
43 Budget-Friendly Alternatives To Pricier Summer Items
An affordable, Lululemon-esque longline sports bra so comfy, supportive, and versatile that reviewers love it both for outdoor workouts, gym use, *and* errand running. This is designed to be supportive without being too compressive, with lightweight fabric that keeps you breezy in the heat.
Catrice "Instant Awake" Under Eye Brightener, which will be your holy grail for concealing and brightening dark circles under your eyes when your summer schedule is throwing you for a loop. This lightweight, color-adapting formula is designed for truly ~invisible~ coverage that makes a drastic difference — one that a lot of reviewers compare to the $33 Becca version.
Jergens Natural Glow Firming Self Tanner Body Lotion to give you a gradual-building, vacation-worthy ~sunkissed glow~ over the course of just a few days. Not only is this easy peasy to apply compared to other finickier, streaking lotions, but it's formulated with collagen and elastin to help your skin appear firmer *and* glowier, and a HECK of a lot cheaper than its competitors.
A tinted lip balm so close to the same magic as "Black Honey," TikTok's beloved $25 ~universal shade~ from Clinique, that it will genuinely startle you — especially when you see the price. This is a perfect, non-sticky "go-to" lippie that's just a step above the "no makeup makeup" look, giving the perfect subtly polished effect.
Neutrogena Ultra Sheer Moisturizing Face SPF 60 Serum, which finally answers the question of, "What if a high-quality priming moisturizer could also punch the UV right out of the sun??" This lightweight, nongreasy, no-white-cast formula is here to solve all your warm weather beauty woes once and for all by playing nice under your makeup *and* protecting you from the sun's rays.
A delightfully affordable instant foot peeling spray for anyone ready to go full YEEHAW!! on a pedicure, without the big salon price tag. This not only helps gently remove dead skin, but moisturizes dry and cracked heels, so you'll really get some refreshing bang for your buck.
A cult-favorite Creamy Coconut fragrance rollerball reviewers compare to the $25 Sol de Janeiro version 👀☀️ . This is from TikTok-famous small business brand Kuumba Made, known for its luxury scents at ridiculously affordable prices, so you know they're on their game — reviewers especially love how ~beachy~ and long-lasting this sweet but elevated fragrance feels and how nicely it plays with other scents!
Wild Iris Musk Body Wash, the summer-friendly sister of the TikTok-famous "old money" Baccarat Rouge 540-inspired body wash. I am a massive fan of both — the moisturizing clean is so fresh, and the scents are so DELIGHTFULLY luscious without overpowering — but trust me when I say that Wild Iris Musk is *the* warm weather scent. It's floral, soft, playful, and grounded all at once. (And yes, just like the original version, it smells ... expensive 👀.)
Physicians Formula Butter Glow & Go Stick with similar energy as the $46 Charlotte Tilbury Beach Stick for a smooth, rich, and ridiculously easy-to-apply contour to give your skin that ~sunkissed~ glow with as little effort as possible. This dual-ended stick is the definition of no muss, no fuss, and so versatile that when you're not using them on the go, you'll love experimenting with all the different ways you can make a subtle colorful *pop*.
A set of Victoria's Secret–inspired seamless "invisible" underwear so soft and stretchy your butt will want to *sing* when you slide them on. This is a true holy grail underwear that doesn't show, doesn't ride up, and somehow manages to look cute all at the same time.
A pair of luxe retro-style oval sunglasses giving Miu Miu vibes without the $489 price tag. The devil's in the chic details on this one, including the little gold embellishments on the sides and the nostalgic shape of the lenses, which are softer than the typical skinny oval lens.
And a pair of Bottega Veneta–inspired pilot shield sunglasses so close to the $699 version that reviewers are *spooked* by the attention to detail, down to the weight of them. These are already blowing up on TikTok so I'd personally grab them NOW before everyone descends on them.
A pair of cheerful, super lightweight boxer-style shorts so comfy and adorable that you are about to put your denim shorts on notice for the rest of the year — especially since these are a MUCH cheaper alternative to the $98 Reformation version.
A roll-up wide brim UPF 50 sun hat to protect your cheeks from the sun's rays *and* keep you looking effortlessly chic no matter how many days it's been since your last hair wash. This one is a real winner because of how absurdly packable it is, making it perfect for shoving into a tote bag on long days and a suitcase on vacation — and how affordable it is compared to $87+ versions from brands like Bloomingdale's, Wallaroo, and Cuyana.
E.l.f. Glow Reviver Melting Lip Balm for all the ultra fans of Summer Fridays, Rhode, and Laneige whose bank accounts are begging them to put a stop to the lippie madness. These new deliciously tinted, moisturizing, buildable glosses are just as buttery and decadent as the balms that inspired them, for a fraction of the price. (Brb, drowning myself in the "Strawberry Shortcake" and "Vanilla Toffee" flavors.)
A set of espresso martini instant cocktail tea bags — all the sophistication of tea, the zing! of coffee, and the 😜 of a cheeky cocktail, without the exorbitant bar price tags. All you have to do is add three ounces of cold water, 1.5 ounces of hard liquor, and the tea sachet into a glass, and you'll have a delicious cocktail in one minute.
Lottabody's Coconut Oil Foaming Curl Mousse designed for all hair types to give you satisfyingly hydrated, volumized, frizz-free curls at a FRACTION of the price of its competitors.
