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Scottish Sun
17-06-2025
- General
- Scottish Sun
How to avoid falling for a Man Child on the dating scene & the tell-tale sign you're already seeing one without knowing
Not cleaning up after himself is one of the first things to look out for GROW UP How to avoid falling for a Man Child on the dating scene & the tell-tale sign you're already seeing one without knowing Click to share on X/Twitter (Opens in new window) Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window) THE dating world is hard to navigate as it is, with more apps than anyone could know what to do with, ghosting, red flags and more. Now, the term 'Man Child' has been thrown in there too, as Sabrina Carpenter's latest single has singletons calling out their ex flames. Sign up for Scottish Sun newsletter Sign up 2 There are some red flags to look out when dating a new man Credit: Getty 2 The term Man Child refers to a man who emotionally immature Credit: Getty The term describes a man who acts like a child in a relationship, or just in general. That includes emotionally immature men who can't, or won't, give their partner support. They might be immature, unreliable and irresponsible, leaving you to pick up their slack - the last thing you want in a long term commitment. Luckily, dating app Hily relationship expert Dr. Marisa T. Cohen, PhD, shared with the Daily Mail the tell-tale signs to be on the lookout for if you're either trying to avoid dating a Man Child, or wondering if you're already seeing one. According to the pro, one easy way to figure out a person's emotional maturity is to pay attention to how they handle conflict in different areas of their life. 'Their answer can tell you a lot — like if they're self-aware, whether they stick it out when things get rough, and how well they keep their cool (or not)," Marisa explained. Another indicator if a potential lover is a Man Child or not is if they did the work on themselves by going to therapy and learning skills to regulate their emotions. 'You'll get a sense of what they need, how they handle things, and maybe even how they deal with stress or think about mental health,' the expert explained. Another good was is to ask your potential suitor what they're most proud of in their life. This way, the pro explained, you can hear about their big wins and how they "handled any curveballs along the way." Love Island fans call Islander a 'red flag' as he makes shock dating admission It's pretty normal to talk about past relationships when getting to know someone you might be romantically interested in, but avoiding basic questions is the key to really getting to know someone. Instead of asking when their last relationship was, for example, the dating pro suggested asking what they learned from it. 'Basically, you're seeing if they've taken time to reflect, process the ups and downs, and figure out how to do better next time,' the expert said. According to VeryWellMind, if your man doesn't help around the house you should be on high alert. "If asked to help with chores, an immature person might respond petulantly. "They might need to be bribed or demand compensation for performing tasks that are simply a routine part of keeping a home and functioning as a responsible adult." Not only that, put their partner might need to remind them to shower, brush their teeth and perform basic hygiene tasks. If a man is acting like Peter Pan, you could easily fall into the trap of being his Wendy, meaning you could end up unconsciously encouraging his behaviour by acting like his mum. You might even enjoy being able to comfort and look after him in the early days of the relationship, the pros noted. "Initially, you might have felt attracted to and enjoyed these aspects of your partner's personality. "As your relationship progressed (perhaps even to marriage), however, you might have become exhausted by, or even resentful of, your partner's immature behaviour."
The Irish Sun
17-06-2025
- Entertainment
- The Irish Sun
How to avoid falling for a Man Child on the dating scene & the tell-tale sign you're already seeing one without knowing
THE dating world is hard to navigate as it is, with more apps than anyone could know what to do with, ghosting, red flags and more. Now, the term 'Man Child' has been thrown in there too, as Sabrina Carpenter's latest single has singletons calling out their ex flames. 2 There are some red flags to look out when dating a new man Credit: Getty 2 The term Man Child refers to a man who emotionally immature Credit: Getty The term describes a man who acts like a child in a relationship, or just in general. That includes emotionally immature men who can't, or won't, give their partner support. They might be immature, unreliable and irresponsible, leaving you to pick up their slack - the last thing you want in a long term commitment. Luckily, dating app Hily relationship expert Dr. Marisa T. Cohen, PhD, shared with the READ MORE ON DATING According to the pro, one easy way to figure out a person's emotional maturity is to pay attention to how they handle conflict in different areas of their life. 'Their answer can tell you a lot — like if they're self-aware, whether they stick it out when things get rough, and how well they keep their cool (or not)," Marisa explained. Another indicator if a potential lover is a Man Child or not is if they did the work on themselves by going to therapy and learning skills to regulate their emotions. 'You'll get a sense of what they need, how they handle things, and maybe even how they deal with stress or think about mental health ,' the expert explained. Most read in Fabulous Another good was is to ask your potential suitor what they're most proud of in their life. This way, the pro explained, you can hear about their big wins and how they "handled any curveballs along the way." Love Island fans call Islander a 'red flag' as he makes shock dating admission It's pretty normal to talk about past relationships when getting to know someone you might be romantically interested in, but avoiding basic questions is the key to really getting to know someone. Instead of asking when their last relationship was, for example, the dating pro suggested asking what they learned from it. 