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Women Are Sharing The Things That Immediately Make A Man Unattractive And Give Them The Ick
When it comes to dating, everyone has their list of turn-offs that they would hate to see in a partner.
In one Reddit thread (which you can see here), women shared their biggest icks about men that would immediately make them run for the hills, and I honestly agree with all of these.
Ahead, I've rounded up the most pressing turn-offs, as told by 18 different women:
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1."Being rude to others for no valid reason."
–Leonietastelikecandy
2."How they treat women they find unattractive. As a woman on the receiving end of this, it's a huge indicator of what kind of person they are."
–MelancholyBean
3."Someone who can't respect boundaries. Trying to push you into being more than friends, trying to get you to have another drink, trying to make you divulge more details on your life than you like, trying to initiate sex when you've said you're insufferable at all levels."
–antiquatedsheep
4."Blacking out EVERYTIME he drinks and being a nuisance in public when drunk. Just ew."
–ApollosHyacinthus
5."Condescension and arrogance. Those things are different from confidence. A confident man wants to lift others up."
–Ileeza
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6."Always talking about how much money he has."
–Pretty-Mud-4950
7."When they have no intelligence or sense of humor."
–jennifury_icyspice
8."Acting 'macho' or 'alpha' or just embarrassing."
–mistress_eve
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9."When they randomly spit."
–BarbiePeonies
10."When they try to make you jealous."
–No_Button274
11."The whole 'I don't read books' thing with this weird pride about it. I mean, you don't have to be a literature professor, but being proud of ignorance is just... no."
–CharmingBunny-
12."Any man who says 'that's not for men', referring to literally anything. Just shows low self-esteem."
–Vixyplatinummm
13."When they constantly speak over me and belittle my opinions. An adult man who cannot disagree respectfully is a red flag."
–SlowestCheetah319
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14."Not knowing how to do basic tasks like laundry, cooking, managing their own time, etc. Adding to that, when they know how to do this shit but don't do it. Vomit."
"Talking about people who don't have any mental health issues or chronic illnesses. Just straight up lazy people..."
–Kim_catiko
15."The thing that gets me the quickest is a guy who is negative 24/7. Every single guy I talked to on a dating app that was like this made me want to just run the other direction and not look back. I know we all have our moments and its understandable but holy shit within the first five seconds and it's a barrage about how bad their life is. Nothing positive at all."
–UnicornFarts84
16."Not being able to be fully present with me. I don't really enjoy the view of the back of a person's phone every time we're together."
–bunnoooo
17."Horrible conversation and no interests or hobbies."
"I had a guy who would ask me literally every day if my day was productive, and if I asked what made his day productive, he never answered. It's like he only had one question to ask, and that was it. No talking about hobbies, children, or the community. He didn't know how to ask diverse questions, and he certainly didn't know how to answer them. It lasted about 3 days. More men need to learn how to be likeable!"
–socialdeviant620
finally, "Negging."
–Rich-Education9295
Do you have an ick that belongs on this list? Let me know in the comments!
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