03-07-2025
Meet Out's Most Eligible Bachelorexes of 2025
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River Gallo; Holmes; Kehlani
It's once again time for Out's Most Eligible lists!
We've already brought you our list of 2025's Most Eligible Bachelors and Bachelorettes, but what about all the they/thems, she/theys, he/theys, and other nonbinary and gender nonconforming hotties?
These queer, nonbinary luminaries inspire us to be our best selves. Here are our love letters to 2025 list of Most Eligible Bachelorexes.
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We like you, Kehlani, like we like our honey!
We've been getting down to your music for a decade now, Kehlani, and we'll never get enough! From your collaborations and guest spots on other artists' songs to your original R&B, we've had your music in constant rotation for most of our adult lives.
Thank you for providing us with some of the sexiest songs of the decade, including "After Hours," "Next 2 U," "1st Position," and your newest single, "Folded." Whenever one of your songs comes on, we know the temperature is going up!
We also remember when you teamed up with Lesbian Jesus Hayley Kiyoko for the "What I Need" single and video, giving sapphic music fans one of the hottest and most memorable collabs in music history!
We also love your politics, Kehlani. You're always one of the first ones to speak up when you see injustice in the world, and even when you're attacked for your beliefs, you never back down.
We'd love to worship at your "Altar," let us light the candles and call your name!
Holmes, is anyone in the world as funny as you?
We were already huge fans thanks to your work on Welcome to Flatch, as the hilarious, big-hearted, and overly confident Kelly. Then, this year, you showed up in two of our favorite shows, Hacks and Overcompensating, and we fell head over heels!
You brought so much chaotic energy to the college world of Overcompensating as Hailee, Carmen's unhinged roommate.
Hailee's always ready to pump up her girlfriends, she's always down to party, and she's willing to drop everything if Carmen needs her. All of her lines are iconic, and each line read is legendary. She's exactly the kind of college bff we could all use! And Holmes, you're exactly the kind of comedian and actor that makes us fans.
River, what can we say other than thank you?
Thank you for raising awareness about intersex issues through your advocacy and art. Thank you for never backing down about your life and identity. Thank you for blessing us with the genius with Ponyboi.
You wrote and starred in the 2024 film that shines a light on intersex stories. And yours is one of the best performances of the year. As a sex worker on the run from the mob and trying to find love and community, you blew us away. No cap, we think Ponyboi is a better movie than Anora, and we think your performance is just as good as Mikey Madison's. We see an Oscar in your future!
You're also so charming, funny, and smart in every interview we watch with you, and we'd love to sit down with you over coffee and hear your stories. Call us?
From Glee to Broadway and film and TV roles like Zoey's Extraordinary Playlist and Another Simple Favor, we love every time we see you, Alex!
Back when we first met you on The Glee Project and then Glee, we were blown away by your voice, your presence, and your power.
Now that we've had the opportunity to see you grow into your whole self, we are truly stunned. When you show up in Shucked singing about being independently owned and operated, you make us all want to be the best women we can be!
In 2023, you made history as one of the first two nonbinary actors to win a Tony Award, and we know you've got more wins in your future!
We'd love to stand by you, Alex!
Amandla, we've been fans since you starred in one of our favorite teen series, The Hunger Games, and we've only become bigger fans as your career has progressed!
As a teen, you came out as both nonbinary and queer, inspiring young people everywhere, and helping young Black queer people to feel less alone in the world.
When you starred in The Hate U Give and Dear Evan Hansen, we got a new taste of just how talented you are, but it was in your roles in the party horror film Bodies Bodies Bodies and the Star Wars show The Acolyte that solidified your place in our hearts.
We love the queer energy you brought to the Star Wars universe as twins Osha and Mae, making us look at Jedi and the Force in a whole new way.
We can't wait to see what you do next!
Lily Gladstone, we're still mad you didn't win the Oscar for Killers of the Flower Moon! We love Emma Stone, but your stoic and powerful performance as Mollie Burkhart stole the show from acting legends like Leonardo DiCaprio and Robert De Niro.
You also blew us away in other films like Certain Women and First Cow from Kelly Reichardt, and we adored you as the cool lesbian auntie helping her niece in Fancy Dance.
You appeared in just two episodes of Reservation Dogs and blew us away with your immense talent. You left us sobbing as Hokti, Daniel's imprisoned mother. Watching you help Willie Jack connect with her ancestors in the episode "Offerings" was one of the most powerful things we've ever seen on TV. You also starred in Under the Bridge as a queer cop investigating the murder of a teen girl opposite Riley Keough, and we were mesmerized.
This year, in The Wedding Banquet, you showed us a new model for queer families and made us laugh, cry, and cheer.
We know you'll get that Oscar soon!
Anania, you ping our Gaydars!
We love you, Anania. We love your fashion, makeup, and beautiful smile. We love your voice, your laugh, and your sense of humor. And we love your show, Gaydar!
Your interviews with queer celebs are some of the funniest on the internet and have the bonus of being genuinely educational about the queer community and queer history!
Whether you're asking Reneé Rapp and Chappell Roan how many famous lesbians they can name, asking the Governor of Michigan for gay bar recommendations, or asking Lucy Dacus to do gay math, you have us transfixed! And we have to thank you for letting us know which of our fav queeer celebs are secretly homophobes! How else would we know?
We never tire of hearing your voice, seeing your face, or learning from you, Anania. Please keep it up! P.S. We believe your theory that Prince was a he/him lesbian!
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This year, sapphics around the world discovered they had a new type when they saw you, Caitlin Cunningham! With your cool tattoos, emo makeup, sexy haircut, and fierce fangs, you have queers from Austraila to America losing it!
We love a tall girl, and at 6'4", we love looking up to you!
As a player in Australia's WNBL, you staged an inspiring comeback when you returned to basketball during the COVID-19 pandemic after years away from the game. Your hard work and tenacious attitude have shown us that we can pursue all our dreams! Now, you're making even the most committed non-sports fan want to watch a game!
You're awesome (and intimidating!) makeup during games brings a new meaning to "in the paint!" And we love the way you continue to be your most authentic self off the court as a model, singer, and fashion icon.
You're the GOAT (Goth of All Time), Caitlin, we'd love to play some one-on-one with you sometime!
This article originally appeared on Out: Meet Out's Most Eligible Bachelorexes of 2025
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