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Why are we still talking about ‘feminine energy'?
Why are we still talking about ‘feminine energy'?

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time05-07-2025

  • Lifestyle
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Why are we still talking about ‘feminine energy'?

Don't miss out on the headlines from Lifestyle. Followed categories will be added to My News. As controversial content about a woman's place in a relationship gains traction online, we can't help but wonder why the term 'feminine energy' has found its way back into the conversation. Another week, another 'manfluencer' with a mic telling women how to live. This time, it's podcaster Chris Griffin, who suggested that women should embrace 'feminine' passivity to maintain healthy relationships. Spoiler: it involves silence, softness, and 'hot girl walks'. A recent episode of his 'educational' podcast argues that he doesn't want his partner to work 'if she doesn't want to' and that women should be harnessing their "feminine energy". He claims, 'If you feel the need to go and work to make money and then you're complaining about your day - when we don't need you to make money because you're sorted.' X Learn More SUBSCRIBER ONLY His co-host agrees, saying a man needs 'calm, harmony, peace, and love' when he returns from his busy day of... fishing, surfing, and flaunting his abs on Instagram? Tiring stuff. If my jaw wasn't already on the floor, Griffin continues: 'This is why I heavily encourage hot girl walks. I would love my partner to go on a hot girl walk with her friends every day. She gets this feminine energy, they get to talk their sh*t and they get to have a bit of excitement about their day.' The concept of "feminine energy" irks me; it's gender essentialism disguised as empowerment. As Associate Professor Lauren Rosewarne of the University of Melbourne says: 'Culturally, there's a long history of categorising traits as male or female, and those that are female are generally undervalued and seen as frivolous and less important.' This idea reduces women to a commodity; nurturing, passive, pleasing. As Laura Henshaw, co-founder and CEO of Kic, aptly says: 'As women, we do not exist to 'serve' our partners... To live our days so we can be in a 'good mood' for them.' If my day consisted of 'going on hot-girl walks' and 'collecting postcards', I'd be bored out of my mind, wreaking havoc in our 1950s home. Henshaw continues: 'Freedom in a relationship is having equality. I do wonder how you plan to pay your partner's superannuation as well as your own? How would you support a partner if you [broke] up? If she has been out of the workforce for years? Would you continue to financially support her then, as you have had the space and time to build your career and she has not?' These regressive and fantastical ideologies can play a subtle but dangerous part in encouraging misogynistic behaviour, coercive control and financial abuse. Women have our own dreams, passions and pursuits. 'If women are sacrificing their own desires and ambitions for the sake of their relationships with men while supporting men to succeed in their careers, women will continue to be under-represented in many areas of professional life,' says Beatrice Alba, lecturer in psychology at Deakin University. 'Women might end up disappointed because they routinely forfeit their own wishes for the sake of their partner's. Overly compliant women often end up being taken for granted by their partners.' While I recognise that some may want this lifestyle, it frames women's worth as tied to narrow, outdated definitions of femininity, rather than empowering them to be their authentic selves. It feels like a personal attack. If I were to adhere to archaic feminine ideals – nurturing, domestic, meek, passive, prioritising beauty standards – I'd need a personality bypass. I'm impartial towards children, I'm aggressive, often loud, confident, and care more about having big muscles than a perfectly made-up face. Does this make me any less deserving of a relationship? Overly compliant women often end up being taken for granted by their partners. Image: iStock When a man told my friend 'to smile' at a bar, she shot back, 'You won't be smiling when I punch you in the face.' While I don't condone violence, we're tired of unsolicited advice on how to carry ourselves? Many women have grown up fighting generational prejudice against being 'non-feminine' women. I grew up with a mother who has constantly struggled with her body and appearance. Since I'm her carbon copy, everything she hates about herself, she hates about me. Combined with a steadfast belief that I can't be happy if I'm always single, it's a nightmare. The wellness, self-help and 'manfluencer' industries, as Rosewarne points out, 'are about finding ways to sell stuff… convincing people that gender should be at the centre of their identity, and that there are countless gendered products we must buy to 'properly do' gender.' They profit off the idea that our worth is tied to how closely we conform to gender norms. Netflix's 'Adolescence' kick-started the conversation about the devastating consequences of 'masculine' content online. Image: Netflix So, women can be sporty, but only if we still fit into the conformist box of beauty. Because I do sports like CrossFit and weightlifting, my physique apparently fits outside of that box. My mum always questions 'Why do you want to look like a man? Men don't find it attractive.' When I threatened to call the guy I was dating to see if he agreed, I was met with an unimpressed glare. The prevalence of these generational views of attractive 'feminine energy' is depressing. While it doesn't bother me, 'For other women, these might exploit insecurities they already have and potentially encourage her to present a smaller, seemingly more palatable version of herself,' warns Rosewarne. Griffin also overlooks a growing cultural shift, where women are drawn to men who reject traditional masculinity. Celebrities like Pedro Pascal, affectionately called 'zaddy,' embody a more emotionally vulnerable masculinity - one where depth, emotional intelligence, and tenderness are seen as strengths. This evolution is part of a broader cultural shift, where we see men as emotional beings, not just stoic providers. This evolution is part of a broader cultural shift, where we see men as emotional beings, not just stoic providers. Image: Getty. It's no longer about being perpetually tough; it's about being whole people, with flaws, emotions, and softness. And it's not just women who are embracing this - many men are too, as they push back against the suffocating traditional standards of masculinity. Progressive culture calls for a shift toward a more inclusive understanding of identity, free from the constraints of 'feminine' and 'masculine' labels. Alba sums it up: 'This essentialist thinking restricts people into roles that don't align with their true selves and prevents us from living authentically. Our identity doesn't have to be gendered.' So, be right back – I'm off to arm wrestle some blokes at the pub because that's my authentic self. Originally published as Why are we still talking about 'feminine energy'?

