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Forbes
6 days ago
- Business
- Forbes
Likeability Vs. Authority: Finding The Balance In Leadership
Somdutta Singh, founder and CEO of Assiduus Global, is a serial entrepreneur, investor and bestselling author. When I first stepped into a leadership role, I assumed I had to pick a side. Either be the firm, decisive leader who commands authority or the warm, approachable one who's easy to talk to. It felt like a trade-off: If you leaned too hard into being likeable, people might not take you seriously. But if you asserted authority too strongly, you risked coming across as unapproachable or cold. Over the years, I've learned that this isn't a binary choice. In fact, I've noticed the most effective leaders aren't the ones who swing entirely to one side. They're the ones who learn how to hold both. Likeability and authority aren't opposing forces. They're two different forms of influence, and the best leaders know when to lean into each. The Power Of Being Likeable, When It's Real Likeability isn't trying to please everyone. It's about trust. When people feel like they can talk to you openly, without fear of judgment or dismissal, they often bring you better information. They speak more honestly. They're more willing to challenge ideas or flag issues early, before those issues become real problems. Some of the most important breakthroughs I've seen came from informal conversations, not structured reviews. People shared ideas because they felt heard. They took ownership because they felt safe. Likeability, when it's rooted in authenticity, creates the kind of psychological safety where creativity and accountability can coexist. One of the best things a leader can do, especially early in a relationship, is to invite challenge. Ask, 'What am I not seeing here?' And then listen. That one question can unlock more honest feedback than an entire strategy session. Authority Matters, Especially When Things Get Hard There are moments in leadership when clarity matters more than comfort. Moments when being liked can't come at the cost of what's right for the company. I've had to make tough decisions, on hiring, on letting go of deals that didn't align with our long-term goals, on saying 'no' when 'yes' would have been easier in the short term. Those decisions weren't always popular. But they created clarity. And in leadership, I've noticed clarity builds trust faster than charm ever will. Authority isn't about raising your voice or controlling every outcome. It's about making clear decisions and owning them, especially when they're uncomfortable. Saying 'no' isn't negative if it's well-reasoned. I've found that people don't need you to agree with them. They just need to understand where you stand and why. Where The Two Meet: Leading With Both Clarity And Care Likeability and authority aren't in conflict. They just operate at different layers. Likeability gets people in the room. Authority earns their respect once they're there. You can't lead well without both. In my experience, people respond best when they know two things: that you care and that you won't hesitate to act. If either is missing, things start to slip. Communication breaks down, performance gets vague and your own credibility takes a hit. For example, during a period of rapid hiring, I made it a point to be involved in onboarding. I wanted not just to welcome new talent, but to personally set expectations. That early connection made it easier for them to ask questions—and made it just as easy for me to hold the line later if targets weren't met. Being warm didn't dilute accountability. It made it stick. What Helped Me Find The Balance Looking back, here are a few things that kept me anchored when the line between likeability and authority got blurry: Be direct early. Often people don't remember if feedback was tough. They remember if it was late. I've learned to say the hard thing while it's still small, before it turns into resentment or rework. Say 'no' with context. Authority doesn't mean saying 'yes' to everything. Some of the best decisions I've made came from turning down opportunities that looked great on paper. The key is explaining why, so your team learns your thought process, not just the outcome. Don't default to tone. Default to truth. You don't have to overthink how you'll come across if you're being honest and fair. Likeability follows integrity. I've also found that consistency matters more than style. You can be a quiet leader or an outspoken one. What people usually respond to is whether your actions align with your values, especially under pressure. For Women Leaders, The Stakes Are Different Let's be honest. When you're a woman in leadership, people often watch how you speak, not just what you say. Be too firm, and you risk being labelled aggressive. Be too open, and you're seen as inexperienced. I've experienced this firsthand. There were times when I toned down my opinion in meetings just to avoid being the strong voice in the room. But over time, I learned that being clear, prepared and calm under pressure was enough. I found we don't have to fight the stereotype; we just have to outlast it. The goal isn't to be liked by everyone. It's to be respected by the right people, for the right reasons. What It Comes Down To Balancing likeability and authority isn't about having the perfect leadership style. It's about knowing what your team needs, when to create space and when to step in with clarity. What's helped me is not trying to perform leadership, but to practice it. That means being okay with moments when decisions are unpopular, as long as they're principled. It means creating room for feedback, but also being ready to move forward. And it means knowing your tone matters, but your consistency matters more. One habit I've built over the years is this: Before any meeting, I ask myself two things. What's the most honest version of what I need to say? What's the most respectful way to say it? That check-in keeps me steady. It helps me lead with clarity without losing connection. Because in the end, leadership isn't about choosing between being liked and respected. It's about showing up in a way that earns both, slowly, consistently and on your terms. Forbes Business Council is the foremost growth and networking organization for business owners and leaders. Do I qualify?
