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Telegraph
3 hours ago
- Health
- Telegraph
My mum's tragic death scared me so much it made me lose half my body weight
I still vividly remember the day my mum told me she had terminal leukaemia. It was an absolutely miserable Thursday. I'd just returned to work after giving birth to my second child at the age of 42, and was desperately trying to balance the challenges of early motherhood with my career. As I battled the London traffic, my phone started to ring. I pulled over and saw it was my mum who, in her matter-of-fact way, told me the devastating news – and everything changed. My mum was the absolute epitome of health. She was slim and beautiful – as are my three sisters. In contrast, I struggled with my weight from a young age and often felt ashamed as the 'chubby child'. During my teenage years, food became my source of comfort and the pounds piled on as I tried to cope with undiagnosed dyslexia and the instability of moving to new schools because of my dad's role in the army. Eating alone became an unhealthy habit – whether it was chocolate digestive biscuits, toast and jam, scones or a slice of my mum's chocolate cake. In my early 20s, I spent 18 months in the United States as a nanny. My health and fitness in the US bounced between two extremes. There were periods where I was obsessed with the gym and became extremely lean. However, once again, food was my source of comfort and I turned to it whenever I struggled with loneliness and homesickness. Savoury food has always been my go-to. I ate a lot of bread, cheese, crackers, chips, dips and mayonnaise with absolutely everything – plus fizzy drinks and booze. Often, I'd starve myself before drinking, then drink far too much and feed my hangover with salt, fat and carbohydrates. By the time I returned to the UK after a year and a half, my weight had escalated to 18st 12lb. My parents' faces when I met them at the airport still haunt me. I think I was in denial about it until that very moment, but when I saw my father's frozen expression, and my mother's unfiltered horror, I could no longer hide from the truth. Years of yo-yo dieting After that, I became determined to lose weight – whatever it took. I couldn't shift the image of my mother's horrified expression and I was desperate to be thin and beautiful like her and my sisters. I embarked on a series of different diets. While I'd quickly lose a lot of weight, they weren't sustainable and I'd feel awful. Slowly and surely my bad habits would return and I'd once again turn to emotion-fuelled comfort eating and regain the lost pounds. For the next 20 years, I bounced between every diet under the sun. Atkins, South Beach, cabbage soup, vegan, Slimming World – you name it, I've probably tried it. I managed to get down to 11st at various points but I often ended back up at 18st 12lb or somewhere in between. My friend recently told me that when she hadn't seen me in a while, she wondered if she'd be meeting the thin, fat, happy or sad Victoria. Food and dieting was the centre of my life – my happiness depended entirely on the number on the scale. I met my husband, Nick, in 2008 and we were married two years later. He's always been incredibly supportive and has loved me at every size. Not once has he made me feel insecure and I love him even more for it. He had his own journey with his weight too – nothing as extreme, but I think, in some ways, that made it easier. My turning point came in 2012, when I received that awful call from my mum on a rainy Thursday evening. By this point, in my early 40s, perimenopausal, and back at work after giving birth to my second child, I weighed around 17st 4lb. It's an estimate because once my weight tipped over 15st, I could no longer bear to weigh myself. My rock bottom moment When my mum shared her devastating diagnosis, all I could think about was how unfair life is. She was so fit and healthy. It didn't make any sense. She'd also waited so long to be a granny and just when we'd had our babies, this happened. It felt so unfair. At that moment, everything changed. This was my rock bottom. I felt awful for her but also couldn't help thinking about how short and precious life really is. For the past 20 years, I'd obsessed over my weight and everything I ate – yet I was mentally and physically unhealthier than ever and totally confused. I desperately tried to understand