logo
Dance off: When did shaadi sangeets become so boring?

Dance off: When did shaadi sangeets become so boring?

Hindustan Times11-07-2025
Want a modern example of main-character energy? Don't look at the bride and groom at an Indian wedding, look at everyone involved in the sangeet. Family, extended family, the groom's workmates, the bride's office gang, their gym group, the school friends, the college buddies, the miscellaneous group, a good-terms ex... Everyone is out there shaking a leg. How did we all get roped into song/dance/skit performances that take up a whole evening, events that have no real audience, recordings we play only to watch our own selves? Not everyone can shake a leg like Ranbir Kapoor in Yeh Jawaani Hai Deewani (2013). Keep the steps simple.
Bollywood does it too. Alia Bhatt was in Spain last month, being bridesmaid to her bestie, Tanya Saha Gupta. Even they got dressed for a choreographed routine. That 10-second Reel was fun to watch. But let's face it, most weddings don't need 20 amateur performances in a single night. How much London Thumakda can we take?
They're a pain to organise. We get added to Malvika Shaadi Dance Group No1. Rehearsal dates are set up and endlessly changed because someone 'can't this Saturday'. Most practise sessions happen with three of nine people showing up. Then, when choreography is updated, the song is changed and stage positions are moved around – there are fights and sulking. 'WDYM we're not wearing the butterfly cholis, guyzzz? I bought mine already!'
Couples think that the world wants to know their love story. Why not try a new theme for a change? (SHUTTERSTOCK)
For the most part, 'group dances are a way to bond with friends and family,' says Ruchi Nayak, co-owner of a PR agency who recently participated in her sister's and friend's sangeets.' Older folks enjoy being involved, says Nirali Rambhia, a wedding choreographer. But joining endless dance lessons when you could be chilling with the bride or groom in their last weeks as singletons can seem like a chore. Choreographers overcharge and grind their teeth when guests pick ambitious moves, only to simplify everything after the second rehearsal. And no matter what, someone isn't quite in step at the final show, and it's caught on camera.
There is a reason that wedding planners warn hosts against opening the bar before the family performance. No one's really sticking around for this. The end doesn't justify the means. It's time to rethink the dance sequences.
'Keep it short and simple and only invite close family and friends to perform,' says choreographer Rahil Ansari. Aim for no more than 10 dances, and a total run time of 45 minutes. This means each set shouldn't be more than a few minutes long, says wedding choreographer Eshna Chopra. So no three-verse indulgences. And unless the dancers can handle it, keep the routine simple and fun.
Don't turn the celebration into a bride gang vs groom gang thing. Get both sides to collab on a dance. (SHUTTERSTOCK)
Most practice sessions start too close to the sangeet day, ruining prep. So, trainers recommend starting three months in advance – with plenty of allowance for those jinxed Saturdays. For NRI cousins and friends, Chopra creates video tutorials, so everybody can learn at their pace before the final in-person rehearsal.
Another trick: Don't build a huge stage. It just puts performers too far from the viewers, and makes it too easy for audiences to slink away. A small stage also makes it harder for the better dancer to steal everyone's thunder. 'That makes it impersonal,' Chopra says.
For a big-budget, destination wedding, a tiny stage won't do. So, Ansari employs grand theatrics, themes, props and graphics. 'If you go big, make the dance as dramatic as possible,' he says. Avoid turning the bridal meet-cute moment into a corny skit.
The worst offence: Turning a wedding celebration into a bride gang vs groom gang thing. Get both sides to collab on a dance to really give people something to look at. 'That way the boy's family won't escape to the buffet counters while the girl and her friends are dancing and vice versa,' says Chopra. Who knows? A maami from the other side might reveal killer dance moves, a sign that the spouse's side might be fun after all.
From HT Brunch, July 12, 2025
Follow us on www.instagram.com/htbrunch
Orange background

Try Our AI Features

Explore what Daily8 AI can do for you:

Comments

No comments yet...

