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Daily Mail
4 days ago
- Daily Mail
'Smirking' showjumper asked 'Who am I having first?' as he began threesome with horse rider, 26, and underage girl, court hears
A 'smirking' showjumper asked 'who am I having first?' before having a threesome with a 26-year-old horse rider and an underage girl, a court has heard. Equestrian boss Guy Simmonds, 37, and fellow rider Lauren Jarvis, 26, allegedly engaged in the sexual act with the 16-year-old schoolgirl in January last year. Simmonds, who described himself as 'daddy' in messages sent to the youngster, would also use a horse trailer to have 'repeated' sex with her while his own girlfriend was away, a court has heard. Prior to the alleged threesome which took place at Jarvis' home, the pair exchanged messages to hatch their plan, with the equestrian boss asking Jarvis when he should 'pop over' for a threesome. It is then claimed that Simmonds messaged the young girl informing her of the proposed act, telling her: 'You will both do what daddy says.' He then allegedly asked: 'Who am I having first?'. The young girl also claimed that Simmonds had made both her and Jarvis 'do stuff' with each other prior to having sex with both of them. Simmonds, of Undy, Gwent, is accused of six counts of sexual activity with a child, while Jarvis, of Newport faces one charge of sexual activity with a child. Both have denied all charges against them. Prior to the alleged threesome which took place at Lauren Jarvis' (pictured) home, the pair exchanged messages to hatch their plan, with the equestrian boss asking Jarvis when he should 'pop over' for a threesome On one occasion, Simmonds, who had initially added the underage girl on Facebook, allegedly filmed the young victim while having sex with her, with the victim stating he had 'a little smirk on his face' throughout, the court heard. She told police that the showjumper would often become 'aggressive' with her as they 'repeatedly' had sex at his stables, leaving her feeling like she had 'done something wrong'. Jurors at Cardiff Crown Court heard that both Simmonds and Jarvis 'agreed a pact of silence' after they 'got wind' that the victim had began to discuss the alleged sexual incident. Simmonds had started sexually touching the schoolgirl in the tack room of his stables just weeks after they first met in person. He later told her: 'You best be able to keep a secret' after leading her to his horse box to have sex, the court heard. Mr Hartson said Simmonds and Jarvis still had a threesome with the victim even though they had 'no doubt at all' about the victim's age. The court also heard that Jarvis had agreed that it was 'absolutely fine' with her, with Mr Hartson stating that Jarvis was a 'willing' partner in the sex. In a later message exchanged between the pair, Simmonds checks whether the girl is there yet and said: 'I don't want to turn up at the same time that her mum drops her off.' Meanwhile, in another message exchanged regarding the threesome, the girl asks Simmonds what he would make them do. The young girl eventually reported the instances to her father. In a police interview, she said that she was fearful of walking away from Simmonds and had not reported the crimes sooner due to concerns that he may 'hurt her'. When Jarvis and Simmonds began to realise the underage girl may have revealed the incident, Simmonds is said to have messaged Jarvis: 'Hey, I have a feeling that she has said about us. If anyone asks for sake of both of us nothing ever happened that night xx.' Jarvis then replied: 'Hey, who's she told? Oh god has she really, what's she trying to do, make our lives hell? Of course I will xx.' On one occasion, Simmonds, who had initially added the underage girl on Facebook, allegedly filmed the young victim while having sex with her, with the victim stating he had 'a little smirk on his face', Cardiff Crown Court (pictured) heard Prosecutor James Hartson declared that there had been a 'clear element of grooming behaviour' from Simmonds who had 'no doubt at all' about the victim's age. At the time of the incident, he had been advertising his riding school as 'showjumping horse production and sales, coaching and schooling' in the small village of Undy, Wales. Mr Hartson said: 'At all times he knew how old she was and so did Jarvis. The victim told him herself in one of the very first messages she sent him. 'The defendants didn't care about her age when they were planning and engaging in a so-called threesome with the victim.' Simmonds insisted to police that he had no form of sexual contact with the victim, alleging that the messages regarding the threesome were simply 'banter and a wind up'. The trial continues.
