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Khaleej Times
27-06-2025
- Entertainment
- Khaleej Times
‘If you're watching this, I'm dead': Influencer Tanner Martin announces his death at 30
'Hey, it's me, Tanner. If you're watching this, I am dead.' For the past several years, Tanner Martin documented his colon cancer diagnosis for hundreds of thousands of followers. That included rounds of chemo and radiation and half a dozen major surgeries, as well as a visit to his future gravesite. It also included more joyful moments, like a vow renewal ceremony in Ireland with his wife, Shay Martin, and other trips abroad. Just last month, it included the arrival of their first child, AmyLou, after the in vitro fertilisation experience they chronicled. But on June 25, Shay Martin, Tanner's wife, posted one final video on behalf of her husband, who had recorded the message to be posted when he died. He was 30. The five-minute video has been viewed more than eight million times on TikTok, and over three million times on Instagram. Watch the video below: View this post on Instagram A post shared by Shay Martin (@tannerandshay) Tanner was diagnosed with Stage 4 colon cancer in November 2020. In February 2023, he learned that the cancer was terminal. And in April of that year, the couple began posting on TikTok about his treatments, their grief and preparations for Tanner's eventual death. The Washington Post visited the family as they were preparing for their daughter's birth. Tanner died at home in American Fork, Utah, on Wednesday surrounded by family, Shay said. Her husband recorded the goodbye video in March. 'I had a heck of a life,' Tanner says in the video, adding that recording a message before his death was 'a good opportunity to get all your thoughts out.' He added that it might give his wife the space to grieve. The couple posted less than a week ago that he had entered hospice care. Who was Tanner Martin? Tanner Martin was born on December 22, 1994, in Salt Lake City before moving to China and Taiwan for a few years with his parents, Kimberly Watts and Tom Martin, who taught English. The family eventually settled in Draper, Utah. When he was 18, Tanner served in a mission in Arizona for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. That's where he met Shay, whose father, Steve Wright, was a bishop in the church. Two stayed in touch on Facebook and eventually reconnected back in Utah. They married in 2018. Tanner was pursuing a master's degree to become a marriage and family therapist when he was diagnosed with cancer. Shay first started sharing updates on social media as a way to keep family up to date onTanner's treatment. But they quickly discovered a network of cancer fighters and caregivers. 'Death is like a new adventure' 'Being my age, none of my friends were going through anything similar,' Shay said in an interview on June 26 as she took a break from feeding AmyLou. 'It was really nice to met people in similar situations that we could connect with.' The couple wanted to be open about their experiences, 'the good, the bad, the ugly, the hard and the beautiful,' she said. 'It's been both beauty and really hard.' In the video, Tanner asks his followers to continue to support his wife and their daughter with donations and gift cards. 'I'm going to guess Jiaozi will probably like milk,' he says with a laugh, using a nickname for AmyLou, before holding his head in his hand. She earned the nickname Jiaozi, which means dumpling in Mandarin, at the couple's first ultrasound when Tanner dotingly noted the resemblance. 'Life was awesome. I really enjoyed it while I was here,' Tanner says. 'I believe there's something after this. I'm excited to meet those people, and hopefully we're hanging out now and making fun of all you nerds.' He left with a few words of advice: Be kind to one another and assume good intent from others. 'Death is scary, but it's also like a new adventure, you know,' he says. 'I'm excited to see what the experience is like, and hopefully it's good.'
