never goes away After decades of fighting to keep the truth about Srebrenica alive, the women now spend their days looking at scarce mementos of their former lives, imagining the world that could have been. Sehida Abdurahmanovic, who lost dozens of male relatives in the massacre, including her husband and her brother, often stares at a few family photos, two handwritten notes from her spouse and some personal documents she managed to take with her in 1995. 'I put these on the table to refresh my memories, to bring back to life what I used to have,' she said. 'Since 1995, we have been struggling with what we survived and we can never, not even for a single day, be truly relaxed.' Suhra Malic, 90, who lost two sons and 30 other male relatives, is also haunted by the memories. 'It is not a small feat to give birth to children, to raise them, see them get married and build them a house of their own and then, just as they move out and start a life of independence, you lose them, they are gone and there is nothing you can do about it,' Malic said. Summers in Srebrenica are difficult, especially as July 11, the anniversary of the day the killing began in 1995, approaches. In her own words, Mejra Djogaz 'used to be a happy mother' to three sons, and now, 'I look around myself and I am all alone, I have no one.' 'Not a single night or day goes by that I do not wake up at two or three after midnight and start thinking about how they died,' she said. Aisa Omerovic agrees. Her husband, two sons and 42 other male relatives were killed in the massacre. Alone at home, she said she often hears the footsteps of her children and imagines them walking into the room. 'I wait for the door to open; I know that it won't open, but still, I wait.' Error! Sorry, there was an error processing your request. There was a problem with the recaptcha. Please try again. You may unsubscribe at any time. By signing up, you agree to our terms of use and privacy policy . This site is protected by reCAPTCHA and the Google privacy policy and terms of service apply. Want more of the latest from us? Sign up for more at our newsletter page .
San Francisco Chronicle
08-07-2025
- San Francisco Chronicle
Srebrenica women bury loved ones but remain haunted by memories of 1995 massacre
SREBRENICA, Bosnia-Herzegovina (AP) — Three decades after their fathers, brothers, husbands and sons were killed in the bloodiest episode of the Bosnian war, women who survived the Srebrenica massacre find some solace in having been able to unearth their loved ones from far-away mass graves and bury them individually at the town's memorial cemetery. The women say that living near the graves reminds them not only of the tragedy but of their love and perseverance in seeking justice for the men they lost. 'I found peace here, in the proximity of my loved ones," said Fadila Efendic, 74, who returned to her family home in 2002, seven years after being driven away from Srebrenica and witnessing her husband and son being taken away to be killed. The Srebrenica killings were the crescendo of Bosnia's 1992-95 war, which came after the breakup of Yugoslavia unleashed nationalist passions and territorial ambitions that set Bosnian Serbs against the country's two other main ethnic populations — Croats and Bosniaks. On July 11, 1995, Serbs overran Srebrenica, at the time a U.N.-protected safe area. They separated at least 8,000 Bosniak men and boys from their wives, mothers and sisters and slaughtered them. Those who tried to escape were chased through the woods and over the mountains around town. Bosniak women and children were packed onto buses and expelled. The executioners tried to erase the evidence of their crime, plowing the bodies into hastily dug mass graves and scattering them among other burial sites. As soon as the war was over, Efendic and other women like her vowed to find their loved ones, bring them back and give them a proper burial. 'At home, often, especially at dusk, I imagine that they are still around, that they went out to go to work and that they will come back,' Efendic said, adding: 'That idea, that they will return, that I am near them, is what keeps me going.' To date, almost 90% of those reported missing since the Srebrenica massacre have been accounted for through their remains exhumed from hundreds of mass graves scattered around the eastern town. Body parts are still being found in death pits around Srebrenica and identified through painstaking DNA analysis. So far, the remains of more than 6,700 people – including Efendic's husband and son - have been found in several different mass graves and reburied at the memorial cemetery inaugurated in Srebrenica in 2003 at the relentless insistence of the women. 'We wrote history in white marble headstones and that is our success,' said Kada Hotic, who lost her husband, son and 56 other male relatives in the massacre. 'Despite the fact that our hearts shiver when we speak about our sons, our husbands, our brothers, our people, our town, we refused to let (what happened to) them be forgotten.' The Srebrenica carnage has been declared a genocide by two U.N. courts. Dozens of Srebrenica women testified before the U.N. war crimes tribunal for the former Yugoslavia, helping put behind bars close to 50 Bosnian Serb wartime officials, collectively sentenced to over 700 years in prison. The loss that never goes away After decades of fighting to keep the truth about Srebrenica alive, the women now spend their days looking at scarce mementos of their former lives, imagining the world that could have been. Sehida Abdurahmanovic, who lost dozens of male relatives in the massacre, including her husband and her brother, often stares at a few family photos, two handwritten notes from her spouse and some personal documents she managed to take with her in 1995. 'I put these on the table to refresh my memories, to bring back to life what I used to have,' she said. 'Since 1995, we have been struggling with what we survived and we can never, not even for a single day, be truly relaxed.' Suhra Malic, 90, who lost two sons and 30 other male relatives, is also haunted by the memories. 'It is not a small feat to give birth to children, to raise them, see them get married and build them a house of their own and then, just as they move out and start a life of independence, you lose them, they are gone and there is nothing you can do about it,' Malic said. Summers in Srebrenica are difficult, especially as July 11, the anniversary of the day the killing began in 1995, approaches. In her own words, Mejra Djogaz 'used to be a happy mother' to three sons, and now, 'I look around myself and I am all alone, I have no one.' 'Not a single night or day goes by that I do not wake up at two or three after midnight and start thinking about how they died,' she said. Aisa Omerovic agrees. Her husband, two sons and 42 other male relatives were killed in the massacre. Alone at home, she said she often hears the footsteps of her children and imagines them walking into the room. 'I wait for the door to open; I know that it won't open, but still, I wait.'