how my mum could have terminal cancer. She had done everything right. She loved playing tennis and golf. She ate very well while enjoying the occasional gin and tonic or whisky. If you knew her, you knewshe made good choices for her health, which made the diagnosis even more sad. My dad was eight years older than her so I think he always assumed he'd go first. They had a traditional relationship where mum looked after everything at home and dad didn't even have to know how to boil the kettle. They loved each other deeply and we knew that, after mum died, we needed to be there for dad as she'd asked us to be. Looking into holistic health Alongside the practicalities of mum's treatment, I began looking into how I could help her live well for as long as possible. That was my first real foray into the world of holistic health – and the more I read, the more I realised how ridiculous my years of yo-yo dieting had been. I researched everything with mum in mind – the best diets for cancer, the everyday habits she should or shouldn't adopt. The more I read to support her, the more engrossed I became. I realised I'd spent so many years trying to hate myself into changing, when really I should have been caring for myself in the same way I care for my family and friends. My mum was amazing throughout her many years of treatment. She met six of her eight grandchildren, which gave her and my dad a huge amount of pleasure. When she became much weaker, she began to lose interest in food and drink. But she would still try her best to join in whenever the family were together, because we meant absolutely everything to her. I remember her sitting there in her flowery dressing gown, hair neatly brushed and a little makeup on, simply happy to be part of it. The night before she died, in August 2020, she sat at the dinner table with everyone and gave us strict instructions to look after each other. That night, she passed away in her bed at home with my sister lying next to her. It was deeply sad, but also a beautiful passing. Focusing on the future In the years since, my entire outlook on life and health has changed. I no longer jump onto every new trend or fixate on the number on the scale. Instead, I take a holistic approach – focusing on sleep, maintaining muscle mass, and eating simple foods my grandparents probably would've enjoyed. My weight-loss journey has been a by-product of this mindset, and I began losing weight slowly and sustainably. It has taken years to get to where I am now. During that time, I've focused on slowing down and treating myself with kindness and compassion. Rather than pushing through extreme workouts like high-intensity interval training (HIIT) and CrossFit, I weight train and walk as much as I can – whether it's with my dog or walk-and-talk meetings at work. Sleep has also become incredibly important to me. Since 2018, I've worn an Oura ring to track my steps, sleep, resting heart rate and heart rate variability. One of the biggest lightbulb moments for me was discovering the power of protein and a low-carb, high-protein, high-fat diet, like keto or carnivore. In almost every diet I'd tried over the years, I'd been told 'fat makes you fat', so it was refreshing to discover such a different approach to health. Food doesn't need to be confusing or complex. It's about eating whole, unprocessed nutrient-dense foods – you need to get healthy to lose weight, not the other way round. Eating simply and giving up alcohol While I don't rigorously follow a keto diet, my meals tend to closely resemble it. I swapped sugary breakfasts for protein-rich alternatives, and now eat two big meals each day, trying to have my last one at least four hours before bedtime. Learning to nourish my body became my priority. I focused on finding joy in food, understanding the nutrients my body needs, getting outside daily, moving my body and being a good role model for my children. Three years ago, I stopped drinking (almost) completely. In perimenopause and menopause, I found I couldn't metabolise sugar in the same way, and I remember even one glass of wine would cause my sleep scores to absolutely tank. Occasionally, I'll have a sip of my husband's wine, but I've never really gone back to alcohol – and I feel all the better for it. It's been a bumpy journey over the years, but in 2021 I saw the scale reach 10st 3lb for the first time, and I've kept my weight around there ever