Yahoo
19-06-2025
- Entertainment
- Yahoo
Comedian Jeff Ross Reveals How Doctor Jokingly Delivered His Colon Cancer Diagnosis: 'Good News and Bad News'
During a June 18 appearance on Jimmy Kimmel Live!, Jeff Ross revealing a savage joke that his doctor delivered while sharing his colon cancer diagnosis "My oncologist was like, 'Jeff, the good news and bad news. The bad news is you're going to need six months of chemo. The good news is you lost your hair a long time ago,' " he recalled Ross had 7 inches of his colon surgically removed in the summer of 2024Jeff Ross can appreciate a joke, even in the most dire situations. The 59-year-old comedian, known as the "roast master general" for his performances in celebrity roasts over the years, even found some humor in a joke his doctor delivered when he was diagnosed with colon cancer. During a Wednesday, June 18, appearance on Jimmy Kimmel Live!, Ross reflected on his diagnosis and having seven inches of his colon removed via laparoscopic surgery in the summer of 2024. Recalling the moment that he learned about the diagnosis, he said that his doctor shared it with a savage joke. "My oncologist was like, 'Jeff, the good news and bad news. The bad news is you're going to need six months of chemo. The good news is you lost your hair a long time ago,' " he shared. Ross explained that he was diagnosed after having his first colonoscopy at the urging of a friend. "I was already in my 50's, and I'd never gotten a colonoscopy," he admitted. "I went in, I had no symptoms, and I had a tumor in my colon. You always think it's never going to happen to you, and it happened to me." He poked fun at losing some of his colon, saying, "Now I have a semicolon." His surgery and remaining scars also provided some material for a joke: "You know, I had laparoscopic surgery so I have holes around here [singalling his torso and chest]. Little holes. I'm like 50 Cent if instead of getting shot, he ate pastrami twice a week for 50 years." Ross addresses his cancer diagnosis and treatment in his one-man show Jeff Ross: Take a Banana for the Ride, which is heading to Broadway for the summer. Speaking to The Minnesota Star Tribune in March 2025, he said that he was "still trying to figure it out" regarding incorporating the experience into the act. "I don't want the show to be maudlin, but I think it's important to address it," he said. "Norm [Macdonald, his close friend who died in 2021] was very private and hid his sickness. I didn't think that was fair to the audience and his friends, so I'm putting it out there. But I don't want people to feel sorry for me. It's going to be a very empowering and bold statement on how to get through tough times." The comedian's brush with cancer isn't the only medical emergency that he's approached in a joking manner. In April 2025, Ross revealed that he spent the night in an emergency room after developing a serious allergic reaction to something that he ate. "It was my first allergic reaction ever," he wrote on Instagram at the time. "I guess that's pretty remarkable considering I'm constantly shoving whatever food is in front of me into my face." Never miss a story — sign up for to stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from celebrity news to compelling human interest stories. Speaking to Jimmy Kimmel, Ross joked about his dramatically swollen appearance triggered by the reaction, "It looks like I got hit in the face with some nunchucks." Since they have "no idea" what he caused the reaction, he added that he will need to carry an EpiPen "for the rest of my life until it happens again." "I'm like a little kid with a peanut allergy," he teased. Jeff Ross: Take a Banana for the Ride opens on Broadway on August 5 at the Nederlander Theatre. Ticket information is available here. Read the original article on People
The Sun
19-06-2025
- Health
- The Sun
Tragedy as dad-of-four, 40, dies just months after he blamed stress for his stomach ache
A DAD passed away months after complaining of stomach pain, which he initially put down to stress. Kyle Ingram-Baldwin's ordeal began in October last year, when he sought his doctor's advice after suffering from a stomach ache for a couple of weeks. 