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Daily Record
17-07-2025
- Daily Record
The secret emoji code cheaters are using to keep their affairs hidden
A private investigator has revealed some of the symbols adulterers use to avoid being rumbled by their parnters. We would all like to think that our partner would only have eyes for us and would never stray. Unfortunately, that's not always the case in relationships. Recent figures from Illicit Encounters suggest that around one in five married couples in the UK experience infidelity at some point during their relationship. And the figures for general flings were even higher. Two thirds of men (67 per cent) admitted having cheated at least once in their lives. And although the figure for women was lower at 53 per cent, it's still more than half. So it's perhaps not surprising that some partners are becoming more and more suspicious of their other halves. And they are using modern technology to help them rumble any loverats in their lives. From using fitness apps to track their lover's location to getting underhand advice from TikTok. But the cheaters themselves are getting sneakier too and also using modern methods to hide their affairs. While some are utilising things like hidden apps or privacy phone screens to protect themselves from snooping partners, others are hiding in plain sight with something more subtle. According to ARF Private Investigators, certain adulterers are using specific emojis as a code for their secret trysts. ARF's Paul Jones says messaging apps like WhatsApp and Snapchat are a hotbed for hidden relationships, with some sneaky symbols replacing the traditional love letter. Many of the cases the private investigator works on have been sparked by something as small as an emoji that may seem random but actually has a hidden - and more romantic - meaning. Paul said: "Over the past year we've seen an increase in people using everyday symbols as a way to communicate without getting caught. On the surface, it might look innocent, but there's usually a deeper meaning." Among the most common signs are the harmless-looking croissant or spaghetti emoji, as well as the envelope with the loveheart - which is one that could potentially trigger suspicions, given the red heart. Paul said: "We've had people using a croissant emoji as a way of saying 'meet me for breakfast', or the letter emoji as a subtle 'text me when you're free'. It's like their own language, one that their partner isn't meant to understand." The private investigator also highlighted other symbols, like the chilli - for flirtation or intimacy - and the fishing rod - for someone looking for attention. Paul said: "Used once or twice they don't mean much, but when you see them appearing regularly in chats with the same person, especially late at night, they start to mean something more.' For anyone who has spotted an emoji on your partner's phone that doesn't quite feel right and wants to dig a wee bit deeper, Paul has offered some advice. He said: "Start with your gut. If your partner suddenly starts hiding their phone, keeping conversations short, or you notice new contacts with strange names or emojis, that's when you should start asking questions. "I'm not saying you should go snooping, but if the messaging habits have changed and things feel off, don't ignore it.' Join the Daily Record WhatsApp community! Get the latest news sent straight to your messages by joining our WhatsApp community today. You'll receive daily updates on breaking news as well as the top headlines across Scotland. No one will be able to see who is signed up and no one can send messages except the Daily Record team. All you have to do is click here if you're on mobile, select 'Join Community' and you're in! If you're on a desktop, simply scan the QR code above with your phone and click 'Join Community'. We also treat our community members to special offers, promotions, and adverts from us and our partners. If you don't like our community, you can check out any time you like. To leave our community click on the name at the top of your screen and choose 'exit group'.
Daily Mail
11-07-2025
- Climate
- Daily Mail
Beware the CHEATWAVE! Sunny weather triggers a massive spike in cheating - as 'sundrunk' Brits lose their inhibitions, experts warn
The UK is expected to record more scorching temperatures over the next few days. And Brits are likely to get hot and bothered in more ways than one, experts have warned. Data reveals that rising temperatures send affair website sign-ups soaring, with a 58 per cent increase during the last heatwave. The biggest spike is among 35 to 44-year-olds, with women making up the majority of new members. And experts said 'sundrunk' Brits lose inhibitions in hot weather, entering a holiday mindset even when at home. Jessica Leoni, sex and relationship expert for website said: 'When the sun blazes, so do passions. 'We see this with every heatwave – the hotter it gets, the more people seek excitement outside their relationships. 'Extreme heat essentially rewires our impulses.' She pointed to a dangerous cocktail of hormonal surges, lowered inhibitions and 'heatwave hedonism' that drives otherwise loyal partners to stray. Last week temperatures reached a scorching 34.7 °C in St James's Park in central London – marking the hottest day of the year so far. A poll of 1,000 new website members found that two-thirds said the heat made them 'more impulsive'. Meanwhile 55 per cent admitted they'd been considering an affair for some time but the soaring temperatures gave them the 'final push'. 'The sunshine strips away inhibition,' Ms Leoni added. 'It's like the British public have collectively entered their holiday persona – even if they're not abroad. 'We call it 'sundrunk'. 'You're not drinking rosé on the Med, but you're mentally already there.' It comes as an amber health alert has been issued for the south of England while a second hosepipe ban is set to hit one million Brits. The mercury is expected to rocket to 32C today in parts of central and southern England on Friday with the East Midlands, West Midlands, East of England, London, South East and South West under amber alert. Earlier research has found that the chances of infidelity are 'significantly higher' among more powerful people. People who feel more powerful are less dependent on others, think more highly of themselves, and are more confident that others find them desirable, according to researchers from Reichman University. 'In a romantic relationship, these power dynamics might lead the more powerful partner to think they bring more to the table than their less powerful partner,' said Professor Gurit Birnbaum, lead author of the study. 'The more powerful might see this as a sign that they have more options outside the relationship and are more desirable partners in general.' ARE MEN WITH SHORT AND WIDE FACES MORE LIKELY TO CHEAT? Researchers from Nipissing University in Canada looked at how different facial features affect sexual behaviours. The study involved 314 undergraduate students who were in romantic relationships. Each student completed a questionnaire about their behaviour, sex drive, sexual orientation, the chances they'd consider cheating, and how comfortable they were with the concept of casual sex. The researchers also took a picture of each student to analyse their facial width-to-height ratios (FWHR). The results showed that men and women with a high FWHR – square and wide faces – reported a greater sex drive than others. Men with a larger FWHR were also more easy-going when it comes to casual sex and would consider being unfaithful to their partners. The researchers hope the findings will shed light on the role that facial features play in sexual relationships and mate selection. Their research builds upon previous studies that have shown that certain psychological and behavioural traits are associated with particular facial width-to-height ratios (FWHR). Square-faced men tend to be perceived as more aggressive, more dominant, more unethical, and more attractive as short-term sexual partners than men with thinner and longer faces.