Laura Henshaw shares the candid moment she found out she was pregnant: 'I'm shaking'
Laura Henshaw shares the candid moment she found out she was pregnant: 'I'm shaking'

Daily Mail​

time24-06-2025

  • Entertainment
  • Daily Mail​

Laura Henshaw shares the candid moment she found out she was pregnant: 'I'm shaking'

Laura Henshaw has shared raw and emotional footage of the exact moment that she found out she was pregnant. The Kic CEO, who has been transparent about her indecisiveness to have kids in the past, revealed that it was a 'complete shock' to discover she was expecting. The podcast host, 32, and her husband Dalton Graham were both in the bathroom at home and he was midway through showering. 'Shall we do it now?' he called out to Laura from the shower. 'I'm not going to be pregnant though,' she said standing in a towel, before exclaiming, 'Oh my god.' From A-list scandals and red carpet mishaps to exclusive pictures and viral moments, subscribe to the DailyMail's new showbiz newsletter to stay in the loop. Laura Henshaw has shared raw and emotional footage of the exact moment that she found out she was pregnant. Pictured Laura lifted up the pregnancy test to the shower for her husband to see. 'Are you f**king serious?' Dalton called out in excitement. 'What the hell! Is that serious?' His voice rose several octaves as he popped his head out of shower - razor still in hand. 'Is that actually what it means? Is that actually the two strikes?' he asked again in disbelief. 'I'm shaking. I did not think I would be pregnant,' Laura repeated incredulously. 'No you're joking!' Dalton said, as Laura burst into tears of happiness. Laura then asked him: 'Can I still do the marathon?' He answered, yes. 'Can you come out of the shower now?' she cried to her husband. The podcast host, 32, and her husband Dalton Graham were both in the bathroom at home and he was midway through showering 'I'm not going to be pregnant though,' she said standing in a towel, before exclaiming, 'Oh my god' 'I stood here for five minutes staring at the test feeling completely overwhelmed and shocked,' she wrote in caption text over the video. 'I had thought about this moment a lot – thinking about whether I wanted to have kids or not – as I felt the pressure to burst into happy tears which I didn't think I would.' 'I wasn't going to share this originally because it wasn't like a lot of the beautiful videos I have seen online but then I remembered that we all process things so differently and nothing is more or less than, it just is,' she added. 'And I just want to say that I completely acknowledge how much of a privilege it is to be shocked to find out I was pregnant like this and my heart goes out to every single person navigating the heart breaking journey of infertility.' Fans and friends rushed to congratulate the happy couple in the comments and compliment the 'raw' and 'real' moment. '"Can I still do the marathon?" Hahah I love you. You're going to be a wonderful Mum Laura, what a lucky baby xxx,' Olivia Molly Rogers commented. '" Can you get out of the shower?" Hahahaha I love this. So raw and beautiful,' influencer Melanie Edwards wrote. Child-free influencer Danni Duncan also added her praise for sharing the footage: 'Awww I love how normal and real this is Laura!!.' 'This is so wholesome,' Beck Lomas wrote. 'Dalton opening the shower door and the look on his face when you told him was so sweet omg.' Laura revealed she was pregnant and shared a sweet Instagram post which showed her getting an ultrasound Laura told Stellar Magazine that she was so caught out of the blue that she had a laparoscopy booked in May in order to check for endometriosis. 'I was going to do the London Marathon, have the laparoscopy, and after that start thinking about kids,' she told the publication. Laura did a test one day after missing her period. 'I was like, 'We can't be. We had had sex once the month before – like, a morning quickie',' she laughed. '[Then], you know, turn the test around and… we are pregnant.'