Essence's Drop of Sunshine Bronzing Drops, aka the more affordable version of the beloved $39 Drunk Elephant version. This buildable, hydrating formula is an easy way to add a ~sunkissed touch~ to your beauty routine without breaking the bank (or compromising your skin!).
A pair of high-waisted running shorts with a comfy scrunch-elastic waistband reviewers compare to the Lululemon version. These are lightweight, quick-dry, and come in so many adorable colors that your butt might just want them on rotation until laundry day.
And a pair of Buff Bunny-inspired booty-highlighting biker shorts for anyone who wants to add some fun prints and colors to their favorite ~asset~ when they're on the move, for a fraction of the usual $48 price.
E.l.f's Lash XTNDR Tubing Mascara, a GODSEND for anyone with thin or fragile lashes. This uses lightweight ~tubing~ technology to wrap around lashes and give them a natural-looking, smudge-proof extension so good it almost looks fake. The real boon, though, is how easily the "tubes" slide off in clean, easy swipes at the end of the day when you're washing your face — absolutely no smudging, over-scrubbing, or special eye makeup removal products required.
A ribbed button up tank top with some real Abercrombie & Fitch energy to perfectly straddle that line of "professional" and "I am 100000% going out after work today, and a martini glass will be involved."
A shockingly affordable "Glow Up!" Vitamin C Face Serum that packs a punch as powerful as the $30+ versions — reviewers swear by this for reducing dark spots, brightening skin, restoring tone, and giving skin a more radiant, firm look. This particular serum's secret is the 3-O Ethyl Ascorbic Acid, which helps boost ~radiance~, in addition to the hyaluronic acid, aloe vera, and vitamin E to help with hydration.
A cute lil' insect catcher you can set in a plant or near your fruit bowl or compost to deal with any unwanted fluttering guests. These odorless sticky traps are designed to work indoors and outdoors and will stop fruit flies, gnats, mosquitoes, and more — without the high price tag of the electronic or liquid versions.
A pair of pretty pastel wireless over-the-ear headphones crafted to look like AirPods Max, so you can still enjoy the comfort and chic style of their iconic headphones without shelling out hundreds of dollars. These feature premium cushion padding, a built-in mic with the ability to take calls, 10 hours of playtime per charge, and surprisingly decent noise blocking for the price.
A super lightweight, loose-fitting high neck muscle tank for fans of the Lululemon version at a *much* lower price point. This is a breezy *dream* thanks to the quick-dry fabric, the cross-over pleat in the back, and the slight petal hem at the bottom.
And another Lululemon-inspired piece, a charming and oh-so-comfortable tennis skirt with built-in shorts similar to the Align style. The secret inner pocket on these is perfect for stashing keys and tennis balls, and the shorts are designed with a four-way stretch so they won't ride up.
A set of satin pillowcases that not only have a cooling effect, but are soft on your skin and create less friction for your hair so it won't get as tangled while you sleep. Reviewers especially love these because they're an affordable alternative to ones that typically run $18 per case!
A bottle of Nyx matte setting spray for anyone who wants the all-day protection of MAC and Urban Decay's setting sprays without the price tag — this matte finish will lock your look in place in just a few seconds, even on days when the sun is trying to melt you like an ice pop.
E.l.f.'s Holy Hydration! Thirst Burst Drops, another home run from the brand's moisturizing "Holy Hydration" line that reviewers are comparing to the $35 Watermelon Dew Drops from Glow Recipe. This lightweight formula is designed to brighten and plump skin for a dewy effect, whether you're wearing it alone, applying it under your makeup, or mixing it with your foundation.
A Skims-inspired square-neck compressive body suit that's basically 10 outfits in one — you can rock it solo, wear it as a bodysuit tucked into jeans, or pair it with a hoodie or a jacket. Go, little base layer, gooooo!
A multipurpose blush stick reviewers compare to the $18 Pixi Beauty version — this version may be cheaper, but it's also easily buildable, blendable, and perfect for that light, dewy, "kissed by a happy pink cloud" look.
A square-neck lettuce trim "going out" top that a lot of reviewers compare to an expensive mall brand, but muuuuch more affordable. And thank goodness, because once you fall for its comfy stretch and effortless cool, you're going to want it in WAY more colors.
Oxo's compact Cold Brew Rapid Brewer to make cold brew in FIVE MINUTES (!!) with results so quick and delicious that reviewers love it more than their beloved Aeropresses (and even call it "Aeropress 2.0"). Not only is it faster than comparable models, but it's cheaper, entirely portable, and doesn't need to be charged or plugged in. 🤯 You're going to be swimming in a RIVER of delicious, affordable cold brew with this gizmo.
An iconic spaghetti strap sundress with built-in shorts perfect for romping around in the warm air *and* for saving a few bucks — this compares very closely to a more expensive mall brand version.
A set of Bala Bangle-inspired wrist and ankle weights to get your ~fitness~ on this summer — these serve all the same cuteness and function without the $55 price tag. Not to mention this has a TON more colors available to match your 'fits.
A set of golden bracelets giving ~quiet luxury~ vibes at "I want to pay rent this month" prices. Reviewers especially love these mix-and-match sets because they look like expensive versions from Cartier — the middle one is giving the $8,000 "Juste Un Clou" and the studded one is giving the $6,000 "Love Bracelet!"
