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Yahoo
18 hours ago
- Entertainment
- Yahoo
Who's next for Max Holloway after beating Dustin Poirier?
MMA Junkie's Mike Bohn plays matchmaker and looks ahead to what makes sense for Max Holloway in this edition of "Sean Shelby's Shoes."
The Sun
3 days ago
- Health
- The Sun
Do you fall in love hard and fast? Three signs you're an emophiliac – & five ways to break the destructive lust cycle
FROM falling hard and fast to ignoring red flags, why emophilia could be your toxic dating trait. Have you ever been on a first date and felt like you've met your soulmate? 1 If this happens often, you may have emophilia, AKA a tendency to fall in love quickly and with just about anyone. And experts warn it can have a negative impact on mental health, leaving people vulnerable and trapped in toxic relationships, or see them darting from one relationship to the next, constantly chasing the thrill of early attraction or that feeling of falling in love. 'When you first fall for someone, you get that rush of the feel-good hormone, serotonin,' says Sarah Louise Ryan, dating and relationship expert, matchmaker and psychotherapist. 'This phase of romantic love is really the rose-tinted glasses phase. You are falling for the newness of these just-discovered feelings, just as much as you're falling for the actual person. This is because new and different people bring out different parts of us.' There's nothing wrong with these emotions, though they do simmer down as we build a relationship. 'In reality, when that spark fades, that is when the real relationship begins,' says Sarah. 'But those with emophilia don't ever want that feeling to fizzle out, which can lead them into a volatile position romantically. They either never fully commit and move on to the next partner, or they date multiple people to discover who they have the biggest spark with, all in search of the rush.' The emotional fallout from this pattern can be huge. The good news is it's possible to stop and change your thinking and actions. I'm a dating expert - the 5 key signs your partner is cheating on you & the Instagram feature that'll tell you all you need to know Love At First Sight? But whatever happened to 'love at first sight', you might wonder? Genuine love at first sight is an instant attraction to someone you might share common values with, find intriguing and are physically attracted to. It can be with someone who feels safe and calm. But emophilia is falling in love with the feeling of lust, attention, validation and connection, rather than the person. 'That need for attachment can be intoxicating, but it's important to get to know the person you've fallen for on a deeper level,' Sarah says. 'You will feel anxiety when you're not getting that serotonin burst, but if you follow these steps before becoming emotionally attached so quickly, you'll feel better.' When Emophilia Becomes a Problem At a time when the dating world feels dire and 'true love' is hard to find, is it really all that bad if someone is so open to connection? The issue is that when emophiliacs fall, they tend not to question the relationship's long-term goals, values or red flags. This can make them either more likely to jump ship or get stuck in a relationship that was doomed from the start. 'Falling for risky partners may seem appealing, but it can be dangerous when their aim is manipulation and destruction,' explains Sarah. 'People with emophilia can be attracted to narcissists, who may lovebomb a new partner by showing excessive amounts of affection and attention. This would be ideal for a person with emophilia. Because they think they're in love, emophiliacs are likely to overlook warnings or advice, even from trusted family and friends. However, when red flags aren't addressed, over time they can become more problematic.' Why Do you Fall so Hard? Though the exact cause of emophilia is unknown, there are several possible theories. 'It is thought that low serotonin levels in the brain may contribute,' says Sarah. Serotonin is also implicated in conditions including depression and obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD). 'Some people may also be hypersensitive to oxytocin,' adds Sarah. Also known as the love hormone, oxytocin creates feelings of trust and a desire to care. Falling in love quickly is also a shared experience of people with ADHD, which may be linked with the disorder's symptoms of impulsivity. But it may just be a personality trait. For some, there is excitement to be found in the chaos, and boredom in the monotony. FIVE WAYS TO BREAK UP WITH EMOPHILIA Overcoming the need to chase the rush of falling for someone isn't easy, as many of our relationship desires are ingrained. 'I would ask an emophiliac: 'Is it working for you?'", Sarah says. 