since. A couple of years ago, my friend suggested I consider health coaching and I decided to give it a try. I found the Health Coaches Academy, and its course felt like it was meant for me. I devoted my evenings and weekends to training alongside my full-time job, and learnt a lot over the 12 months – including the importance of good nutrition, movement, natural light and blood-sugar balancing. All skills that I can put into use at home, in the office and for whatever the future holds. I'm delighted to say that I graduated in May and am now a health coach. I spent far too much of my life fixating on my weight and relying on food for comfort. My mum's diagnosis and our final years together taught me that life is far too short for that. Now, I feel free from the obsessive diet cycle – and I'm excited to help others do the same. Everyone deserves good health. Three things Victoria has learnt The importance of sleep It's essential for recovery, overall health and wellbeing. Eating too much sugar and refined carbs, or drinking too much alcohol, can massively affect sleep quality. Once I cut those elements out of my diet – and became consistent with my sleep and wake times – my quality of sleep skyrocketed. It's not about being thin, it's about being healthy For years, I obsessed over my 'dream weight' and being thinner – but it only made me unhappier and unhealthier. Now I focus on my health holistically. Once you master the fundamentals, your body naturally becomes healthier too. You get healthy to lose weight, not the other way round. Food shouldn't be complex After nearly 20 years of bouncing between diets – from juice detoxes to meal replacement shakes to giving in to sugar cravings – food had become confusing and stressful. Now, I keep it simple with nourishing meals my grandparents might have eaten: good-quality meat, fish, low-sugar fruit and non-starchy vegetables are the cornerstones of my diet. Victoria Boxall-Hunt, 54, lives in Rutland with her husband, Nick, and their two teenage children. She's chief people officer and group operations director for an investment company, and recently qualified as a health coach via Health Coaches Academy. Victoria will be publishing a book about her journey titled: 'Weight Loss Reimagined: A New Era, A New World'.
BBC News
22-07-2025
- Health
- BBC News
Toys from Bristol hospital charity 'gave my son a childhood'
A mother has raised nearly £6,000 for a charity that enabled her son to "have a childhood" while being treated for leukaemia. Four-year-old Connor, from Portishead in Somerset, was diagnosed in February. He is currently cancer-free but is still having chemotherapy to prevent it from returning. Last weekend, his mother Lucy Radford took part in a 24-hour relay to raise money for Bristol Children's Hospital charity, the Grand said the organisation had provided her family with endless toys and "distractions", allowing Connor carefree moments of "normality". Connor spent his fourth birthday in hospital having a spinal tap, where a needle is inserted between the bones of the spine to collect fluid for testing. To create a special memory, the Grand Appeal fulfilled his birthday wish by delivering a Jurassic Park Lego set to his bedside."It might seem like a small gesture, but in those moments, it meant everything," said Ms Radford."It's a distraction, not just for the children but for the parents too. "While they're playing, the adults can sit and talk about what's going on and how they're coping." While having chemotherapy, Connor was also able to play with the ward's jukebox, toys, puzzles, games and Ms Radford said Connor's illness was "a lot to take on". "No parent should have to deal with their child being diagnosed with leukaemia, or any other illness," she said. "We just take each day at a time really."More than 60 people took part in the fundraising relay, which was hosted by Portishead Running Club, of which Lucy is a member. The club quickly surpassed its initial target of £2,000, raising £6, money will go towards state-of-the-art equipment, music, play and art therapy, family accommodation, and making the clinical environment more Connor's diagnosis, his mother said she thought the weeks-long stay in hospital would be "really hard". "But so much effort and funding goes into making the hospital feel less like a hospital and more like a place of comfort and care, for both children and families," she said.