Podcaster Laura Henshaw reveals shock moment she discovered she was pregnant after struggling with indecision about whether or not she wanted kids
Podcaster Laura Henshaw reveals shock moment she discovered she was pregnant after struggling with indecision about whether or not she wanted kids

Daily Mail​

time15-06-2025

  • Entertainment
  • Daily Mail​

Podcaster Laura Henshaw reveals shock moment she discovered she was pregnant after struggling with indecision about whether or not she wanted kids

Laura Henshaw has opened up about the moment she found out she was pregnant. The Kic CEO, who has been transparent online about her past indecision regarding having kids, revealed that it was a 'complete shock' to discover she was expecting. The podcast host, 32, told this week's Stellar Magazine, that she was so caught out of the blue that she had a laparoscopy booked in May in order to check for endometriosis. 'I was going to do the London Marathon, have the laparoscopy, and after that start thinking about kids,' she told the publication. And then Laura revealed she missed her period. Laura Henshaw has opened up about the moment she found out she was pregnant after struggling with indecision about whether or not she wanted kids Laura did a pregnancy test the next day, with her husband Dalton having an inkling that she had a bun in the oven. 'I was like, "We can't be. We had had sex once the month before – like, a morning quickie",' she laughed. '[Then], you know, turn the test around and… we are pregnant.' Laura went on to say that she'd watched many Instagram video of her friends announcing they were pregnant, which showed them crying, laughing and emotions. But her reaction wasn't like that. Laura confessed it wasn't because she wasn't grateful or excited but she was just in 'complete shock'. Last year, Laura admitted she wasn't sure she wanted children. 'I thought when I hit 31 I would feel ready, but over the past few years, the older I have gotten — the less ready I feel,' she told Mamamia at the time. Laura added that time played a major role in making the decision and the moment she turned 30 she felt it was quickly 'running out'. She also opened up about struggling with whether or not she wanted to have children in her podcast series Do I Want Kids? in 2024 and admitted her indecision was difficult. 'I felt ashamed about it,' she told ELLE magazine. 'We live in this prenatal society, which basically means that in the society we live in, there is the assumption that we will have children. 'I blinked and all my friends went from talking about contraception to being pregnant or having kids. And I started to feel like, what is wrong with me?' On Thursday, Laura revealed that she was pregnant and shared a sweet Instagram post which showed her getting an ultrasound. Laura beamed for the camera in the black and white clip, while an image on screen showed her growing baby. The podcaster captioned her video, which was inundated with congratulations from friends and fans, with a simple love heart emoji.