The Sun
7 days ago
- The Sun
Man, 27, arrested after ‘asking children to engage in sexual activity in park'
A 27-YEAR-OLD man has been arrested after he allegedly touched himself while asking children to engage in sexual activity in a park. Cops rushed to the scene at the park near Wingate Road, Grimsby, on Monday at around 4.20pm after multiple reports were made. The force said officers were immediately deployed and spotted a man matching the description. A 27-year-old man was then arrested on suspicion of causing children to engage in sexual activity. He remains in police custody at this time. A Humberside Police spokesperson said: "Officers were called at around 4.20pm to reports that a man allegedly indecently touched himself and was asking children to engage in sexual activity at a park near Wingate Road in Grimsby. "If anyone witnessed the incident or has any further information that may assist officers with ongoing enquiries, please contact us via our non-emergency number 101 quoting crime reference 25*101397." You can also give information anonymously via the independent charity Crimestoppers on 0800 555 111. 1
Health Line
18-07-2025
- Health
- Health Line
What Does Your Sex Life Look Like After a Cesarean Delivery?
You can resume sexual activity whenever you'd like, but you should avoid vaginal penetration until you get the green light from a healthcare professional. It may take 6 or more weeks to heal. Some people may feel ready to resume sexual activity sooner than others. It's ultimately up to you and your individual comfort level. However, healthcare professionals recommend that you wait until your cervix completely closes to engage in vaginal penetration of any kind. This includes: fingering or fisting inserting a dildo, vibrator, or other sex toy penis-in-vagina sex menstrual cups, discs, or tampons Timeline for recovery after a cesarean delivery You'll likely stay at the hospital for 2 to 4 days after a c-section so that healthcare professionals can monitor your recovery. During this time, they'll gradually reduce pain medications and remove your urinary catheter. As a nurse, I noticed that people who had a cesarean delivery usually did not experience as much bleeding as those who delivered vaginally. That's because some of the blood tends to get cleared out during surgery. However, you can still expect to bleed for four to six weeks. It also takes the uterus about six weeks to return to its typical size and for the cervix to close back up. The physical timeline for your body to heal after childbirth is pretty much the same, no matter how you deliver. Staples from the incision site will be removed within a week of surgery. The actual incision site itself should be healed by six weeks postpartum. But it's common for people to feel some discomfort in the incision area. Some experience numbness or tingling for months after surgery. This is generally OK, as long as the pain doesn't increase and isn't accompanied by other symptoms like a fever. Managing physical, mental, and emotional side effects The area around your incision site might be uncomfortable, so it will be helpful to try sex positions that don't put any pressure on your abdomen. The first time you have solo or partnered sex, you may be fearful of what it will feel like. Because sex is not just physical, it's also mental, any hesitation or fear you have about having sex again is very real and may have an effect on your sexual experience. Be sure to talk with your sexual partners, take your time, engage in some non-sexual intimacy to help you relax, and use over-the-counter lubrication to get started. Some people experience sexual dysfunction after a cesarean delivery, so if you find sex is abnormally painful, consider speaking with a healthcare professional. How to perform Kegels Kegels aren't just for your vagina. They're an exercise for the muscles in your whole pelvic floor. This is affected by pregnancy, no matter how you deliver. Start performing Kegels as soon as you'd like after birth. You can also start doing Kegels during pregnancy, before you deliver. To perform a Kegel: Squeeze your pelvic floor as if you were stopping urine midstream. Hold those muscles for a few seconds. Repeat as frequently as you'd like throughout the day. The more, the merrier. It's important to consider birth control Take it from this obstetrics nurse: I've taken care of more than one patient returning almost exactly nine months after delivering a baby to have a second. Pregnancy can happen pretty much immediately, even after you've given birth. Don't wait until you've resumed sexual activity to start your preferred birth control method. There are a lot of options for long-acting birth control. Many of these options are safe for people who are nursing. Talk with a healthcare professional about what method is best for you. When to consult a doctor or other healthcare professional Speak with a healthcare professional if you have increased pain, discharge, or bleeding after a cesarean delivery. I always tell my patients that they should start to feel better, not worse, as time goes on. If anything starts hurting more, it's a sign that something might be wrong. Having sex for the first time postpartum might be a little uncomfortable, especially if you're nursing, your menstrual period hasn't returned, or you're using hormonal birth control. All of these could lead to a lowered amount of natural vaginal secretions. Use lubrication and take your time. You should also keep an eye on your incision site as you recover. Contact a healthcare professional if the incision opens, is painful, or becomes reddened or swollen. These may be signs of an infection. The bottom line When it comes to enjoying sex after a cesarean delivery, remember to take your time and pay attention to your body. There's no rush to get back to 'normal.' You'll probably need a little time to adjust. Everyone is different, so communicate openly with each other. If you encounter any problems along the way, don't be afraid to talk with a doctor or other healthcare professional about resuming sexual activities. Trust me, they've seen it all. There's no such thing as an embarrassing question when it comes to your health.
