Fiona Phillips' husband Martin Frizell gives heartbreaking insight into daily routine after quitting high-powered ITV job to care for Alzheimer's-stricken wife, 64 - including washing and dressing star and brushing her teeth

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Martin Frizell has shed light on how his life has changed from a high-powered ITV executive to carer for his Alzheimer's-stricken wife Fiona Phillips.
Over the weekend, the Mail published exclusive extracts from Fiona's upcoming memoir, Remember When: My Life With Alzheimer's.
In the tome, the pair - who wed in 1997 and share two children - discuss how their life has been rocked by her diagnosis, with Martin detailing the lengths he must go to in his care for the star, who found fame as a presenter on GMTV in the 1990s.
Martin, 66, was a veteran of the running of ITV, with his career on the network spanning a host of breakfast shows, including GMTV, This Morning and Loose Women, before Fiona's illness led to his retirement last year.
Having turned his back on his prolific job, in his own candid words, Martin revealed Fiona now needs 'a lot of help', with his care extending to showering Fiona, brushing her teeth, dressing her and ultimately 'making her feel as safe as possible'.
He explained: 'It is January 2025 as I write this, and Fiona needs a lot of help. She needs help showering and brushing her teeth. She can do these things physically, but is unable now to think about how she should do them...
'I wash Fiona's hair because she wouldn't know what shampoo or conditioner to use or how wet her hair needs to be or that she must rinse the soap suds out afterwards...
'And most nights I'll say, 'Right, we need to brush our teeth before we go to bed,' and I'll put the toothpaste on the brush and hand it to her...
She is still very stubborn and doesn't like brushing her teeth or feeling that she is being told what to do, so she rails against it.'
He detailed how he knows he cannot fight her protestations for fear of illness, saying: 'But this has to be the way, because the worst thing that could happen would be for her to get some kind of tooth infection when she is vulnerable.'
While Fiona can put her clothes on, she does not do so correctly - meaning Martin must also assist with this task among others.
He writes: 'She can put clothes on, but may not put them on the right way around, so she does need help dressing....
'I try to lay out clothes for her to put on in the morning, but she tends to get attached to particular items of clothing and will wear them over and over again.'
The couple are pictured in 2013
Fiona first met Martin when she was working on GMTV as a presenter and he was its chief correspondent. He later popped the question after they had been dating for just four weeks, before they went to Las Vegas to tie the knot in 1997.
Last year, he revealed he was stepping down as editor of ITV 's This Morning after 10 years in charge, in order to be 'around much more' for his wife during her Alzheimer's battle.
Martin confessed in the upcoming memoir that he 'wishes' Fiona had been diagnosed with cancer rather than Alzheimer's.
Detailing his thoughts on Fiona's diagnosis, he admitted: 'Being brutally honest, I wish Fiona had contracted cancer instead.
'It's a shocking thing to say, but at least then she might have had a chance of a cure, and certainly would have had a treatment pathway and an array of support and care packages. But that's not there for Alzheimer's...
'Just like there are no funny or inspiring TikTok videos or fashion shoots with smiling, healthy, in-remission survivors...
'After someone is diagnosed with Alzheimer's, they are pretty much left to their own devices. There is nothing more that can be done and you are left to cope alone...
'Bit by bit, it takes everything. Through time, even the most glamorous, glittering star – such as Fiona was – will be wiped away...
'As time has passed, I have come to understand that if I were to fall ill or worse, the whole house of cards would collapse. I have had to stay well for Fiona.'
Remember When: My Life With Alzheimer's, by Fiona Phillips will be published on July 17
What is Alzheimer's?
Alzheimer's disease is a progressive, degenerative disease of the brain, in which build-up of abnormal proteins causes nerve cells to die.
This disrupts the transmitters that carry messages, and causes the brain to shrink.
More than 5 million people suffer from the disease in the US, where it is the 6th leading cause of death, and more than 1 million Britons have it.
WHAT HAPPENS?
As brain cells die, the functions they provide are lost.
That includes memory, orientation and the ability to think and reason.
The progress of the disease is slow and gradual.
On average, patients live five to seven years after diagnosis, but some may live for ten to 15 years.
EARLY SYMPTOMS:
Loss of short-term memory
Disorientation
Behavioral changes
Mood swings
Difficulties dealing with money or making a phone call
LATER SYMPTOMS:
Severe memory loss, forgetting close family members, familiar objects or places
Becoming anxious and frustrated over inability to make sense of the world, leading to aggressive behavior
Eventually lose ability to walk
May have problems eating
The majority will eventually need 24-hour care