Forbes
7 days ago
- Entertainment
- Forbes
How Iceland's Former First Lady Eliza Reid Champions Women Voices
Eliza Jean Reid speaks onstage during the Clinton Global Initiative September 2023 Meeting at New ... More York Hilton Midtown on September 18, 2023 in New York City. (Photo byfor Clinton Global Initiative) Gabriele Hartshorne-Mehl contributed to this story. 'Að ganga með bók í maganum,' – 'to walk with a book in your belly' – is a favorite expression among Icelanders. It suggests that everyone carries a story inside them, waiting to be told. Former First Lady and bestselling author Eliza Reid has taken this phrase to heart. For her, storytelling is both personal and political. Throughout her career, both as a skilled writer and wielder of soft power politics, Reid has adopted this philosophy. Whether addressing international audiences, elevating women's voices, or crafting fictional murder mysteries, she uses narrative not only to express herself but also to normalize ideas which might challenge the status quo. Originally from Canada, Reid was raised on her parents' hobby farm just outside of Ottawa. However, she is fluent in Icelandic and has immersed herself in the country's culture since moving there with her husband, former President Guðni Jóhannesson, in 2003. The couple met at Oxford when she won a date with him in a raffle. With characteristic wit and candour, Reid admits she contributed to her luck by adding her name to the cup several times: 'It was giving fate a little bit of a push. And who knew the long-term repercussions of that one moment of spontaneity!' From Ottawa to Iceland's Presidential Residence The couple lived in England for five years, completing their postgraduate studies – Reid in Modern History, and Jóhannesson in Icelandic political history. In 2003, they moved to Iceland, and Reid began the process of immersing herself into Icelandic culture: mastering the complex language structures, learning the stories of the people, and engaging with and honouring local traditions. These experiences would later form the foundation of her bestselling book, Secrets of the Sprakkar: Iceland's Extraordinary Women and How They Are Changing the World, which explores how Iceland's progress on gender equality is rooted in cultural and historical influences. Reid's public profile changed dramatically when her husband was elected President of Iceland following a political scandal tied to the Panama Papers in 2016. The country greatly appreciated Jóhannesson's grasp of the context and his insightful and entertaining commentary. He ended up winning the election on a platform defined by integrity, transparency, and impartiality – a fresh alternative to Iceland's political elite. The Storytelling Instinct There is no official role for the spouse of the President in Iceland. However, despite any formal definition, the inherent nature of the position carries some gendered social expectations. 'It is almost an anti-feminist role in a sense, even though we have some men serving as spouses of heads of state,' she says, because it traditionally assumes a passive, supportive figure. Rather than accept that framework, Reid redefined it. It was an opportunity to use her unique voice, stand up for what she believed in, and 'shift the expectations that first ladies are some sort of well-dressed muse for their husband's genius.' Early on, Reid learned that the media paid more attention to what she wore than to the attire of her husband. Rather than conforming to the one-dimensional decorative aspects associated with First Ladies, she decided to use her wardrobe as a tool for cultural and political advocacy. Dressing for Advocacy She strategically selected outfits that spotlight local designers and support values she believed in, such as sustainability. 'I bought something at the Red Cross charity shop once. I wore it to an Icelandic awards show, and it ended up being on the BBC that the First Lady had worn a $15 used jacket,' says Reid. She also wore secondhand clothing during her husband's re-election and several other high-profile events to continue to challenge the expectations set for her on what she might wear. 'It's supporting a good cause. So I did that quite often for bigger events,' she recalls. Reid proudly identifies as a feminist, using her platform to normalize the term in public discourse and deter misconceptions surrounding gender equality. The Language of Power 'Women tend to be socialized not to take up space,' she says. 'We are taught that we are physically too big for everything, we are too loud, too bossy, too ambitious.' Women also minimize themselves through language – 'I just wanted to say, I only wanted to contribute this, sorry to interrupt you,' she mimics. These phrases diminish the power of the contributor's initial statement. As an author, Reid is mindful of the harm these rhetorical and linguistic choices cause, weakening the message's delivery and reflecting deeper conditions around who feels most entitled to speak. She also understands the value and importance of using one's unique voice. 'It is very empowering to point out to people that you don't have to have climbed Everest or founded a company or have been the first to do something to be able to tell your story and to use details from your life to inspire other people,' Reid says. 'We are all role models, we all have an influence, and we all have something important to say,' she continues. From Nonfiction to Nordic Noir Reid's writing reflects this ethos. Her latest project, a murder mystery novel titled Death on the Island, blends her love of British-style crime fiction with her deep appreciation for Icelandic culture. In many ways, the pivot to fiction-writing is another extension of her enduring guiding principle: telling stories which are grounded and expansive, personal and political. The Importance of Owning Your Voice Whether through fashion, fiction, or feminist advocacy, Reid remains committed to reshaping narratives — her own and others'. She reminds us that we all carry a story inside us. The only question is whether we choose to tell it.
