Women Are Sharing The Things Men Don't Realize Are A Complete Turn Off, And Honestly, Facts

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2 days ago

For some reason, people always talk about their dating 'turn-ons,' but not nearly as much about their 'turn-offs.'
If you're curious about the latter, it's your lucky day. In one Reddit thread, women shared the things men do that turn them off, and I've compiled them for you here.
Ahead, I've rounded up 19 different perspectives. (Some of these are wayyy too accurate.)
1."When they start bragging about other women. I think they think it makes them seem desirable, but it turns me off."
–PurpleNightSkies
2."NOT ASKING QUESTIONS! Seriously, even replying consistently with a 'what about you' is unreliable with most men."
–Saltyforever
3."Talking about crypto."
–UselessAndUnloveable
4."Bragging about their intelligence and looking down on and/or refusing to interact with anyone who has a different viewpoint because they deem them as 'unintelligent' or 'simple-minded.'"
"One guy I knew called people he saw as dumb as 'subhuman.' That, and constantly trying to look like the smartest person in the room by finding something to debate or correct you on."
–OkJournalist2816
5."In partnerships, expecting her to tell you what to do when it comes to household management and family relationships. She's not your mom. You're a grown ass adult, you should be able to figure out how to prioritize chores and how to do tasks."
"If a woman starts to feel that she has to mother her partner and teach, demonstrate, or supervise every chore because her partner doesn't do a good job or forgets how every time, she will be resentful, exhausted, and she won't want to have sex with you any more, because she feels like your mother. It's very unsexy to feel like somebody's mother."
–BalladofBadBeard
6."Spitting in public. I swear that every time I'm out somewhere and see a dude and think, 'gee, that's a good-looking guy,' then he turns his head and hocks a loogie. Wtf, you guys? Stop it."
–amsterdamyankee
7."Entitlement. You're not entitled to any woman's time, attention, body, kindness, or support."
–totallytotallytotes
8."Dirty fingernails. I love a good set of strong man hands, but oh my god, clean your nails."
–Jollybosom
9."Calling yourself an 'Alpha Male.' Please stop – it's cringey as hell, and it makes you look stupid."
–Silver-Virus-8683
10."A big truck – unless you actually use it for hauling things or work. I don't know why so many men feel like they NEED a truck."
–FollowingNew4641
11."Asking for pictures early in the talking stage."
–Arial_3
12."Being a bad driver or having road rage."
–Lostbyway
13."Calling women 'females.' For me, that's an immediate no."
–ImATattooedGhost
14."PROJECTING INSECURITIES. I had so many guys who had nothing wrong with them, absolutely projecting their insecurities on me. There's nothing wrong with your height or your face. Just go to therapy."
–Gettingjiggywithet
15."Talking to me only if they think I'm single. I value friendship as the most important pillar in my life. If you can't be my friend first, I don't want to see you naked."
–Aleena_Arena
16."Negging. The very millisecond a man attempts this, I will flee. 95% of men who neg aren't clever enough to make it charming, or they just out themselves as being an actually bad person."
–toomanyusernames300
17."Being mean to staff or service workers. Being mean in general."
–ayy_the_dank_lord
18."Complaining about 'golddiggers' and how you're never wasting money on a diamond ring – buddy, if you'd ask a question, you'd know I have a good job and bought my own damn ring with my first bonus."
–Future_Usual_8698
19.And finally, "When they don't like cats."
–Traditional-Way-1302
Do you have any turnoffs that belong on this list? Let me know in the comments. Or if you'd rather remain anonymous, you can leave a response on the form below!