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Time of India
4 days ago
- Entertainment
- Time of India
Ashish Chanchalani and Elli AvRam break the internet with one word, are they the internet's newest 'it' couple?
Move over soft-launches, Ashish Chanchlani and Elli AvRam have just gone full public with their romance. The duo dropped a picture-perfect moment on Instagram: Elli in Ashish's arms, flowers in hand, golden sunlight kissing their beaming faces, and a stone bridge lurking romantically in the backdrop. Caption? Just one word: Finally. The Insta post of Ashish Chanchalani that broke the internet That one word sent fans spiralling into an emotional meltdown. Heart emojis, "we been knew" comments, and memes exploded within minutes. It was subtle yet loud, casual yet iconic, and undeniably official. Ashish and Elli first set the gossip grapevine on fire back in February at the Elle List 2025 event. They arrived together, posed like seasoned pros, and sparked theories of everything from secret dating to a sizzling collab in the works. The chemistry? Undeniable. The vibes? Off the charts. People could not decide whether this was a PR tease or a romantic build-up. But with this post, it seems the duo have confirmed it's not just for the 'Gram, it's real, it's happening, and fans are here for it. A content creator and a cinema queen, power couple alert While Ashish is a YouTube OG and comedy royalty, Elli has carved her niche in Bollywood with her glam presence and versatile roles. Together, they blend virality and elegance like a match made in influencer heaven. Rumour mills still speculate whether there is a creative project brewing behind those dreamy eyes, but for now, it is love that is stealing the spotlight. Whether it is a rom-com or a reel series in the works, this love story already has the internet's vote. Fans go feral in comments As expected, the comments section is pure chaos. From 'FINALLY A REAL SHIP' to 'my timeline is healing,' fans cannot get enough. One thing is clear: this couple did not just break the internet, they mended hearts in the process.


Tom's Guide
5 days ago
- Business
- Tom's Guide
Get it before Prime Day ends: This LG Gram 17 Pro is one of my favorite laptops and it's over $500 off right now
I've been reviewing laptops for years here at Tom's Guide, and one of my favorites has to be the ultra-light LG Gram 17 Pro. I love how capable this Windows 11 laptop is, and at just 3.2 pounds heavy it's probably the lighest 17-inch laptop you can get. If that sounds good to you, good news: Prime Day drops the LG Gram 17 Pro to $1,684 at Amazon, which is nearly 25% off. That knocks over $500 off the cost of this LG Gram, making it one of the best Prime Day laptop deals I've seen all week. However, be aware that you must be an Amazon Prime member to take advantage of this deal! Prime members only: You can save over $500 on this ultra-light Windows 11 laptop sporting a 17-inch (2560 x 1600 pixels) display, an Intel Core Ultra 7 CPU, 16GB of RAM and a 1TB SSD for storage. Plus it weighs 3.2 pounds, making it one of the lightest 17-inch laptops you can buy. As i wrote in my LG Gram 17 Pro review, I really like this laptop because you get all the benefits of a 17-inch laptop—a big, bright display, a full, comfy keyboard, plenty of ports and good battery life—in a surprisingly lightweight and sturdy design that's roughly 0.7 inches thin. Thin-and-light design is the whole selling point of LG's Gram laptops, of course, so if you're shopping for a lightweight laptop to tote around for work and want more than the usual 13-15 inches of screen you get on something like a MacBook Air, this is the laptop for you. And while the LG Gram 17 Pro's 17-inch WQXGA (2,560 x 1,600 pixels) display isn't quite as lush as an OLED screen or as bright as a MacBook's display it's plenty bright for use in all but direct afternoon sunlight. This laptop's Intel Core Ultra 7 255H CPU and 16GB of RAM are great for browsing the web and getting work done, and the 1TB of storage space gives you all the room you need. So if you want a great, lightweight productivity laptop with a big keyboard and an awesome 17-inch display, make sure to nab this killer LG Gram 17 Pro Prime Day deal before it's gone. Just be aware that, in my experience, the Gram's attractive matte black chassis attracts fingerprints like nobody's business.


Atlantic
24-06-2025
- General
- Atlantic
How Did Design Become the Solution to Everything?