Laura Henshaw: Kic founder discusses misogyny, pregnancy
Laura Henshaw: Kic founder discusses misogyny, pregnancy

Daily Telegraph

time14-06-2025

  • Entertainment
  • Daily Telegraph

Laura Henshaw: Kic founder discusses misogyny, pregnancy

Don't miss out on the headlines from Celebrity Life. Followed categories will be added to My News. After years of uncertainty around her desire to have children, podcaster and Kic co-founder and CEO Laura Henshaw tells Stellar about the 'complete shock' of falling pregnant. Stellar: Laura, you have just announced you're expecting your first baby. Can you tell us about the moment you found out you were pregnant? Laura Henshaw: It was a very big shock. I'd been on a journey last year. I was feeling so overwhelmed by the thought of having children. I'd thought: By the time I'm 30, this light-bulb or switch will go off in my head and I'll feel maternal and know that I want kids. And between 30 and 32, I actually felt the opposite. The closer I got to the age I thought I should be having kids, the more I was questioning it. I used to think, what's wrong with me? I had all these fears that I was going to lose myself and my career, and that I'd really struggle. So I went on this journey [and released the podcast Do I Want Kids?] to work through it. And [my husband Dalton and I] came out the end of it, and decided that we did want to have children. But we weren't 100 per cent sure when. I was actually booked in for a laparoscopy [to investigate for endometriosis] in the middle of May. I was going to do the London Marathon, have the laparoscopy, and after that start thinking about kids. Kic co-founder Laura Henshaw has opened up about her 'shock' pregnancy in a new interview with Stellar. Picture: Steven Chee for Stellar Listen to the full interview with Laura Henshaw on the Stellar podcast, Something To Talk About: Then, all of a sudden, I missed my period. We did a pregnancy test the next day. My husband was so funny. He was like, 'Laura, I think you're pregnant.' And I was like, 'We can't be.' We'd had sex once the month before – like, a morning quickie. I thought, there's no way… [Then] we did the test… and we are pregnant. I'd seen so many videos on Instagram where people have found out they're pregnant. They're crying, their partner's crying. And it wasn't that I wasn't grateful or happy. I was in complete shock. I actually didn't get emotional at all until I told Steph [Claire Smith, Henshaw's business partner and co-founder of their health and wellness company Kic] about five days later. Her reaction was so beautiful. She was sobbing, and then it kind of hit me. I had a fear that I didn't know how I would feel. But I do feel really happy. 'It's a question we shouldn't ask women!' Laura Henshaw on comments made to her before her pregnancy was revealed publicly. Picture: Steven Chee for Stellar Stellar: As part of the parasocial relationship you have with your audience, you've had to deal with people repeatedly asking, 'Oh, are you pregnant?' Stellar has had a policy for six years now not to ask high-profile celebrities – male or female – whether they want to have kids. But it's a question that gets asked of women much more often than it's asked of men. Laura Henshaw: In terms of the unsolicited stuff that comes through, people had said to me, 'Are you pregnant?' And that was actually to do with the way my body looked. I got a few messages saying, 'Oh, you've got a little pot belly and it just made me think, like, are you pregnant?' or, 'I probably shouldn't think this, but I wanted to send the message through...' I think if you're ever going to write to someone, 'I probably shouldn't think this, but I just wanted to send it through', it's probably a time not to send that through. It's a question we shouldn't ask women. We should never assume. You never know what anyone is going through behind the scenes. Listen to the full interview with Laura Henshaw on the Stellar podcast, Something To Talk About: Stellar: Your husband Dalton (né Graham, founder and CEO of Melbourne creative agency Bullfrog) took your surname when you got married in 2021. Have you had any discussions about what the family name will be for your baby? Laura Henshaw: When we got married, I said to him, 'I don't really want to change my name. I've built my brand around my name, it means a lot to me. However, I don't expect you to change your name.' We had a really open conversation about it. There was no expectation that because I was female, I would change my name and because he was the man, I would take his. He said, 'Well, it makes sense for you to keep your name. And I want to have the same surname as our kids, so I'll change my name.' So that will mean our baby will have our shared surname: Henshaw. Laura Henshaw announced her pregnancy last week. Picture: Instagram Kic co-founders Laura Henshaw and Steph Claire Smith. Picture: Supplied Stellar: Last month, Australian podcaster Chris Griffin made headlines with his views on gender roles in relationships, saying, 'I don't want my partner working unless she wants to work', adding he would prefer to come home to 'calm, harmony, peace and love that a man that's got a busy life, that's chasing his dreams, needs when he's trying to wind down'. You responded to his comments, with your remarks going viral. Did you ever hesitate about speaking up and taking on the manosphere? Laura Henshaw: I watched it and felt this combination of rage and also… what the heck is going on here? How is this content? In all the research I've done over the past few weeks, I've found that the 'manosphere' content is actually now mainstream. And that's really scary, but it hadn't hit my algorithm. The first thing you feel is defeat. We've come so far; we're not an equal society in any way from a gender perspective, but we're making progress. So when you see content like that – especially from a 23-year-old male that isn't in a relationship talking to another male of a similar age that also isn't in a relationship, hasn't experienced having children – I just felt defeated. There were no comments pushing back, [they were all], 'Wow, you're amazing.' I thought, this is insane. Picture: Ian Currie 'This limiting view of women is so dangerous.' Picture: Suppied Laura Henshaw (continued): As someone who grew up in a household where my parents separated when I was 12 – my mum wasn't working full-time, she didn't have super, and then had to go out and find a full-time job and be a single mum – I have experienced first-hand what happens when you have these traditional gender roles at home and you don't have conversations about finances. This [Griffin clip] was [filmed] in this beautifully lit studio, it had this violin music or piano behind it, and so it made it seem like it was motivational. Like: this is the life that you want to live, you need to follow this person. And I was like, you know what? That's it. I'm going to talk about this. This limiting view of women is so dangerous that I ended up doing a miniseries on it that we released last week called Am I Equal? It was really important for me to do because I think in a heterosexual relationship, if the wife does want to stay home, that's absolutely fine. But they need to have all of the information. They need to have conversations with their partner. They need to have financial control together. Not one person has financial control and then the other one is like, oh, it will be fine. Because you actually don't know if it's going to be fine. Stellar: The #TradWife and #stayathomegirlfriend TikTok trends made the notion of opting out of paid employment seem very appealing to young women. Have the young women in your audience been receptive to the cautionary messages in your commentary and this new miniseries? Laura Henshaw: TradWife content and stay-at-home girlfriends are trends I've struggled with so much. What's really scary with that content is it's so glamorised. It looks amazing. The thing with these content creators is, if you're creating content all day, you have a job, right? So they're showcasing that they don't work, but they really do. Because being a content creator is a job in itself. But you only see 1 per cent of someone's life on social media. This is why I wanted to call out [the Griffin clip], in terms of it being benevolent sexism. It's control disguised as care. They say they're doing it because it's loving, they want to look after you, they want you to 'be in your feminine' – whatever the heck that means – they want you to have freedom. There's no such thing as freedom if it's dictated how you need to be. That's not free. Listen to the full interview with Laura Henshaw on the Stellar podcast, Something To Talk About: Laura Henshaw (continued): The amount of women that reached out to me and said 'Thank you for sharing', or devastatingly, that they had been through [that experience] because their partner said they cared about them and didn't want them to work, and now they're a single parent in a lot of debt, they're struggling, they're living on Centrelink and they wish they had known and had those conversations… That's been really nice to speak to them, and for them to feel empowered by these conversations now being more mainstream. For more on Laura Henshaw, visit See the full cover shoot with Laura Henshaw in today's Stellar, via The Sunday Telegraph (NSW), Sunday Herald Sun (VIC), The Sunday Mail (QLD) and Sunday Mail (SA). Click here for more from Stellar and the podcast, Something To Talk About.