'If the answer is yes, and you're happy flitting from one relationship to another, keep doing what you are doing. If the answer is no, I'd recommend these tips.' 1. Go Cold Turkey If you are a serial dater, go cold turkey – including no sex or romantic relations – to focus on yourself. Discover the qualities you like in yourself and note the ways in which you are capable without having a significant other. Then, pick up conscious dating when the time is right. 'When you find the confidence to make the right choices, you will no longer let your drive for a feeling choose for you,' says Sarah. 'It will be hard work, but worth it.' 2. Spot The Red Flags Some red flags are universal. For example, a lack of respect or signs of attempting to control another person. However, others will be more specific to you. For example, how do you feel about their financial situation, living arrangements, family set-up or beliefs? It's easy for a friend to say: 'That's a red flag', but ask yourself if it really is for you. Write down your deal-breakers, then ensure when connecting with someone that you ask the questions that will unveil these warning signs. 3. Note What Hasn't Worked Sit back and really think about the patterns you have fallen into with each romantic partner. What happened? Where did it go wrong? Self-awareness is important in the decision-making process. If necessary, write out an action plan for the next time someone catches your attention. 4. Listen To Friends You may get so caught up in the rush of a new partner that you forget the concerns of those closest to you. Take time to speak to a family member or friend who knows you well and has historically given you honest advice. Run through any worries or ask for feedback on new partners. Your friends don't have to love or even like your partner, but if they have concerns about them, it's worth hearing them. This can be a failing for people with emophilia, who can only see the positives of a new crush. 5. Consult A Therapist Therapists or counsellors can help you to understand and manage emophilia. 'Therapists help bring you into the here and now and find internal validation, rather than seeking external validation from others,' says Sarah. 'That means that those with emophilia can consciously connect with themselves and with others when dating.'
Forbes
3 days ago
- Entertainment
- Forbes
Dakota Johnson's ‘Materialists' Arrives On Streaming This Week, Report Says
Dakota Johnson and Pedro Pascal in "Materialists." Materialists, a hit romantic comedy starring Dakota Johnson, Pedro Pascal and Chris Evans, is reportedly coming to digital streaming this week. Rated R, Materialists premiered in theaters on June 13. The official logline for the movie reads, 'A young, ambitious New York City matchmaker (Johnson) finds herself torn between the perfect match (Pascal) and her imperfect ex (Evans).' Materialists is written and directed by Song, who was nominated for a Best Original Screenplay Oscar for her 2023 romantic drama Past Lives. According to When to Stream, Materialists is expected to arrive on digital streaming via premium video on demand on Tuesday, July 22. While When to Stream is typically accurate with its PVOD reports, the streaming tracker noted that the release date for Materialists has not been announced or confirmed by its studio, A24, and it is subject to change. When Materialists arrives on PVOD, it will be available for purchase for $24.99. Since rentals on PVOD are generally $5 less than purchase prices, viewers can expect to rent the film on PVOD for $19.99 for 48 hours. Materialists will be available for purchase or rent on several digital platforms, including Apple TV, Fandango at Home, Prime Video and YouTube. Celine Song Says Dakota Johnson Was Her Perfect Matchmaker When it came to casting Dakota Johnson as Lucy, the matchmaker in Materialists, Celine Song told Variety prior to the film's release in June that it started with 'how funny Dakota is, which is really important for the character.' 'I feel like Dakota has this shell to protect herself and approaches the world in a professional and beautiful way,' Song told Variety. 'If you push through that shell, inside, there's a very deep soul. I love that she's as delicate as an egg. I just fell in love with her heart, generally speaking, because she cares so much.' Materialists, which is still playing in theaters, has earned $35.7 million domestically and $14.4 million internationally for a worldwide box office gross of $50.1 million. Materialists had a $20 million production budget before prints and advertising, per The Numbers. The film also earned a 79% 'fresh' rating from Rotten Tomatoes critics based on 224 reviews and a 67% 'fresh' score on RT's Popcornmeter based on 1,000-plus verified user ratings. Materialists is expected to be released on PVOD on Tuesday.