Winnipeg Free Press
08-07-2025
- Winnipeg Free Press
Srebrenica women bury loved ones but remain haunted by memories of 1995 massacre
SREBRENICA, Bosnia-Herzegovina (AP) — Three decades after their fathers, brothers, husbands and sons were killed in the bloodiest episode of the Bosnian war, women who survived the Srebrenica massacre find some solace in having been able to unearth their loved ones from far-away mass graves and bury them individually at the town's memorial cemetery. The women say that living near the graves reminds them not only of the tragedy but of their love and perseverance in seeking justice for the men they lost. 'I found peace here, in the proximity of my loved ones,' said Fadila Efendic, 74, who returned to her family home in 2002, seven years after being driven away from Srebrenica and witnessing her husband and son being taken away to be killed. The Srebrenica killings were the crescendo of Bosnia's 1992-95 war, which came after the breakup of Yugoslavia unleashed nationalist passions and territorial ambitions that set Bosnian Serbs against the country's two other main ethnic populations — Croats and Bosniaks. On July 11, 1995, Serbs overran Srebrenica, at the time a U.N.-protected safe area. They separated at least 8,000 Bosniak men and boys from their wives, mothers and sisters and slaughtered them. Those who tried to escape were chased through the woods and over the mountains around town. Bosniak women and children were packed onto buses and expelled. The executioners tried to erase the evidence of their crime, plowing the bodies into hastily dug mass graves and scattering them among other burial sites. Mothers have sought the remains of loved ones for years As soon as the war was over, Efendic and other women like her vowed to find their loved ones, bring them back and give them a proper burial. 'At home, often, especially at dusk, I imagine that they are still around, that they went out to go to work and that they will come back,' Efendic said, adding: 'That idea, that they will return, that I am near them, is what keeps me going.' To date, almost 90% of those reported missing since the Srebrenica massacre have been accounted for through their remains exhumed from hundreds of mass graves scattered around the eastern town. Body parts are still being found in death pits around Srebrenica and identified through painstaking DNA analysis. So far, the remains of more than 6,700 people – including Efendic's husband and son – have been found in several different mass graves and reburied at the memorial cemetery inaugurated in Srebrenica in 2003 at the relentless insistence of the women. 'We wrote history in white marble headstones and that is our success,' said Kada Hotic, who lost her husband, son and 56 other male relatives in the massacre. 'Despite the fact that our hearts shiver when we speak about our sons, our husbands, our brothers, our people, our town, we refused to let (what happened to) them be forgotten.' The Srebrenica carnage has been declared a genocide by two U.N. courts. Dozens of Srebrenica women testified before the U.N. war crimes tribunal for the former Yugoslavia, helping put behind bars close to 50 Bosnian Serb wartime officials, collectively sentenced to over 700 years in prison. The loss that never goes away After decades of fighting to keep the truth about Srebrenica alive, the women now spend their days looking at scarce mementos of their former lives, imagining the world that could have been. Sehida Abdurahmanovic, who lost dozens of male relatives in the massacre, including her husband and her brother, often stares at a few family photos, two handwritten notes from her spouse and some personal documents she managed to take with her in 1995. 'I put these on the table to refresh my memories, to bring back to life what I used to have,' she said. 'Since 1995, we have been struggling with what we survived and we can never, not even for a single day, be truly relaxed.' Suhra Malic, 90, who lost two sons and 30 other male relatives, is also haunted by the memories. 'It is not a small feat to give birth to children, to raise them, see them get married and build them a house of their own and then, just as they move out and start a life of independence, you lose them, they are gone and there is nothing you can do about it,' Malic said. Summers in Srebrenica are difficult, especially as July 11, the anniversary of the day the killing began in 1995, approaches. In her own words, Mejra Djogaz 'used to be a happy mother' to three sons, and now, 'I look around myself and I am all alone, I have no one.' 'Not a single night or day goes by that I do not wake up at two or three after midnight and start thinking about how they died,' she said. Aisa Omerovic agrees. Her husband, two sons and 42 other male relatives were killed in the massacre. Alone at home, she said she often hears the footsteps of her children and imagines them walking into the room. 'I wait for the door to open; I know that it won't open, but still, I wait.'
