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Time of India
10 hours ago
- Health
- Time of India
Beyond Hashtags: Clout Chasing Confused for Luck?
How long can a person keep on going with their life and pretend that everything is alright but in reality things are not going the way they had planned? The answer is not about the amount of time, instead it all comes down what we think is the reason for not doing well on the promise we made to ourselves. Tired of too many ads? go ad free now Daily affirmations, positive chants, believing to be destined for greatness, trying to manifest your fantasy into a reality paved in gold, eventually gives rise to toxic positivity in a human's psyche. While there is no evidence on how long has this been a thing, internet has finally come together to give a name to this social and psychological phenomenon, 'Lucky Girl Syndrome.' What is Lucky Girl Syndrome? Recently, internet has been a playground for young women—and now men too—claiming how lucky they are as all their dreams has finally come to fruition. What drives the craze behind this trend is a common belief among the people that if you stay consistent in your positivity and let the worldly factors not influence your mind, the universe will eventually bless you. In many cases, a user begins their journey into manifestation with unrealistic goals and begins to falter at first sight of failure. As Dr. Rahul Chandhok , Sr. Consultant & Head of Psychiatry at Artemis Hospitals said, 'The 'Lucky Girl Syndrome' proposes that success is just a product of positive thinking and positive expectations. Such an attitude can enhance confidence in the short term, but it can prove to be negative when young creators face real challenges. If they believe success hinges on attitude alone, they may blame themselves when things fail, ignoring broader problems like algorithms, competition, or lack of resources.' Internet's volatility has many a times proven to be a key factor in the success cases of this trend. However, it is impossible for everyone achieve what their competitor was able to. Tired of too many ads? go ad free now Sometimes it can take months, or even years, to reach the level that some were able to achieve in a matter of days leading to an array of self-doubt and mental issues. Dr. Vanaja Reddy Puli , Consultant Psychiatrist at Apollo Hospital noted, 'When likes and number of followers above all define worth, there is a very delicate psychological ecology wherein mood and self-confidence fluctuate by external metrics.' While it is great to be self-positive, sometimes too much positivity can be toxic. Dr Puli continued, 'Toxic positivity is the overgeneralization of a happy, optimistic state that dismisses authentic emotions and struggles. It invalidates negative feelings by forcing cheerfulness, which can lead to guilt, shame, or emotional suppression.' Who is the most affected by Lucky Girl Syndrome? While the term 'Lucky Girl Syndrome' is gaining popularity among the people around the world, it is yet to be scientifically recognised. Some experts argue that it is not an actual syndrome and more like a state of mind. Universally, it is most commonly seen in Gen Z, especially those who spend majority of their time on social media. No matter how we look at it, there is always a reason for something. There must be something that this phase in a person's life brings to the table. If it is all bad, then why would anyone want to take that step in the first place? Ms. Mehezabin Dordi , Clinical Psychologist, Sir HN Reliance Foundation Hospital stated, 'When practiced mindfully, the Lucky Girl Syndrome—which emphasizes affirmations and the belief that 'everything works out for me'—can enhance self-efficacy, reduce anxiety, and build a more optimistic outlook, which in turn promotes emotional resilience. This mindset shift is from fear-based or scarcity thinking to possibility-oriented thinking. It aligns with principles from cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), which shows that the way we talk to ourselves significantly affects our behavior and emotions.' But it is important for the user to know the difference between motivation and magic and set their goals with a realistic approach. Liza Hazarika , manifestation coach and spiritual therapist mentioned, 'It's very easy to lose hope when you are at your lowest; you just forget how far you have come in your life and your past troubles. In those times when you are using affirmations, or your manifestations, you are reviving your brain. My affirmation practices helped me keep focus in life and it kept reminding me of what I truly want in life.' She continued, 'Lucky Girl Syndrome can oversimplify things and privileges play an important role. Positivity is very powerful, but it is not a cure to all things bad.' Ananya Panday in Call Me Bae How to deal with mental health problems and self-worth issues It is important for the people, especially the younger generation, to set boundaries and have a life outside their social media handles. Dr. Chandhok stated, 'They should also remind themselves regularly that social media only displays a tiny piece of their entire being. Frequent breaks, having offline hobbies, and spending time with people familiar to them other than their online identity can also sustain a balance.' Call Me Bae vs. Lucky Girl Syndrome
The Guardian
02-07-2025
- Entertainment
- The Guardian
Women behind the lens: bending over backwards for luck