A Lululemon-esque adjustable mini belted pack (aka ~fanny pack~) you can wear around your waist or shoulder for a lightweight bag alternative that you won't lose, since it is literally attached to you. A lot of reviewers mention how genuinely *stunned* they are by how much this little bag can secretly carry.
A high-quality, *just* compressive enough layering T-shirt reviewers love so much that a ton of them tried it and immediately ordered more colors to stock up. This shirt is double-lined but still feels lightweight on the skin, giving a sophisticated, expensive look with a casual feel. Reviewers compare it to Skims at a fraction of the price!
Catrice's Magic Shaper Face Cream Palette as an $8 alternative to the $88 (!!) Makeup Forever Palette. This includes a range of highly-pigmented, super blendable shades to help you contour, highlight, and bronze on days when your Gcal just say "GO GO GO" all the way down. (Psst — this is the same brand behind the TikTok-famous $6 Under Eye Brightener, so you know they mean business!)
A bodycon lounge dress perfect for fans of Skims looking to spare themselves a few bucks — this versatile, figure-hugging dress has just the right amount of compression to mimic the iconic style and stay oh-so-comfortable for long periods of wear.
A bottle of truffle seasoning for an instant upgrade on homemade meals that honestly has become one of my only personality traits, to the point where I'm just like, begging you to try it. I should gatekeep this stuff so I can have it all to myself but it is such a delicious and satisfying and ridiculously affordable alternative to real truffles that I'm throwing the gates WIDE OPEN.
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36 Products So Good, You'll Share With The Group Chat
Catrice "Instant Awake" Under Eye Brightener to help revive tired eyes with a lightweight formula that delivers superb coverage in just a few swipes. This tinted concealer contains hyaluronic acid and shea butter that may also help reduce dark circles over time. Bonus: It's just like the $33 Becca version but for MUCH less! Plus, Good Molecules Yerba Mate Wake Up Eye Gel, better known as eyeball fuel so you can keep those lovely "you look tired" comments at bay. Everyone deserves to know about this cult-fave beauty find because it can help reduce swelling *and* puffiness around the eyes with hyaluronic acid and caffeine. A reusable screen-cleaning brush, which might make you question how you ever cleaned the screens BEFORE this genius gadget came along. Now you can get rid of caked-on grime and bugs instead of letting it get so bad that you buy all new screens in a moment of sheer desperation. The results will have you singing, "A whoooole new world" as you look out your clean screens. Mise En Scene Perfect Serum — this K-beauty product works wonders when it comes to repairing brittle locks. It's made with nourishing oils, including argan, coconut, olive, and, jojoba. Reviewers praise this serum for its ability to combat dryness! Plus, it smells absolutely divine. A no-scrub weekly shower cleaner so you can keep your shower sparkling clean *and* free of stains from soap scum, mildew, mold, oils, and more. Simply spray it once a week, let it sit, and rinse it clean the next day. Bet you didn't plan on raving to your friends about a shower cleaner but here we are. 🤷♀️ A bottle of professional-grade callus-removing gel when you want downright mesmerizing results in a matter of minutes. It hydrates your skin so your feet are free of calluses *and* feel smooth as a baby's bottom. The best part? You won't have to pay for an unpleasant visit to your manicurist. OR! A surprisingly effective *and* affordable instant foot peeling spray if you want baby-soft footsies but don't have the time OR patience to visit the salon for a pricey pedicure. Just spray onto clean, dry feet and rub away dead skin! For an ~extra~ peeling effect, use an exfoliating mitt! The Pink Stuff's new "Sqeezy" sponge set — I know, the ~miraculous~ cleaning paste is amazing on its own, but have you tried the sponge tho?? This dynamic duo is about to change your cleaning routine forever! Tough stains are gonna disappear before you know it. I'm talking gunk-ridden fry pans, moldy shower tile, and scuffed-up walls. A lightweight gel cream from Nivea that's enriched with Q10, which can help improve your skin's firmness over time with regular use — in as little as two weeks, to be exact! This non-greasy, fast-absorbing formula will leave skin feeling soft and more moisturized with each use. Reviewers confirm they saw results in a matter of weeks! An instant mold- and mildew-remover spray for demolishing mold before it gets exponentially worse. Use it on various surfaces, including those in bathrooms, kitchens, patios, decks, and more. No scrubbing — just spray, wait 15 seconds, and watch it vanish! Once you send these before and afters, people will be begging for the link. A set of seamless "invisible" underwear you'll never wanna take off, so you'd be wise to buy a few sets *now* — thank me later. They don't pinch, clip, OR ride up, so they're basically an underwear dream come true. Bonus: These have Victoria's Secret energy without the steeper price tag. A Pikk-it tool if you've already shaved years off your life by trying to manually untangle your own hair from the vacuum — not anymore. This lil' gadget will work to get rid of all the stubborn strands that are affecting your vac's suction power. You can use it on hairbrushes as well! Laneige's Neo Blurring Powder when you wanna *instantly* matte-ify your skin while helping it maintain its natural glow thanks to the blue hyaluronic acid. It even comes in a mess-free, travel-friendly case so you can take it on the go! This one is gonna take the group chat by storm. A hidden, plug-in fly trap that'll swat flies on your behalf because does anyone enjoy doing that? Each one provides 400 square feet of coverage to get rid of fruit flies, moths, gnats, and flies by naturally luring them in with a light. A holy grail sunburn soother from Burt's Bees with both aloe and coconut oil to help hydrate sun-damaged skin and bid farewell to that nasty sunburn you tried but failed to prevent. Blistering and peeling? No thank you. A long-handled standing weeder because bending over (and over...) to pull pesky