On the first day of a required class for freshman design majors at Carnegie Mellon, my professor stood in front of a lecture hall of earnest, nervous undergraduates and asked, 'Who here thinks that design can change the world?' Several hands shot up, including mine. After a few seconds of silence, he advanced to the next slide of his presentation: a poster by the designer Frank Chimero that read, Design won't save the world. Go volunteer at a soup kitchen, you pretentious fuck. My professor wasn't the first person to deliver such discouraging news. In 1971, the design educator Victor Papanek began his best-selling book, Design for the Real World, with a similar message. 'There are professions more harmful than industrial design,' he wrote, but 'very few.' By designing and popularizing products that 'pollute the air we breathe'—including cars, which are responsible for 'murder on a mass-production basis'—he argued, 'designers have become a dangerous breed.' But design was capable of inflicting such harm, he wrote, only because it had so much potential, and therefore also the capacity for immense good. For Papanek, it was 'the most powerful tool with which man shapes his tools and environment (and, by extension, society and himself).' Many working designers today echo Papanek's ambivalence about the profession. In her fascinating, rigorously researched new book, The Invention of Design, the designer and educator Maggie Gram shows how the field transcended its humble origins as the mere art of decoration and became a more ambitious, and more conflicted, discipline. Designers are responsible for more things than ever before: hardware, software, services, infrastructure. Many designers aren't just trying to beautify the world; they want to make it a better place. In the process, they have tackled societal issues such as racial injustice and economic inequality, with mixed results. Design works best when it knows what it can achieve and what it can't; the history of design is full of utopian projects that failed to make a difference. Gram's book is critical of the hubris and techno-optimism that have led design thinking astray, but it is also hopeful, imagining how the discipline might eventually live up to its stated ideals. In the 19th century, designers were typically commercial artists who worked to make everyday objects more attractive to consumers. But Gram's book shows how, over the course of the 20th century, practitioners such as Eva Zeisel helped shape a new way of thinking about the profession. Born in 1906 to a highly educated Hungarian Jewish family, Zeisel became, at 18, the youngest woman to join the potters' guild of Budapest. Her first job was to make prototypes of pots to be mass-produced at a factory—a skill that brought her to Berlin and then the Soviet Union. But her career there was cut short by Stalin's Great Purge, and Zeisel moved to New York in 1938, where she taught at the Pratt Institute and designed dinnerware that was exhibited and sold at the Museum of Modern Art. Her work married Old World craftsmanship with industrial-manufacturing practices, and showed that popular modernist styles, which were often seen as rigid and circumscribed, could be executed with what Zeisel called 'real elegance.' Zeisel was one of many European émigrés who shaped American design culture. In 1919, the German architect Walter Gropius founded the Staatliches Bauhaus, an art school where first-year students were given a foundation in color, form, and fundamental aesthetic principles. The school was initially funded by the German state of Thuringia, but when the government began shifting to the right in the 1920s, the Bauhaus had to find a different business model. It began to partner with companies to sell its own products, which made the curriculum more explicitly pre-professional. As Gram writes, the Bauhaus began 'using machines to mass-produce objects that worked,' including chairs, lamps, and other household items. When the school eventually closed and Gropius fled Nazi Germany for America, he brought the Bauhaus's ideas to Harvard's design school as a professor. Gropius's approach to industrial design—epitomized by the famous dictum 'Form follows function'—was enormously influential; the Bauhaus's synthesis of art, technology, and practicality shaped America's understanding of design over the following decades. In a 2003 interview, Steve Jobs, then the CEO of Apple, remarked that 'most people make the mistake of thinking design is what it looks like.' But, as he argued, 'it's not just what it looks like and feels like. Design is how it works.' Jobs's reframing marked the culmination of a decades-long cultural shift. By the end of the 20th century, design students were typically categorized into one of two buckets: industrial designers who made physical, mass-produced products, and graphic designers who communicated information with visuals. But following the rapid rise of the technology sector during the early 21st century, many design students gravitated toward careers in that industry, where they worked on intangible products such as interfaces and software systems. As Gram writes, designers need more than just craftsmanship skills; they should 'be students of human culture.' Here, the field benefited from another kind of émigré: social scientists who, faced with a declining academic-job market, entered the tech industry instead. One contributor was Lucy Suchman, who graduated from UC Berkeley in 1984 with a Ph.D. in anthropology, then took a job at Xerox's Palo Alto Research Center as a