Middle East Eye
02-07-2025
- Politics
- Middle East Eye
Srebrenica survivors draw parallels with Gaza 30 years after massacre
Ahmed Hrustanovic is a 39-year-old imam from Srebrenica, a town in Bosnia Herzegovina that became notorious after at least 8,000 Bosnian Muslim men and boys were summarily executed by Serb forces in July 1995. He was nine at the time, and living in an accommodation centre for displaced people near the city of Tuzla, having been deported from Srebrenica in 1993 with his mother and sister. But the vast majority of Ahmed's family, including his father, remained in Srebrenica. He recalls the fear everyone felt for their loved ones upon hearing the news that Srebrenica had fallen to Serb forces. 'It was clear to us all what was about to happen to our loved ones,' he said, speaking to Middle East Eye at the mosque in the centre of the town where he works. New MEE newsletter: Jerusalem Dispatch Sign up to get the latest insights and analysis on Israel-Palestine, alongside Turkey Unpacked and other MEE newsletters Thirty years on from the killings, widely branded a genocide, Hrustanovic sees parallels in Israel's attack on Gaza - also widely assessed by genocide scholars to be a genocide. 'We were in that situation where they [Serb and Croat forces] were attacking from all sides, and they wouldn't let us defend ourselves," he said, referring to the international community. 'Unfortunately, we're witnesses that the international community does not exist the way we're used to - that it would stand on the side of justice, democracy. Democracy no longer exists in the world; you can see that it's only the law of the strongest that counts,' he told MEE. Fadila Efendic, the 84-year-old president of the Mothers of Srebrenica association, always thought that what took place at Srebrenica would be the last of its kind. 'But politics are terrible,' she told Middle East Eye from her house in Potocari, the village in Srebrenica that now hosts a memorial centre for the killings. 'The interests of great powers are paid for by small people with their lives. [The great powers] want to rule the world." Ahmed Hrustanovic in front of his mosque in Srebrenica, Bosnia (Mersih Agadzo/MEE) Just as the international community did not react in Bosnia, they're also not responding to the genocide in Gaza, she said. 'They work against [ordinary] people just for the interests of [annexing] territory - killing people and expelling them. It won't end well,' she said. Efendic recalled the heavy shooting and shelling from all sides by Serb forces on 11 July 1995; it was difficult just to reach the UN base in Potocari alive and seek refuge. People were panicking and no one knew what to do. 'It was the so-called 'protected zone', but every day they were shelling. What did [the UN] protect? They only protected Serbs. They handed us over to them to be killed,' she said. Efendic recalled how quickly Serb forces were killing people, while Dutch UN troops did not intervene to stop them, something that would lead to an apology from the Netherlands government in July 2022. 'The ones that survived worked as translators. The medics working in the emergency - all the men were killed. Whoever [from the men] came to Potocari did not survive. One moment you see the man, you're talking to him. The next moment, you turn around and ask where he is, they say: 'They took him, they killed him.'' 'Most heinous' crimes From 1992 until 1995, Bosnia was ripped apart as different communities fought to carve out ethnic enclaves, often with the support of neighbouring states. In September 1991 the UN Security Council had already imposed an arms embargo on the nations of the former Yugoslavia, including Bosnia, to prevent violence from escalating. 'Today that's the only language that's understood in the world - the language of force' - Ahmed Hrustanovic, Imam But, in reality, the embargo left Bosnia's population defenceless and unprepared, while Bosnian Serb forces - including paramilitaries from Serbia - were already heavily armed, having inherited the weaponry of the Yugoslav army, the fourth strongest army in Europe at the time. On 11 July 1995, Serb atrocities culminated in a genocide at Srebrenica. That day, Bosnian Serb general Ratko Mladic - now a convicted war criminal, jailed for life in The Hague - announced to the TV cameras while walking down the street: 'Here we are … in Serb Srebrenica. On the eve of yet another Serb holiday, we give this town to the Serb people as a gift. 