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The Irish Sun
13-07-2025
- Entertainment
- The Irish Sun
Women expect me to be a stallion in bed because I'm fit & sporty… but I've never lasted longer than a MINUTE during sex
AN ex of mine had an unusual tactic for helping him last longer in the sack. While at first I wasn't sure, I have to hand it to him - there was method to his madness. 5 Sun Sexpert Georgie Culley will be answering your biggest sex dilemmas Credit: Olivia West 5 Georgie Culley tells how an ex lover used to play classical music to last longer in bed Credit: Olivia West Did he use the technique of edging? Did he douse his member in men's climax delay spray? While all those are great ways to last longer in the sack, the answer is no - he actually listened to classical music to hit my, ahem, high notes. In my new no holds barred series, I'll be answering YOUR biggest This week one reader opens up about how Got a sex dilemma of your own? Pop your question in the form above and I'll answer it. Q. I'm a 23 year old man and I've never lasted longer than a minute in bed. As I'm sporty and fit, women always expect me to have tons of stamina and in reality I'm a total flop. I recently made the mistake of confiding in my mates and they now call me 'One Minute Dan'. I laugh it off in the pub but it's actually destroying every aspect of my life. Is there anything I can do to last longer between the sheets? It's ruined every relationship I've had. Georgie says: It's no surprise this is causing you huge distress, in and out of the bedroom. Georgie answers your sex questions - Tips for tiny Peckers You're fit, sporty, and women are expecting you to be a stallion between the sheets. The pressure can be immense. That "One Minute Dan" nickname? Not helpful. Banter aside, it's chipped away at your confidence, and that kind of Don't panic. PE is very common in younger men and often caused by psychological issues and performance anxiety. It doesn't define your worth or what you can offer in a relationship but I understand you want to last longer. Here are some steps you can take to tackle the issue... Rule out any medical issues If you're experiencing any problems in the bedroom then it's always a good idea to consult a GP first and just rule out any underlying medical issues. Sometimes erectile dysfunction can be caused by an underlying condition, or Focus on foreplay I've said it before and I'll say it again: good sex isn't just about penetrative sex. We need to forget that outdated notion. If you ask most women what makes them orgasm, it isn't intercourse. Most women need clitoral stimulation to climax, so spend about 15 minutes on foreplay, as most women need about 14 minutes of sexual stimulation to orgasm. Sex toys aren't cheating Some men get a little offended when women bring sex toys into the bedroom - but it's time to ditch the ridiculous idea that toys equal a "cheating orgasm". They don't. What they do offer is a brilliant way to help women reach climax. Think of them as a helping hand during foreplay or sex - not a replacement, but a teammate. Ditch boozing 5 Sun Sexpert Georgie Culley says alcohol can wreak havoc down below Credit: Olivia West It's no secret that too much booze can wreak havoc between the sheets - especially when it comes to lift off. Men who are dependent on alcohol have a 60 to 70 per cent chance of suffering from erectile dysfunction, with premature ejaculation and a To stay harder than a Sunday Times crossword, ditch drinking before getting busy in the bedroom. Edging This is a brilliant technique to help guys suffering from PE and help them last longer than a Bridgerton boxset. During masturbation or sex, stop stimulation just before ejaculation. Wait until the urge to climax fades, then start again. Repeat this three to four times before orgasm and it will help you last longer after time. Without the pressure to climax quickly, edging can remove performance anxiety, creating a more relaxed and enjoyable experience in the bedroom. Top tip: edging isn't just for men — women can seriously benefit from it, too. By getting close to orgasm, then backing off before going all the way, you can build up even more intense pleasure. Personally, if I'm after a longer, stronger climax, I'll use edging during sex as well. Use the squeezing technique 5 Georgie recommends speaking to your GP to rule out any underlying issues that could be causing premature ejaculation Credit: Getty This technique is simple but seriously effective. When close to climax, gently squeeze the base of the penis for a few seconds. This can delay ejaculation by reducing arousal. It works better with a partner's cooperation, so don't be afraid to talk about what you're going to do beforehand to stop any awkward moments later. After all, communication is the key to great sex. Wear desensitising condoms Not only are condoms great for practising safe sex but if you're suffering from PE they're a great way to reduce sensation. Opt for thicker ones and ones with numbing agents (benzocaine or lidocaine) to help you last longer. Try Boots Ultra Endurance Condoms - a 12-pack costs £8.99. Try a delay spray These days there's a sex aid for just about everything in the bedroom - and I'm all for using them. One of my ex-lovers swore by delay spray and had zero shame about it. Around 10 minutes before sex he'd get me to spray him down, and we actually made it part of our foreplay routine, usually after a sensual massage. It became less of a performance tool and more of a turn-on for both of us. Try Lovehoney's Tauro Extra Strong Delay Spray for Men (£16.99). Make a sex playlist While music can't directly stop PE, it can help distract from performance anxiety. Listening to your favourite tunes can boost mood, reduce stress and anxiety, and potentially increase endurance. One of my exes - who could last for hours between the sheets - used to swear by a bit of Beethoven. He said it helped him last longer than one of his symphonies, and he didn't just help me hit the high notes - he composed a masterpiece. For more sex advice follow Georgie on Instagram 5 Georgie Culley says edging can be a brilliant way for guys to last longer in bed Credit: Olivia West Meet our sexpert In her eight years at The Sun, there's not much our Georgie hasn't seen - or done - and she's loved every outrageous minute. "People often ask how I became a sexpert," she says. "Well, I've been fascinated by sex and relationships for as long as I can remember. "As a teen, I devoured women's mags full of scandalous confessions and steamy tips - and I was obsessed with Sex and the City . "Maybe I was manifesting my inner Carrie Bradshaw from day one. "I'd always dreamed of working at The Sun - and when I finally landed the job, I found my niche fast: going to sex parties and oversharing about my frequently chaotic love life. "Over the years, I've built real trust within the kink and swinging community and I've interviewed hundreds of people about their sex lives. "Add to that my own, um, 'field research,' and let's just say I know what makes good sex great." Georgie says being a sexpert is about having life experience, curiosity, a sense of humour - and plenty of adventures along the way. "There's not much that shocks me these days," she continues. "Except maybe a man who doesn't believe in foreplay. "But nothing makes me happier than hearing a reader say my advice helped them feel more confident (and satisfied) in bed. "Now I'll be answering your burning sex questions - and dishing out practical advice to help get you back in the saddle."
The Sun
23-06-2025
- Entertainment
- The Sun
The best sex toys for women, tested by The Sun's Sexpert
WHO says you need a partner for a summer of love? All you need is a well-stocked top drawer — because self-love has never been more on trend. Despite this, only a third of women own a vibrator. If you're not one of them, what are you waiting for? And if you've already got one buzzing away, there's always room to upgrade with the latest pleasure tech. Because solo sessions should be just as satisfying as the real deal, if not better. From air-suction toys to remote-controlled love eggs, there's a whole world beyond the basic buzz — and some sizzling deals to snap up too. Whether it's for solo play or more play, Sun Sexpert Georgie Culley has selected the best sex toys for women to get your summer sizzling, in more ways than one. Womanizer Enhance Womanizer Enhance Pleasure Air Vibrator, £149 from Lovehoney BUY HERE Pros: Uses both air suction and vibrations, endless combinations of air, vibration and pattern settings, waterproof, five-year guarantee Cons: Expensive, the charger is a bit fiddly At this price point, this is for those who prioritise pleasure. But with a reported 100% orgasm rate in user testing, this little gadget is well worth the splurge. The key to the Womanizer's success is its dual action, utilising both air suction and vibrations. And if that doesn't do the trick, there are over 1000 combinations of the toy's air, vibration and pattern options to play with. The magnetic charger can be a little bit fiddly to get the hang of at first, but the 120-minute battery life more than makes up for this. Waterproof, rechargeable and with a five-year guarantee, this pricey vibrator means business in the bedroom. Smilemakers The Artist The Artist, £119.95 from Smile Makers Smile Makers has reinvented the wheel with this rabbit-style vibrator — but in this case, that's definitely a good thing. Named The Artist (a nod to French surrealist René Magritte), this toy brings a certain je ne sais quoi to your solo sessions. It's a luxury product through and through, and with its sleek design and 30-degree flexibility, it's in a class of its own when it comes to delivering climaxes. At this price point, you'd expect it to perform, and it doesn't disappoint. With nine vibration settings and pressure-sensitive sides that let you adjust intensity with a squeeze, it's intuitive, elegant, and seriously effective. Fully waterproof, rechargeable and complete with a satin storage bag, it's a must-have for anyone who likes their pleasure with a side of Parisian chic. Moregasm+ Petite Pebble Moregasm+ Petite Pebble Vibrator, £38 from