researcher. In an influential study, Suchman placed two successful computer scientists in a room to see whether they could, as Gram writes, use 'a brand-new, feature-rich Xerox photocopier' without issues. They couldn't. It turned out, as Gram observes dryly, that learning how to use an unfamiliar machine 'is never as simple as technologists want it to be.' Other tech companies also hired social scientists, who became a new kind of design professional: user researchers. In theory, they were meant to instill a more 'human-centered' approach to technology. In practice, however, they were pressured to solve problems quickly and prioritize profit over the ideal experience. Eventually, some designers and design educators grew to feel that the 'problems worth solving,' as Gram writes, were the 'wicked problems' of society—a term coined by the design theorists Horst Rittel and Melvin Webber in 1973 to include issues such as crumbling public infrastructure, education inequality, and poverty. Teachers encouraged their students to apply design to things that really mattered—not just the creation of mass-produced consumer goods. And companies such as Ideo, a design consultancy founded in 1991 in Palo Alto, helped turn design from a specialist skill into a general-purpose one, selling the concept of 'design thinking' to corporate America. Design thinking, as Ideo's CEO, Tim Brown, wrote in 2008, 'uses the designer's sensibility and methods to match people's needs with what is technologically feasible.' While Ideo employed design thinking to invent user-friendly insulin pens and an updated PalmPilot, the company also suggested that its approach to identifying issues and brainstorming solutions could be applied to all kinds of problems—including the 'wicked' ones plaguing corporations, educational institutions, health care, and government. Corporate America fell in love with the idea, and Gram describes how design thinking became an almost 'spiritual movement,' with Brown's 2009 book, Change by Design, as its bible. Its influence extended around the world: In 2006, an advertising agency in Bogotá, Colombia, was asked by the government to research, prototype, and launch an ad campaign imploring a group of Marxist-Leninist guerrilla fighters to demobilize. But design thinking often disappointed its disciples. Take Gram's example of Gainesville, Florida, where in the 2010s, about a third of the city's residents lived below the poverty line. In 2013, the city's mayor asked Anthony Lyons, the director of a newly formed economic-development committee, to turn the city's prospects around. Lyons looked to Silicon Valley for inspiration and hired Ideo for a two-month, $200,000 project to research how Gainesville could become a more 'competitive' city. Lyons soon became city manager, and quickly implemented Ideo's suggestions—including creating a new logo, establishing trainings for city employees in design thinking, and renaming the Department of Planning and Development the Department of Doing. These sorts of changes, Gram writes, had a 'tenuous relationship' to the real challenges facing Gainesville, one of the most racially unequal places in the country. Black residents had lower high-school-graduation rates and higher unemployment rates than white residents, and Ideo's more surface-level solutions could do little to address that reality. Lyons's eagerness to redesign Gainesville to be 'the most user friendly city in the world,' as Ideo advocated, ignored the expertise of existing city employees. There was low morale and high turnover, and when Lyons himself resigned after a few years, a resident told a local university's newspaper, 'Gainesville is not a Silicon Valley startup.' The trouble, as The Gainesville Sun 's editorial board wrote, was that Lyons, despite being an 'agent of change' in the city, failed to 'build consensus.' He didn't have a design problem to solve; he had a political problem. The concept of design, as the French philosopher Bruno Latour observed in a 2008 lecture, has had an 'extraordinary career.' No longer is design about making objects more beautiful and useful; instead, he suggested, 'design is one of the terms that has replaced the word 'revolution'!' That might be the problem. 'Our contemporary idea of design,' Gram writes, is often used to convince ourselves 'that positive social change could be achieved without politics and government action; that problem solving could be both generative and profitable.' But most ambitious changes on the societal level require political consensus, and what's profitable for some may not be beneficial for all. Design may be a distraction from the real work. The solution, though, isn't to stop trying to change the world. What could a more beautiful, user-friendly, accessible, and egalitarian society look like? When it comes to making the world a better place, Gram writes, 'design can contribute to that project, and it should.' In 2000, the designer Sylvia Harris helped revise the U.S. census to be more accessible and comprehensible, leading to a 2 percent higher participation rate compared with the 1990 census. This meant that more Americans, especially those from marginalized and undercounted communities, were represented. In her work, Harris exemplified a different path for the profession: one that seeks to understand the needs of the community being served and emphasizes participatory design. Designers' instincts for aesthetics, utility, and usability can play a crucial role in addressing society's 'wicked problems.' But they can't solve them alone.