weeds should be illegal. Not only will you save yourself time *and* lots of pain, but the yard will look absolutely stunning when you're done. And a handy-dandy crack weeder tool to help obliterate those ever-resilient weeds that manage to grow through the cracks in concrete! This sturdy tool can get into those suuuper tight spaces and get rid of weeds, moss, and thistles in no time. Wait until you tell your bestie you *finally* figured out how to get rid of those suckers. Olay Super Serum Body Wash — this formula is infused with shea butter, collagen peptides, and niacinamide to help restore moisture and nourish your skin with long-lasting hydration. It's the body wash version of their TikTok-famous facial Super Serum. Iykyk, enough said. Mielle's (TikTok-famous) Rosemary Mint strengthening oil, which is a biotin-infused formula to help strengthen hair, smooth split ends, and hydrate dry scalps. It promotes growth at the root and is perf for 3A–4C hair types. Reviewers swear by it for eyebrows, too. This one is too good to gatekeep — share away! A pack of carborundum sponges you'll wish you'd find much earlier in life. because they're just *that* good at lifting stubborn stains and grime. Say goodbye to the days of spending way too long hunched over the sink scrubbing. A pore-clearing cleansing oil that will deliver results you can *actually* see. This stuff removes all traces of makeup and sucks sebum from your pores so that your skin is visibly clearer and smoother — so much so that everyone will demand to know your skincare routine. An airtight Deli ProKeeper if you're no stranger to #FridgeTok and this has been on your wishlist for a minute now. This will help consolidate your cluttered deli drawer while keeping deli meat and cheese fresh for longer — we love a multi-talented product that'll impress the friend group. Hanalei Lip Treatment so you can finally repair your dehydrated, cracked lips that you once thought were beyond saving. It uses a blend of Hawaiian kukui nut oil, antioxidant-rich agave, and grapeseed oils to moisturize and restore dry, damaged skin! A washing machine cleaning gel when you wanna banish all the slime living in your washer gasket that makes you gag whenever you see (or smell 🤢) it. Simply apply it to the affected area, let it sit for a few hours, then wipe the evidence away. You're basically legally required to share this one with your fellow neat freaks. A curved SPF 50 Airy Sunstick Smoothing Bar, aka a K-beauty product that'll make you *excited* about the SPF step in your daily routine while preventing tragic sunburn. This contoured stick covers a wide area, so it's easy to apply without any mess. It also goes on smooth and won't leave a sticky residue OR white cast behind! A 2-in-1 nausea relief inhaler made with a blend of menthol, camphor, and essential oils to help curb nausea when it hits ya outta nowhere. You can inhale it OR apply a small dab under your nose for longer-lasting relief that'll fight motion sickness, morning sickness, and good old random queasiness that has no explanation whatsoever. Snug Plugs for anyone who knows the awful struggle of dealing with a loosey-goosey outlet that basically rejects anything you plug in. This will fix the problem without paying for a pricey visit from an electrician — your pals are gonna think you're so smart for this find. Miss Mouth's Messy Eater Stain Treater Spray specifically designed with messy eaters in mind — yes, even the adult kind. Keep it on hand for those stains you once thought were permanent. Clean up the mess, spray the spot, then wash as usual. Hawaiian Tropic's SPF 30 Mineral Powder Sunscreen Brush — don't forget that your scalp needs protection from the scalding heat, too! This summer staple works as a face powder on top of your existing sunscreen BUT you can also put it on your scalp, which is much better than trying to apply a sticky cream there! Plus, it's significantly cheaper than the $35 Supergoop and $36 Brush On Block! Tell everyone immediately. A suede and nubuck brush to make your old pair of sandals or boots look so shockingly brand new, it's worthy of a mass text. The four-way brush has rubber bristles to remove dirt and two welt brushes on the sides to help clean the nooks and crannies. And! The dual nylon/metal bristles remove tough stains without causing damage. A super convenient condiment fork *with* a holder that wraps right around the jar — listen, if the thought of grabbing a pickle from the depth of its sticky juices makes you cringe, you NEED this. Now you can grab your fave snack without getting your fingers covered in pickle juice or desperately searching around the kitchen for a utensil. Color Catcher sheets if you've experienced the unfortunate consequences of not separating your lights and darks when doing laundry. Toss one of these in with your wash and it'll grab any dye that leaks or bleeds. Now your white garments won't be completely ruined by your lack of sorting skills. Dae's Hair Cactus Fruit 3-In-1 Styling Cream & Taming Wand, which might as well be a magic wand because it can smooth down flyaways for a hairstyle so flawless, people will be saying "drop the link!!!" when they see ya. It has a soft built-in brush that you dip in a hydrating blend of dragon fruit, prickly pear seed oil, and meadowfoam seed oil to give you a ~sleek~ look without a greasy feel. A bottle of dog spot repair when you wanna bring dead grass back to life super quickly. This helps regrow the grass and reverse scorch marks caused by pet urine, digging, and general wear in high-traffic areas. It's a blend of seed, mulch, and fertilizer that promotes growth in tough spots. All your guests will be dying to know your secret! A two-pack of reusable mop pads so you can stop wasting your hard-earned money on single-use Swiffer pads. They're made with extra-thick microfibers that trap dirt when sweeping and absorb moisture when mopping. Yep, your most-dreaded cleaning tasks are about to be a lot easier. A giant collapsible wash bin with a *drain plug* that'll not only help you conserve water while washing tons and tons of bottles, but it'll also keep everything separate from the sink bottom. Simply remove the plug from the bottom and the water will drain down the sink! It's super easy to clean, dry, and collapse for storage when you're done.