'Basically, you're seeing if they've taken time to reflect, process the ups and downs, and figure out how to do better next time,' the expert said. According to "If asked to help with chores, an immature person might respond petulantly. "They might need to be bribed or demand compensation for performing tasks that are simply a routine part of keeping a home and functioning as a responsible adult." Not only that, put their partner might need to remind them to shower, brush their teeth and perform basic hygiene tasks. If a man is acting like Peter Pan, you could easily fall into the trap of being his Wendy, meaning you could end up unconsciously encouraging his behaviour by acting like his mum. You might even enjoy being able to comfort and look after him in the early days of the relationship, the pros noted. "Initially, you might have felt attracted to and enjoyed these aspects of your partner's personality. "As your relationship progressed (perhaps even to marriage), however, you might have become exhausted by, or even resentful of, your partner's immature behaviour." 15 Relationship red flags to look out for Red flags are warning signs that indicate unhealthy or manipulative behaviour. When you encounter relationship red flags, it's a good time to pause and reflect on the dynamic you really share with that person. Overly controlling behaviour Lack of trust Feeling low self-esteem Physical, emotional, or mental abuse Substance abuse Narcissism Anger management issues Codependency Inability to resolve conflict Constant jealousy Gaslighting Lack of emotional intelligence Negatively affecting your relationship with family and friends Inability to communicate openly Lack of social connection or friends For more advice and support,
Newsweek
07-05-2025
- Newsweek
Fury at What Coworker Does When He Discovers Female Colleague on Dating App
Based on facts, either observed and verified firsthand by the reporter, or reported and verified from knowledgeable sources. Newsweek AI is in beta. Translations may contain inaccuracies—please refer to the original content. A woman working in a male-dominated field says her coworker found her on a dating app—and used that information to shame her in front of their entire workplace. In a viral Reddit post, the woman wrote about the moment her colleague told everyone in the office she was using a dating app, after supposedly seeing her profile via his brother. Since the post was published, it has received over 22,000 upvotes. Newsweek spoke to therapist Dr. Marisa T. Cohen about the situation and how the poster can move forward in a job she wants to keep. "I wasn't working the day he made this discovery," the woman wrote in the post. "Upon finding out I was on said dating app, he made it a point to let everyone know I was. I found it odd. Why should he or anyone else care?" Stock photo: A woman is excluded at work. Stock photo: A woman is excluded at poster quickly realized the motive behind the announcement wasn't entirely innocent. "I then realized it was in a …'she's desperate' fashion," she wrote. She also explained the uncomfortable social dynamics at play in her workplace: "Not only is the workplace and field in general male-dominated, but I am more than 20 years younger than the majority of my co-workers—with the exception of the guy who spread the info and a couple others." Though the woman initially hoped the teasing would pass, it hasn't. To make matters worse, she added that the same colleague often gives her unsolicited "advice" on her appearance. "I'm looking for advice on what I can do in this situation without turning it into an HR fiasco," the woman wrote, adding that she wants to stay at the job for another year. Many Reddit users were quick to point out that the behavior she described already crossed a professional and legal line. "Honestly, depending on the things they are saying to you, it could be deemed sexual harassment and should absolutely be taken to HR," one person wrote. "No one deserves to be picked on, bullied, harassed or bothered at work. Especially working in a field that heavily dominated by the other gender." Another, who works in human resources, added: "This is absolutely sexual harassment and needs to be addressed. This is no way for a professional to be behaving in the workplace, especially from an older adult." A Relationship Expert Weighs In Cohen, a dating and relationship expert at Hily, agreed with the general Reddit sentiment. "This behavior is a form of misogyny that is creating a toxic workplace environment," she told Newsweek. "It can stem from various sources, including an attempt to maintain control by asserting power over the woman through belittling and mocking her. This often reinforces existing power dynamics, especially in male-dominated work settings. "Additionally, it reflects a broader cultural double standard, where women's private lives—especially dating lives—are more heavily judged than men's." For the poster who might be hesitant to involve HR, Cohen offered practical advice: "If she feels safe to confront the man in question directly, she should make sure not to be in a confined space or secluded area and to document the interaction immediately after," she said. "She should also confide in her support system at work, such as any trusted colleagues and speak to her direct manager or any other leader … Document everything." The poster shared a brief follow-up to their post after the massive response, writing: "Thank you all so much for the advice and overall validation. I'm currently at work and still mulling things over. Considering having a chat with said coworker if I see them today." Her story has struck a chord with thousands, highlighting how women's personal lives can be weaponized in professional spaces—and prompting continual calls for accountability in the workplace. Newsweek reached out to u/No-Bathroom8194 for comment via Reddit.