Tokyo Reported
13-06-2025
- Business
- Tokyo Reported
Here's Why You Should Always Buy Instagram Followers
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Buying followers as part of an Instagram marketing strategy allows them to build a large community in their target audience, convert IG users into customers, boost revenue, and otherwise maximize the benefits of their presence on the app. Buying followers as part of an Instagram marketing strategy allows them to build a large community in their target audience, convert IG users into customers, boost revenue, and otherwise maximize the benefits of their presence on the app. Greater account credibility: This is important to virtually all Instagram accounts. A large follower count can be impressive to other users and provides what marketing experts call 'social proof.' In simple terms, it's a vote of confidence that says an account must be credible and worth checking out since so many others have decided to follow it. That credibility also tells people that the products the account promotes can be trusted. 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Yahoo
07-06-2025
- Health
- Yahoo
When family members died, I struggled to share the news with my kids. Looking at photos helped all of us.
My grandparents were very present in my life and helped raise me. When they died, the hardest part was telling my kids about it. I leaned into memories to help my kids process their loss. I grew up with my grandparents — they raised my brother and me when our parents couldn't. My grandfather was plagued with health issues throughout his life, almost dying from hydrocephalus when he was a kid. He had a dent in his head and a hole in his finger. These became party favorites at every family event. Gramps would let all the kids feel both the dent and the hole. My grandmother on the other hand was the picture of health, until her 70s when she was diagnosed with late-stage ovarian cancer. It came as a complete shock when she shared the news with me. For years, my grandparents battled with their health until the summer of 2013, just after the birth of my fourth child. We got the call that things were not good. My grandfather died on July 7 at Mass General Hospital in Boston of heart failure. My grandmother died less than three months later at the exact hour and minute my grandfather had. The hardest part of their death was having to tell my kids who were very close to Gram and Gramps. My kids watched my grandparents through their respective health battles. Once, my grandmother fainted during one of their birthday parties, and we had to rush her by ambulance to the hospital. Another time, we spent a Thanksgiving visit wondering if my grandfather would wake up from a cardiac event he endured after surgery for throat cancer. My kids knew about long-term illness as much as children could. Death was different, though. My two oldest struggled with the loss. Thankfully, the two youngest were too young to understand. I took the oldest to my grandfather's funeral, thinking it might help them process the loss of a man they had known their whole lives. Bagpipes played as we entered the church, and on the ride home, I listened to my kids cry in the back seat. We stayed in the apartment Gram had shared with Gramps. We ate Chinese food from our favorite place and stared at his seat on the couch that would remain forever empty. My grandmother was in an assisted care facility by this time. I prepared myself to lose her. The ovarian cancer was progressing. I swore that I would do a better job of explaining her death to the kids. She passed away as I was driving from my home in Maine to her apartment in Massachusetts. We told the kids on a warm night when I returned. We sat in our sunroom and listened to late fall sounds outside. This time, we had more time to think. I brought out a photo album, and we talked about her and my grandfather. We told stories. I shared the eulogy I was writing and included them so they would understand how important they were to her. With the death of my grandmother, instead of avoiding the memories like we had with my grandfather's death, we leaned into them. They saved us and became a salve for our grief. We remembered holidays and the way my grandmother always greeted us at the elevator, too excited to wait for us inside her apartment. In the months and years following the death of my grandparents, we also made sure to remain close to my grandmother's sisters. They became two of the most important people in my kids' lives. Fostering this relationship with them (who we now call "the aunts") was a way of helping them to process and continue to deal with the loss of their grandparents. We visited them in Massachusetts and shared holidays. The aunts have attended my kids' milestone events, standing in for the grandparents who couldn't. Familial relationships and memories helped my kids in ways that nothing else could. Still, even now as my kids become teens and adults, we remember the early years of their lives, and those memories include my grandparents. Read the original article on Business Insider