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Indian Express
28-06-2025
- Entertainment
- Indian Express
Kareena Kapoor once revealed husband Saif Ali Khan picks up on her lingo: ‘Words like guts, mess…the whole world is talking like that'
Kareena Kapoor Khan often steals hearts and keeps the Internet buzzing with her candid, bare-faced selfies, snippets of European vacations, and designer ensembles. Kareena, who has inspired a generation with her roles like Poo from Kabhi Khushi Kabhie Gham and Geet from Jab We Met, one said that the way talks has caught on not only with Gen-z, but also her husband, actor Saif Ali Khan. In a 2022 interview with Pinkvilla, Kareena sat down for a rapid-fire round on all things beauty, food, and Gen Z speak. When asked what the most Kareena thing Saif has adapted is, the Crew actor revealed it's her unique vocabulary. 'I think my lingo. Words like guts, mess…the whole world is talking like that. It's become Gen Z lingo. Suddenly, everyone is like 'guts' and 'mess' and I'm like, I want credit for all!' she told the interviewer. Rima Bhandekar, psychologist at Mpower Aditya Birla Education Trust, told that when two people spend a long time together, their way of talking often starts to match. This happens naturally through something called mirroring, where people subconsciously copy each other's manner, words, and even body language. This happens because of the way our brains are built—to connect and bond with each other. 'Mirroring each other helps make being together feel easier and more in sync, so there are fewer miscommunication issues, and creates a sync between the couple – a sense of 'we' instead of 'me.' These small changes can turn into habits, especially when they lead to warm responses like smiles, laughter, or heartfelt talks,' she explained. According to Bhandekar, the timeline for similar communication styles to happen varies. 'For some, changes take place within a few months. For others, it could take longer. But in most long-term partnerships, it's common to see a pattern of shared phrases, inside jokes, and similar expressions become part of the couple's everyday vibe,' she said. A post shared by Kareena Kapoor Khan (@kareenakapoorkhan) Despite popular romantic notions of love, relationships take work, effort, and healthy habits and practices. Apart from noticing and appreciating the good in your partner, there are other behaviours and habits, too, which can significantly improve your love life. Irfan Fayaz, Doctoral Research Fellow at Jindal Institute of Behavioural Sciences, believes that a relationship is healthy when both partners mutually support each other emotionally, physically, and mentally while maintaining open and honest communication, trust, respect, expressing appreciation for each other, expressing empathy, and importantly valuing each other's vulnerabilities. Besides mirroring, developing daily habits that strengthen your romantic relationship can help maintain a strong and healthy bond with your partner. Make time for each other: Carve out dedicated time to spend with your partner daily, even if it's just for a few minutes. Show appreciation: Express gratitude for your partner's efforts and contributions to the relationship. This could be as simple as saying 'thank you' or 'I love you.' Communicate regularly: Practise open and honest communication regularly, sharing your thoughts, feelings, and needs with each other. Practice active listening: Listen attentively to your partner and try to understand their perspective, without interrupting or judging.
Indian Express
25-05-2025
- Entertainment
- Indian Express
‘What we go through as actors in the industry, our parents also go through it': Jacqueline Fernandez on how parents' support important for child's career
Jacqueline Fernandez recently represented India at the Red Sea Film Festival at Cannes. During her time at the French Riviera, The Hollywood Reporter caught up with her for a quick interview, where the Gentleman actor recalled the time when her family supported her during her Hollywood debut. During the shooting of Kill 'Em All 2, her entire family flew down to Italy while she was shooting. 'I just couldn't believe. I was doing lines with him (Jean-Claude Van Damme), working with him. He was my icon. I think my entire family. We had this laser disc. My dad was hellbent that if we have to watch Jean Claude, we have to watch him on a laser disc. And cut to, I am on a set with him in Italy. We helped each other with lines. My parents came down and they were like, 'We love our daughter. She made us proud.' Life came full circle. At moments like this you feel it was all worth it–the struggle, the challenges, everything,' she told the publication. Sharing her two cents about the struggle actors face in the industry, Fernandez added: ''What we go through as actors in the industry, our parents also go through it. Everything, it's out there. It takes so much for parents to still support you through everything. My mother was always proud of me and she would always want me to keep striving and dreaming. ' Rima Bhandekar, Psychologist Mpower Aditya Birla Education Trust, told indian that supportive parenting is about asking your child what they want to be, without adding 'you should' right after. Supportive parenting is one of the predictors of a child confidently choosing their own career, even if it is far from parental legacy and societal expectations. 'Such parents provide the space needed to choose what feels right for the child, such as resources, encouragement, and emotional stability while giving them the choice to choose their own path without judgement of tradition, societal status, prestige, and money,' she explained. By doing so, Bhandekar said that children know their self-worth isn't connected tightly to fulfilling someone else's dream; but their own passion, they're better prepared to handle setbacks on their own. They are more likely to stand firm in their choices due to nurturing space provided by parents who value who they are, not just what they achieve. According to Banerjee, supportive parenting is about being there for your children without controlling every decision. It involves encouraging independence, and respecting their right to choose. She shared 3 valuable tips to help children flourish: Let kids try different activities—like sports, arts, coding, or volunteering. These varied experiences help them understand what sparks their interest. Children learn best when they're allowed to explore without feeling forced into a choice. Share your own career stories and lessons without telling them what to do. Your advice as a conversation starter can help them to get a direction. For example, say, 'I did this when I faced a tough decision,' instead of 'You must do this.' It keeps the door open for them to choose their path. Create a safe space where your kids can share fears and ambitions. Check in regularly and listen actively. When children feel heard, they're more likely to share doubts and seek advice. Trust and understanding strengthen their ability to make confident choices.
