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New York Times
6 days ago
- General
- New York Times
I Thought The Turbie Twist Towel Was a Waste of Money. Then I Had Brain Surgery.
I was watching reruns at my grandma's house when I saw a commercial for the Turbie Twist Microfiber Hair Towel for the first time. It was sometime in the early 2000s, and as a self-conscious preteen just starting to care about my looks, I was immediately captivated by the lightweight, tapered towels and the beautiful women wrapping their hair with them. By the end of the ad, I was convinced that this fitted hair towel was a necessity. When the 'buy now' number flashed at the bottom of the screen, I sat up straight and called out to my mom. 'I need one of those,' I announced with the kind of conviction only a bratty 12-year-old could muster. My mom, used to my antics, just rolled her eyes and said, 'No, you don't, we have towels at home.' I sat with my mom's words, turning them over in my head. She was right. We did have towels at home, and I'd been using them for as long as I could remember to dry my hair after a shower. I decided right then and there that a towel designed specifically for your hair was an unnecessary extravagance, even if this commercial tried to convince me otherwise. For nearly 20 years, I held on staunchly to this belief. Why buy a towel I can only use for my hair when I could easily twist a body towel (that I already own!) into a hair-wringing turban? Then, I had brain surgery, and suddenly the Turbie Twist became something I simply couldn't live without. Designed with a tapered shape and elastic loop for a secure fit, this hair towel is made from quick-drying microfiber that cuts down on frizz, prevents breakage, and stays put without the bulk of a traditional towel. $20 from Amazon (pack of two) If you've used a body towel to wrap up your hair after a shower, you're probably familiar with the process: You have to bend at the waist and flip your head forward so that your damp hair hangs upside down. From there, you place the long edge of the towel at the nape of your neck and twist the fabric around your hair, straighten up, and secure the towel atop your head. After I had brain surgery, flipping my head upside down was a no-go. For the first six weeks after my procedure, I was instructed to keep my head above my heart to reduce swelling and prevent dizzy spells. Without wringing out my locks, my long hair hung heavily down my back after I showered, clinging wetly to my skin. Desperate for a way to keep my sopping wet hair off the back of my neck, I caved and ordered a Turbie Twist. I haven't looked back since. Turbie Twist Microfiber Hair Towels come in a wide range of colors; I chose lilac and seafoam green. Elissa Sanci/NYT Wirecutter The Turbie Twist has a unique, tapered shape that resembles a hood and is closed at both ends, which allows me to capture all of my hair without bending over. To use it, I position the wider end at the base of my neck. I tilt just my head forward so my wet hair hangs freely and gather it into the skinny end of the towel. I twist the towel (and my hair) until it feels snug, then bring the twisted end up and over my head, securing it by threading it through the elastic loop on the wider end of the towel. Elissa Sanci/NYT Wirecutter As an extra precaution, while I still had staples in my head, I wore the Turbie Twist backwards. I didn't want my hair hanging over my staples, afraid that it could potentially get twisted in the metal and irritate the surgery site. So, I positioned the wider end of the towel against my forehead rather than the base of my neck, and twisted the length of my wet hair into the skinny end. Then I brought it up over the back of my head, securing the end in the elastic loop. The correct way to wear the Turbie Twist is pictured on the left; on the right is how I modified it to accommodate my surgery staples. Elissa Sanci/NYT Wirecutter The Turbie Twist is made of microfiber, a highly absorbent material that helps hair dry faster than a regular towel. In fact, microfibers are capable of 'absorbing over seven times their weight in water and they dry in one-third of the time of ordinary fibers,' according to authors S.A. Hosseini Ravandi and Masoumeh Valizadeh in Improving Comfort in Clothing . Soft microfiber cloth is also more gentle on your hair, which reduces breakage and frizz and, more importantly, was crucial for my head's post-surgery tenderness. Even though I've fully recovered from my surgery, I still use my Turbie Twist after every shower — and now that my staples have been removed, I wear it the right way. Before I tried the Turbie Twist, I was convinced that it was no different than the body towels I'd been using for years. After using it every day for six weeks, though, I've realized how delightful it is to dry your hair with a towel designed specifically for that purpose. It's thin and lightweight, which makes it more comfortable to wear, and, unlike the top-heavy turbans I used to twist out of my body towels, it stays in place until I'm ready to remove it. And I've noticed that my hair looks and feels a lot healthier too; it's not as frizzy as it used to be, and it tangles a lot less now. I've even bought a few more Turbie Twist towels to take with me when I travel. Because they dry so quickly, I never have to worry about packing a damp towel in my bag when my vacation comes to a close. I also like to keep one in my swim bag, often wearing it home from the pool after a workout. A standard bath towel turban is double the height of the Turbie Twist turban. Elissa Sanci/NYT Wirecutter The Turbie Twist has been around since the early aughts, and in the years since it first debuted, it's inspired a handful of competitors. Curious to see how other brands compared, I ordered a set of three Hicober hair towels, an affordable option with mostly positive reviews on Amazon. I wasn't impressed when they arrived: Though they were the same shape and length as the Turbie Twist, the Hicober towels were made of a thicker material that took a lot longer to dry. I also found Hicober towels harder to secure; you have to loop the elastic around a button, which requires a lot of fiddling. The Turbie Twist towel (top) and the Hicober hair towel (bottom). Elissa Sanci/NYT Wirecutter The Turbie Twist material (left) is thinner, while the Hicober towel material (right) is fluffier and less absorbent. Elissa Sanci/NYT Wirecutter The Turbie Twist towel (top) and the Hicober hair towel (bottom). Elissa Sanci/NYT Wirecutter If you had asked me a year ago, I would have told you the Turbie Twist is an unnecessary waste of money. And unless you are having brain surgery, it really may not be a necessity. But, in my experience, it is better than using a regular towel as a turban to dry hair. So, do you really need a Turbie Twist? No. But is it one of my favorite little luxuries? Absolutely. This article was edited by Hannah Rimm and Megan Beauchamp. TikTokkers swear by the UNbrush , a square hairbrush that gently detangles hair. And after testing it out ourselves, we agree that it's fantastic. They won't give you perfect hair or skin or solve your sleep woes, but they bring a bit of sumptuousness to bedtime. Plus, they're affordable enough to buy two.
Yahoo
10-07-2025
- General
- Yahoo
My son loves explaining slang words to me. It gives me a peek into how his mind works.
I used to keep up with current slang when I was a teacher, but it's been harder in recent years. My 11-year-old son loves it when I ask him what a slang word means. He gets to teach me something. It also gives us something to connect over during his pre-teen years. As a former middle school and high school English teacher, it was always important to me to stay up-to-date with the new words and phrases my students were using. If I noticed something new the kids were saying, I would research the meaning later on. I felt I needed to know their language in order to fully understand them and reach them on their level. But now that I'm out of the classroom, I just can't keep up with the lingo, and in recent years, it has become difficult for me to keep up with my 11-year-old son's vocabulary. I've discovered that asking my son about an unknown word, instead of doing my own research, is a chance for him to teach me something for a change. Most of the time, I think he really enjoys that. He gets to say, "I can't believe you don't know what that means!" For the first time, he is experiencing knowing things that I don't. Even at his young age, he gets to be the authority on something, even if that thing might feel small. I think the use of his own language gives him some autonomy to ease into. My son is at an age where he is becoming more independent, and I am still working on adjusting to that. In order to become more comfortable with his newfound independence, I've decided to stop worrying about every little thing, including slang. Every generation has its own terms, which come from its culture. My son should be allowed to use his own slang, just like I had mine at his age. As a parent, I have a lot of concerns, and I've decided that the language he uses with his friends doesn't rank highly on that list. My son recently explained that "skibidi" is a word that can mean both "everything and nothing." I thought his definition was really interesting. It was both silly and thoughtful, a lot like he can be. Part of why I've started to prefer asking him what something means is because I like to get a glimpse into the way his mind works. Even better, the real-world explanation I'm getting from him is so much more authentic and personalized than the definition I would have had if I'd researched on my own. Then, every time I hear the word used somewhere, I get to think of it in the way he explained it to me. I get to recall us connecting through conversation. My son has definitely entered pre-teen territory. He is starting middle school, which I am particularly familiar with after having taught that age group. I can really see him pulling away from me and growing up. He is putting more walls up than he ever has before, as far as not sharing everything with me. I know that, as his social life grows, we'll spend even less time together. So whenever he still wants to spend time with me, such as going on a walk or even just running an errand, I am really present with him. I put my full energy into keeping the conversation going, and I no longer care about what we talk about, just as long as we're talking. Asking him about these silly words is a way I've figured out how to still connect with him, even as he's getting older. Read the original article on Business Insider
Times
21-06-2025
- Entertainment
- Times
‘Bro, my lilacs are crazy': why boys love virtual gardening
I first realised something was up when I heard the classical music coming from the iPad as my 11-year-old sat there swiping. 'Teddy, are you listening to Mozart's Rondo alla Turca?' I asked. 'Oh. It's this game I'm playing on Roblox,' he responded. I became more suspicious when I tuned into the conversations his friends were having at the school gates. There was talk of 'pollinators', 'honeysuckle' and 'seed packs'. Boys were greeting one another with sentences like 'Bro, my lilacs have gone crazy' and discussing the challenges of succulents. Naturally, I assumed this was standard pre-teen drug slang. But no, they genuinely were talking about horticulture, albeit virtual horticulture. Yes, the game of the moment is Grow a Garden, a simulator hosted on the gaming platform Roblox, in which users have to grow carrots and daffodils and ember lilies, then sell them at market and make their fortunes.