'The time has come to take revenge on the Turks in this region,' he said, referring to Muslims who had long been seen by Serbian nationalists as synonymous with the former power. The torture and mass killings of Bosnian Muslim civilians that ensued that week under Mladic's command were later described by presiding judge Alphons Orie at the International Criminal Tribunal for former Yugoslavia (ICTY) in The Hague as 'among the most heinous known to humankind'. Western media enabling Gaza genocide and rewriting history, say experts Read More » In the ensuing days, as buses of deported women and children arrived in Dubrave or Kladanj near Tuzla, in free territory, Hrustanovic's mother would travel the 40km every day to ask survivors if anyone knew anything about her family's whereabouts. There was a column of men and boys who tried to escape through the surrounding forest and trek the difficult journey on foot to Tuzla, more than 100km away, but it was only a small minority that survived, as they were exposed to constant shelling and ambushes by Serb forces and police. 'As each day passed, there was less and less hope that they would arrive alive,' Hrustanovic said. It wasn't until 2007 that Hrustanovic received a call from the International Commission on Missing Persons (ICMP), informing him that the skeletal remains of his father, Rifet, and one of his uncles had been found. Rifet's remains were discovered in four separate mass graves, as Serb forces had dug out the graves following execution and transferred the bodies with bulldozers to multiple sites, in an attempt to hide the killings. Hrustanovic listed more of his family members found over the years - his grandfathers' bodies were found whole, and Serb forces caught one of his uncles, only 16 at the time, and killed him on the spot just above the memorial centre in Potocari. In total, Serb forces had killed more than 50 members of his family. 'Of course international court rulings and [UN] resolutions make it easier to tell our story of genocide, but it's not a guarantee that another genocide won't happen here again,' he said. 'That's always an option - unless you're a strong nation militarily, and you have an army that will protect you. Today, that's the only language that's understood in the world - the language of force… no one understands anything other than that. 'That's how it's been throughout history; examples of tolerance are few.' 'Interests of great powers' In 1998 the remains of Efendic's husband were found without a skull in a secondary mass grave. A decade later, two bones of her son's leg were found in a village by Zvornik, 53km north of Srebrenica. Unable to find any more remains, she buried his two bones in 2013 in the memorial cemetery next to her husband. The genocide is considered one of the UN's most shameful failures. Kofi Annan, then under-secretary-general for peacekeeping, later said that Srebrenica would haunt the UN's history. A decade ago, former Dutch Defence Minister Joris Voorhoeve accused the US, UK and France of reaching a secret deal with the Serbs to not conduct air attacks, even though this was promised to the UN peacekeepers. In 2017 the ICTY sentenced Mladic to life in prison, for genocide and war crimes committed in Bosnia in the early 1990s. Fadila Efendic at her home in Potocari, Srebrenica (Mersih Agadzo/MEE) But genocide denial and glorification of convicted war criminals is still common in Serb society, politics and media, both in the Bosnian enclave of Republika Srpska and in Serbia itself. For Hrustanovic, the dream was always to return home to Srebrenica. He did so in 2014 and now lives there with his wife and five children. From a pre-war population of 30,000, there are now only around 2,000 Bosnian Muslims living in the town. But from all the 'ethnically cleansed' towns by the Serbian border, from Bijeljina in the north down to Foca in the south, Srebrenica still has the most Bosnian Muslim children, he said. 'The killing of an innocent man, you can feel it in the air. Wherever innocent people were killed, no one can build a new life there and erase what happened," he said. "That's impossible - these hills felt the pain; these hills are full of blood, and they will always testify about what happened.' Following July 1995, the world pledged 'never again', but Israel's war on Gaza now continues for the 22nd month, with more than 56,000 people killed, according to Gaza's Health Ministry. In March 2024, US President Donald Trump's son-in-law Jared Kushner said Gaza's 'waterfront could be very valuable' and that he would do his best to move local Palestinians from there 'and then clean it up'. Trump echoed this sentiment, saying that Gaza could become 'the Riviera of the Middle East'. For Hrustanovic, this is simply 'not the nature of things. You can't kill innocent people, exhaust them and then build over their graves and destroyed homes a paradise of your own, with your own houses, mansions, and expect to be happy,' he said. 'No universal order can tolerate that, no normal human reason can stand it. We really sympathise with our brothers in Gaza and Palestine, and wherever innocent people are being killed.'