‘Benevolent sexism': Laura Henshaw responds to misogyny debate and reveals the ‘quickie' that led to shock pregnancy
‘Benevolent sexism': Laura Henshaw responds to misogyny debate and reveals the ‘quickie' that led to shock pregnancy

News.com.au

time14-06-2025

  • Entertainment
  • News.com.au

‘Benevolent sexism': Laura Henshaw responds to misogyny debate and reveals the ‘quickie' that led to shock pregnancy

After years of uncertainty around her desire to have children, podcaster and Kic co-founder and CEO Laura Henshaw tells Stellar about the 'complete shock' of falling pregnant. Stellar: Laura, you have just announced you're expecting your first baby. Can you tell us about the moment you found out you were pregnant? Laura Henshaw: It was a very big shock. I'd been on a journey last year. I was feeling so overwhelmed by the thought of having children. I'd thought: By the time I'm 30, this light-bulb or switch will go off in my head and I'll feel maternal and know that I want kids. And between 30 and 32, I actually felt the opposite. The closer I got to the age I thought I should be having kids, the more I was questioning it. I used to think, what's wrong with me? I had all these fears that I was going to lose myself and my career, and that I'd really struggle. So I went on this journey [and released the podcast Do I Want Kids?] to work through it. And [my husband Dalton and I] came out the end of it, and decided that we did want to have children. But we weren't 100 per cent sure when. I was actually booked in for a laparoscopy [to investigate for endometriosis] in the middle of May. I was going to do the London Marathon, have the laparoscopy, and after that start thinking about kids. Listen to the full interview with Laura Henshaw on the Stellar podcast, Something To Talk About: Then, all of a sudden, I missed my period. We did a pregnancy test the next day. My husband was so funny. He was like, 'Laura, I think you're pregnant.' And I was like, 'We can't be.' We'd had sex once the month before – like, a morning quickie. I thought, there's no way… [Then] we did the test… and we are pregnant. I'd seen so many videos on Instagram where people have found out they're pregnant. They're crying, their partner's crying. And it wasn't that I wasn't grateful or happy. I was in complete shock. I actually didn't get emotional at all until I told Steph [Claire Smith, Henshaw's business partner and co-founder of their health and wellness company Kic] about five days later. Her reaction was so beautiful. She was sobbing, and then it kind of hit me. I had a fear that I didn't know how I would feel. But I do feel really happy. Stellar: As part of the parasocial relationship you have with your audience, you've had to deal with people repeatedly asking, 'Oh, are you pregnant?' Stellar has had a policy for six years now not to ask high-profile celebrities – male or female – whether they want to have kids. But it's a question that gets asked of women much more often than it's asked of men. Laura Henshaw: In terms of the unsolicited stuff that comes through, people had said to me, 'Are you pregnant?' And that was actually to do with the way my body looked. I got a few messages saying, 'Oh, you've got a little pot belly and it just made me think, like, are you pregnant?' or, 'I probably shouldn't think this, but I wanted to send the message through...' I think if you're ever going to write to someone, 'I probably shouldn't think this, but I just wanted to send it through', it's probably a time not to send that through. It's a question we shouldn't ask women. We should never assume. You never know what anyone is going through behind the scenes. Listen to the full interview with Laura Henshaw on the Stellar podcast, Something To Talk About: Stellar: Your husband Dalton (né Graham, founder and CEO of Melbourne creative agency Bullfrog) took your surname when you got married in 2021. Have you had any discussions about what the family name will be for your baby? Laura Henshaw: When we got married, I said to him, 'I don't really want to change my name. I've built my brand around my name, it means a lot to me. However, I don't expect you to change your name.' We had a really open conversation about it. There was no expectation that because I was female, I would change my name and because he was the man, I would take his. He said, 'Well, it makes sense for you to keep your name. And I want to have the same surname as our kids, so I'll change my name.' So that will mean our baby will have our shared surname: Henshaw. Stellar: Last month, Australian podcaster Chris Griffin made headlines with his views on gender roles in relationships, saying, 'I don't want my partner working unless she wants to work', adding he would prefer to come home to 'calm, harmony, peace and love that a man that's got a busy life, that's chasing his dreams, needs when he's trying to wind down'. You responded to his comments, with your remarks going viral. Did you ever hesitate about speaking up and taking on the manosphere? Laura Henshaw: I watched it and felt this combination of rage and also… what the heck is going on here? How is this content? In all the research I've done over the past few weeks, I've found that the 'manosphere' content is actually now mainstream. And that's really scary, but it hadn't hit my algorithm. The first thing you feel is defeat. We've come so far; we're not an equal society in any way from a gender perspective, but we're making progress. So when you see content like that – especially from a 23-year-old male that isn't in a relationship talking to another male of a similar age that also isn't in a relationship, hasn't experienced having children – I just felt defeated. There were no comments pushing back, [they were all], 'Wow, you're amazing.' I thought, this is insane. Laura Henshaw (continued): As someone who grew up in a household where my parents separated when I was 12 – my mum wasn't working full-time, she didn't have super, and then had to go out and find a full-time job and be a single mum – I have experienced first-hand what happens when you have these traditional gender roles at home and you don't have conversations about finances. This [Griffin clip] was [filmed] in this beautifully lit studio, it had this violin music or piano behind it, and so it made it seem like it was motivational. Like: this is the life that you want to live, you need to follow this person. And I was like, you know what? That's it. I'm going to talk about this. This limiting view of women is so dangerous that I ended up doing a miniseries on it that we released last week called Am I Equal? It was really important for me to do because I think in a heterosexual relationship, if the wife does want to stay home, that's absolutely fine. But they need to have all of the information. They need to have conversations with their partner. They need to have financial control together. Not one person has financial control and then the other one is like, oh, it will be fine. Because you actually don't know if it's going to be fine. Stellar: The #TradWife and #stayathomegirlfriend TikTok trends made the notion of opting out of paid employment seem very appealing to young women. Have the young women in your audience been receptive to the cautionary messages in your commentary and this new miniseries? Laura Henshaw: TradWife content and stay-at-home girlfriends are trends I've struggled with so much. What's really scary with that content is it's so glamorised. It looks amazing. The thing with these content creators is, if you're creating content all day, you have a job, right? So they're showcasing that they don't work, but they really do. Because being a content creator is a job in itself. But you only see 1 per cent of someone's life on social media. This is why I wanted to call out [the Griffin clip], in terms of it being benevolent sexism. It's control disguised as care. They say they're doing it because it's loving, they want to look after you, they want you to 'be in your feminine' – whatever the heck that means – they want you to have freedom. There's no such thing as freedom if it's dictated how you need to be. That's not free. Listen to the full interview with Laura Henshaw on the Stellar podcast, Something To Talk About: Laura Henshaw (continued): The amount of women that reached out to me and said 'Thank you for sharing', or devastatingly, that they had been through [that experience] because their partner said they cared about them and didn't want them to work, and now they're a single parent in a lot of debt, they're struggling, they're living on Centrelink and they wish they had known and had those conversations… That's been really nice to speak to them, and for them to feel empowered by these conversations now being more mainstream.

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