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The Sun
a day ago
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- The Sun
Ferne McCann cruelly mum-shamed for breastfeeding her two-year-old daughter & others also spot ‘massive choking hazard'
FERNE McCann has been cruelly mum-shamed for breastfeeding her two-year-old daughter. Not only this, but others also spotted a ' massive choking hazard ' as the Dancing On Ice and TOWIE star shared what her daughter eats on a typical day. 8 8 8 8 Posting on social media, alongside a clip of her breastfeeding Finty, who she shares with her fiancé Lorri Haines and was born in July 2023, the 34-year-old shared: 'So we always start our day off with some breast milk.' Following this, Ferne explained: 'Then she had a breakfast bagel with cheese and egg. 'She didn't wanna sit in her chair today, so here she is, lady of leisure, just chilling, watching TV. 'I'm gonna be honest, we don't usually make a habit of her sitting on the sofa, but you know, sometimes you just wanna get them to eat and this was what happened this morning." Later in the morning, Ferne shared: 'So she's having a decaf tea, then she had a little breakfast bar.' As Finty strolled around their home, Ferne recognised: 'She had a banana, just waltzing around - she shoved the whole thing in her mouth and then asked for more more.' For Finty's lunch, Ferne served up her 'favourite' dish - a macaroni cheese made with broccoli, alongside a side of hummus and carrots and cucumber. To this, Ferne acknowledged: 'She wasn't really into the little baby crudite, she prefers red pepper. 'More interested in just licking off the hummus, although she did prefer the cucumber. 'She absolutely smashed all of the broccoli cheesy mac.' After lunch, for snacks, Finty tucked into some melon and blueberries, and then for dinner, Ferne made sweet and sour chicken with red pepper, chunky onions and cashew nuts. Ferne then added: 'Served it with rice and then she had grapes to accompany and she absolutely loved it. 'And then more berries al fresco with her sister [ Sunday ] to finish off the day.' The star later wrote: 'Also she has another breastfeed before bed but forgot to film.' 8 Social media users react Ferne's TikTok clip has clearly left many open-mouthed as it was shared just two days ago but has quickly racked up 158,400 views, 4,476 likes and 96 comments. But trolls were out in full force and questioned Ferne's decision to continue breastfeeding her daughter. One person said: 'Two is far too old to be breastfeeding, this is more a mum not wanting to let go.' To this, someone else replied and claimed: 'Agree! It's strange.' Different parenting styles explained There are four recognised styles of parenting explained below: Authoritarian Parenting What some might describe as "regimental" or "strict" parenting. Parents with this style focus on strict rules, obedience, and discipline. Authoritarian parents take over the decision-making power, rarely giving children any input in the matter. When it comes to rules, you believe it's "my way or the highway". Permissive Parenting Often referred to as "soft parenting" or "yes mums/dads". Permissive parents are lenient, only stepping in when there's a serious problem. They're quite forgiving and they adopt an attitude of "kids will be kids". Oftentimes they act more like friends than authoritative figures. Authoritative Parenting Authoritative parents provide their children with rules and boundaries, but they also give them the freedom to make decisions. With an authoritative parenting style, parents validate their children's feelings while also making it clear that the adults are ultimately in charge. They use positive reinforcement techniques, like praise and reward systems, as opposed to harsh punishments. Neglectful or Uninvolved Parenting Essentially, neglectful parents ignore their children, who receive little guidance, nurturing, and parental attention. They don't set rules or expectations, and they tend to have minimal knowledge about what their children are doing. Uninvolved parents expect children to raise themselves. They don't devote much time or energy to meeting children's basic needs. Uninvolved parents may be neglectful but it's not always intentional. A parent with mental health issues or substance abuse problems, for example, may not be able to care for a child's physical or emotional needs consistently. Another added: 'My god. Give her a cup of milk.' Whilst a third gasped: 'Breastfeeding and a nappy at two years of age!!!' Not only this, but others spotted a 'massive choking hazard' as one user advised: 'Please watch your children while they eat and get them to sit down - massive choking hazard to let them walk around.' Ferne's breastfeeding journey But this isn't the first time Ferne has been shamed for breastfeeding Finty. Earlier this year, the reality TV star explained: 'Haven't posted about my breastfeeding journey in a while, but I still get a lot of people asking if I'm still doing it. 