Yahoo
21-07-2025
- Sport
- Yahoo
Ex-footballer finishes Tour De France challenge
Former Wolves and England footballer Geoff Thomas has completed his seventh Tour De France challenge with the hope of raising £1m for research into leukaemia. Thomas, who lives in Worcestershire, has been part of Tour 21 team which has been following the exact same route as the Tour De France, a week ahead of the professionals racing. He was given just three months to live in 2003 after being diagnosed with leukaemia, but overcame the illness two years later after treatment and a stem cell transplant. He first took part in the challenge for Cure Leukaemia in 2005, when he was six months in remission, and the 2025 race he completed on Sunday is his last, he said. Speaking to BBC Hereford and Worcester after crossing the finish line in Paris, he said the experience had been "magical". "Everyone's been so good on this event. We've bonded as a team," he said. "I think you become like a family and after a few weeks together doing a ridiculously hard challenges every day is a bond that's built for life." "I started this 20 years ago. It was all purely to raise money for Cure Leukaemia and get [professor] Charlie Craddock the funding he needed to fulfil his dream of building a clinical research centre that would fast-track all the wealth of knowledge that's in the science labs to benefit patients. "Over the last 15 years I can say for sure with the infrastructure we've set up, it's working and people are largely being saved on the back of these fantastic guys raising money for a great cause." He said he was not normally an emotional man but seeing his family at the end of the race was tough. "I knew everybody would be here [at the finishing line] and I had a little moment to myself and then when I came here I just wanted to enjoy everyone's enjoyment and see it in their eyes," he added. "I've done it numerous times... but taking on a challenge like that and meeting in Paris is magical." His wife Julie said she was "so proud". "It's just fantastic. It's a huge challenge and I think 90% is your mental state," she said. "I think Geoff being a professional sportsman, I think he just has that drive in him, no matter what's happening to your body, you just get on with it. "I think he doesn't really think about what's going on at the time, he just pushes on for the charity really, for the cause." Thomas, who was appointed an MBE in 2021 for his work raising money for cancer charities, said everyone that took part should be proud of themselves and what they had achieved. "I am proud of them and I'm proud of the charity and that's why I carry on doing this and oddly, even though I was the most unfit I've been taking on this challenge, it's inspired me even more than any other." Follow BBC Wolverhampton & Black Country on BBC Sounds, Facebook, X and Instagram. More on this story Thomas prepares for seventh charity Tour De France Ex-footballer in fundraising vow after Tour exit Ex-Wolves star finishes Tour de France for charity Geoff Thomas receives MBE for cancer charity work Related internet links The Tour 21
BBC News
21-07-2025
- Sport
- BBC News
Ex-Wolves player Geoff Thomas completes Tour De France challenge
Former Wolves and England footballer Geoff Thomas has completed his seventh Tour De France challenge with the hope of raising £1m for research into who lives in Worcestershire, has been part of Tour 21 team which has been following the exact same route as the Tour De France, a week ahead of the professionals was given just three months to live in 2003 after being diagnosed with leukaemia, but overcame the illness two years later after treatment and a stem cell first took part in the challenge for Cure Leukaemia in 2005, when he was six months in remission, and the 2025 race he completed on Sunday is his last, he said. Speaking to BBC Hereford and Worcester after crossing the finish line in Paris, he said the experience had been "magical"."Everyone's been so good on this event. We've bonded as a team," he said."I think you become like a family and after a few weeks together doing a ridiculously hard challenges every day is a bond that's built for life." "I started this 20 years ago. It was all purely to raise money for Cure Leukaemia and get [professor] Charlie Craddock the funding he needed to fulfil his dream of building a clinical research centre that would fast-track all the wealth of knowledge that's in the science labs to benefit patients."Over the last 15 years I can say for sure with the infrastructure we've set up, it's working and people are largely being saved on the back of these fantastic guys raising money for a great cause."He said he was not normally an emotional man but seeing his family at the end of the race was tough."I knew everybody would be here [at the finishing line] and I had a little moment to myself and then when I came here I just wanted to enjoy everyone's enjoyment and see it in their eyes," he added. "I've done it numerous times... but taking on a challenge like that and meeting in Paris is magical."His wife Julie said she was "so proud"."It's just fantastic. It's a huge challenge and I think 90% is your mental state," she said."I think Geoff being a professional sportsman, I think he just has that drive in him, no matter what's happening to your body, you just get on with it."I think he doesn't really think about what's going on at the time, he just pushes on for the charity really, for the cause."Thomas, who was appointed an MBE in 2021 for his work raising money for cancer charities, said everyone that took part should be proud of themselves and what they had achieved."I am proud of them and I'm proud of the charity and that's why I carry on doing this and oddly, even though I was the most unfit I've been taking on this challenge, it's inspired me even more than any other." Follow BBC Wolverhampton & Black Country on BBC Sounds, Facebook, X and Instagram.