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Woman Who Doesn't Open Doors, Order Her Own Food Speaks Out About Controversial 'Princess Treatment' Content (Exclusive)
Courtney Palmer had been making "princess treatment" videos for months before her recent video went viral Palmer found herself at the center of controversy when she posted about a typical date night for her and her husband of 18 years The video, which amassed 4.5 million views, sparked online debate about healthy relationships, but Palmer tells PEOPLE it was taken out of contextThe idea of "princess treatment" isn't new to the internet. Over the years, videos about leaning into your feminine energy have gained in popularity, with instructions on how to help women "tap into their feminine potential" and let their partner lead. Inspired by these, Courtney Palmer decided to create videos about her life as a stay-at-home mom and how she and her husband delegate responsibilities. Palmer, 37, tells PEOPLE she started posting TikToks in February, showing off her outfits and sharing "day in the life" videos. Hoping to gain more traction, she decided to create a video about the differences between being a housewife and a stay-at-home mom. Her content, where she talks to the camera for five to seven minutes, began to take off. She decided to create her now-viral "princess treatment" series, explaining all the things her husband does for her. On June 21, Palmer posted a TikTok to her account, detailing what a typical date night looks like for the couple. "If I am at a restaurant with my husband, I do not talk to the hostess, I do not open any doors, and I do not order my food," she said. She also addressed the minor interactions that occur during the process, such as at the coat check and valet. In the five-minute video, Palmer said she doesn't "make eye contact" or speak to the hostess, opting to let her husband "lead." She also rarely speaks to waitstaff, having her husband order everything. "I want him to order for me. I like when he orders for me," she said in the clip. "It's not that I'm not capable of ordering for myself, it's just a fun princess treatment sort of thing." "You don't need to overspeak or overexert yourself," she added. "...You're not going to be laughing loudly, speaking loudly, or demanding the attention of the room when you're at a restaurant." The video went viral, amassing 4.5 million views. The comments section was flooded with concern, leading to a wider discussion about gender roles and healthy relationships, striking comparisons to "tradwife" culture. It also inspired parodies and stitches, taking social media by storm. Some people suggested that this type of "princess treatment" is "regressive" for women, and argued against the idea that women need to be "quieter" in order to be deemed "feminine." However, Palmer insists it was taken out of context, erroneously creating a narrative that she was a "silent woman who isn't allowed to speak." "I speak, I laugh, I make decisions in my life. We go out, and we have lovely dinners," she exclusively tells PEOPLE. "I enjoy the grace of my husband taking the lead, confirming the reservation he made. He pulls out my chair, orders for me after I've decided what I'd like to eat. It's not control, it's care." Despite her video implying otherwise, Palmer notes that she does interact with restaurant workers and "finds joy in connecting with the waitstaff and hostess and having those small moments of chit chat," such as asking where the food is sourced. Palmer admits she was "completely blindsided" by the response to her video. "My content was reaching a community of 16,000 followers, and I was grateful to have a very sweet community. All of a sudden, overnight, I thought, 'Oh my gosh, some of these comments are mean,' " she says. "Then I thought, 'That's okay, it'll run its course within 48 hours.'" Palmer shares that, upon reviewing the analytics of her video, she noticed that most people only watched the first 30 seconds of it, and many were missing context from the rest of the series. "People started to make more videos, and I was completely shocked and felt bad. I didn't mean it like that and they're missing context from the other videos," Palmer shares. "I didn't think the backlash would go on for as long as it has. It breaks my heart, we're all just trying to do our best." While people's perception of "princess treatment" seems to vary, Palmer defines it as "a gentle way of living." "It begins with how you care for yourself. It's not about him, it's about you. You're choosing softness, calm and grace. It's very intentional," Palmer says. "You're speaking kindly to yourself. You're making space for that peace by embracing your feminine energy without shame." Never miss a story — sign up for to stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from celebrity news to compelling human interest stories. "Princess treatment isn't about how someone else is showing up for you. It's how you carry yourself, how you hold your boundaries, the way you move through the world, knowing you're the prize," she adds. "The world learns to treat you that way." "Your softness isn't giving anyone control over you. It's giving a partner space to lead with that strength," she insists. "When I'm leaning into my grace, I invite him to rise as that protector, a provider, a partner, because that's what he wants to do. It works in a perfect balance and becomes that effortless, graceful, calm, peaceful lifestyle." Palmer has been married to her husband for 18 years, and although he doesn't have any social media presence, he watches all of her content. "He thinks it's amazing and he's proud of me," Palmer shares. Their relationship dynamic came very naturally, as Palmer says her husband is "so attentive" and "always made me feel so special." "He adores me and goes over the top to make me feel loved. He has always been this way. We never had a conversation about any of the things that I talk about in any of my videos, we just naturally fell into it," Palmer shares. "That's what I'm trying to tell through my videos. When you show up in a certain way, he will act in this way, naturally. It's not about forcing or