Yahoo
04-07-2025
- Entertainment
- Yahoo
From Office Flirtation to Bestselling Romance Novel: The Story Behind Patricia Dlamini's New Book Launch
From office flirtation to bestselling romance novel, the journey of author Patricia Dlamini captures the imagination of readers and aspiring writers alike. Her latest book, 'The Competitor's Kiss: When Rivalry Turns to Romance, Who Really Wins?,' takes inspiration from her own experiences in the corporate world, intertwining personal anecdotes with imaginative storytelling to create a captivating narrative that resonates with many. CAPE TOWN, ZA / / July 4, 2025 / The story follows two colleagues who develop a romantic relationship amidst the challenges of office politics and career aspirations. As the protagonists navigate their feelings and professional lives, readers are treated to an engaging exploration of love, ambition, and the complexities of workplace dynamics. Dlamini's ability to blend humor with heartfelt moments allows the narrative to stand out in a crowded genre. Dlamini's background in marketing and her experiences in various corporate environments provided a rich foundation for her writing. The author draws on real-life scenarios to craft relatable characters and situations, making the themes of her book accessible to a wide audience. Readers will find themselves immersed in the ups and downs of office romance, reflecting on their own experiences as they turn the pages. Prior to the release of 'The Competitor's Kiss: When Rivalry Turns to Romance, Who Really Wins?,' Dlamini self-published several short stories online, gaining a dedicated following through her relatable writing style and authentic voice. The success of these stories paved the way for her transition to a full-length novel, showcasing her growth as an author and her commitment to storytelling. Her journey from a corporate employee to a bestselling author serves as an inspiration for many who dream of writing and publishing their own work. The launch of 'The Competitor's Kiss: When Rivalry Turns to Romance, Who Really Wins?' marks a significant milestone in Dlamini's career, with pre-orders already exceeding expectations. The book has garnered interest from both readers and publishers, leading to discussions about potential adaptations for visual media. Dlamini aims to reach an even broader audience, sharing her insights on love and relationships in the modern workplace. In conjunction with the book launch, Dlamini will engage with her readers through various platforms, including virtual book signings, social media discussions, and writing workshops. These events aim to foster a sense of community among readers and aspiring writers, providing a space for sharing experiences and insights about writing and love in the workplace. 'The Competitor's Kiss: When Rivalry Turns to Romance, Who Really Wins?' is set to be released on July 15, 2025, and promises to offer an engaging read for those who appreciate romance intertwined with relatable workplace scenarios. As Dlamini continues to develop her craft, her debut novel stands as a testament to her journey and the power of storytelling. Contact Information Patricia Dlamini Authorinfo@ SOURCE: Patricia Dlamini View the original press release on ACCESS Newswire
Associated Press
30-06-2025
- Business
- Associated Press
Alex Tripod Announces Ambitious Goal to Transform 1 Million Lives Through Quantum Manifestation and 5D Wealth Practices
Alex Tripod aims to activate one million light leaders through innovative quantum manifestation and 5D wealth practices, reshaping the personal development landscape. Australia, June 30, 2025 -- A Global Movement: Activating 1,000,000 Light Leaders Alex Tripod, an internationally recognized manifestation expert, speaker, and #1 Amazon bestselling author, is embarking on an ambitious mission to empower one million light leaders around the world. With nearly a decade of experience in the personal development and manifestation space, Alex is transforming not only how we think about business success and wealth but also how we connect with our higher selves and true potential. Through her cutting-edge teachings, Alex is leading a new movement that integrates quantum science and spiritual principles. Her programs are designed to awaken and activate individuals, helping them raise their vibrational frequency and align with abundant energies, which Alex believes are already present in our surroundings. This initiative is centered around creating sustainable wealth through alignment with one's soul's highest expression, far removed from the traditional hustle mentality. 'Imagine a world where we no longer work tirelessly to chase money but instead become magnetic to the abundant frequencies of wealth that are always around us,' says Alex. 'That's the new paradigm of wealth.' Quantum Shifts: Blending Science and Spirituality What distinguishes Alex Tripod's approach from the conventional manifestation techniques is her blend of quantum physics, subconscious mind science, and metaphysical principles. While many in the industry focus on mindset shifts, Alex goes deeper, guiding individuals through profound identity reprogramming and timeline shifts. This empowers clients to recalibrate their entire reality, moving away from old patterns and creating a wealth-empowered identity. Rather than relying solely on mindset changes, Alex's methodology integrates practical business strategies with deep inner work, ensuring that her clients undergo internal transformations that lead to lasting success and fulfillment. By working at the quantum level, Alex teaches her clients how to broadcast in frequencies that align with their highest financial potential. 