Growing up in Colombia – and online – has defined the way I create art: my identity has been formed by a country riddled with superficial and conservative values; a happy country but also one of the most violent; a country where men pray to virgins and kill the ones who are not. The internet felt like a safe space where I could be anyone – as a vulnerable young girl who felt out of place where I lived, it helped me define my personality and interests but it also alienated me from the real world and made me hyper aware of the way I looked and existed. After leaving home and living by myself for the first time in 2023, I developed an obsession with online self-help culture, particularly pseudo-spiritual content under the hashtag Lucky Girl Syndrome – TikToks about getting your dream life if you listen to specific audio tracks that featured elements such as 'layered frequencies', soft synths, reversed whispers and spoken affirmations. Users post clips with text saying things like: 'If you hear this, you're entering a new chapter. Expect blessings within 24h.' I wanted to be this lucky girl who gets everything she wishes for if only she follows these rituals properly. A part of me did it ironically, but a part of me truly felt it. Sign up to Her Stage Hear directly from incredible women from around the world on the issues that matter most to them – from the climate crisis to the arts to sport after newsletter promotion This image is part of my project, Lucky Girl Syndrome, which grew out of this deep dive into self-help online: I wanted to play with this obsession in order to detach myself from it. I created a mood board in my bedroom, covering the walls in printouts of affirmations I found online. Some of them were heartfelt, some of them came from meme pages that satirised the culture: 'I am in my safe zone'; 'I am not clenching my jaw right now'; 'Angels are watching 333'; 'I am light'; 'CLICK to be saved'. I noticed these images of affirmations were usually paired with light orbs. These orbs look like how we want to feel: weightless, golden, gentle, magical, powerful and limitless. I wanted to create a theatre-like set where I could portray myself embodying different kinds of lucky girls – this is the yogi lucky girl who bends over backwards for luck. The Lucky Girl Syndrome project is an interrogation of the economy of hope where girls like me find solace in using our devices and bedrooms as portals to wellness and self improvement. But it's also part of my wider body of work where I am interested in questioning who and what the female form exists to serve. Growing up in a culture where our beauty is our worth, so much so that cosmetic surgery is normalised but Catholic morality still dictates ideas of gender roles, family and sexuality, I became attuned to how online self-help culture repackages control as empowerment, especially for women. Isabella Madrid is a Colombian artist and photographer
Time of India
24-06-2025
- Entertainment
- Time of India
ILLIT's Wonhee scammed? Idol shares how she bought a ‘fake' Labubu doll – find out what happened
The quirky Labubu dolls have become the next big trend and have taken the world by storm. The general public and celebrities alike have been trying to get their hands on the authentic monkey-shaped creatures, with ILLIT's Wonhee being one of them. The idol, however, recently came online and shared her ordeal with fans about how her attempt to buy the doll turned into a scam. ILLIT Wonhee was scammed into buying a 'fake' doll The idol recently took to an online fan forum to share how she ended up getting scammed into buying a 'fake' labubu doll. The idol shared that she had attempted to purchase a doll online and had even checked the authenticity of the item offline and in person. However, when she finalised her purchase and went home to check it out, she ended up discovering that the person had scammed her. She shared how as soon as she reached home, she checked the box, which at first glance seemed authentic and real; however, once she opened it up, she found that the dolls inside were 'fake' and knock-offs of the original. In her messages to fans while conversing about the scam, the 'Lucky Girl Syndrome' singer wrote, 'Unnie… I got scammed… Tell me this isn't true.' She then continued, stating that, 'I'm so speechless… I bought it after seeing it IRL… The box seemed real…' The idol even shared photographs of the authentic box alongside the 'fake' labubu dolls as well. by Taboola by Taboola Sponsored Links Sponsored Links Promoted Links Promoted Links You May Like Giao dịch CFD với công nghệ và tốc độ tốt hơn IC Markets Đăng ký Undo She even posted a selfie looking shocked and 'traumatised' as well to express her emotions over the recent scam. Netizens and fans react to Wonhee's ordeal After Wonhee opened up about her ordeal online, fans from all over the world started reacting to the rookie idol's purchase. Many fans sympathised with the idol and even made fun of her as well. Many called the idol cute for sharing the reaction as well. One fan commented, 'I don't like those labubu stuff, but I would buy one for my girl,' while another shared that 'Wonhee had me in hysterics because of this… she is tew cute omg.'
Korea Herald
30-04-2025
- Entertainment
- Korea Herald
Illit to return in mid-June: report
Illit is poised to make a comeback in mid-June, according to a local media report on Wednesday. Agency Belift Lab confirmed the news but did not provide more details. The group of five will be bringing out a new album about eight months after its second EP, 'I'll Like You.' The mini album ranked No. 94 on Billboard 200 and sold over half a million. The upcoming album would be released after the members greet their fans at first fan concert 'Glitter Day' which will be held in Seoul June 7-8. They will host another in Japan in the following months, in Yokohama and Osaka. Meanwhile, Illit reached the 100 million streams mark on Spotify for the second time with 'Lucky Girl Syndrome.' The B-side track from its first EP 'Super Real Me' achieved the feat as of last week, following its debut single 'Magnetic.'