manipulation. You're not playing a game." Despite the strong reaction to her viral video, Palmer found that her content resonated with lots of other women, who turned to Palmer for advice, explaining that they felt like they were doing all the work in their relationships. "I started to build this community that felt genuine and sweet. Some mothers were receiving the princess treatment, and mothers who wanted it," she shares. "I didn't think anyone cared. I thought, 'It's an interesting viewpoint, right? It's a little bit different.' It's not always met with praise, but we found this community, and it grew into 16,000 followers." After leaning into her own "princess treatment" journey, Palmer was surprised to find others wanted to be treated similarly. "I found the words online for it and realized I wasn't alone in wanting to live with more softness, romance and grace," she says. "It's been years in the making. I think people want to say, 'Oh my god, overnight she became like this, or he made her like this.' " "It was something that was happening in the background for a long time, but I was scared to talk about it" — until now. Read the original article on People


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27 Cratejoy Subscriptions To Help You Start A New Hobby
A crow befriending box if your FYP is constantly giving you videos of people making the acquaintance of backyard corvids. If you're looking to connect with nature, take up a new birding hobby, or just spend more time in the outdoors, this is the perfect box for your new fave summer activity. Like this TikTok video, and also this one. Promising review: "I ordered the Spoiled Chic box to see what my flock thought, and now I will be a lifelong subscriber! My flock loves the treats! High quality, great customer service, overflowing with products for the money, and even fun little things for the human. 😉 You won't find better elsewhere!" —Mandy $24.99 per box (also available in a 3-month subscription) A witchy box to add a touch of magic to your everyday. From tarot cards and crystals to mugs and candles, you're sure to find lots of new favorites to appeal to your inner Wiccan sensibilities. Promising review: "I received my first box today and love everything in it! The first box is the same for all new customers, regardless of sign-up date. Since there are no reviews, I took a chance on this one since I love all things witchy. My first box includes a house cleansing kit (rose quartz, matchbook, selenite, and sage). A 'witches gonna witch' mug, and a matching sticker. A gorgeous amethyst bracelet. A 'Thick thighs and witch vibes' keychain, which I adore! And a bar of soap from their shop, which is scented with patchouli and sandalwood. The quality of each item is excellent, and I look forward to my next box!" —Mallory $42 per box (also available in 3- and 6-month subscriptions) A mystery society kit that's basically a game in a box for anyone who never got over their Sherlock phase. Whether you want to play alone or with up to four people, you'll want to find your deerstalker and pipe for these standalone mystery boxes. Basically a twofer hobby because you'll also become obsessed with making all your friends and fam members audition to be your Watson. Promising review: "We love these boxes! Many of the boxes are totally different and unique, like '80s-themed, carnival-themed, etc. We have played with two people all the way up to six, and it's always fun. Some of the puzzles are easier if you write directly on the pages; we found that clear page protectors and wet erase markers work perfectly to keep the originals blank! That way we can give the box away when we're done with it." —Leyna $34.99 per box (also available in 3-, 6-, and 12-month subscriptions) A Platterful charcuterie subscription because inside every human is a Hobbit wondering when the next mealtime will be, and with this tasty box, you'll fret no longer! It comes with everything you need to make the perfect girl dinner board, and everyone in your life will appreciate sampling your new charcuterie-building skills. Promising review: 'I am still dreaming about the horseradish mustard in the first box. I loved the Perfect Bite, a pairing I wouldn't think to put together. The value of this box is unbeatable; it was a great snack lunch for a few days after the initial board for two people! 12/10 recommend.' —Shannon $89+ per box (available in two sizes; also available in 3-, 6-, and 12-month subscriptions) A luxury yarn subscription if you always meant to start knitting or crocheting, but just haven't found the perfect yarn to inspire you to begin. Kickstart your journey with the prettiest, most luxurious yarn around delivered right to your door! Promising review: 'The yarn is always so beautiful, and I like that it's a full-size skein. The attention to detail with the curated extras is always spot on. Such a treat to receive this box each month.' —Nevada $36+ per box (available in four styles; also available in 3-, 6-, and 12-month subscriptions) Or a Spinning Hand knitting project to get you back in the swing of an old fave or learn a new hobby. It comes with a full-color printed knitting pattern specially designed for the yarn included, so it's perfect for beginners and it's-been-a-minute enthusiasts alike! Promising reviews: "I would give 10 stars if I could! The projects, the yarn, the packaging, everything was above and beyond! The customer service was exceptional, and I loved everything about this subscription. The positive impact on my mental health was major, and I could go on and on, but I think you get the idea." —Miriam O."My box was beyond wonderful. Beautiful, quality yarn, a nice pattern, lip gloss, bath bomb, tea, and a cute project bag. Also, excellent communication with the Spinning Hand staff. I am already looking forward to my next box!" —VirginiaPrice: $50 per box (available in four styles; also available in 2-, 4-, and 6-month subscriptions) A monthly scrapbooking kit if you want to be better at documenting family history, travels, or anything else you want to put on Actual Real Paper. (It's such a vibe to flip through a scrapbook instead of scrolling through your photo