Straits Times
20-07-2025
- Business
- Straits Times
Happy, healthy, home-ready: Sanctuary prepares rescued kitties for adoption
Find out what's new on ST website and app. Ms Eva Helina Irman, operations manager of Little Katpaws, keeping the cats at the animal shelter active. SINGAPORE – Ms Eva Helina Irman runs Little Katpaws, a cat shelter on the second floor of a shophouse in Aliwal Street. The cat sanctuary, about 2,000 sq ft, is designed like a home for felines to roam freely. This is to help the rescued cats 'acclimate to human homes should they get adopted', said Ms Eva, 28, who is the operations manager. Little Katpaws was started by her 48-year-old mother Katrina Shamsudin in 2016. 'It was a small place located at Ming Arcade in Cuscaden Road. We had only 10 cats then,' Ms Eva told The Straits Times. 'I was 13 when I pestered her into fostering some cats. Eventually, it became her pet project,' Ms Eva said of her mother. 'We moved to a much bigger place in North Bridge Road in 2020 and at one point, we even helped rescue 40 cats from a hoarder. We managed to find homes for 25 of them. A few of those cats are still with us,' she added. Top stories Swipe. Select. Stay informed. Singapore 1 in 3 vapes here laced with etomidate; MOH working with MHA to list it as illegal drug: Ong Ye Kung Singapore HSA extends hotline hours, launches new platform to report vaping offences Singapore Tampines regional centre set to get more homes, offices and public amenities Multimedia How to make the most out of small homes in Singapore World Diplomats dismissed: Inside the overhaul reshaping Trump's foreign policy Life US tech CEO Andy Byron resigns after viral Coldplay 'kiss cam' video Opinion I thought I was a 'chill' parent. Then came P1 registration Singapore 'God and government are the only things beyond our control,' says Group CEO Her mother used to run a boarding place for cats but called it quits after 'some owners stopped paying for the food and board, or simply became uncontactable when it was time for the cats to go home', according to Ms Eva, who previously worked for charities. 'The boarding provided income for the sanctuary. With that gone, we depend on donations from kind people and that makes up 30 per cent of our expenditure. The rest comes from our own pockets,' she said. Cats are allowed to roam the shelter, but those that are sick are confined in glass rooms. ST PHOTO: BRIAN TEO The largest portion of the expenses goes to veterinary care and food. On some months, the donations dipped so low that almost 90 per cent of the costs came out of their own pockets. Today, Little Katpaws houses a total of 30 cats. Ms Eva has capped the number at 40 to prevent overcrowding. She has also installed created rooms with glass doors to separate cats infected with feline immunodeficiency virus (FIV) or feline leukaemia virus (FeLV) so that the healthy ones are protected. FIV attacks a cat's immune system, leaving it vulnerable to infections. FeLV is a form of leukaemia that causes a variety of diseases as it invades cells in the immune system and blood-forming tissues. Segregating the sick kitties 'does not mean these cats do not get sun and exercise', Ms Eva said. Two of the 30 cats at the sanctuary. Operations manager Eva Helina Irman said many of the residents are ready for adoption. ST PHOTO: BRIAN TEO They are let out at different times of the day to roam some of the other rooms, which would be thoroughly cleaned after use. 'Cat shelters need to prioritise the well-being of their feline residents. Therefore, they need to provide adequate space, safe and clean environments, and proper healthcare,' she added. Currently, there are no common set of national guidelines to help shelters adopt best practices across the board. Ms Eva relies on what she has learnt online and through experiences to ensure her feline residents are 'happy, healthy and ready to be adopted'. 'Only when the new regulations come out will we see how we can tweak our current practices to ensure we toe the line,' she said.
