Pick-up truck crashes into motorcycle after running red light
According to New York State Police, just before 3 p.m. on May 30, Rickey Belcamino was driving south on Factory Avenue in his pickup truck when he ran a red light and struck a motorcycle driving on Lemoyne Avenue.
The passenger on the motorcycle was ejected and hit a parked SUV. She was unconscious and taken to Upstate Hospital by ambulance. No one else involved in the crash was hurt.
Belcamino received a ticket for Failure to Obey a Traffic Control Device.
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