Ann Summers Pros: Affordable, small and discreet design makes it perfect for holidays, delivers better orgasms than an average bullet vibrator Cons: Short battery life, can be slippery when wet This clitoral vibe might be pocket-sized, but it packs a powerful punch, and it's discreet enough to slip in your suitcase for some holiday hanky-panky. It may be small, but when it comes to satisfaction, it's seriously mighty. As well as having three power settings and three pulse patterns, this device is designed for maximum contact making for stronger orgasms than your average bullet. Its battery life may let it down a little, but a USB charger means the Moregasm couldn't be easier to get going again. If you're using it with a lot of lube, this vibrator can be a little slippery when wet, but it's nothing you won't get used to with a bit of practice. And trust me, practising with the Moregasm is no chore. Dame Fin Finger Vibrator Cons: Can get a little noisy The Fin easily slips between your fingers and is endlessly versatile, whether you're going it alone or with a partner. On your own, this water-resistant vibrator is perfect for use in the shower. And between the sheets, you can remove the finger tether if you choose. Its three settings do the job if you need an extra boost during penetrative sex with your partner, and speed things up if you fancy a quickie. Its battery lasts 90 minutes, which is more than enough, and it's easily recharged with a USB. The highest setting can get a little noisy, but giving it a go under the sheets can help muffle that telltale buzz. An added bonus is the sleek design, choice of colour and an adorable pouch which comes with the vibrator. Lovense Lush 3 Lovense Lush 3, £149.99 from Lovehoney BUY HERE Pros: Remote control function adds an extra dimension, huge battery life, quiet This remote-controlled vibrator is perfect for continuing that holiday romance when you get back home. It takes two to tango with this love egg and matching app, letting your partner control the settings of the hands-free vibe from home or away. And if you want to spice things up, let your man take charge when you are out and about, without worrying about anyone hearing that buzz. The price tag's definitely on the steeper side, but with its curved design built to hit your G-spot just right, it's worth every gasp. And with a whopping five hours of battery life, you won't have to cut your long-distance sessions short. Maude Vibe Vibe, £40 from Maude Pros: Affordable, stylish design, small enough to travel with, easy to operate Cons: Doesn't have the variety of settings offered by some competitors If style matters as much as substance, this might just be the vibrator for you. It's so chic that it's been sold at New York's Museum of Modern Art and the Louvre's Musée des Arts Décoratifs in Paris. But the real question is, aesthetics aside, will it have you crying 'ooh la la!' for all the right reasons? Like the best modern works of art, this vibrator likes to keep things minimalistic, with three speed settings controlled by one button. But don't let the restriction in settings put you off; this toy has a 4.8 rating from over 1000 reviews for a reason. It's powerful, good-looking and promises to last you years. Smile Makers The Tennis Pro The Tennis Pro, £49.95 from Smile Makers Pros: Fun design, quiet and discreet, great performance Cons: None from us, but some reviewers say it's less-suited for beginners Even if you don't like Wimbledon, this device is something you will definitely love-love. Even if you don't like Wimbledon, this device is something you will definitely love-love. Its clever tennis ball shape serves up a perfect G-spot or clitoral orgasm with no back and forth. Looks aren't everything, but this is a really cute vibrator with a smiley face on one end and a tennis ball at the other. But that doesn't mean a compromise on function — its four speed settings and two pulsation modes will get you screaming. But if you need to avoid making a racket, this vibrator is exceptionally quiet and discreet. It's 100 per cent waterproof with a two-year warranty; this vibrator is set to be a smash hit. Lovehoney Dual Embrace Dual Embrace, £89.99 from Lovehoney BUY HERE Pros: Dual stimulation, travel lock, long battery life Cons: Buttons and attachments can be initially confusing If you like the best of both worlds, you'll love this toy's offer of both G-spot and clitoral stimulation. A bonus is that you can change up the heads depending on what kind of buzz you are after: licking, pulsing or pleasure air. There's also a handy travel lock feature, in case you are worried about any awkward vibrations coming from your carry-on. For the shaft, you can choose from three speeds and six pulsation settings. The buttons and attachments might be a touch confusing at first, so have a play with them ahead of time to avoid any fumbling. Overall, this is a top-notch toy that won't leave you high and dry, thanks to its 120-minute run time. It's also fully waterproof, making it perfect for steamy solo sessions in the bath or shower — or some wet-and-wild fun with a partner.