gallery, tbh.) Promising review: 'Beautiful quality papers! I've been receiving these kits for three years. Each collection contains 12 double-sided color-coordinated designer papers and a coordinating sticker sheet. There is a challenge presented online each month...a great way to get inspiration from fellow crafters. The Design Team members also post sample layouts on the Facebook page, providing even more ideas to help create beautiful layouts.' —Nancy Price: $13.98 per box (also available in 3-, 6-, and 12-month subscriptions) A Shaker & Spoon Cocktail Club kit because nobody wants to be stuck in a cocktail rut. This box has everything you need (except liquor and ice) to make 12 drinks, including syrups, bitters, aromatics, garnishes, and more! Cheers to that and to new bubbly hobbies. Promising review: "Wow! I love this box! I'm not much of a cocktail drinker, but this really stepped me out of my comfort zone. I was able to make amazing cocktails and share them with my friends and family. I highly recommend this box to anyone!! It's so much fun and so delicious!" —John $59 per box (also available in 3-, 6-, and 12-month subscriptions) A BloomsyBox flower subscription for the makings of a perfect bouquet delivered right to your door. If you've ever wanted to give flower arranging a shot but don't know where to start, it's time to put the ~pedal~ to the metal and start strong! Plus, all the flowers are picked from sustainable, eco-friendly farms, so it's good for ye olde earth, too. Promising review: "The lovely flowers were packaged beautifully, I can truly recommend these pleasing flower bouquets as excellent gifts that you can rely on for lovely packaging, beauty, and quality!!!" —Wendell $69.99+ per box (available in three sizes; also available in 3-, 6-, and 12-month subscriptions) A charcoal drawing box for those of us who constantly doodle on grocery lists, work notes, and lunchbox letters, and want to take our sketches to the next level. But there's no drawing experience needed, so it's also the perfect box for beginners looking for a new hobby to become obsessed with. Promising reviews: "I went into this with a very open mind as I am not an artist and wanted to try something new. I started out nervous and thought, at least I would have a good 'nailed it' fail picture to laugh about in the end. The artist is so super talented and a very good instructor, as I was so proud of the results. Even better, the entire experience was so relaxing and positive. What a wonderful box and well worth the cost." —Kathy"This is so much fun. He's so easy to follow. You have everything in the pack to make a great picture. It's totally suitable for framing and something I'm proud to have made." —JenniferPrice: $44.98 per box (also available in 3-, 6-, and 12-month subscriptions) A Spice Madam box if your ideal hobby is trying new foods in new places. With a new destination as the spicy focal point each month, give yourself the gift of culinary sightseeing right from the comfort of your own kitchen! Promising review: 'Do it! I was searching for quick, healthy, international recipes to expand my family's dinner experience and found Spice Madam. This product brings me so much happiness each month. The boxes are thoughtfully and tastefully designed and assembled — the recipes, the spices, the playlist, the packaging — all of it. The recipes I have made are DELICIOUS, and the amount of each spice provided is generous.' —Mary $29.99 per box (also available in 3-, 6-, and 12-month subscriptions) A sourdough starter box, because is there a better hobby than fresh bread straight from the oven? I don't think so. Give yourself the ultimate gift of being known as "that wizard of a bread friend." Price: $15 per box (also available in 3- and 6-month subscriptions) An introvert's retreat book box so you can finally get back on the I Am A Reader hobby train in the sweetest, tastiest way possible: A new book, a sweet treat, and a relaxing bath salt or shower steamer to get you in the mood for an introvert's delightful night in. Promising reviews: "I love the scents that were included in the box. The candle smells so good, and I can tell that the soap and bath salts will be amazing. I ate the popcorn as soon as I opened the box, and it was a great snack for starting the book." —Kendal M."I got this as a gift and it's perfect! The best way to spend a night in is with a good book, a candle, and bath salt soaks. Just what I needed to reset! Highly recommend this for book lovers or those just looking for something different to do one night. It doesn't get any better than this." —Keagan $60 per box (also available in 3-, 6-, and 12-month subscriptions) Or a thriller plot twist book box for similar vibes, but with a little more edge-of-your-seat action thrown in. (Hey, Siri: Play the James Bond theme.) Promising review: "One of my absolute favorite subscription boxes! Everything is so wonderfully curated, shipping time is superb, and customer service at Plot Twist Parcel is unbeatable." —LisaPrice: $19 per box (also available in 3-, 6-, and 12-month subscriptions) An Adults & Crafts Crate with a trendy new craft to try out each time. Some teach new skills, and some even make functional products you can use around your home when you're through! (So you can show off your sweet, sweet skills to anyone who enters your place!) Promising review: "I love these craft boxes. Everything is good quality, enjoyable, and clear instructions. A bonus to them is that you can do more than just the one, like the mold for the resin project, or stamps and paint for the tote bags. You can use what you've got with the crafts to make more. I look forward to the next shipment." —Liz $36 per box (also available in 3-, 6-, and 12-month subscriptions) A journal savvy box that will help turn your chaotic thoughts into aesthetic reflections, one washi tape piece at a time. Price: $43.95 per box (also available in 3- and 6-month subscriptions) And a vintage craft supply box if you want to go the junk-journal-route instead. (Or a lovely mishmash of the two: Reflections and maximalism!) Check out this TikTok to get some vintage junk journal inspo!Promising reviews: "I love my first box! I didn't