Related Articles

Karuppu star Suriya turns 50: Tamil actor owns Rs 270 cr homes, cars worth Rs 4 cr & more - A look at Suriya's net worth
Karuppu star Suriya turns 50: Tamil actor owns Rs 270 cr homes, cars worth Rs 4 cr & more - A look at Suriya's net worth

Time of India

time3 minutes ago

  • Time of India

Karuppu star Suriya turns 50: Tamil actor owns Rs 270 cr homes, cars worth Rs 4 cr & more - A look at Suriya's net worth

Suriya's net worth: Tamil superstar Suriya is fondly called Anna by his fans. He is celebrating his 50th birthday today, July 23, 2025. Over the years, he has transformed himself from a humble newcomer to one of Indian cinema's most talented and respected actors. Known for his powerful acting, dedication, and deep connection with fans, Suriya's journey continues to inspire millions. Let's explore the Suriya net worth, income, lavish house, and luxury cars as he marks this major milestone. Suriya's Early Journey: From Saravanan to Stardom Born as Saravanan Sivakumar, Suriya made his film debut in the late 1990s. His entry into cinema was rather unexpected—when actor Ajith Kumar exited the film Nerukku Ner, Suriya stepped in and began his journey in the industry. Since then, there's been no looking back. He carved his niche in Tamil cinema with blockbuster hits and critically acclaimed films. Suriya's Upcoming Film 'Karuppu' Creates Buzz As he celebrates his 50th birthday, Suriya is also gearing up for his 45th film titled Karuppu, directed by popular RJ Balaji. The makers recently released a striking poster and announced the teaser launch date. Suriya also revealed his intense look on Instagram—wearing a black shirt, traditional lungi, aviator sunglasses, and holding a cigar—leaving fans thrilled with anticipation. Over Two Decades of Cinema Excellence With a film career spanning over 25 years, Suriya has built an impressive filmography. His most notable films include: Soorarai Pottru Kanguva Jai Bhim Singam series Ghajini Kaakha Kaakha These roles not only earned him critical praise but also immense popularity across India and beyond. A Strong Family Man: Life with Jyotika On the personal front, Suriya has been happily married to fellow actor Jyotika for 19 years. The couple are parents to two children—Diya and Dev. Known for their down-to-earth nature and strong relationship, the duo are often regarded as one of Kollywood's most admired celebrity couples. Suriya's Net Worth and Income: How Rich Is the Tamil Icon? As per News18, Suriya's net worth is estimated to be around Rs 350 crore, which includes his luxury properties and fleet of premium vehicles. According to a 2024 Times of India report, Suriya's net worth stands at Rs 206 crore, while his wife Jyotika has an estimated net worth of Rs 331 crore. Combined, their total net worth touches Rs 530 crore, making them one of the richest couples in the Tamil film industry. Suriya's earnings come not just from acting but also from producing films under his banner 2D Entertainment. With multiple high-budget projects in the pipeline, his income is expected to grow further in the coming years. Inside Suriya's Lavish Houses in Chennai and Mumbai Suriya owns a grand luxury house in Chennai worth around Rs 200 crore. Recently, the actor made headlines for purchasing a sea-facing flat in Mumbai, measuring 9,000 sq ft and reportedly worth Rs 70 crore. The property is located in a gated community, and the family has been living there for the past few months. A Glimpse at Suriya's Expensive Car Collection Though Suriya isn't flashy about his lifestyle, he does have a passion for premium cars. His stunning car collection includes: BMW 7 Series – Rs 1.38 crore Audi Q7 – Over Rs 80 lakh Mercedes-Benz – Rs 61 lakh Jaguar – Around Rs 1.10 crore Other luxury vehicles and bikes Together, the value of his cars crosses Rs 4 crore, showcasing his quiet love for quality and comfort. Suriya's Salary for Kanguva and Future Projects According to reports, Suriya charged Rs 30 crore for Kanguva. His income may increase even further based on the film's performance. Regardless of its box office result, the buzz suggests his asking fee will rise, reflecting his position as a top-tier actor in the South Indian film industry. Recently, Suriya released the poster of his upcoming film, Karuppu, and he is also working on his 46th movie, the name of which has not been revealed yet, but it's directed by the talented Venky Atluri who also directed hit movies like Lucky Baskhar, Vaathi and many more. As Suriya celebrates his 50th birthday, his remarkable journey from a modest debut to becoming a cinematic powerhouse is a story of determination, talent, and consistency. With a thriving career, strong family support, luxury lifestyle, and ever-growing fanbase, Suriya is truly one of Tamil cinema's brightest stars. For the latest and more interesting financial news, keep reading Indiatimes Worth. Click here.

Tanushree Dutta Seeks Spiritual Solace After Alleging Harassment At Home: 'Har Har Mahadev'
Tanushree Dutta Seeks Spiritual Solace After Alleging Harassment At Home: 'Har Har Mahadev'

News18

time22 minutes ago

  • News18

Tanushree Dutta Seeks Spiritual Solace After Alleging Harassment At Home: 'Har Har Mahadev'

Last Updated: Yesterday, Tanushree Dutta posted a tearful video of herself wherein she said, 'Guys, I'm being harassed in my own home." Actress Tanushree Dutta has shared her first post after releasing an emotional video in which she alleged ongoing harassment at her home. In the tearful clip, the actress spoke about facing mental and physical distress, claiming that her life has been under constant threat since 2018. Tanushree was seen crying as she pleaded for help, claiming she is facing harassment in her own home. She shared that the ongoing distress has pushed her to approach the police for support. On Wednesday, Dutta took to her Instagram handle and shared an image of herself with the caption 'Har Har Mahadev!!." In the image, the 'Aashiq Banaya Aapne' actress is seen striking a pose while looking at the camera. In the following post, Tanushree shared a video of herself. View this post on Instagram A post shared by Tanushree Dutta Miss India Universe (@iamtanushreeduttaofficial) Yesterday, Tanushree Dutta posted a tearful video of herself wherein she said, 'Guys, I'm being harassed in my own home. I'm being harassed in my own home. I just called the cops. I got worried and called the police. The police came." She further mentioned, 'They asked me to come to the police station to launch a proper complaint. I'm probably going to go tomorrow or the day after. I'm not well. I've been harassed so much in the last 4-5 years that my health has deteriorated. I'm not able to do any work. My house is a mess. I can't even hire maids because they planted maids in my house." For the caption, she wrote, 'I'm sick and tired of this harassment!! It's been going on since 2018 #metoo Aaj fed up hokar maine police ko call kiya Please someone help me! Do something before it's too late." Back in 2008, Tanushree Dutta had accused veteran actor Nana Patekar of sexually harassing her on the sets of the film 'Horn Ok Please." A decade later, in September 2018, she revisited the incident publicly, drawing widespread attention and helping ignite a larger conversation about sexual harassment in the Indian film industry. First Published: July 23, 2025, 13:49 IST Disclaimer: Comments reflect users' views, not News18's. Please keep discussions respectful and constructive. Abusive, defamatory, or illegal comments will be removed. News18 may disable any comment at its discretion. By posting, you agree to our Terms of Use and Privacy Policy.

Restored classic Badnaam Basti to lead Pride Night at Indian Film Festival of Melbourne 2025
Restored classic Badnaam Basti to lead Pride Night at Indian Film Festival of Melbourne 2025

Time of India

time25 minutes ago

  • Time of India

Restored classic Badnaam Basti to lead Pride Night at Indian Film Festival of Melbourne 2025

The Indian Film Festival of Melbourne (IFFM) 2025 is set to spotlight LGBTQ+ narratives with a landmark Pride Celebratory Night on August, featuring the restored version of Badnaam Basti —India's first-ever LGBTQ-themed film, originally released in 1971. Now in its 16th year, IFFM has cemented its place as the largest Indian film festival held outside India, recognised for championing diversity, inclusion, and cultural dialogue. Backed by the Government of Victoria, Australia, this year's edition will screen close to 75 films, focusing on themes including gender, sexuality, disability, race, and women's representation. The Pride Night promises to be a poignant tribute to queer cinema and South Asian LGBTQ+ identity in Australia. The rare screening of Badnaam Basti —a film long lost in cinematic history—will honour its pioneering legacy, followed by the Australian premiere of We Are Faheem and Karun , a tender queer love story directed by acclaimed filmmaker Onir . Speaking about the initiative, IFFM Director Mitu Bhowmik Lange said, 'At IFFM, we believe cinema has the power to connect and create conversations. This Pride Night is not just about celebrating queer identity but also reclaiming space for LGBTQIA+ narratives in Indian cinema. Through films like Badnaam Basti and We Are Faheem and Karun , we honour the past and embrace a future of inclusive storytelling.' With its continued focus on representation, IFFM 2025 affirms its commitment to showcasing the full spectrum of human experience on an international platform.

DOWNLOAD THE APP

Get Started Now: Download the App

Ready to dive into a world of global content with local flavor? Download Daily8 app today from your preferred app store and start exploring.
app-storeplay-store