'In complete honesty, I've been a bit nervous to share about it lately. Even though I'm such a big advocate for breastfeeding, the truth is, I've been afraid of what people might think or say now that Finty is 20 months old. 'I'm sharing this because if you're like me and still feeding, and you're feeling pressure to stop or wondering if it's 'not the norm' to breastfeed past one, I just want you to know…there are plenty of mums still doing it. Keep going, mamma. 'However it looks, do your normal. 🤎' Not only this, but also on social media, Ferne previously wrote: 'I get asked all the time 'Are you STILL breastfeeding?'' To this, the mum-of-two confirmed: 'To me it feels like the most natural thing in the world. And I wonder when the question changed from 'are you breastfeeding?' To 'are you still breastfeeding?' 'There's so much misinformation about how long breastfeeding is 'appropriate.'' 8 8 When to stop breastfeeding? The NHS recommends breastfeeding your baby exclusively (feeding them breast milk only) for the first six months, but it's completely up to you to decide when you want to bring it to an end - and there's really no right or wrong way to do it. The NHS says stopping breastfeeding often happens gradually as your baby begins to eat more solid foods. They note that solid food shouldn't replace breast milk, as there is evidence to suggest breast milk helps a baby's digestive system when processing solid food for the first time. "Once they are eating solids, your baby will still need to have breast milk or formula as their main drink up to at least their first birthday. "Cows' milk isn't suitable as a main drink for babies under one, although it can be added to foods, such as mashed potatoes,' recommends the NHS. You can also combine breastfeeding with formula and the NHS claims "phasing out" of breastfeeding is often the easiest way - for example, dropping one feed in the day or at night time. After around one week, you can begin to think about dropping another. The NHS advises: "If your baby is younger than one year, you'll need to replace the dropped breastfeed with a formula feed from a bottle or (if they are over six months) a cup or beaker, instead.' What's the average age to stop? You can breastfeed your baby for as long as you want and while the NHS recommends breastfeeding exclusively for the first six months, you shouldn't feel like you cannot continue for longer. The World Health Organisation explains: "Exclusive breastfeeding is recommended up to six months of age, with continued breastfeeding along with appropriate complementary foods up to two years of age or beyond."
The Sun
29-05-2025
- Entertainment
- The Sun
Ferne McCann ‘lets slip' THIRD pregnancy news saying ‘I'm not done yet' with having kids
FERNE McCann wants even more kids as she reveals she might have a third baby. The mum-of-two was asked about her family plans after opening up on experiencing some postnatal depression during an appearance on the Dr Louise Newson podcast. 4 4 4 "You said you've got two children and you're stopping, I said that when I was 35 and on my 40th birthday I found out I was pregnant," Dr Louise began in her question to Ferne. "So what's your focus? What are you up to?" she asked Ferne. The reality TV star said: "My sensible head is like 'no more babies,' but I don't feel done. "I've got my two girlies, [and] am I done? I don't know." Ferne, 34, revealed she was starting her own podcast called, Every Cloud, after ending her reality show last year so she could focus on "other passions." The TV star rose to fame on The Only Way Is Essex in 2013 and quit the show in 2016. Ferne is a mother to two daughters: Sunday, who was born in 2017 with her ex-boyfriend, Arthur Collins, and Finty, who was born in 2023 with her fiancé, Lorri Haines. Lorri also has a son with a former partner. She was recently mum-shamed after sharing a photo of feeding her 20-month old daughter to Instagram. In the picture, Finty is feeding while Ferne kissing her child lovingly on the top of her head as they sit on the sofa. Ferne McCann twirls around in green bikini on holiday and tells fans she has 'sagging boobs and cellulite' Alongside the snap, the star wrote: 'Haven't posted about my breastfeeding journey in a while, but I still get a lot of people asking if I'm still doing it. 'In complete honesty, I've been a bit nervous to share about it lately. Even though I'm such a big advocate for breastfeeding, the truth is, I've been afraid of what people might think or say now that Finty is 20 months old.' 