4 4 The dad-of-four, from Minster, Kent, had suspected his pain was stress related, and expected the diagnosis to be gallstones. After his pain got worse, the 40-year-old went to A&E. An ultrasound found bulges on his liver. A CT scan followed, and Kyle was given the devastating diagnosis of bowel cancer. He said: "I didn't think a lot of it, but I thought I'd better get it checked out. "The suspicion at the time was gallstones, which obviously it wasn't. "They told me that I've got cancer that's spread. "I was like, wow, okay. I didn't expect that, but you know, it is what it is." Two weeks later he was told he had stage-four bowel cancer - meaning the disease was at an advanced stage and had spread to other parts of his body. He said: "I was thinking, what's going on here? What have I done wrong? "I was putting the blame on my own feet and worrying about the future for my wife and kids. "That's probably the hardest thing - the mental side. "Don't get me wrong, the physical is not funny either, but it's a mental challenge." The 40-year-old went through six rounds of chemo and another, more targeted course, but these were not able to get the disease - which spread to his liver - under control. Kyle spoke about how his cancer battle had impacted his wife and children aged 12, nine, three and one. 4 4 He shared that he did not want his wife to have to cope on her own, saying he was determined to keep fighting. Kyle said: "It's really hard to put into words, because I love my kids so much. You just worry about their future. "They've got the best mum in the world, and I genuinely mean that. My wife's incredible." On June 8 this year, the dad launched a GoFundMe to help pay for alternative treatments as he was "not prepared to give up" - more than £15,000 was raised in a matter of days. What are the red flag warning signs of bowel cancer? IT'S the fourth most common cancer in the UK, the second deadliest - yet bowel cancer can be cured, if you catch it early enough. While screening is one way of ensuring early diagnosis, there are things everyone can do to reduce their risk of the deadly disease. Being aware of the signs and symptoms of bowel cancer, spotting any changes and checking with your GP can prove a life-saver. If you notice any of the signs, don't be embarrassed and don't ignore them. Doctors are used to seeing lots of patients with bowel problems. The five red-flag symptoms of bowel cancer include: Bleeding from the back passage, or blood in your poo A change in your normal toilet habits - going more frequently for example Pain or a lump in your tummy Extreme tiredness Losing weight Tumours in the bowel typically bleed, which can cause a shortage of red blood cells, known as anaemia. It can cause tiredness and sometimes breathlessness. In some cases bowel cancer can block the bowel, this is known as a bowel obstruction. Other signs include: Gripping pains in the abdomen Feeling bloated Constipation and being unable to pass wind Being sick Feeling like you need to strain - like doing a number two - but after you've been to the loo While these are all signs to watch out for, experts warn the most serious is noticing blood in your stools. But, they warn it can prove tricky for doctors to diagnose the disease, because in most cases these symptoms will be a sign of a less serious disease. The dad said he was "blown away" by the huge sum and that it had given him hope. But Kyle's wife Becky shared that he tragically passed away on June 16, barely a week after launching the fundraiser. In an update on the GoFundMe page, she wrote: "Unfortunately, Kyle took a very sudden and unexpected turn and we lost him yesterday. "He was the most incredible man I have ever met, and I know he would want me to thank everyone for all your sharing and donations. "I wanted to personally thank each and every one of you who donated to try and help Kyle. I'm so sorry we didn't get to. "Thank you to loved ones, friends old and new and complete strangers with huge hearts." 'Go get checked' Becky told donors on June 18 that they would all be receiving a refund. However, after an "overwhelming" number of messages, she set up a new fundraiser to support the family's young children, with more than £2,000 already donated. She added: "As we raised such an incredible amount from so many selfless people, I thought maybe (and it feels so weird and uncomfortable) if people wanted to, once they get refunded, they can gift money to our children. "I don't know if this is the right thing to do, but the amount of messages I've had is just overwhelming. "If you want to give your donation to charity or just make memories with your families, that's what you should do. It didn't feel right for me to make that decision." You can donate to the new fundraiser here. Kyle worked for Automatic Retailing, a wholesale supplier for vending machines, and helped run the Men's Mental Health Support Talking Football project in Minster. He wanted to encourage others to get checked out urgently if something doesn't feel right. He added: "I didn't present with any of the conventional symptoms. "If you think anything's wrong, please press your GP and go get it checked, because I genuinely wouldn't want anyone being in my position."