Edinburgh Live
01-07-2025
- Edinburgh Live
British tourists warned over Spanish holiday hotspot branded 'marriage killer'
Our community members are treated to special offers, promotions and adverts from us and our partners. You can check out at any time. More info Get the latest Edinburgh Live breaking news on WhatsApp Couples are being warned to reconsider their holiday plans to a Spanish resort that's been infamously labelled as the "marriage killer." IllicitEncounters, a dating site for those looking for extramarital encounters, has conducted a survey revealing Magaluf as the top spot for Brits seeking affairs while on holiday, according to MirrorOnline. Magaluf, already famous for its budget-friendly drinks, sun-drenched beaches, and vibrant nightlife, is now attracting attention for a more notorious reason. Stay updated with the latest news via BirminghamLive WhatsApp by clicking the link to join. The poll, which involved over 2,000 users of the affair-seeking website, found Magaluf to be the preferred choice for those planning to cheat, reports Birmingham Live. Consequently, the site has branded it the "marriage destroyer of Europe." IllicitEncounters spokesperson Jessica Leoni said that Magaluf's allure isn't solely due to its party scene; it's the blend of a break from daily life, warm climate, and readily available booze that sets the stage for romantic escapades or secret liaisons. Leoni referred to this combination as a "trinity" that ignites passion, whether lasting or temporary. The impact of these holiday romances extends beyond the trip, with 87 percent of those who had an affair in Magaluf maintaining contact with their fling after returning to the UK. Additionally, the site's annual Infidelity Index has brought to light some unexpected findings back on British soil. Cheltenham, renowned for its regal allure and the esteemed Cheltenham Festival, has been dubbed the UK's "new adultery capital." The latest figures reveal that last year, 6.98 percent of Cheltenham's residents were involved in extramarital affairs. Hot on its heels are Farnham in Surrey with 5.99 percent, Motherwell in Lanarkshire at 5.63 percent, Warwick at 5.61 percent, and Braintree in Essex with 5.55 percent indulging in infidelity. Other towns with notable rates of cheating include Rhyl in Denbighshire where 5.36 percent of the population had affairs, and Borehamwood in Hertfordshire with a rate of 5.35 percent. Meanwhile, Newbury in Berkshire (5.23 percent), Frome in Somerset (5.18 percent), and Wilmslow in Cheshire (5.12 percent) also featured as towns with significant levels of adultery. Commenting on the statistics, Jessica observed that while areas like Cheltenham may seem tranquil and sophisticated, the reality of many relationships behind closed doors is quite different. Conversely, Swindon earned the title of the UK's most faithful town, with a mere 0.35 percent of its inhabitants reportedly straying. Close contenders for fidelity included Bracknell in Berkshire at 0.36 percent, Dewsbury in West Yorkshire with 0.39 percent, Castlereagh in County Down at 0.44 percent, and Rotherham in South Yorkshire with 0.58 percent.