Yahoo
12-07-2025
- Entertainment
- Yahoo
Your Daily Singles Horoscope for July 11, 2025
Though the peace of single life can't be beat, it's always nice to have someone to curl up with at the end of the day. The path to your next cuddle buddy is only a click away with our singles horoscope. You've got a lot going on right now. Still, putting your great energy out there in small, sweet ways throughout the day earns you some bonus karma! You've got a real talent when it comes to romantic matters, so check things out and make your move. While you're at it, give a good pal some romantic advice or just play matchmaker. If you're communicating with a new romantic candidate by message or phone, try to catch them right now and make firm plans. It's time to take things to the next level! Plans you make and initiatives you start today are quite auspicious, so get that romantic ball rolling! Engage in a little flirting. Send out a few friendly invitations. Your energy is muting that famous pride of yours somewhat now, so you've got an ideal state of mind for taking a good look at yourself and your romantic aspirations. What needs improvement? Are you meant to be? Find out with our Love Compatibility Report! Anything you get working now is quite auspicious, so why not put that energy to work in your love life? Chat up the cuties and let others feel your sexy power. You need to leave the past behind when it comes to the realm of romance. You've got the power of forgiveness now, whether it's an old flame or you who needs it. Learn from the past, but let it go. This may not be the most romantic day you've ever experienced, but if you tune in, you should get an important bit of information related to your search. Plans you make for later in the day are favored. Being single is fine by you for the moment, especially because anyone who wants to tell you what to do (even just offering advice) is likely to make you insane. Cherish your independence! An old friend or work buddy may have an odd but romantic angle now. Maybe that faraway pal has a key piece of advice or knows someone moving to your town you need to meet. The small stuff may not matter much to you, but someone sweet may be kind of a jerk about timeliness or details or firm plans. Accommodating them is worth it. They aren't always like this! Save the serious work for your on-the-job projects. When it comes to your love life, it's best for you to take it as it comes and let things just evolve rather than overthink things now. Receive a personalized guide to the next year of your life with a 12 Months Personal Transits Report.
Yahoo
26-06-2025
- Entertainment
- Yahoo
Alan Hamel, 88, confirms romance with late wife Suzanne Somers' co-star Joanna Cassidy
Alan Hamel is dating Joanna Cassidy — the former co-star of his late wife, Suzanne Somers — he exclusively tells Page Six. 'I don't know where this relationship is going,' he says of his tryst with the 'extremely accomplished' actress. Hamel, 88, was photographed arm in arm with Cassidy, 79 — whom he tells us he's known for decades — in Malibu, Calif., on Monday. They were wearing matching Malibu Beach Inn baseball caps as they grabbed lunch at Broad Street Oyster Company. 'I have known Joanna Cassidy for over 45 years,' the Canadian film producer explains when we reached out for comment. 'Joanna was a guest star on [daytime talk show] 'The Alan Hamel Show' in Canada in the '70s. She was a great guest and it was a dynamic show, and we liked each other, not romantically, but mainly with respect. Both of us were married at the time.' He says the duo crossed paths again when Cassidy and Somers starred together in the 1985 miniseries 'Hollywood Wives.' 'I ran into her in the mid-'80s many times during the production of Jackie Collins' 'Hollywood Wives,'' he recalls. 'It was very cordial.' As for how the pair reconnected, Hamel explains that his son, Stephen, played matchmaker. 'My son met Joanna at a screening and after a long conversation suggested to Joanna that she and me would get along and should meet. Stephen did not know we knew each other.' Hamel knows he has the blessing of Somers — who died of cancer in October 2023, one day before her 77th birthday — since in her final days she urged him to move on from her. 'Don't mope around,' he recalls her telling him. 'Live your life. We will see one another after you cross over.' While Hamel isn't sure where his romance with Cassidy will go, he has nothing but praise for the former model. 'Joanna is extremely accomplished,' he gushes. 'She is easily the hardest-working and most active actress in Hollywood for well over 50 years. She's a great mother to her adult children, turns up for many fundraisers for first responders and is staff for her four cats. She is no Hollywood BS, and we laugh a lot.' The former TV host says of his current relationship, 'I'm fortunate to have Joanna in my life. Most men would love to have a Joanna in their life. I do not know where this relationship is going, but what I do know is that being in the cocktail hour of my life, I am blessed with a magnificent family — thanks to incredible Suzanne — a privileged life, and our business that we created 50 years ago.' Hamel unveiled his wife's headstone at Desert Memorial Park in Cathedral City, Calif., in October 2024 to mark the first anniversary of her passing. Cassidy — who also starred in movies from 'Blade Runner' to 'Who Killed Roger Rabbit' — was previously married to Dr. Kennard Kobrin. They divorced in 1974, but never remarried.