Free Malaysia Today
15-06-2025
- Health
- Free Malaysia Today
Four months with my father: a personal sharing
The writer with her father, Chow Heng Wah, during a trip to Australia. (Samantha Chow pic) PETALING JAYA : My dad, Chow Heng Wah, retired in July last year at age 62. His plans were to spend his retirement years travelling with my mum, as well as to bond with his grandchild, who was born that October. But our lives drastically changed when he was diagnosed with last-stage pancreatic cancer this past January. There were barely any symptoms; yet it had spread to multiple organs by the time the doctors found out. The doctors gave him three to four months to live. With chemo treatments, he could get a bit more time – perhaps a few more weeks, even months. We kicked into action, researching oncologists, the best hospitals, alternative treatments, patient care, caregiver support. It was all we could do. At the same time, my dad quietly made the necessary arrangements. He updated his will, simplified his assets, and moved his bedroom downstairs. He later joked to a friend that he had just made his latest asset purchase – a crematorium plot. When chemotherapy started, he faced them with quiet perseverance. He never once complained. When we asked him how he was feeling, he would respond briefly. True to his character, he remained calm and composed throughout. Due to the chemo treatments, he became physically weak and could not stand up by himself. One day, in the process of trying to help him up, he fractured his arm. When I learnt about this, I called him crying. Funnily enough, he was the one who had to comfort me, and even urged me to call him back after I had calmed down. With a newborn in tow, I tried my best to spend time with him every day. While he still could, we played mahjong, as we had done for many years before the diagnosis. After he fractured his arm, I did not bring the game up anymore. Happier times with Dad, who, despite later having to cope with cancer, maintained a calm and composed demeanour. (Samantha Chow pic) He had many friends and colleagues who cared for him. When people learnt about his condition, he was inundated with requests for visits. Friends sent messages encouraging him, and all of us, to stay strong. Later, they also sent short videos to lift his spirits. When he was bedridden, I played these videos to him one by one. They meant a lot to him. My dad's body steadily weakened, and he passed away peacefully on May 27, exactly four months after his diagnosis. We will forever be grateful for all the support from our friends and family, as well as representatives from Aspac Palliative Care and the National Cancer Society. Pancreatic cancer is an aggressive and unforgiving disease. The doctors and treatments could only do their best. This wasn't how we had planned to spend 2025. We will miss him every day, but we are glad he is no longer in pain. Samantha Chow is a former journalist. She will always remember her beloved father for his love and bravery in facing this disease.
Daily Mail
11-06-2025
- Entertainment
- Daily Mail
NBC reality star breaks down as mom's Stage 4 cancer was first dismissed as 'food poisoning'
Michelle Saniei became emotional on the latest episode of The Valley, recalling her late mom's heartbreaking cancer battle. The reality star, 36, opened up about her mother's diagnosis during the June 10 show, revealing her mom was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer after going to the doctor with symptoms she initially believed were caused by food poisoning. The episode was filmed in the summer of 2024, and her mother passed away that November. 'I actually don't talk about it a lot,' Saniei told co-star LaLa Kent, 34, before opening up further in a confessional. She explained that her mom had received the diagnosis the year before her death, around the same time Saniei was dealing with her bitter split from Jesse Lally. The reality star, 36, opened up about her mother's diagnosis during the June 10 show, revealing her mom was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer after going to the doctor with symptoms she initially believed were caused by food poisoning 'My mom got sick about a year ago when I was going through everything with Jesse," Saniei said. 'She thought she had food poisoning and had to go to the doctor, and she was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer.' Saniei continued to Kent, 'She did her first treatment of chemo and it did not work. 'So then now she's in her second treatment but the problem is it's kind of everywhere now. I don't think I have much longer with her.' As she began to break down in tears, Saniei added, 'It's been very hard for me because my mom is my best friend and the one who supports me the most.' On Tuesday night, Michelle took to Instagram to honor her mother, sharing a heartfelt carousel of photos alongside a moving caption. 'Sharing my heart with you tonight. This was the first time I spoke on camera about my mom's battle with cancer,' she wrote. 'She's no longer with us, but her love and strength are with me every day. I miss her deeply, and I'm grateful to share a little piece of her with you. Tonight is for you, Mom. I miss you every day.' The emotional episode comes as viewers continue to watch the real estate agent navigate her ongoing divorce from ex-husband Jesse Lally in the show's second season. However, their split has taken a nasty turn amid accusations of cheating, questions surrounding Jesse's finances, and his claim that Michelle was sleeping with a billionaire for $1,500 a night. One of the more unexpected moments from the season occurred during episode three, when Jesse shared his theory to co-stars Kristen Doute and Luke Broderick that his former wife was secretly dating her current boyfriend during their marriage. 'I don't actually know what's going on with Michelle,' Jesse said in the episode, which aired April 29. 'She's most likely with her boyfriend [Aaron] for the last two years.' The 43-year-old real estate agent continued in his confessional: 'Nothing about Michelle and Aaron adds up. I think there was a situation that happened with the two of them while I was married.' While chatting with Kristen and Luke, Jesse pointed out that Michelle would go on morning hikes without wearing her wedding ring. He also explained how he found Aaron's honey brand, The Kilo Company, in their kitchen years before she began dating the founder and financial advisor. Speaking exclusively to Michelle revealed that she couldn't help but burst out in laughter after watching the episode back and witnessing Jesse's theories about the origin of her relationship with Aaron. 'That actually really made me laugh,' she told 'It really made me laugh because I knew Aaron, just like we know a lot of people,' Michelle said, pointing out that Jesse had also known his current girlfriend, Lacy Nicole, prior to them dating. '[It] does not mean anything,' she continued. 'Yeah, I had that honey, I was very clear. I never wore makeup to a hiking trail, that's not true. And I would take off my ring just as he would going to the gym.' Michelle added it was 'comical to watch' her ex searching for proof that she was unfaithful with Aaron during her marriage to Jesse. In March 2024, just days before The Valley season one premiered, the former couple announced their divorce after nearly six years of marriage. Michelle and Jesse are also parents to five-year-old daughter Isabella Bunny. The first season of the reality TV show – which is a spin-off of Bravo's Vanderpump Rules – saw Michelle and Jesse struggling to find common ground in their marriage amid rumors of infidelity. Vanderpump Rules alum and The Valley star Kristen previously claimed Michelle 'had a boyfriend for a year' while she was still married to Jesse. There was also swirling speculation that Michelle had been spending time with an A-list director at celeb hotspot the Chateau Marmont; she recently revealed the director to be none other than Quentin Tarentino. The season one finale picked up with Michelle and Jesse six months after filming had wrapped, with Michelle begging her now-estranged husband to sign their divorce papers. These days, it seems that Michelle and Jesse are nowhere closer to being divorced than when she first filed in March 2024. However, the podcast host revealed to that her ex has 'now had a change of heart' and 'wants to move forward' in their divorce proceedings. 'We're kind of in the same place where we were six months ago,' she told 'I've been going back and forth, or my lawyers have really been going back and forth with Jesse. 'It seems that he's now had a change of heart and he wants to move forward, so I hope that is the case. I'm hoping for the best, because I feel like we're both sick and tired of it and we just want to move on.' As for how the former couple has handled co-parenting Isabella, Michelle explained that agreeing on what's best for their daughter has been smooth sailing compared to their actual divorce. 'Honestly, that part is amazing. I've said time and time again he's a great father, which is why I never wanted to have full custody,' Michelle said. She explained that she even moved 'five minutes away' from her former home in Los Angeles – where Jesse still lives – because she 'didn't want to change the dynamic' for their daughter. 'We both see her every two days, so she gets to see both parents pretty often, and we're both really good at the schedule. I know I have to drop her off and he has to pick her up from school. That part is actually not a problem at all.' While the second season of The Valley is well underway with loads of drama that fans have yet to see, the entire cast recently gathered together to film the reunion episode. When asked what fans can expect to see from the reunion special, Michelle played coy about details but revealed that 'everybody had a chance to speak.' 'It's really hard because there's so much to go over and talk about, but I feel like everybody gets their word in and what they want to say,' she said. New episodes of The Valley air every Tuesday at 9pm ET on Bravo.