'I'm sharing this because if you're like me and still feeding, and you're feeling pressure to stop or wondering if it's 'not the norm' to breastfeed past one, I just want you to know…there are plenty of mums still doing it. Keep going, mamma,' she added. What is postnatal depression? Postnatal depression is a type of depression that affects parents after they have a baby. The major depression is triggered by childbirth but is much more severe than just the "baby blues". It can also occur following a miscarriage or stillbirth of a baby. Many women can feel emotional and anxious after the birth of their child, commonly referred to as the 'baby blues', this will only last for a few weeks after giving birth. If these symptoms start to last longer the NHS advises that you could be suffering with postnatal depression. The symptoms include but are not limited to: a persistent feeling of sadness, lack of enjoyment and loss of interest in the outside world, as well as your baby, and a lack of energy. These signs can build up gradually so a lot of people don't immediately identify that they have postnatal depression. A number of celebrity mums have opened up about suffering from postnatal depression following giving birth. Singer Adele has said that after the birth of her son Angelo she felt 'inadequate' and embarrassed to talk about how she was feeling. John Legend's wife and model Chrissy Teigen revealed she was diagnosed with postnatal depression in December after going into a downward spiral following the birth of her daughter Luna. Gwyneth Paltrow explained she was dogged by postnatal depression after son Moses was born in 2006. Loose Woman Stacey Solomon said she suffered from depression after the birth of her first son Zachary when she was just 18 years old. While her co-host Andrea McLean has also talked about the condition on the programme. Another famous face to talk about her experience is WAG Rebekah Vardy after she gave birth to son Finley with footballer husband Jamie Vardy. Kate Middleton visited Maurice Wohl Clinical Neuroscience Institute at King's College London to discuss postpartum depression with experts. After speaking to scientists, the Duchess reflected on the day; although she has never explicitly claimed to have suffered with it, she said: "There's an expectation you're going to be super happy all the time, and one in four of us aren't." Melanie Hughes, former Miss Wales and Corrie actress tragically passed away in October 2017 due to her heavy drinking, linked to her post natal depression. While she was praised for her open and honest discussion about motherhood, with some calling her a 'rockstar' and others praising her for 'going at her child's pace'. However, others were quick to criticise her, stating her daughter was 'too old' to still be latched on. The NHS says the amount of time a baby is breastfed relies entirely on the it and the mother. It recommends exclusive breastfeeding (breast milk only) for around the first six months of a baby's life, at which point it is ideal to start introducing solid foods. "You and your baby can carry on enjoying the benefits of breastfeeding for as long as you like," the NHS recommends. "Breastfeeding into your baby's 2nd year or beyond, alongside other foods, is ideal." 4
Daily Mail
08-05-2025
- Entertainment
- Daily Mail
Ferne McCann reveals she experienced suicidal thoughts during depression battle that began while she was filming The Only Way Is Essex
Ferne McCann has revealed she had suicidal thoughts during the darkest periods of her depression - and claims her mental health battle began while filming The Only Way Is Essex. The reality star, 34, became a household name when she joined TOWIE in 2013 thanks to her larger-than-life personality and fiery on-screen showdowns. But behind the glamorous facade, Ferne says she was deeply unhappy - admitting she often cried after filming and felt overwhelmed by the demands of reality TV fame. 'I was depressed on that show,' she says. 'I was showing up as this real bitchy character, when that wasn't me. I don't like confrontation. 'I was pretending and getting amongst it to get the airtime because I wanted that fame... but I was so down. I would literally just cry.' Speaking live at a Trouble Club talk in North London on Wednesday night, she continued: 'It was savage. It was intense. It was really hard.' Ferne, who shares seven-year-old daughter Sunday with her ex, jailed acid attacker Arthur Collins, and 22-month-old daughter Finty with her fiancé Lorri Haines, sought help from the on-set mental health team - but was shocked when the suggested solution was medication, rather than stepping away from the show. 'I remember speaking to the team and the psych[iatrist] said, "Have you thought about antidepressants?" she recalled. 'Now, I'm not against them - there's a place for them - but for me, it was like, how is that the first thing?' She adds: 'There was a position called cast liaison and I was like, "These producers, there must have been a module," because I didn't go to university or anything like that. I was like, "there must have been a module where it was like the art of manipulation". 'Because I'd be like, "I'm not doing it. I'm ot going in that scene. I'm not saying that!" And they'd be like, "but you're so good at it." And they'd keep you in a room. It's not like that now on TOWIE.' Ferne left the show in 2016 after three tumultuous years, and later went on to appear in I'm A Celebrity... Get Me Out Of Here! where she won over the public by showing her true, softer side. But she admits the damage to her mental health had already been done - and it would take years of therapy to begin to heal. 'I've had seven years of therapy now,' she said. 'I found myself in a really dark place - very, very low and dealing with anxiety... and having suicidal thoughts at one stage in my life.' Ferne's experience on TOWIE also coincided with the explosive rise of Twitter, now X, meaning trolling and public judgement were inescapable. 'People had opinions on how I looked, how I spoke, how I behaved,' she said. 'It was like overnight success that I really struggled with' 'People had opinions on how I looked, how I spoke, how I behaved,' she said. 'It was like overnight success that I really struggled with. 'That was when trolling really started. That was when I started to struggle with my mental health.' Today, Ferne says she feels very different in her approach to life - calmer, more grounded, and determined to use her platform for good. 'I did have a breakdown, but I needed it,' she says. '[Therapy] was the best decision that I've ever ever ever made because now I feel like a changed person. I'm so different in the way I approach and handle tough times, good times. 'I've calmed and instead of reacting, I respond and I really take my time and I feel very grateful for going through those really dark moments to then go and meet with a therapist and now get to where I am today. I've been on a real healing journey. 'Healing isn't linear, and s***'s gonna happen, but I can't imagine my life without the really tough times because it's shaped who I am.' After stepping back from reality TV and ending her long-running ITVBe series First Time Mum last year after 13 seasons, Ferne is now focusing on helping others. WHAT IS DEPRESSION? While it is normal to feel down from time to time, people with depression may feel persistently unhappy for weeks or months on end. Depression can affect anyone at any age and is fairly common – approximately one in ten people are likely to experience it at some point in their life. Depression is a genuine health condition which people cannot just ignore or 'snap out of it'. Symptoms and effects vary, but can include constantly feeling upset or hopeless, or losing interest in things you used to enjoy. It can also cause physical symptoms such as problems sleeping, tiredness, having a low appetite or sex drive, and even feeling physical pain. In extreme cases it can lead to suicidal thoughts. Traumatic events can trigger it, and people with a family history may be more at risk. It is important to see a doctor if you think you or someone you know has depression, as it can be managed with lifestyle changes, therapy or medication. 'We're about to launch a podcast which I'm really excited about,' she said. 'I don't want to give away the name because that sort of spoils the launch, but it's based on mental health and what I've been through.' She added she now takes each day as it comes. 'Everyone asks me, am I going to have more kids? I am really looking forward to just focusing on my passions.' Her passions still include reality TV. 'I'd love to do Strictly - I'm such a fan of the show. We sit down and watch it as a family,' she admits. 'I love the Masked Singer as well. You could almost just hide behind this massive costume and just give a good old karaoke session.' As for her advice to others on their mental health journey, she says: 'Be true to who you are and surround yourself with people that genuinely care about you. 'Therapy has played a massive part in my mental health journey and meditation - sitting in stillness and prayer and just being able to connect with yourself. I think you find that through being with yourself.' If you are suffering from depression, call Samaritans free on 116 123.
