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Miss Manners: Friend's ‘cougar' comment bothered me
Miss Manners: Friend's ‘cougar' comment bothered me

Washington Post

time11-07-2025

  • General
  • Washington Post

Miss Manners: Friend's ‘cougar' comment bothered me

Dear Miss Manners: About a year ago, I met the man of my dreams, and he and I are planning a future together. I have a wonderful group of friends — we are all in our 60s and 70s, and get together often for fun activities — and I feel so fortunate that he and my friends adore each other. We have enjoyed many fun times with the group. We joined three other couples for a potluck dinner and game night, which included a trivia game with categories arranged by generations. My partner is about a decade younger than I am — a fact that most were already aware of, but apparently one gentleman was not. As this came to light in the course of the game, he made a reference to me as a 'cougar.' To be honest, it took me a while to reconcile the age difference in my relationship, and I am a tad sensitive about it, so the remark did not land well for me. I managed a weak smile that hopefully did not show my irritation, but I'd prefer to never hear this term lobbed in my direction again. This gentleman tends to repeat himself when he feels he's discovered a witticism, so it's likely it will happen. He generally means well, so I don't wish to embarrass him, but is there a way to graciously shut this down if I hear it again? While it is kind of you not to want to embarrass him, he is not showing you the same respect. Miss Manners therefore suggests that you turn that weak smile into something that does, in fact, betray your irritation, perhaps with a murmured 'Not funny.' Anything less seems only to encourage him. Dear Miss Manners: I am wondering about the best way to answer odd questions, such as, 'Do you know about Harlem?' or 'Did you ever hear of The New Yorker magazine?' or 'How much do you know about the arrondissements in Paris?' I find these questions condescending, but maybe I am too sensitive. Am I required to give an answer, or may I just laugh and ask the person to continue the conversation? The answers to the above questions are: Yes, I know about the history of Harlem and even the Harlem Renaissance. Yes, I have heard of The New Yorker, and have had a subscription for a number of years. I know a good deal about the Paris arrondissements; I studied French in high school and I am an avid reader of French novels. 'I do know something about those subjects. To what specifically are you referring?' Not only is this more polite, Miss Manners assures you, but if you are truly an expert in any given field, waiting it out will also afford you a greater opportunity to top them later: 'I actually wrote my thesis on Baron Haussmann. Of course, you know that he was instrumental in creating the arrondissements …' And then just watch their faces. New Miss Manners columns are posted Monday through Saturday on You can send questions to Miss Manners at her website, You can also follow her @RealMissManners. © 2025 Judith Martin

Miss Manners: ‘Ladies first' doesn't apply everywhere
Miss Manners: ‘Ladies first' doesn't apply everywhere

Washington Post

time08-07-2025

  • General
  • Washington Post

Miss Manners: ‘Ladies first' doesn't apply everywhere

Dear Miss Manners: I am a gentleman who strives to live a mannerly life. In that regard, when riding public transportation, I offer my seat to ladies who are standing. I also wait for ladies to leave an elevator before me. Now that I am well beyond retirement age, does that change any expectations and norms? When, if ever, do I keep my seat and allow younger men the privilege of offering their seat to the fairer sex?

Video: Baby Goes Viral For Adorable One-Word Interaction With Netizens
Video: Baby Goes Viral For Adorable One-Word Interaction With Netizens

Yahoo

time02-07-2025

  • Entertainment
  • Yahoo

Video: Baby Goes Viral For Adorable One-Word Interaction With Netizens

Every parent looks forward to making unforgettable moments with their newborn babies. Whether it is feeding time or just babbling, parents treasure each memory of their children growing up. However, the most extraordinary moment is when the baby utters their first word. A new viral video shows a mother's sheer joy over her baby boy speaking out one word in particular. This short and sweet occasion between mother and son is proof of healthy parenting. A user named @emmastewartphoto took to their Instagram recently to post an adorable clip of their little son. Emma Stewart is popular on the platform for sharing her parenting journey. In the aforementioned viral video, the mom gushes over her baby's one word interaction with her. It begins with the mother carrying the child in her arms and saying, 'Ty has something to say.' The baby continues to curiously stare at the camera while his mom asks him to 'go on.' However, Ty only says one word with a pleasant smile, 'HI.'. The child's innocent behavior ends up leaving Emma in stitches. She is unable to get over the brief interaction and writes on the caption, 'such a polite gentleman if I do say so.' The baby's courteous reaction to his mother's question makes her call him a gentleman. So far, this wholesome clip has garnered over 1 million likes, more than 15 million views, 8k comments, and over 96k shares. Users also dropped their reactions on the comment sections with one writing, 'What a beautiful way to start a day.'. Another one stated, 'That is the cutest hi ever.' A third user commented, 'The way his face changed when he heard his name….. Like, east, it's my turn???.' Previously, Emma Stewart has dropped numerous posts dedicated to her heartwarming time with her two sons. One post perfectly captured the bond between the brothers, leaving her mother's heart melting. She captioned the pictures as, 'no silent nights around here but these are my great gifts.' The post Video: Baby Goes Viral For Adorable One-Word Interaction With Netizens appeared first on Momtastic.

The old age revenge
The old age revenge

Times of Oman

time19-05-2025

  • Health
  • Times of Oman

The old age revenge

I met an interesting elderly gentleman while I was coming out from the hospital. He was on the wheel chair and struggling to push it so he could come out of the crowded corridor. There was a pleading expression on his face as I was passing him that made me stop and offer him my help. He happily accepted it and asked me to wheel him at the waiting lounge. He also asked me to get him water "mixed with fruit juice ". That was a challenge but I ended buying him a bottle of water and a can of apple juice. I found a plastic cup at the water dispenser that I used to mix up the drinks. He gratefully accepted the cup and as I walking away, he motioned me to sit next to him. He also motioned me to pour him another cup of the stuff. I did and I watched him drink wondering where his family was. He read my mind and said," don't worry, I have not been dumped here. My daughter is somewhere around. She will turn up sometime." Since I had no wish to babysit for an old man, I excused myself to leave. It was then he started to tell me about himself. After doing a good deed, I did not want to appear rude to erase the good effort. So I stayed and listened. He had a prostrate cancer when he was 62 and the operation was not successful. The young doctor, trying to comfort him said there should be no regret if he passed away since he had already "reached a ripe old age." The comment scared him and made him feel very old but last night, he told me, with a bright toothy grin, he celebrated his ninety first birthday! He lived 30 years after the second operation. He now realized how "young" he was at the tender age of 62 only because he made it past ninety now. A thought passed my mind. I asked him how old was the doctor then? He was in his early thirties and added " I am sure he is now the same age as I was when he diagnosed me." I suddenly became suspicious of his motives for being in the same hospital where he did his prostrate operation just a day after his ninety first birthday. It did not look like he was waiting for a doctor. Yes, he calmly answered, that he was indeed waiting for a doctor. A minute later, a woman in her fifties walked towards us with a grey-haired man in a white coat. She was his daughter followed by the same doctor. The medical man smiled broadly and understood why he was there. "I guess we are both old men now." "No, you are not," the elder man answered quickly," I have that privilege. You don't have it yet. Wait for another thirty years before you can declare yourself old." It was quick, short and sweet. The doctor returned to his duties and the old man invited me to his house to celebrate his birthday the "proper way". I politely declined and left him in the good hands of his daughter. As I was driving out of the hospital, I saw him being wheeled to the car. He had a bright smile on his face, brighter than the morning sun. The meeting with the doctor might have embarrassed his daughter but I suspect it was a personal triumph for him. I am sure he would celebrate every day that passes by and he would die happily when his time finally comes. And why not?

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