Daily Mirror
30-06-2025
- Daily Mirror
Brits 'can't stop cheating' at Spanish resort nicknamed 'marriage destroyer'
A dating website for married people has warned couples against holidaying in a certain Spanish resort that has been dubbed the "marriage killer of Europe" thanks to its high number of infidelity New research is urging couples to think twice before booking a holiday to one particular Spanish resort that has earned a new and rather infamous nickname - the 'marriage killer.' According to a recent survey by IllicitEncounters, a dating website for people seeking affairs, the holiday town of Magaluf has emerged as the number-one destination for Brits looking to cheat while abroad. Long known for its cheap drinks, sun-soaked beaches, and party-heavy atmosphere, Magaluf is now gaining attention for a less celebratory reason. More than 2,000 users of the site were polled about the destinations they would choose if they were planning to be unfaithful. Magaluf topped the list, prompting the website to dub it the "marriage destroyer of Europe." Jessica Leoni, a spokesperson for IllicitEncounters, explained that the town's reputation isn't just about nightlife — it's the combination of freedom from routine, warm weather, and easy access to alcohol that creates the perfect environment for holiday flings. She described this mix as a 'trinity' that fuels romance, or something more fleeting and secretive. It's not just a holiday affair either; according to the survey, 87 percent of those who cheated while in Magaluf kept in touch with their affair partner after returning home. Back in the UK, another surprising revelation came from the site's annual Infidelity Index. Cheltenham, often admired for its elegant charm and home to the prestigious four-day horse racing festival, was crowned the UK's 'new adultery capital.' According to the data, 6.98 percent of the town's population engaged in affairs last year. Following closely behind were Farnham in Surrey with 5.99 percent, Motherwell in Lanarkshire with 5.63 percent, Warwick with 5.61 percent, and Braintree in Essex, which reported 5.55 percent. Elsewhere, other towns showing high levels of infidelity included Rhyl in Denbighshire, where 5.36 percent of people were involved in affairs, and Borehamwood in Hertfordshire, with a rate of 5.35 percent. Meanwhile, towns with slightly lower — but still significant — rates included Newbury in Berkshire (5.23 percent), Frome in Somerset (5.18 percent), and Wilmslow in Cheshire (5.12 percent). Reflecting on the findings, Jessica said that although places like Cheltenham may appear peaceful and refined on the outside, the data suggests that many relationships behind closed doors tell a different story. On the opposite end of the scale, Swindon was named the UK's most faithful town, with just 0.35 percent of its population reportedly engaging in infidelity. lose behind were Bracknell in Berkshire with 0.36 percent, Dewsbury in West Yorkshire with 0.39 percent, Castlereagh in County Down with 0.44 percent, and Rotherham in South Yorkshire with 0.58 percent.
Daily Mail
28-06-2025
- Daily Mail
The Spanish resort where Brits 'can't stop cheating' revealed as tourist hotspot is nicknamed 'marriage destroyer'
According to new research, couples should be wary of one Spanish resort which has been dubbed the 'marriage killer' as people are more likely to cheat when they holiday there. A survey carried out by affairs website IllicitEncounters revealed this area is Magaluf. While the town has previously been known for its affordable pints and sun-soaked beaches, the recent research has labelled it the top destination for Brits looking to cheat. For the survey, more than 2,000 users of the site were polled, and asked where there were most likely to travel to if they wanted to be unfaithful. The answer that came top of the list was Magaluf. As a result, IllicitEncounters described the destination as the 'marriage destroyer' of Europe. Jessica Leoni, spokesperson for IllicitEncounters, said: 'Magaluf has been famed for its booze-fuelled breaks for decades, and its popularity with stag and hen-dos is another reason it is still considered a mecca for cheating. Leoni added why she believes the area makes people more likely to be unfaithful. She described the trinity of a sense of freedom, heat, and alcohol all combining to create a holiday romance (or something rather more tawdry). And it's not the case that all cheaters leave their infidelity in Magaluf. According to the majority of those polled (87 per cent) they kept in touch with their affair partner once returning home. When it comes to the cheating capital of the UK, some may be surprised to learn where it is. Last November, Cheltenham was crowned the UK's 'new adultery capital'. According to figures from the annual Infidelity Index data provided by the UK's 'leading affairs site', 6.98 per cent of the town's population reportedly had affairs last year. Not far behind Cheltenham, known for its posh surroundings and four-day horse racing festival, was Farnham, Surrey, with 5.99 per cent of people allegedly cheating on their partners. In third place was Motherwell, Lanarkshire (5.63 per cent), followed by Warwick (5.61 per cent) and Braintree in Essex (5.55 per cent). Elsewhere, 5.36 per cent of the population in Rhyl, Denbighshire were reportedly caught up in affairs, as were 5.35 per cent of people in Borehamwood, Hertfordshire. Towards the bottom of the list were Newbury, Berkshire (5.23 per cent), Frome, Somerset (5.18 per cent) and Wilmslow in Cheshire, (5.12 per cent). Commenting on the Infidelity Index results at the time, sex and relationships expert at Jessica Leoni said: 'While picturesque towns like Cheltenham may seem serene on the surface, data suggests that love lives here are anything but tranquil.' When it comes to the opposite end of the scale, Swindon has been dubbed the UK's 'most faithful town', with only 0.35 per cent reportedly cheating. Close behind are Bracknell, Berkshire (0.36 per cent), Dewsbury, West Yorkshire (0.39 per cent), Castlereagh in County Down (0.44 per cent) and Rotherham, South Yorkshire (0.58 per cent).