'Money is frequency,' says Alex. 'I teach people how to broadcast in million-dollar megahertz.' The Manifestation Game: Changing Lives, One Film at a Time Alex Tripod's latest venture, The Manifestation Game movie, has garnered widespread acclaim for its innovative approach to manifestation. This unique film not only explains manifestation but reprograms the viewer's subconscious mind, helping them align with new wealth codes. The film distills over nine years of research, personal experience, and a significant financial investment into a visual experience that has already begun transforming lives around the globe. In just 90 minutes, The Manifestation Game gives viewers practical tools to manifest wealth while simultaneously shifting their consciousness. 'I'm not coaching people, I'm recoding their DNA with a new wealth identity,' Alex shares. This groundbreaking film blends the metaphysical with the practical, presenting manifestation in a way that viewers can understand at a deep, cellular level. Pioneering the 5D Wealth Movement As a trailblazer in the 5D wealth movement, Alex Tripod is reshaping the conventional understanding of wealth. For Alex, wealth is not only about financial abundance but also about living a life of freedom, purpose, and joy. Her teachings encourage individuals to step into their highest self, embrace their true purpose, and create wealth that resonates with their soul's blueprint. 'Most coaches focus on mindset. I focus on identity reprogramming,' says Alex. 'Most teach strategy. I shift entire timelines.' Through her programs, Alex is helping individuals create wealth not through struggle or hard work, but through alignment with their soul's true calling. Transforming Lives: Real Testimonials The impact of Alex Tripod's teachings can be seen in the stories of her clients, many of whom have experienced remarkable transformations. Sarah M., a business coach from Sydney, experienced a major breakthrough within 60 days of working with Alex: 'I've done years of mindset work, but nothing fully clicked until I worked with Alex. Within 60 days, I had my first $100K month—not from hustle, but from full identity recalibration. Alex didn't just coach me, she rewired me.' Another client, Kelsey B. from London, shares: 'Alex is the only coach I've ever worked with where the results felt instant. Clients messaged me out of nowhere, money came in unexpectedly, and my confidence soared. I made more in 30 days than I had in the last six months.' Tasha V., a personal brand strategist from the USA, reports: 'I went from constant $5K months to locking in $35K+ months and finally believed I could be the face of my brand. Alex helped me shift my frequency and own my power, unapologetically.' Alex Tripod: Best Manifestation Coach for Entrepreneurs in Australia of 2025 As a recognition of her groundbreaking work, Alex Tripod has recently been awarded the title of Best Manifestation Coach for Entrepreneurs in Australia of 2025. This prestigious honor highlights her innovative approach to combining business strategy with personal development and manifestation techniques, helping entrepreneurs unlock their full potential. Alex's work is reshaping the personal development and entrepreneurial coaching landscapes. Her unique ability to merge deep spiritual practices with practical business strategies has made her one of the most sought-after coaches for entrepreneurs worldwide. 'I'm honored to receive this award,' says Alex. 'It's a testament to the power of combining science and spirituality to help entrepreneurs thrive. The journey to financial sovereignty and success begins with inner transformation, and I'm grateful to help so many individuals unlock that potential.' Alex's Global Impact and Future Vision As she continues to work toward her goal of activating one million light leaders, Alex Tripod is developing new programs, films, and teachings that expand the 5D wealth paradigm. With a global presence, she is reaching thousands of individuals, guiding them to step into their power and create wealth on their terms. By merging the metaphysical with the material, Alex Tripod is showing the world that manifestation is not just about wishing for things, but about embodying the highest version of yourself and aligning with the natural flow of abundance. Her message is clear: Wealth in the new paradigm is not something you chase—it's something you become. About Alex Tripod Alex Tripod is a globally recognized manifestation and business coach, international speaker, and #1 Amazon bestselling author. With almost a decade of experience, she has worked with thousands of individuals worldwide to create lasting transformations through quantum shifts, identity reprogramming, and high-frequency leadership. Alex is the creator of The Manifestation Game, a life-changing movie that explains manifestation in a unique and groundbreaking way. 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Fox News
15-06-2025
- Entertainment
- Fox News
Quit Playing Small
Yale Law School graduate and bestselling author Mary Marantz shares her new book, Underestimated: The Surprisingly Simple Shift to Quit Playing Small, Name the Fear, and Move Forward Anyway. The book describes practical steps to achieving greatness and pushing past the lies fear creates. Mary discusses her upbringing and her father's emphasis on the importance of education. She explains how she stopped overthinking and overcame her self-doubt, which led her to find success and her true calling. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit
