Why some women in the hills still marry two men
Team TOI Plus
Jul 24, 2025, 18:35 IST IST
In the hills where land is scarce and labour is shared, polyandry still finds quiet legitimacy — and this wedding, with its music, rituals, and pride, made it visible again
It's usually the groom who arrives in a baraat. But in this Himachal wedding, it was the bride who was brought in a procession.
But that is not why the wedding is being talked about around the country. Waiting at the family home where the bride-led baraat arrived were two grooms – brothers Pradeep and Kapil Negi.
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Why some women in the hills still marry two men Team TOI Plus Jul 24, 2025, 18:35 IST IST In the hills where land is scarce and labour is shared, polyandry still finds quiet legitimacy — and this wedding, with its music, rituals, and pride, made it visible again It's usually the groom who arrives in a baraat. But in this Himachal wedding, it was the bride who was brought in a procession. But that is not why the wedding is being talked about around the country. Waiting at the family home where the bride-led baraat arrived were two grooms – brothers Pradeep and Kapil Negi.
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Two brothers in Himachal Pradesh, Pradeep and Kapil Negi, have tied the knot with Sunita Chauhan in a ceremony attended by hundreds of relatives and villagers. The men, belonging to the Hatti tribe, carried the centuries-old tradition of polyandry in the Shillai village of the Sirmaur district. The trio say the union is consensual. But is the practice legal in India? read more A woman in Himachal Pradesh has married two brothers of the Hatti tribe. Sunita Chauhan has tied the knot with Pradeep and Kapil Negi of the Shillai village in the Sirmaur district. Celebrating the centuries-old tradition of polyandry, the two brothers and the woman publicly held the nuptials. The trio say they have willingly entered the alliance. Let's take a closer look. What is polyandry? Polyandry refers to the practice of having more than one husband at a time. The custom, known as 'Jodidara' in Himachal Pradesh, is followed by the Hattis and some other communities in the lower Himalayas. 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Hundreds of villagers and relatives from nearby regions were part of the celebrations. Pradeep works for the Jal Shakti Department, while his younger brother, Kapil, is employed abroad in the hospitality sector. 'This was our joint decision, it's a matter of trust, care and shared responsibility. We followed our tradition openly because we're proud of our roots,' Pradeep told The Tribune. VIDEO | Himachal Pradesh: Two brothers of the Hatti tribe tied the knot to a woman in Shillai village, with hundreds of people witnessing the marriage solemnised under the anachronistic tradition of polyandry. The ceremony began on July 12 and lasted for three days in the… — Press Trust of India (@PTI_News) July 21, 2025 STORY CONTINUES BELOW THIS AD 'We've always believed in transparency. I may live abroad, but through this marriage, we're ensuring support, stability and love for our wife as a united family,' Kapil said. 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