expect this much material for the price. Amazing value. I've never used a lot of these items before, so it's great to get to try new materials. There was so much I had plenty to share with my grandson, so he's got cool Egyptian stickers that no one else in his kindergarten has. I'm so glad I just went for it and signed up for a year at once. Very much looking forward to my next box, and a year of lovely goodies in the mail for my journaling and for sharing with my grandson." —Kerra Q."First box is awesome! Will definitely keep this subscription going. The selection and quality of items are thoughtfully curated. Most assuredly worth more than the cost of the subscription. Thank you." —Jan $37 per box (also available in 3-, 6-, and 12-month subscriptions) A clay creations gift set to release your inner Michelangelo and finally sculpt your pièce de résistance. Whether it's of David, your fave animal, or just an homage to what you ate for breakfast, this kit will have everything you need to fully realize your vision. (And start a new hobby!) Promising review: "Such an incredible gift idea for someone special or even just for yourself! I purchased a subscription as a gift for a friend and will be going back to sign up for myself. These craft boxes are incredible for the price and provide all the materials you need to get crafty and add your own creative flair to each product! Would definitely recommend!" —GracePrice: $69.95 A Magic: The Gathering monthly box because even big imaginations can use a little help sometimes, and why not take up a new hobby that will let you stretch those creative muscles in the most fantastical of directions? Promising review: "I will do this forever." —Eva $34.99 per box (also available in 3- and 6-month subscriptions) Or a Dragon's Hoard D&D crate if you're less about cards and more about dice. Each box includes a set of seven mystery TTRPG dice to get you ready to roll for initiative on your new fave evening activity. Psst. New to tabletop role-playing games? Check with your local indie comic book and gaming stores to see if they have campaigns for newbies! (They'll all be so impressed that you came with dice in hand!) Price: $37.99 per box (also available in 3-, 6-, and 12-month subscriptions) A nature sketch crate that'll have you squinting at leaves like a forest-core scientist with a flair for aesthetics. Each box comes with simple step-by-step instructions so you can have a new watercolor and ink creation each month. Promising reviews: "Lessons are fun and easy to follow. Added perk, I'm learning about how to mix colors and how to get more out of the colors I have." —Kai E. "Fear and anxiety be gone. My previous tries at watercolor have been miserable. Sad even. Now I have these fancy paints, fancy watercolor paper, and the easy lessons, and I am painting! Still need more practice, but coming along. Finally! The ink at the end hides my 'mistakes.' Added bonus: Stephanie is very calm and reassuring. This helps me get much-needed relaxation. I'm learning about nature and painting. Who would have thought I would learn about those at the same time? Amazing." —MackenziePrice: $45 per box (also available in 3- and 6-month subscriptions) A Patio Farmer box to turn your thumbs green and give you the magical ability to grow food in whatever space you have! All items included in this box are suited for growing food in containers, raised beds, or directly in the ground. So whether you've got room for rows and rows of veggies or a small windowsill setup, this box has got your new fave hobby ready to go! Price: $36 per box (also available in a 3-month subscription) A mini jigsaw puzzle monthly box for turning your coffee table into a calm little corner of cozy concentration. Promising reviews: "The puzzle pieces are really small, but it was so much fun putting it together. I am so glad that I subscribed and can't wait for the next one." —Ann H."They're small enough to do almost anywhere. Can redo them over and over again and still takes between 30-45 mins. Good way to relax." —Teresa P. Price: $23.99 per box (also available in 3- and 6-month subscriptions) A paint pouring art box so you can make messy magic without needing a single brushstroke of experience. And gloves and an apron are included, so no fear of turning your clothes and hands into unintentional "art projects." Promising review: "I ordered three months of Chartiers Creek Creative Arts paint pour kits for each of two people, including me. The kits included everything we needed for us novices, including detailed instructions. The two of us worked on our kits together, remotely, via Zoom. What a great time. I only wish I had found these during the pandemic when we were home-bound. What a fun way to stay connected. The seller was great to work with. I can't say enough good things about these kits." —Chris $59.99 per box (also available in 3-, 6-, and 12-month subscriptions) A wood-burning DIY kit if you want a hobby that's also going to do you a solid come holiday season, because you can make so many cool personalized things with your newly honed skills! Prep your friends and fam now: They're going to be getting FULLY CUSTOM wood signs this year. Promising review: "This is a great way to find a new hobby! Lots of fun!" —Electra $44 A Weekend Warrior box so you can start using a "gone fishing" sign unironically. The box comes with a selection of lures and baits to get your tackle box in tip-top shape! Promising review: "Got this as a Christmas gift. The quality and amount of things I have gotten have been exceptional. Definitely recommend!" —Brady $31.99 (also available in 3-, 6-, and 12-month subscriptions) And finally, a cookbook box that will have you excited to make your meal plan for the week because you'll have SO MANY NEW recipes to explore and work your way through! If cooking is something you enjoy or something you want to gain experience in, have a new cookbook arrive on your doorstep to get you kick-started. Promising review: "I have received two shipments of cookbooks, and am over the moon thrilled! What a treat to open these! Highly recommend!" —MelissaPrice: $34.99 per box (also available in 3-, 6-, and 12-month subscriptions)