Daily Mail
09-07-2025
- Daily Mail
Female jail worker, 56, 'caught trying to have sex with inmate' and claims SHE'S the victim
A female jail worker in Georgia has been fired and hit with a string of criminal charges after she was allegedly caught half-naked in her office with an inmate last month - but she insists she's the victim. Vickie Lynn Frantz, 56, was booked into the Fulton County Jail on Monday on charges of criminal intent to commit a felony and trading with inmates without the warden's consent. Frantz was allegedly working as a purchasing assistant at the Atlanta Transitional Center on June 30 when a security guard allegedly spotted her sneaking an inmate into her office - where he says he witnessed sexual activity about to take place, WSB-TV reported. 'Accused Vickie Frantz committed criminal attempt to commit custodial sexual assault by allowing an inmate of the Georgia Department of Corrections into her office, then taking off her pants to allow sexual activity,' an affidavit obtained by the outlet said. 'But a security staff member intervened before any sexual acts occurred. Vickie Frantz was caught in her office lying on an inmate bed mat with no pants on and an inmate standing over her.' She was also accused of smuggling contraband into the prison for another inmate - allegedly accepting a $50 in exchange for five packs of cigarettes. Frantz waived her first court appearance on Tuesday, and her bond was set at $30,000. Despite the accusations, Frantz's lawyer claims her client is the one who has been wronged. 'She was under duress, and she was threatened with her life actually to comply with the demand by the complaining witness,' assistant public defender Jae Kim said in court Tuesday, according to WSB-TV. 'My client is the victim of the whole situation and yet she is falsely accused of those charges.' Atlanta Transitional Center provides felons who are near the end of their sentences with a place to live and work as they prepare for life after prison. A spokeswoman for the Georgia Department of Corrections confirmed to WSB-TV that Frantz was hired in March 2024 and terminated on July 7 - the day of her arrest. 'As we continue to demonstrate, we maintain a zero-tolerance policy for individuals who choose to ignore their oath and jeopardize our non-negotiable mission of public safety,' Joan Heath, the department's director of communications, told the outlet. 'Actions of this individual does not reflect the hundreds of Officers who are committed each and every day to ensuring the safety of the public and the safe operations of our facilities.' The Daily Mail has reached out to the Georgia Department of Corrections for additional comment.
Sky News
20-05-2025
- Entertainment
- Sky News
Diddy trial as it happened: Rapper 'threatened' to release 'explicit' sex tapes; ex-assistant lists items he would 'deliver' to Diddy's hotel rooms
'He wanted us to keep our bodies covered, to shine' Male escort Sharay Hayes describes going along to different hotels in New York to meet Cassie and Diddy, often on a Friday and Saturday night. The dancer who goes by the name "The Punisher" says the encounters would start at around 2.30am and sometimes as late as 11am. He describes a routine which would start with Cassie texting him. "It always started the same, to create a sexy scene, but I understood it could escalate to sexual activity, oral sex or penetrative sex, always a similar pattern - put baby oil on each other and create a look, a sexy atmosphere," he explains. He says Diddy "would at some point come into the room, sit in the distance, and give instructions to Ms Ventura". He says the routine was always the same and always featured candles and covered furniture. One time during sex, he says Diddy asked Cassie, "Are you OK?" Hayes describes the "considerable amount of baby oil" used during the performances, saying "he wanted us to keep our bodies covered, to shine". He says each encounter lasted about four hours - made up of a lot of waiting time and then 45 minutes of sexual activity. He says when he was "instructed to finish", he would orgasm. Diddy would then leave the room and Cassie would follow. After waiting for a while, Cassie would return and tell him he could leave. Hayes says he got paid between $1,200 and $2000 in cash each time.
